Leo woman wants to know if Sagittarius man is losing interest

Golden1 provided a birth time (click chart to view) and writes,

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and things aren’t as hot and heavy or passionate as they used to be. I think he’s losing interest. He sometimes tells me things that hurt and I know that Sagittarius’ have diarrhea of the mouth, unintentionally hurting delicate feelings but I wanna know if this is one sign that he’s losing interest. I’m in love with him and I want him to be a part of my future. Please help me to figure out my suspicions. His Venus is in Scorpio and his Mars is in Pisces. Thank You.

Transiting Saturn — planet of harship and woe — has been conjunct your Leo Sun all year. You’re feeling pretty down, I imagine, as this planet squashes your vitality and wounds your pride. You want to shine and be seen as special, yet the spotlight has been unplugged.

It’s hard to feel loved during a Saturn transit to your Sun. Self-esteem can plummet. To boot, transiting Saturn will come up on a square to your natal Mars, ruler of your Seventh House of Partnership, in August. Tension and repressed desire are likely outcomes. However, Saturn is the planet of tests. You can use this summer to assess how you express your purpose and initiative, and you can take an inventory of your relationship. Your Mars sits in your Second House of Self-Worth, so looking at how your Sagittarius boyfriend makes you (or doesn’t make you) feel valued would be a good use of your energies. (And don’t forget to value yourself, regardless!)

Sometimes people say hurtful things to push others away. Other times, they just lack tact. With Mars in Pisces, your boyfriend wouldn’t necessarily be direct with his expression of anger. You may want to just sit down with him and ask if he’s been holding anything back (Venus in Scorpio). Perhaps he’s just scared of taking the next step, and has been unleashing barbs to see if you’ll still stick around.

You have good compatibility given the limited info you’ve provided: two fiery Suns, plus two Venus-Mars interaspects (conjunction in Scorpio, opposition along Pisces-Virgo axis). Around September 2008, transiting Saturn will be conjoining your Venus, planet of love, in self-critical Virgo — another round of tests concerning how loved and valued (Venus) you feel. If your relationship survives this transit, it will probably last.

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About Jeffrey Kishner

Jeffrey Kishner is founder and publisher of Sasstrology. He is a licensed mental health counselor and has been doing astrological counseling since 2001. Jeffrey has been published in print magazines including The Mountain Astrologer and Dell Horoscope, and has written online for sites including AOL, Tarot.com and StarIQ. Jeffrey has also been heavily involved in the astrology blogger community. Read his personal blog at JeffreyKishner.com.

Comments

  1. Anonymous says:

    I am a sagittarius guy, sagittarius is a muteable sign that likes change, travel/adventure, doing new things, and going to new places.

    Staying with a project, a task, even with a girl sometimes is hard for him. While leo is a fixed sign which likes things to be the same. If you think he’s losing interest just do something new and exciting! Try taking a vacation together to get closer and spend some free time. It also could be that he thinks your losing interest! Make sure he knows that you care and your not always the center of attention. But by far this is a great match, Sagittarius and Leo are trustworthy and if they stay faithful to each other this relationship will last.

  2. I am a sagittarius guy, sagittarius is a muteable sign that likes change, travel/adventure, doing new things, and going to new places.

    Staying with a project, a task, even with a girl sometimes is hard for him. While leo is a fixed sign which likes things to be the same. If you think he’s losing interest just do something new and exciting! Try taking a vacation together to get closer and spend some free time. It also could be that he thinks your losing interest! Make sure he knows that you care and your not always the center of attention. But by far this is a great match, Sagittarius and Leo are trustworthy and if they stay faithful to each other this relationship will last.

  3. This is my blog and oh my God! You were so right Jeff. My boyfriend just broke up with me today 9/6/2008. You said that he might. I'm really heart broken though I feel helpless & I think that I've lost him forever…I'm really heart-broken 🙁 but, thank you again.

  4. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    @golden1, I’m so sorry to hear that.

  5. Jeff, how long does this Saturn Venus transit last?

  6. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    @Golden1, Saturn passed over the degree of your Venus in September, but it will station direct within 2 degrees of your Venus in mid-May 2009, so you may feel a bit of that transit then. A few weeks after that it’s pretty much over.

  7. Jeff are me and this guy going to last or should I move on? His birthday is December 12,1986 birth time 6:30 am and my birthday is August 17, 1984 birth time 10 am.

  8. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    @golden1, answering that is beyond the scope of this blog post. Please contact me for a consultation or visit askjeffaquestion.com

  9. I have been dating a Sag. man born 11/28/55 and I am a Leo woman born 8/2/53. He has been the best thing that ever happened to me. But, will he ever tell me he loves me? We have been dating about 5 months. We have so much fun together in and out of bed. We are both smart, successful people and at this time in our lives are enjoying life.

