Comments on: What to do when your Cancer man is angry at you http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is_18.html Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:52:42 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Johanna http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is_18.html/comment-page-2#comment-52838 Johanna Sat, 17 Oct 2009 02:59:52 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/18/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is-angry-at-you/#comment-52838 update: since i last wrote i haven't been in contact with my Cancer man (2 days). This morning I woke up to check my Facebook and I noticed he sent me a message. He wrote that he saw on my facebook that i had been running 4.5miles a day (i used to never run...i started running 2 miles every 2 days and since the breakup i've started running 4.5 every 2 days...but i guess he misread). Anyway, he said i should be careful because just last week he ran 10 miles because he was excited that he had been losing weight and he tore his miniscus. He told me to take it easy. I sensed in his e-mail a genuine care about my well-being and also I know he felt the need to talk to me about his knee because we're both into alternative medicine and the doctors wanted to give him cortizone shots and/or surgery and he's opted out of it in order to heal the knee naturally. I think he felt the need to talk to me about it because most of his friends don't understand his current diet (Gerson Therapy for healing) and though I didn't go on the diet with him (i had to come back to school) I did support him on it while I was living with him. I have a feeling that he's feeling alone and he's very stressed and I want to be there for him, but I know he needs his space as well. I wrote him a message back saying thanks for his concerns and I put his mind at ease about my running. I also tried to show my support for his deciding to heal his knee naturally. I just really hope that he doesn't truly believe that everything is over with us. I know I'm the woman for him and he certainly is the man for me. We just both have to learn to be a bit more sensitive with each other. update: since i last wrote i haven’t been in contact with my Cancer man (2 days). This morning I woke up to check my Facebook and I noticed he sent me a message. He wrote that he saw on my facebook that i had been running 4.5miles a day (i used to never run…i started running 2 miles every 2 days and since the breakup i’ve started running 4.5 every 2 days…but i guess he misread). Anyway, he said i should be careful because just last week he ran 10 miles because he was excited that he had been losing weight and he tore his miniscus. He told me to take it easy.

I sensed in his e-mail a genuine care about my well-being and also I know he felt the need to talk to me about his knee because we’re both into alternative medicine and the doctors wanted to give him cortizone shots and/or surgery and he’s opted out of it in order to heal the knee naturally. I think he felt the need to talk to me about it because most of his friends don’t understand his current diet (Gerson Therapy for healing) and though I didn’t go on the diet with him (i had to come back to school) I did support him on it while I was living with him.

I have a feeling that he’s feeling alone and he’s very stressed and I want to be there for him, but I know he needs his space as well.

I wrote him a message back saying thanks for his concerns and I put his mind at ease about my running. I also tried to show my support for his deciding to heal his knee naturally.

I just really hope that he doesn’t truly believe that everything is over with us. I know I’m the woman for him and he certainly is the man for me. We just both have to learn to be a bit more sensitive with each other.

]]> By: Johanna http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is_18.html/comment-page-2#comment-52715 Johanna Fri, 16 Oct 2009 01:40:27 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/18/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is-angry-at-you/#comment-52715 thanks for the comments.... what's funny is that he sent me an e-mail telling me to leave him alone that i haven't learned that he needs space and for that i will have to pay. that he doesn't love me anymore and all this angry jargon. So i reply saying thanks for planning to mail my things and that i'll leave him alone and that i'm sorry things had to end the way they did but i still love him and that i hope that during his "soul searching" that he's embarking that he will realize that what makes a relationship is comassion, stepping in each other's shoes and understanding each other's pain, jumping through hurdles TOGETHER, etc. Let's just say...he replied like 5 times one after the other. A lot of anger in his e-mails....and then he says "you've fought for me for maybe a week and now you give up? you see, you're not willing to fight for this" and i was literally shocked. so i replied letting him know that i was at a catch 22...if i call and ask and e-mail and text him he says i'm not giving him space and then when i agree to give him space now he says i don't care about him and i'm not willing to fight for him. he makes no sense. he had a poetry show last night and i texted him saying that i hoped he had a good show and this mroning he replied "Thanks". well at least he replied. we'll see what happens. thanks for the comments….
what’s funny is that he sent me an e-mail telling me to leave him alone that i haven’t learned that he needs space and for that i will have to pay. that he doesn’t love me anymore and all this angry jargon. So i reply saying thanks for planning to mail my things and that i’ll leave him alone and that i’m sorry things had to end the way they did but i still love him and that i hope that during his “soul searching” that he’s embarking that he will realize that what makes a relationship is comassion, stepping in each other’s shoes and understanding each other’s pain, jumping through hurdles TOGETHER, etc.

