Comments on: What is Gemini woman supposed to do with a hot black-eyed Scorpio man?

By: ten0615

ten0615 — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 07:33:03 +0000

Annoymous & heather I so agree with both of u when u both said in your comment that the scorpio man u know has these amazing eyes, & how he just stares in ur soul…
Geogoddes I agree with u when u say you give some of you, not all of yourself.
My situation is different. I’m too a Gemini girl, & this guy my friend introduce me to is a scorpio man. i work in the college he goes to & he is 23 or 24 years old & i’m 18. ever since i met him, he wud come by my job & say hi, how u doing.
one day we seen each other outside of my uniform,on my way to work, and he was telling me how good i look, & it’s always a pleasure to see me (mind u he is mature, charming). i discovered that he’s smart & funny. when i see him once in a while, he stares @ me hard with those gorgeous eyes & when he talks to me i get nervous & i stumble on my words. i don’t give him my all either, but he seems he knows a little about me-he tells me that he knows i don’t trust people…i try my hardest to not be nervous around him, but he is so freaking gorgeous, & he complements me & he is extremley charming & on top of that he is older & mature, & he is very confident… i’m always thinking about him. he’s the first thing i think about when i wake up, & the first when i go to sleep. i even relate songs that i listen to about him lol. i think about all this, even in the short time we known one another… i really want him to ask me out, i really like him…i like pray that he ask me out !!!!!

i need help, from anyone. can anyone tell me what they think about my situation

By: angel okoro

angel okoro — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 14:51:24 +0000

i want if u can know how will i get my own man. the man that will love me and keep only me. and also i want to use this time tell u that i have not get a man before. and i need my own so that i can do what people are doing

thanks

By: Heather

Heather — Sat, 20 Sep 2008 17:23:00 +0000

I have a very similar situation yrt very different. I asked my Scorp,younger than me, to stay with me as we live an hour apart and he was always here anyways. He professes his love for me and I for him. He has committed and says he wants a future with me. He is full of emotion and love and is always staring into my soul with those amazing eyes during lovemaking and discussion. So why is it that the majority of Gemini/Scorpio relationships seem awful?

I am not as versed in the placement of the planets as the rest of you. If anyone would like to offer me some insight I will share our charts. I am comfortable with our relationship but as a Gemini am always seeking knowledge.

By: Heather

Heather — Sat, 20 Sep 2008 17:04:00 +0000

My situation is similar yet very different. I asked the Scorpio to stay with me. He agreed. He says he is madly in love with me and wants a future. He will love me and be here for me through all things. All this within a month. He is always gazing into my soul during lovemaking or just talking. He is making me discover a gentle side of myself I have never known. I have not studied as extensively as the rest of you so do not understand as well what each of the planets can mean. I only know they make a huge difference. If anyone cares to share their thoughts I can tell you our charts. What has me confused is most of what I hear about the Scorpio is opposite of what this man has shown to me.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 28 Jun 2007 04:56:00 +0000

“he nails me passionate & gentle and hard at the same time” WOW!!!!!!!!!!

By: proserpine

proserpine — Tue, 26 Jun 2007 08:48:00 +0000

Geo-goddess, I’m glad to have seen your post, because I was afraid you felt misunderstood or judged.I wanted to say something to you, even before I relaized you had not responded here again.
It sounds to me like you know what you’re doing–at least right now.
In my experience often men do say things that they are saying to themselves as well as to us..
I can tell by the glimpse at your chart that you’re younger than I, but not a whole heckuva lot.
You are clearly not a child, although, if you’re like me, sexual and romantic relations can bring out the teenager in me.
I can suggest this to you–if you get confused or become upset later with what you’re feeling about this Scorpio–re-read and take seriously what you wrote and told Jeff, and all of us you are planning on doing–regardless of what *he*(Scorpio) does.
Take care of you, andas you said, your son, first.
Then, your relationship with Scorpio man.
Good luck to you.

By: Geogoddess

Geogoddess — Mon, 25 Jun 2007 17:53:00 +0000

First off: I have a Fifth House of Playful Sex? That explains A LOT!!

‘K, I asked Jeff for help because I have never dated a Scorpio guy, and this man confused me- so hot, so private and so sweet… I needed help to know what to expect. If he was going to stay bottled up forever, I’m not interested. (you know us Geminis, we’re SO easily bored). I should have mentioned he’s supposed to be moving out of state at the end of the summer, so “dont get attached” isn’t a terribly inappropriate warning- for either of us. Now, I wonder if he wasn’t saying it to himself, more than me.