  10. im a leo and hubby is sag,been togetha for 18 years,i want out but he cant let go,threatens suicide.He is nothing like the sag you people are talking about

  11. I’m an Aries woman (4/1/85) and have been off and on with a Sag (11/25/84). We’ve known each other for 6 years now. We became a couple 2 years ago then broke up last year. I’m very much in love with this man and it just seems like we argue so much now. We were very close friends before we became a couple. He’d break up with me and then the next minute we’re together again.

    For some reason i’d get jealous of his flirting… He tells me that he cares about me but I don’t want him putting other women before me. Right now he thinks that we should just be friends and work on that for now. But then he says that he wants to have children with me in a few years. I’m so confused. I don’t know if he loves me or not like before =(
    Whenever we talk he doesn’t seem too excited to talk to me. I’m an Aries… Love adventure and all that like him. When we are getting along its amazing!
    Can you help me?

  12. Im a leo born 7 28 65 and my man is a sag born 12 16 59. He is so typical it is scary, but I knew going into this relationship that his freedom came first to him so every time things got rocky and it felt like a roller coaster, I gave him “a lot of freedom” if you know what I mean. Pretty soon, I became the one wanting a little! We are both older and know now what we want out of life so I’m finding it easier and easier every day, adjusting to having him as a part of my life I just can’t live without. His gentle, tender heart and passionate fire had me from the minute we first laid eyes on each other, which by the way was his 50th bday and I’ve not looked at another man since. The secret, I’ve found is how you control them, but don’t you dare let them know you are, and Leo women can control anyone if they want to bad enuf. Wrap them around your little finger then let them believe it is you that is wrapped! I tell him all the time about his BIG ego and how he thinks he can have any woman he wants and that I know I’m just the “flavor of the week” all the while he licking my you know what! It will work for those of you that are having trouble with theirs. Just remember that you have what he wants more than anything in the world. Make him work for it!

  13. I am a sag dating a leo for a month now. Despite the infancy of our relantionship a lot has happened.

    One thing that I always accuse the Leo of is being so demanding.Usualy this Leo often wants what he wants , when he wants it and where he wants it.

    I think that our relationship works because I compromise a lot; I don’t have a particularly decisive perosnality when I am in a relationship(Libra on my 7th house cusp).

    With LEO, Sag has often got to be careful about what they say but(paradoxically) this Leo is free to say whatever to me. Oh well!

  14. I’m sorry to hear you guys broke up I’m a leo girl 8/ 7/90 and my now ex boyfriend is a sag 12/9/86.

    we had known each other for about 7-8 years, we went to the same schools everything, when i first met him i had an on /off relationship for 5 years with a virgo 9/12/87 , yet me and the Sag kept it friendly then lost contact, then 2 years after that we started talking again but this time he had a girlfriend yet he would call me and we would talk about everything we were really good friends but deep down we always had a thing for each other,we lost contact for about 4 years then got in contact again .. we were both single and decided to give it a try, we were happy and very much in love or so it seemed on my part he even had given me a promise bracelet, i later come to find out he had been trying to get with an Aries female 4/10/89 two weeks before the split, (he broke up the day after our anniversary,yet he denied having anything with anyone for a week while we were still together. The day we broke up me and the Aries female that he never ended up getting with confronted him he was spechless he said nothing and wouldnt even look at me in the eyes… its been about a month since this happend and i miss him like crazy, and hes been leaving messages around me implying hes sorry and that he’s heart broken and all that, when all this happend onether previous ex of mine a libra 10/9/90 told the Sag never to come near me, i tried once to contact him but he wont talk directly to me he’ll just leave another message implying he’s heart broken..and how i couldnt love him he still believed i was in love with my old Virgo boyfriend … now i dont know what to do.., will he trully come back? shud i trust him again? i mean why does he leave the messages around instead of just telling me directly….i miss my old Sag friend again

  15. im a leo girl 8/13/89 and my boyfriend is a sag 12/17/85. We recently just started an excellent relationship. He told me the only thing he didnt like was me being bossy sometimes and i understood. I think we are growing as a couple but personally i think he is loosing interet. do you think this relationship is going to last?

  16. hai i leo girl 27/7/1986l.my bf sag 12/13/1986,,i just have been with him 6 month ..and he going bck to he country. bcoz..he work…and now he say ..he just to be like friend with me bcoz ..he dont know he will coming bck or noo…he cannot stay far from some one he love…i just accept it…we just be friend..and i dont know he broke up with me bcoz he fall in love with some one else.or just bcoz he think we cannot make this relloinshenship work??/i dont know what to do..now..did i need to wait he come bck or just 4 get it about this..?//but i realy love him ..

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