Let’s just say…he replied like 5 times one after the other. A lot of anger in his e-mails….and then he says “you’ve fought for me for maybe a week and now you give up? you see, you’re not willing to fight for this”

and i was literally shocked. so i replied letting him know that i was at a catch 22…if i call and ask and e-mail and text him he says i’m not giving him space and then when i agree to give him space now he says i don’t care about him and i’m not willing to fight for him.

he makes no sense. he had a poetry show last night and i texted him saying that i hoped he had a good show and this mroning he replied “Thanks”. well at least he replied.

we’ll see what happens.

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is_18.html/comment-page-2#comment-52382 LibraLady Tue, 13 Oct 2009 18:46:04 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/18/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is-angry-at-you/#comment-52382 juliegehr You are absolutely right :) juliegehr

You are absolutely right :)

]]> By: juliegehrt http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is_18.html/comment-page-2#comment-52381 juliegehrt Tue, 13 Oct 2009 18:44:03 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/18/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is-angry-at-you/#comment-52381 This is for Johanna, ive been with a Cancer man for 10 years, and I can tell you this,it doesnt take much at ALL to upset them. Its very hard because you usually have to play the guessing game when you HAVE upset them, cause they arent really good at telling you why they are mad at you. They will not answer the phone, the door, or your e-mails, until THEY are ready to talk to you. Which I think is a bit childish as well as unfair. They expect you to wait until they are ready to speak to you, but, what right do they have to make you wait like that? All because their feelings are hurt? Anyone will tell you that the most important thing in a relationship is "COMMUNICATION" By denying you that, they are risking the relationship itself. But, if you find another man, I guarentee you that he will come around then. Its really a shame it has to go that far. But like I said, he has no right to make you wait like that. This is for Johanna, ive been with a Cancer man for 10 years, and I can tell you this,it doesnt take much at ALL to upset them. Its very hard because you usually have to play the guessing game when you HAVE upset them, cause they arent really good at telling you why they are mad at you. They will not answer the phone, the door, or your e-mails, until THEY are ready to talk to you. Which I think is a bit childish as well as unfair. They expect you to wait until they are ready to speak to you, but, what right do they have to make you wait like that? All because their feelings are hurt? Anyone will tell you that the most important thing in a relationship is “COMMUNICATION” By denying you that, they are risking the relationship itself. But, if you find another man, I guarentee you that he will come around then. Its really a shame it has to go that far. But like I said, he has no right to make you wait like that.

