http://taylorsadvicecolumn.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-do-i-make-this-girl-like-me.html

I also believe that the more you try to make someone fall in love with you the more chance you’ll have of being in the friendzone!

http://taylorsadvicecolumn.blogspot.com/2008/02/5-ways-to-stay-out-of-friendzone.html

Just opinions here… Hey, again very nice site… Maybe we can set up some links to one-another?

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If that isn’t the epitome of egotism incarnate . . .

Typical Leo affliction, for which unfortunately, there is no remedy. Shine on, Lady, shine on. Some of us prefer the shade.

I bet that, like me, lots of Seduction Central readers aren’t so much wanting to “make” someone love them…they just feel like s/he must ALREADY love them but just be failing to express it.

You must feel that everyone feels like you. You must feel like everyone already loves you. You must feel that they are just incapable of expressing their love for you. Of course, that is exactly what you just said up there.

I feel like I’m about to puke a tuna sandwich.

A chain is only as strong as its weakest link. There’s your link. It’s a shock to find out the sky is blue when you’re used to wearing rose-coloured glasses, eh?

Welcome to the real world.

Mary Mary quite contrary
How does your garden grow?
With silver bells and cockle shells
And pretty maids all in a row.

Me? I’m so preoccupied with the explanation of love that I can’t feel the feeling.

I like the visual you gave of climbing a beautiful mountain and not know what the view will be. You’re hoping the view will be worth all of the hard work, and that’s what keeps you motivated to keep up the climb. The way I’ve dealt with love in the past is that I get distracted with other stuff I could be doing other than climbing the mountain…or I start thinking, “ya know, I’m not liking this trail…”

I hope you find someone to love as much as you loved your Cappy ex. You deserve it.

The other thing – I don’t let time tell me, I use the time to get to know the person I’m seeing, so the facts about the person will lead me (or not) to falling in love. Now this sounds synthetic and calculated, though it isn’t, falling in love still doesn’t happen on cognitive level.

My Cap and I started dating mid June 2003. After a month I knew it’s going to last, though I wasn’t feeling infatuated at all, but we were so good together. By August, I told my mother I’m marrying the guy and I was very much in love though I kept myself quiet about it. By September, I was sure we’re both cooking in the same pot, it was fun all the way. At some point there, my mother asked me ( I remember this like it was yesterday, we were driving over one of the bridges here) what made me fall in love. No thinking I said ‘Just the way he is who he is, all together’. She was amazed, but that’s mostly because she’s the type that falls in love over someones seducing voice for instance.

I’m sorry you never loved BlahBlah, or was in love, it’s… I don’t have proper words to describe it… it’s probably the most fulfilling thing that can ever happen to anyone, and if you’re brave enough it transforms you to a better person. And, no, boredom is not love. It does happen though, that the first butterflies turn after a while in boredom, and we don’t fall in love.

Why do I always cry when I talk about the greatness of love and yet I don’t find the words to describe the feeling even though it’s so strong?