Comments on: Aries won’t take no for an answer http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/aries-wont-take-no-for-answer.html Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:52:42 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: confused sara http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/aries-wont-take-no-for-answer.html/comment-page-1#comment-52903 confused sara Sun, 18 Oct 2009 03:19:46 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/aries-wont-take-no-for-an-answer/#comment-52903 okay this aries guy tried to talk to me one time he was very charming, but i was very shy so i didnt say much. the next time i saw him he asked me if i knew his name, i smiled and shook my head no (but i actually did)and he turned his head and went back to doing what he was doing. But then i told him i was just kidding i knew his name. if i had left it at no would his feelings be hurt, would he feel like i regected him or didnt notice him he. Or would he take it as a challenge and want to persue me more ?? Can an aries man or someone whos delt with them please tell me how they think. by the way his birthday is april 10, if it matters okay this aries guy tried to talk to me one time he was very charming, but i was very shy so i didnt say much. the next time i saw him he asked me if i knew his name, i smiled and shook my head no (but i actually did)and he turned his head and went back to doing what he was doing. But then i told him i was just kidding i knew his name. if i had left it at no would his feelings be hurt, would he feel like i regected him or didnt notice him he. Or would he take it as a challenge and want to persue me more ?? Can an aries man or someone whos delt with them please tell me how they think.

by the way his birthday is april 10, if it matters

]]> By: aries girl http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/aries-wont-take-no-for-answer.html/comment-page-1#comment-50437 aries girl Sun, 27 Sep 2009 08:55:43 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/aries-wont-take-no-for-an-answer/#comment-50437 SPOT ON ari3sfire BUT PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT UNTILL THEY ARE IN THE POSTION THEMSELVES :) SPOT ON ari3sfire BUT PEOPLE DON’T UNDERSTAND THAT UNTILL THEY ARE IN THE POSTION THEMSELVES :)

]]> By: China http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/aries-wont-take-no-for-answer.html/comment-page-1#comment-50293 China Fri, 25 Sep 2009 17:29:31 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/aries-wont-take-no-for-an-answer/#comment-50293 I was with an Aries and it is VERY true. He still behaves as if we are together. I am a Sagitarrius woman, with Scorpio, so I am much more stubborn than he. He still argues with me like he is incontrol. I find it hilarious!!! Although, now, I understand that I am wounding his fragile ego, I can not help but to find the humor in his domineering personality. We were a match in heaven, until he started yelling, lecturing to my hypocritically. What was good for the goose, was not good for the gander. That's when he would threaten breaking up, that I agreed. It was all too dramatic for me. I like a bit of edge, but all the bullshit and reason, not so much. We still chat and he still wants back in, but he'll have to crawl to get my attention. I was with an Aries and it is VERY true. He still behaves as if we are together. I am a Sagitarrius woman, with Scorpio, so I am much more stubborn than he. He still argues with me like he is incontrol. I find it hilarious!!! Although, now, I understand that I am wounding his fragile ego, I can not help but to find the humor in his domineering personality. We were a match in heaven, until he started yelling, lecturing to my hypocritically. What was good for the goose, was not good for the gander. That’s when he would threaten breaking up, that I agreed. It was all too dramatic for me. I like a bit of edge, but all the bulls*** and reason, not so much. We still chat and he still wants back in, but he’ll have to crawl to get my attention.

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/aries-wont-take-no-for-answer.html/comment-page-1#comment-49650 LibraLady Tue, 22 Sep 2009 19:53:43 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/aries-wont-take-no-for-an-answer/#comment-49650 ari3sfire That part about the fear of ending up alone, if thats true then theres a little Aries in everyone....I am alone and "being" alone is far easier to deal with once you've had a good decade to absorb it :) I think that if you really look deep into your soul and you like who you are, then being alone isn't that hard to except, also, those alone are not always alone due to their own vices or fault. There is a great deal of luck...Bad luck will get you no matter what your sign :) As far as being brash, do you know how much it hurts when a guy takes the other road? Indiference is the ugliest foe for love...I'd find a bit of brashness a bit refreshing for a change :) ari3sfire
That part about the fear of ending up alone, if thats true then theres a little Aries in everyone….I am alone and “being” alone is far easier to deal with once you’ve had a good decade to absorb it :) I think that if you really look deep into your soul and you like who you are, then being alone isn’t that hard to except, also, those alone are not always alone due to their own vices or fault. There is a great deal of luck…Bad luck will get you no matter what your sign :) As far as being brash, do you know how much it hurts when a guy takes the other road? Indiference is the ugliest foe for love…I’d find a bit of brashness a bit refreshing for a change :)