]]> By: Johanna http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is_18.html/comment-page-2#comment-52118 Johanna Sun, 11 Oct 2009 20:51:21 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/18/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is-angry-at-you/#comment-52118 I need help sooo badly. My cancer man and I broke up last wednesday. We've been through soooo much in our short 6 month relationship (well, would've been six months on Oct 12th). Anyway, i was having a lot of family issues and i moved in with him for the summer. We took this major step because I was going to come back up to school in September anyway and he really just wanted to get me away from all the problems. While we were in his home....we fought a lot as a result of me missing my parents (the main problem was my brother)...he was hurt that my parents never apologized to either of us for their lack of support. One evening, we decided to go to a classy dinner followed by salsa lessons in order to get our minds off of our problems. FYI: i used to be a pretty good salsa dancer (i used to teach salsa classes etc). So for the lessons at the place were not catered for me but I did them with my bf anyway because i loved that he had interest in learning. While we were there he just fooled around and would not take the lessons seriously. When the lessons ended he didn't pull me to dance on the dance floor, so we danced near the tables a bit, by this point he let me teach him a few things but he was still a bit resistant. After one song we just kind of stood there with his friends watching people dance. The teacher was going around the room saying hello to everyone and thanking them for coming. When he approached us I mentioned that I was a salsa dancer and that I learned to dance in NY. Well the man just said "OH! you need to dance with so and so" and he literally grabbed me and led me to this other guy. I told the guy I was with my bf and i pointed at my bf and he wasn't even looking at us, so , we headed to the dance floor. That's when my bf lost it. He came and grabbed me and said we were going home. Now, I understand I shouldn't have let that man grab me in the first place....but I've been trying to apologize since the incident all to no avail. My cancer man still holds grudges. So much so that last weekend he had a show at the college where he graduated from (he's a poet) and he actually kissed another girl! Of course I was upset and confronted him about it. He was upset that I checked his facebook which he had given me the password to months ago. so anyway, he told me that he had been holding all these grudges all this time and that it's not good for him and that he hates what he's turning into and that it goes against his principals. so i told him to do what he needs to do but i wasn't going to do the dirty work for him. so we broke up. the next day he e-mailed me a couple of times and texted me because he wanted to make sure i was ok. we ended up talking thursday evening and everything was going well through Friday. we had really great open conversations and were finally being honest with each other until yesterday when he found out somehow that I had reached out to his friend for advice on wednesday night. Before i confronted him about cheating on wednesday night in a state of panic i reached out to his friend who knew about the whole situation and was with him last weekend when he cheated. his friend gave me advice and when i mentioned that he cheated his friend just said that he couldn't advise me further. i actually was very embarrassed when i realized i had dragged his friend into the situation and i apologized to his friend saying it was out of line for me to contact him. but apparantly the apology wasn't enough because his friend told him i came to him. Now my bf is so mad at me he never wants to see me again. he says he hopes i've learned my lesson and that i need to walk away and go burden someone else. So.....does anyone think this can still be salvaged? I love him dearly and don't mean to hurt him and it seems that when he's hurt and i try to reach out to him he resents me for it but if i don't reach out to him then he thinks i'm insensitive. What has thrown him over the edge is that yesterday i tried reaching out to him and he would not respond and i called him 2 or 3 times, i texted him, i e-mailed him and all to no avail. He ultimately said that he needed space and i wasn't giving it to him. but how am i supposed to know when to leave him alone and when to tend to his sensitive crab meat? I need help sooo badly. My cancer man and I broke up last wednesday. We’ve been through soooo much in our short 6 month relationship (well, would’ve been six months on Oct 12th). Anyway, i was having a lot of family issues and i moved in with him for the summer. We took this major step because I was going to come back up to school in September anyway and he really just wanted to get me away from all the problems.
While we were in his home….we fought a lot as a result of me missing my parents (the main problem was my brother)…he was hurt that my parents never apologized to either of us for their lack of support.

One evening, we decided to go to a classy dinner followed by salsa lessons in order to get our minds off of our problems. FYI: i used to be a pretty good salsa dancer (i used to teach salsa classes etc). So for the lessons at the place were not catered for me but I did them with my bf anyway because i loved that he had interest in learning. While we were there he just fooled around and would not take the lessons seriously. When the lessons ended he didn’t pull me to dance on the dance floor, so we danced near the tables a bit, by this point he let me teach him a few things but he was still a bit resistant. After one song we just kind of stood there with his friends watching people dance. The teacher was going around the room saying hello to everyone and thanking them for coming. When he approached us I mentioned that I was a salsa dancer and that I learned to dance in NY. Well the man just said “OH! you need to dance with so and so” and he literally grabbed me and led me to this other guy. I told the guy I was with my bf and i pointed at my bf and he wasn’t even looking at us, so , we headed to the dance floor.

That’s when my bf lost it. He came and grabbed me and said we were going home.
Now, I understand I shouldn’t have let that man grab me in the first place….but I’ve been trying to apologize since the incident all to no avail. My cancer man still holds grudges. So much so that last weekend he had a show at the college where he graduated from (he’s a poet) and he actually kissed another girl!

