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42-yr old Cancer man, never previously married, says he’s simply never met “the right woman” before. I’m divorced and a single parent. We’ve dated 5 months and he says he loves me and feels a connection stronger than any he’s ever experienced before. He talks about a future, he makes time to be with me and my child, he is sensitive and nurturing and sweet and the sex is superb. Usually I get hung up on intellectual types — this man is intelligent but does not live in his head. He is very domestic and appeals to me on a level I’ve never felt before, very emotional and physical. He gives me butterflies and makes me feel weak at the knees. We are so different — I am high-strung and restless (but a VERY good cook) while he is quiet and laid-back. Can it work for us? He touches me deeply and I know that I touch him, but whereas he is open to discussing any issues that arise for ME, he tends to withdraw a little and go cool rather than tell me when something has upset HIM. And he won’t admit that he’s jealous but I get the sense that he is — and I am a very social person who strikes up conversations and gets smiles or greetings from complete strangers. I feel this makes him uncomfortable but he won’t admit it.
Although Gemini and Cancer are typically not a good match, your Moon (which rules Cancer) sits at the beginning of your Seventh House of Relationships. You are attracted to a domestically-inclined, emotionally-attuned man. Better yet, an intelligent one with a wide perspective, as Sagittarius sits on your Seventh House cusp. The Crab withdraws into its shell when feeling vulnerable, so do not be too concerned when your Cancer man goes cool.
Jupiter (the ruler of your Sagittarius Descendant) is in Leo in your Third House of Communication, in a stressful square — or 90-degree angle — to your Moon. You are a chatty Gemini with a tendency to be the life of the party in social situations. The attention you receive rubs the wrong way with your boyfriend (Jupiter in Third square Moon in Seventh). In addition, you have a tight Sun-Pluto square. The Sun symbolizes the man in your life, and Pluto can be both secretive and possessive. You may have a tendency to draw controlling men into your life — or at least men who hold their cards close to their chest. As long as this Cancer man doesn’t try to dictate your behavior, he sounds appropriate for you. He may just have to deal with his jealousy until he feels sufficiently safe and secure (Cancer) with you, knowing that your flirtatious manner (Venus, Sun, Mars in Gemini) doesn’t threaten him.