]]> By: ari3sfire http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/aries-wont-take-no-for-answer.html/comment-page-1#comment-49260 ari3sfire Sat, 19 Sep 2009 21:08:21 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/aries-wont-take-no-for-an-answer/#comment-49260 I gotta stand up for the aries here... remember we're still learning about this relationship stuff. It just doesn't come easy to us. Relationships have subtle shades of meaning at times and Arians like things simple & cut & dry. It takes time for us to learn that A. We can't always get our way (A.1 It was probably a good thing we didn't get our way!) B. We have to find a way to satisfy our own needs AND our partners needs. And if we're pursuing you or ignoring your breaking up hints, realize we're simply not ready to let you go. We want to give the r/s our all- especially if we gave up our "philandering" ways for it. It's liking a kid who has a favorite shirt they LOVE to wear. They've outgrown it but no matter what, they still want to wear it! It takes awhile to sink in that it just won't work. We eventually will do it, but the biggest fear for an Aries, whether they admit it or not, is that they will end up alone. Despite brashness and bravado, even we take breakups hard. Especially if they aren't initiated by us! I gotta stand up for the aries here… remember we’re still learning about this relationship stuff. It just doesn’t come easy to us. Relationships have subtle shades of meaning at times and Arians like things simple & cut & dry.

It takes time for us to learn that
A. We can’t always get our way
(A.1 It was probably a good thing we didn’t get our way!)
B. We have to find a way to satisfy our own needs AND our partners needs.

And if we’re pursuing you or ignoring your breaking up hints,
realize we’re simply not ready to let you go. We want to give the r/s our all- especially if we gave up our “philandering” ways for it. It’s liking a kid who has a favorite shirt they LOVE to wear. They’ve outgrown it but no matter what, they still want to wear it! It takes awhile to sink in that it just won’t work.

We eventually will do it, but the biggest fear for an Aries, whether they admit it or not, is that they will end up alone. Despite brashness and bravado, even we take breakups hard. Especially if they aren’t initiated by us!

]]> By: indigo libra http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/aries-wont-take-no-for-answer.html/comment-page-1#comment-7010 indigo libra Tue, 04 Nov 2008 20:42:54 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/aries-wont-take-no-for-an-answer/#comment-7010 My Aries boyfriend of a year and a half is quite the bully. He is always twisting around things that i say and putting me on guilt trips. He loves to tell me how selfish and uncompassionate and impatient I am. Selfish? Uncompassionate? Impatient? Are you kidding me? I've put up with your ego for a year and a half! Always having to be first, always having to be right, butting in line, etc...being polar opposities has its advantages...but I just can't take the disrespect and rudeness and bullying and controlling behavior anymore. When you break up with an Aries it just gets worse! At least in my case! Nothing will unleash a steady stream of voicemails, emails, text messages, univited visits, like dumping an Aries. They love the challenge and will sometimes lie and do anything they think you want to get you back...but then guess what....once the chase is over, same old same old....sigh.... My Aries boyfriend of a year and a half is quite the bully. He is always twisting around things that i say and putting me on guilt trips. He loves to tell me how selfish and uncompassionate and impatient I am. Selfish? Uncompassionate? Impatient? Are you kidding me? I’ve put up with your ego for a year and a half! Always having to be first, always having to be right, butting in line, etc…being polar opposities has its advantages…but I just can’t take the disrespect and rudeness and bullying and controlling behavior anymore.
When you break up with an Aries it just gets worse! At least in my case! Nothing will unleash a steady stream of voicemails, emails, text messages, univited visits, like dumping an Aries. They love the challenge and will sometimes lie and do anything they think you want to get you back…but then guess what….once the chase is over, same old same old….sigh….

]]> By: shawnyinfl http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/aries-wont-take-no-for-answer.html/comment-page-1#comment-6320 shawnyinfl Thu, 16 Oct 2008 04:22:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/aries-wont-take-no-for-an-answer/#comment-6320 My Aries guy is self-admitedly obsessed with me!! (I'm a Sag) I've known him for a little over four years and he tells me all the time that all he does is think of me, and that he is afraid he loves me "too much". He's the best ;-) although he's a liar, breaks everything in our apartment, and makes messes that rival toxic dump sites....he's just too sexy and pursuasive to say no to! My Aries guy is self-admitedly obsessed with me!! (I’m a Sag) I’ve known him for a little over four years and he tells me all the time that all he does is think of me, and that he is afraid he loves me “too much”. He’s the best ;-) although he’s a liar, breaks everything in our apartment, and makes messes that rival toxic dump sites….he’s just too sexy and pursuasive to say no to!