Of course I was upset and confronted him about it. He was upset that I checked his facebook which he had given me the password to months ago. so anyway, he told me that he had been holding all these grudges all this time and that it’s not good for him and that he hates what he’s turning into and that it goes against his principals. so i told him to do what he needs to do but i wasn’t going to do the dirty work for him. so we broke up. the next day he e-mailed me a couple of times and texted me because he wanted to make sure i was ok.

we ended up talking thursday evening and everything was going well through Friday. we had really great open conversations and were finally being honest with each other until yesterday when he found out somehow that I had reached out to his friend for advice on wednesday night.

Before i confronted him about cheating on wednesday night in a state of panic i reached out to his friend who knew about the whole situation and was with him last weekend when he cheated. his friend gave me advice and when i mentioned that he cheated his friend just said that he couldn’t advise me further. i actually was very embarrassed when i realized i had dragged his friend into the situation and i apologized to his friend saying it was out of line for me to contact him.

but apparantly the apology wasn’t enough because his friend told him i came to him. Now my bf is so mad at me he never wants to see me again. he says he hopes i’ve learned my lesson and that i need to walk away and go burden someone else.

So…..does anyone think this can still be salvaged? I love him dearly and don’t mean to hurt him and it seems that when he’s hurt and i try to reach out to him he resents me for it but if i don’t reach out to him then he thinks i’m insensitive. What has thrown him over the edge is that yesterday i tried reaching out to him and he would not respond and i called him 2 or 3 times, i texted him, i e-mailed him and all to no avail. He ultimately said that he needed space and i wasn’t giving it to him.

but how am i supposed to know when to leave him alone and when to tend to his sensitive crab meat?

]]> By: mmeltra http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is_18.html/comment-page-2#comment-51346 mmeltra Mon, 05 Oct 2009 02:39:47 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/18/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is-angry-at-you/#comment-51346 I just want to say really quickly - the comments by Phaedra High and CrazyCancer are really helpful. I'm pretty much in the same situation as P.H. and their story convinces me that Libras and Cancers, despite what has been said, will have passionate, yet extremely challenging relationships. Maybe they can work. Here's to hoping. Thanks for the advice. I just want to say really quickly – the comments by Phaedra High and CrazyCancer are really helpful. I’m pretty much in the same situation as P.H. and their story convinces me that Libras and Cancers, despite what has been said, will have passionate, yet extremely challenging relationships. Maybe they can work. Here’s to hoping.

Thanks for the advice.

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is_18.html/comment-page-2#comment-48702 LibraLady Tue, 15 Sep 2009 21:04:43 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/18/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is-angry-at-you/#comment-48702 My Dad was a Cancer, my son is a Cancer. If you say your sorry and give them love, a great big hug, they appreciate it :) A Cancer man is sweet, making them angry makes you feel guilty, at his worse this guy is one of the best men in the world :) They are kind and would give the shirt off their back to whoever needs it. a Cancer man is used a lot, which is sad. They deserve a lot of love :) When they bark its cute, they never mean it for very long unless its over something horrible...My father used to cry after he punished us LOL My Dad was a Cancer, my son is a Cancer. If you say your sorry and give them love, a great big hug, they appreciate it :) A Cancer man is sweet, making them angry makes you feel guilty, at his worse this guy is one of the best men in the world :) They are kind and would give the shirt off their back to whoever needs it. a Cancer man is used a lot, which is sad. They deserve a lot of love :) When they bark its cute, they never mean it for very long unless its over something horrible…My father used to cry after he punished us LOL