I run my own business & have a7-yr old son I love dearly- with all that responsibility, I needed a reminder to relax and let things evolve. Jeffs comment that “Scorpios take time to come out” helped me do that. I let the guy know I was interested and then stepped back to see. Sure as anything, he came forward & opened up -in a very loving (not JUST sexy) way. I feel cared for, for the first time in years. He wraps me up & holds me, physically and emotionally. Are Scorpios really this sweet? And yes, he’s stepped up domestically, the dude has a job, gets outta bed at 6;30 and works outside all day; he took over the cooking (i am a great cook, so no jokes!) buys the beer (DUH!), babysits my son so I can go mtn biking with his best friend (go figure), re-wired all the technical gadgets in my house (thank god), and we jsut spent our wkend doing a wacky combination of Costco and rock climbing. Sex is intimate, hot & frisky!! Works for me

If its a fling, its a really good fling. I’m alright with that. If he winds up NOT moving at the end of summer, I will have to figure out what to do with him then (stay tuned). In the meantime, my mission is going to be this: To practice that Zen paradox of being able to move deeply into something that you know you’re letting go of.

By: proserpine

proserpine — Mon, 25 Jun 2007 05:20:00 +0000

Jeff, I think while it might seem obvious to many of us how this situation is we really don’t know for a fact.
Your astrological delineations are still noteworthy–A.because GeoGoddess asked you, and B because you explained how *she* might be reacting and feeling due to her progressed planets.I thought that might be very important for her actually.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 23 Jun 2007 22:39:00 +0000

I definitely agree with the comments from all of you.
As Jeff says, it is so obvious he probably didn't need to analyse the chart. And yes, many people hope that astrology will them the answer they want to hear.
It sounds like a fling, but I might be cynical...and I thInk too, if you want to have a firm basis to your relationship, you would want to check out how trustworthy and reliable a person is. That takes time.There would be no need for second guessing that other person's feeling. It seems too risky, in that respect

If Gemini woman isn't concerned about the guy moving in, etc, then that's ok. But does he help pay the bills, etc, etc.
And if she says she's told her other dates she has a boyfriend, then this must mean, it is a relationship with both the physical and spiritual elements evolving . That should speak volumes too. She wouldn't need reassurance?

Some times, yes, still waters can mean stagnant, sadly.

M, from the Uk

By: Eme Kah

Eme Kah — Sat, 23 Jun 2007 20:19:00 +0000

If it doesn’t bother her, there’s no cause for great concern? I couldn’t disagree more. Maybe it’s not bothering her at the moment, when she’s still intoxicated by the prospect of love and by good sex but that’s not to say that it won’t be hurtful in the future. That’s what I see as the big danger in this situation. From the tone of the letter, Gemini woman isn’t seeing things clearly.

Also, any decent person would be ashamed of themselves for using someone as blatantly as the Scorpio male is doing. As human beings, we may run into opportunities to take advantage of someone who seems only too happy to be our willing victim but most of us have enough of a conscience for that to bother us and stop of us from seizing the opportunity. It’d be one thing entirely if Scorpio male, needing a place to stay and some care (since he was injured), had been honest enough with the woman to ask her if she’d be so generous as to let him stay at her place. And a really decent person would still offer something as payment. I mean, damn, I’d be ashamed to just mooch off anyone! But it sounds like he took advantage of her infatuation, to insinuate himself into her life without giving much in return (other than sex). I mean, come on, if Gemini woman was really seeing clearly, she wouldn’t have written to Jeff about the potential of this relationship. She’d just be enjoying a fling. When the scales fall from her eyes, it’s going to hurt like a motherf***er. Now, if she sees things clearly and says to herself: “This guy needs a place to stay and in the meantime, I can have great sex and help him, but I won’t expect more from him”, that’s another story altogether. But from the tone of the letter, that’s not what’s happening. I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s been in a situation that seemed fine and dandy at first, only to be hurt greatly in the end when my self delusion came crashing down.

This is clearly a case in which people don’t need astrology. But often, we turn to astrology or Tarot bc we want confirmation that our wishful thinking is not so farfetched. Jeff’s astrological analysis just validates common sense and destroys Gemini woman’s wishful projections. And if that’s what it takes for Gemini woman to take stock and protect herself, so be it.