]]> By: badnoozbetty http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/aries-wont-take-no-for-answer.html/comment-page-1#comment-6319 badnoozbetty Sat, 12 Jan 2008 05:45:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/aries-wont-take-no-for-an-answer/#comment-6319 my kid wont take no for an answer when he wants a cookie neither<br/><br/>thats just the way kids is<br/><br/>i love my kid my kid wont take no for an answer when he wants a cookie neither

thats just the way kids is

i love my kid

]]> By: Jara aka Blah Blah http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/aries-wont-take-no-for-answer.html/comment-page-1#comment-6318 Jara aka Blah Blah Tue, 11 Sep 2007 02:28:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/aries-wont-take-no-for-an-answer/#comment-6318 Hi Lina, obviously I don't know this Aries guy, but I have Venus in Gemini. You're right about the liking to deal with more than one person at the same time. Maybe he's bored with his wife, and you represented good times, excitement, etc. Boredom can definitely tempt a Venus in Gemini to look elsewhere. Ironically, that low threshold for boredom could mean HE'S the one who's BORING. I mean, it's easy to go get someone new when things are getting monotonous, but doesn't it take some imagination to keep an old relationship fresh? <br/><br/>Opposites are attracting with your Venus in Sag and his Venus in Gemini. He also has Scorpio rising and Aries sun. Both Scorpio and Aries are ruled by Mars (co-ruled in the case of Scorpio). Maybe he feels like all of that excess energy can't be expressed in his marriage. Either way, I'm not excusing his actions. I'm just trying to give you some possible explanations for his ways. With his Scorp rising, you're probably right about him being calculating in the way he dealt with having an extramarital affair. Hopefully, understanding his behavior will give you the closure you're seeking. Hi Lina, obviously I don’t know this Aries guy, but I have Venus in Gemini. You’re right about the liking to deal with more than one person at the same time. Maybe he’s bored with his wife, and you represented good times, excitement, etc. Boredom can definitely tempt a Venus in Gemini to look elsewhere. Ironically, that low threshold for boredom could mean HE’S the one who’s BORING. I mean, it’s easy to go get someone new when things are getting monotonous, but doesn’t it take some imagination to keep an old relationship fresh?

Opposites are attracting with your Venus in Sag and his Venus in Gemini. He also has Scorpio rising and Aries sun. Both Scorpio and Aries are ruled by Mars (co-ruled in the case of Scorpio). Maybe he feels like all of that excess energy can’t be expressed in his marriage. Either way, I’m not excusing his actions. I’m just trying to give you some possible explanations for his ways. With his Scorp rising, you’re probably right about him being calculating in the way he dealt with having an extramarital affair. Hopefully, understanding his behavior will give you the closure you’re seeking.

]]> By: Lina http://sasstrology.com/2007/07/aries-wont-take-no-for-answer.html/comment-page-1#comment-6317 Lina Mon, 10 Sep 2007 12:32:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/aries-wont-take-no-for-an-answer/#comment-6317 I'm a Sag lady (virgo rising, venus in Sag) in love with an Aries man (Scorpio rising, Venus in Gemini) who also happens to be married. I've been trying to break it off for the past year and he sucks me back in with passive agressive guilt-trips. I got sick and tired of the promises and lies and left... AGAIN. This time he didn't try to worm his way back in. Just disappeared. I don't know why I'm writing this, just need closure I suppose. People with Venus in Gemini are supposed to have a tendency to always be involved with two or more people at a time, so I guess I'm looking for closure. I find it calculating and kind of disgusting really, nowhere near naive. I’m a Sag lady (virgo rising, venus in Sag) in love with an Aries man (Scorpio rising, Venus in Gemini) who also happens to be married. I’ve been trying to break it off for the past year and he sucks me back in with passive agressive guilt-trips. I got sick and tired of the promises and lies and left… AGAIN. This time he didn’t try to worm his way back in. Just disappeared. I don’t know why I’m writing this, just need closure I suppose. People with Venus in Gemini are supposed to have a tendency to always be involved with two or more people at a time, so I guess I’m looking for closure. I find it calculating and kind of disgusting really, nowhere near naive.

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