]]> By: Fancy http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is_18.html/comment-page-2#comment-46906 Fancy Sun, 30 Aug 2009 02:28:46 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/18/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is-angry-at-you/#comment-46906 I recently befriended a Cancer Man like 2 weeks ago. I am a cancer as well and (my ex boyfriend was a cancer too).UGH..I was very attracted to him when i first saw him an i always would wait for him to talk to me but he never did so I made the first move an talked to him we totally hit it off!! He started texting me an calling here an there not too heavy but it wuz enough for me. He asked me out on a date (I was soo excited becuz i havent dated anyone in a long time since my ex broke up wit me.We ended up havin sex the first night during our date( we stayed in his house watched a movie an cuddled)I was soo HaPPY he made me feel so good.Things continued to go great the whole week, every day he would ask if i were coming ova to spend da nite so finally thursday nite i stayed wit him. I went to work from his place friday afternoon. We were texting each other for a while when i got to work that day but then i didnt hear from him for the rest of the night...This is where i really messed up. I texted him like 2 times that night an got no response,I also called him when i got home from work an still no response, I texted him one more time saying tht i wuz mad at him. So the nex morning he texted me, i responded rather harshly.Basically I accused him of being with someone else when i had no right to becuz we arent yet official.I acted really childish,giving him attitude that jus wasnt necessary, and the sad part is that i wasnt really 100% serious about the accusation i jus wanted to see how he would react, i wanted to see if he would cater to my ego by telling me he wasnt wit anotha gurl an that i have nuthin to worry about..BOY was i wrong, he took it the complete oppostite. ever since that happened he doesnt call or text me anymore.i have to text him first becuz he wont text me at all and whenever i do text him he gives me one word answers most of the time. its drivin me crazy an i feel horrible that i scared him away so soon.. i really really liked him, he is such a good man. great job,house,no kids, takes very good care of himself, great body.it seems like for someone whos such a good catch he is real lonely, so i dont understand why he doesnt wana even be friends wit me anymore. i have apologized an tried explaining myself an everything but it doesnt seem to be making a difference. he wont talk to me over the phone so i have no clue whats goin thru his mind, how he feels about me at this point or anything. Is there a way to get him to like me again?? Do i still hav a chance? I recently befriended a Cancer Man like 2 weeks ago. I am a cancer as well and (my ex boyfriend was a cancer too).UGH..I was very attracted to him when i first saw him an i always would wait for him to talk to me but he never did so I made the first move an talked to him we totally hit it off!! He started texting me an calling here an there not too heavy but it wuz enough for me. He asked me out on a date (I was soo excited becuz i havent dated anyone in a long time since my ex broke up wit me.We ended up havin sex the first night during our date( we stayed in his house watched a movie an cuddled)I was soo HaPPY he made me feel so good.Things continued to go great the whole week, every day he would ask if i were coming ova to spend da nite so finally thursday nite i stayed wit him. I went to work from his place friday afternoon. We were texting each other for a while when i got to work that day but then i didnt hear from him for the rest of the night…This is where i really messed up. I texted him like 2 times that night an got no response,I also called him when i got home from work an still no response, I texted him one more time saying tht i wuz mad at him. So the nex morning he texted me, i responded rather harshly.Basically I accused him of being with someone else when i had no right to becuz we arent yet official.I acted really childish,giving him attitude that jus wasnt necessary, and the sad part is that i wasnt really 100% serious about the accusation i jus wanted to see how he would react, i wanted to see if he would cater to my ego by telling me he wasnt wit anotha gurl an that i have nuthin to worry about..BOY was i wrong, he took it the complete oppostite. ever since that happened he doesnt call or text me anymore.i have to text him first becuz he wont text me at all and whenever i do text him he gives me one word answers most of the time. its drivin me crazy an i feel horrible that i scared him away so soon.. i really really liked him, he is such a good man. great job,house,no kids, takes very good care of himself, great body.it seems like for someone whos such a good catch he is real lonely, so i dont understand why he doesnt wana even be friends wit me anymore. i have apologized an tried explaining myself an everything but it doesnt seem to be making a difference. he wont talk to me over the phone so i have no clue whats goin thru his mind, how he feels about me at this point or anything. Is there a way to get him to like me again?? Do i still hav a chance?

