Gemini woman only attentive when Sag is moving on
June 6, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
K.I. provided a birth time (click chart to view) and writes,Im a Sagittarius and I have been pursuing this Gemini woman for months. Things are very wishy washy and confusing. But she claims she likes me and we’re good and Im just “over analyzing”. Why Does my Gemini seem to care as long as I’m not the less bit worried about her and on the verge of moving on? She then whips out all her charming and loving traits to get me back on her side.
Gemini is a sign of movement. It’s ruling planet is Mercury, messenger of the gods. Gemini governs communication, transportation — transferring goods from one place to another, sharing information between people. Gemini does not sit still — it is not in this sign’s nature.
As a sign that seeks stimulation and variety, commitment is not all that appealing to Gemini. When you give her space, you are more attractive to her. This can be frustrating, since you have several planets in Capricorn. You crave consistency, especially with your Moon (emotional needs) and Venus (love and relationships) in this sober sign. Yet, Gemini is the epitome of inconsistency.
As a former member of The Police once said, “If you love somebody, set them free.” You can call on your freedom-loving Sagittarius Sun widely conjunct Uranus — planet of independence — to lure your Gemini back when your heavy Capricorn planets push her away.
Comment below: Share your experiences with — and insights about — Gemini men and women.
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In my experience if a Gemini is stimulated enough, they don’t wander off too far.
I have found that they do tend to to rejuvinate.
As a Pisces guy with a Gemini moon, I do have to say that a part of me do need space and I find people who are not overly eager to be attractive.
Then again, as scorp said above, if my love interest stimulates me intellectually enough, I would find him even more interesting.
Of course, my Pisces sun makes me crave for emotional intimacy so I won’t wonder if I’m emotionally satisfied.
Being Gem myself, (with Venus in Taurus), I get cynical about any relationship I am in. I do agree that Gems often need to have more space, which is what we have in COMMON with Sag, but that is where the similarities stop. My possessive nature doesn’t fit the Sags’ need for freedom. It is the nature of the Gemini to believe in conspiracies, irony, anything contradictory, and we go in search of the answers, merely to have the answers. The Sag will get the answers (from thier mind, it is always right), and they want to tell you what they know, and speak to you from the top of thier holy perch. Sorry Sag women, but it’s true about the men, for sure.
“when you give her space, you are more attractive to her”
that’s because Mercury rules Gemini and Mercury gets curious as to what you are up to while you’re giving her space
that may not be a good thing, may just get her into mischief
and someone else said in a previous brilliant post that Gemini likes to stir up s*** when she’s bored
I believe that applies to the male variety as well
It’s true! The men I could not forget were the cold ones, not the sticky types. I really can’t breathe when someone tries to capture me, and unfortunately I cut them out from my life. We need air to “breathe”. But we also like attention. Paradox, huh? Life is paradox. And freedom is everything..
U should date an Aquarian then. They will give you LOTS of space…See if that works for you
Thanks for the advice! I know I can get along well with Aquarians , however I couldn’t find one yet. I’m dating a Sag instead, so far so good =)
I’m a Gemini, with moon in Aquarus. I’ve dated a Sag and my relationship with him was one of my favorites. He did smother me, but I enjoyed it. He just had to deal with when I didn’t feel like talking to him anymore, but I’d always come back.
Hi there,
I’m a gemini woman, and have been seeing this sag guy for month and a half now..it’s all good, but i’d like to know if a sagitarrius man is capable of long term love..and is he the faithful kind? Yes, i like to analyse everything before i really make a commitment. We’re talking about living together..so i’ve got questions before i make the leap. Also, can you please enlighten me as to what their likes/dislikes are? I do want to have a fantastic relationship with this man, for i have found he is truly amazing, he’s super supportive of me, and he consoles me on the things in life that frightens me. Thank you.
As a gemini moon (pisces sun) woman witha Grand Air Trine + libra rising
I’m must say as far as SUN signs go- Aquarius, gemini + Aries have been my best matches-
I study natal charts- all the said signs had pleanty of EARTH + WATER to balance out my Pisces stellium in H6.
Don’t forget, ASTROLOGY is much deeper than SUN sign alone!!
I agree Saggies (and LEOS) are very sexy + fun, however- they are mainly about the CHASE- they are the sweet talkers, although Gemini takes the cake w that title.
The thing is, Geminis can commit bc of the “other” twin that’s sentimental, cuddly, romantic
Saggies are solely about satisfying their EGOS + many times they are too lofty + over confident for their own good- they speak BEFORE thinking-
For example, my cousin is a Scorpio w mercury in Saggie; he knows nil about astrology.
One day he said to me- I need to stick my foot in my mouth at times.
See, he’s an excellent business man, very successful but sometimes his MOUTH moves too quickly or rather his communication can be completely thoughtless- by the time he realizes he offened someone its TOO late.
One thing about Saggies is their Honesty, they can be totally self- effacing + not affraid to admit their flaws OUT LOUD!!
The only wan Saggies know how to be!!