Comments on: Pisces male blogger has trouble taking the next step

By: blahblah

blahblah — Wed, 11 Jul 2007 04:51:00 +0000

I need to start proofreading what I write before clicking “publish.”

*I meant to write “In your CASE, PMB, marriage-phobes.”

By: blahblah

blahblah — Tue, 10 Jul 2007 02:07:00 +0000

Well, in your care, PMB, MARRIAGE-phobes.

By: blahblah

blahblah — Tue, 10 Jul 2007 02:05:00 +0000

…to ease the fears of commitment-phobes.

By: blahblah

blahblah — Tue, 10 Jul 2007 01:21:00 +0000

PMB, being married doesn’t mean you can’t still be attracted to other people. As the joke goes, just because you’re on a diet doesn’t mean you can’t look at the menu.
It seems to me that your would-be marriage would be beneficial in both a practical and symbolic way.

Take it from someone who’s permanently stuck on “grass is always greener over THERE” mode: That we should all be so lucky to find someone special enough to share 15 years of history.

Of course, if you’re really nervous about taking that final step down commitment lane, then don’t rush yourself (despite all of the stacked pros). This kind of decision has to be made freely and without reservations, or else the commitment will be in name only.

Now I’m off to write to Mr. Bush and my state congress about making marriages subject to renewable licenses…

By: PMB

PMB — Mon, 09 Jul 2007 20:42:00 +0000

BlahBlah, Although there have been a few “close calls,” I have not met anyone who has made me seriously want to break off my relationship with Ms. Scorpio.

By: blahblah

blahblah — Sun, 08 Jul 2007 02:20:00 +0000

It would be so ironic (and SO CUTE) if Anonymous is Miss Scorpio who wants to be wed to Pisces Male Blogger.

I love happy endings! (And I’m guessing Pisces Male Blogger does, too.)

If PMB has been committed to the same person in actions and by heart for 15 years, then the piece of paper is just a romantic symbol of that commitment. Both of you are already past the honeymoon stage when people don’t show their true colors. You know what you’re getting, but you’re scared of missing out on the possibility of maybe getting something else (better?). Maybe scared of not being able to upgrade? Of marrying an unacceptable person? In the past 15 years, have you met anyone that has made you want to seriously break off the relationship with Ms. Scorpio? If not, the possibilities of what you’re missing out on is just an illusion of the mind.

Lastly, in the immortal words of a famously good-looking male movie sex symbol:

“Why fool around with hamburger when you have steak at home?”

- Paul Newman (an Aquarius sun with Pisces moon) on adultery.

For nearly 50 years, Paul Newman has been happily married to actress Joanne Woodward (a Pisces sun with either an Aquarius or Pisces moon).

By: Jeffrey Kishner

Jeffrey Kishner — Sat, 07 Jul 2007 21:50:00 +0000

BlahBlah, If I were the Pisces Male Blogger, I might regret having exposed my personal life to such a wide audience. Yet sometimes a Pisces Male Blogger has to publish his thoughts to make them real.

And Anonymous: Do I know you?

By: blahblah

blahblah — Sat, 07 Jul 2007 20:36:00 +0000

Jeff, are you the Pisces male blogger?

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 07 Jul 2007 17:47:00 +0000

Should Pisces Male Blogger take the plunge?
You have thought all your life who would be that special lady and she has been by your side for fifteen years and yet you act as if you don’t truly see how special she, but i know you do; your just fearful of missing out on something/someone else.
I say take the plunge and I know of one special little lady who would love it.

By: Eme Kah

Eme Kah — Thu, 05 Jul 2007 20:24:00 +0000

Yeah, living with someone for 15 years is much more of a commitment than most folks are able to make. Sure, they may get married but a large percentage of Americans divorce after three years of marriage. So I’d say that in the commitment game, you could definitely teach people a thing or two. Ya never thought of it that way, did you? Besides, who’s to say your lady ain’t afraid that YOU’LL turn into her father after you sign the papers?

You might as well reap the rewards of your constancy, brother.