]]> By: juliegehrt http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is_18.html/comment-page-2#comment-46315 juliegehrt Mon, 24 Aug 2009 19:10:43 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/18/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is-angry-at-you/#comment-46315 This is for Ellie, I have a Cancer boyfriend, and he and I have been together almost 10 years. I loved him so very much, I still do. The sex between us was AMAZING!!! I had NEVER experienced anything like it in my whole lifetime. Within the last year, I noticed our sex life was not what it used to be, rather that we were not having sex NOWHERE NEAR what we used to, and now, our sexlife is non-existant. It hurts me very much. I have even cried many times over it. When I ask him why, he just says that he doesnt know. So, I know what you are going through. I wish I new what was wrong but, I do not. All I know is, that now I have a deep resentment towards him, that is growing. If these men do not love us or want us anymore, I think they owe it to us to tell us so, instead of playing this cruel game. Sex is not THE most important thing in a realationship true enough, but, it IS important none the less. Maybe we should both move on. This is for Ellie,
I have a Cancer boyfriend, and he and I have been together almost 10 years. I loved him so very much, I still do. The sex between us was AMAZING!!! I had NEVER experienced anything like it in my whole lifetime. Within the last year, I noticed our sex life was not what it used to be, rather that we were not having sex NOWHERE NEAR what we used to, and now, our sexlife is non-existant. It hurts me very much. I have even cried many times over it. When I ask him why, he just says that he doesnt know. So, I know what you are going through. I wish I new what was wrong but, I do not. All I know is, that now I have a deep resentment towards him, that is growing. If these men do not love us or want us anymore, I think they owe it to us to tell us so, instead of playing this cruel game. Sex is not THE most important thing in a realationship true enough, but, it IS important none the less. Maybe we should both move on.

]]> By: juliegehrt http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is_18.html/comment-page-2#comment-46111 juliegehrt Sat, 22 Aug 2009 16:30:25 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/18/what-to-do-when-your-cancer-man-is-angry-at-you/#comment-46111 I am a Tarus woman and I love a Cancer man. We have been together for nearly 10 years now, and we still have our spats. When he is being "emotionally abusive" which is alot of the time, I just want to run away. I cant handle it sometimes, he of coarse doesnt understand it, that I dont want to stick around for the emotional turmoil and emotional blackmail that Cancer men like to inflict.Dont get me wrong; I love him with all my heart, and always will my whole life. You Cancers can dish it out, but you cant take it. You refuse to pick up the phone after having a little spat. You let that go on and on and then, when "YOU'RE READY" you will get in touch with us after maybe months or a year. Then expect us to just drop everything cause you are ready to speak to us now? Give me a break. My brother was soooo very much in love with a Cancer woman. She was my best friend. They were together 8 years. He gave her everything. Helped her raise her kids, they loved him like a father. Then due to Cancers "changeable nature" she leaves him, without warning, for another man. 1 1/2 years goes by. She shows up on his doorstep. The thing is, he's now engaged to someone else, and she just CANT BELIEVE that he wont dump his fiance' to go back to her! My point is. If you are sensitive, and dont like change, stay away from a Cancer. I am a Tarus woman and I love a Cancer man. We have been together for nearly 10 years now, and we still have our spats. When he is being “emotionally abusive” which is alot of the time, I just want to run away. I cant handle it sometimes, he of coarse doesnt understand it, that I dont want to stick around for the emotional turmoil and emotional blackmail that Cancer men like to inflict.Dont get me wrong; I love him with all my heart, and always will my whole life. You Cancers can dish it out, but you cant take it. You refuse to pick up the phone after having a little spat. You let that go on and on and then, when “YOU’RE READY” you will get in touch with us after maybe months or a year. Then expect us to just drop everything cause you are ready to speak to us now? Give me a break. My brother was soooo very much in love with a Cancer woman. She was my best friend. They were together 8 years. He gave her everything. Helped her raise her kids, they loved him like a father. Then due to Cancers “changeable nature” she leaves him, without warning, for another man. 1 1/2 years goes by. She shows up on his doorstep. The thing is, he’s now engaged to someone else, and she just CANT BELIEVE that he wont dump his fiance’ to go back to her! My point is. If you are sensitive, and dont like change, stay away from a Cancer.

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