Compatibility between a Taurus woman and a Libra man
June 27, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
As far as Sun signs go, Taurus and Libra have little in common, save their common planetary rulership by Venus. Taurus is a fixed earth sign that seeks security and stability. Libra is a cardinal air sign gifted at initiating social interactions and navigating the world of relationships. Match an introvert who knows exactly what she wants with an extrovert who can’t decide on anything, and you’ve got trouble.
Libra will want to schedule a night on the town, but set-in-her-ways Taurus disagrees with Libra’s agenda, leaving the Scales imbalanced. Libra kowtows to Taurus, but neglecting his original idea leaves him resentful yet unable to express his anger. The Libra man puts on a fake face all evening, which irritates what-you-see-is-what-you-get Taurus. Taurus holds on to her anger all night and isn’t terribly adept at hiding it, which Libra finds uncouth in the presence of company.
The next day, Taurus doesn’t want to talk about it. She retreats to the backyard and gets her hands dirty in the garden, letting the earth absorb her anger. Meanwhile, Libra goes out to breakfast with his best buddy and bitches about his Taurus girlfriend’s inflexibility. Why can’t they just get along? Why is she so intractable?
Libra comes home with a house plant and a chocolate brownie, hoping a dose of sweetness will make everything better. Not surprisingly, Taurus takes to both like a bull to bluegrass.
Related: How can a Taurus woman impress a Libra man?
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having a beautiful home, both libra and tauri can appreciate that. A nice restaurant, both like good pretty food. Taurus dont mind parties as long as they are ‘home based’.
Maybe a small gathering at home with excellent food will satisfy both.
I’m a Libra female. I’ve had two experiences with taurus men. Never again. Very boring. Again, very boring. Secondly, very stubborn and quick tempered. I don’t mean to note all negative qualities, because they are very considerate and thoughtful people. But, when, when they have you wishing you were somewhere else because you’re tired of falling a sleep, it doesn’t cut it. Sorry
im a taurus, i dated a libra for 2 years. It was amazing at first. He dazzled me with his charm and made me feel so great and beautiful. Basically he told me all the things I wanted to hear. The sex was phenomenal. Our chemistry was intense (unlike any other relationship I’ve been in). After a while we started living together. Big mistake. He was overly flirtatious and i swear he wanted other girls to be in the picture keeping me at the same time. So it made me do the same thing, but when i flirted it was such a big deal. Come to find out in the very beginning of our relationship his own best friend told me this summer that 2 years ago he was trying to juggle me and his ex. Which I asked him about her and he denied it. So thats libras “indecision” for ya.
One crazy thing is, i read up on this astrology birthday book on both our birthdays and it couldnt have been any more accurate. It said that we would get lost in one another and form a dependency(like a drug). And it was like a drug and very unrealistic. That relationship had to end. I was such a confused person with him in the end. Just wondering if someone else (especially a taurus, but even not)is on the same wavelength as me with libra men. I still have pain from it because of how addicted I was to him, but I remind myself that it can’t be with someone like that.
I’m a Taurean female. I’ve been best friends with a Libra man for 3 years (and counting!) and thank God I didn’t subcumb to sex, it would be a disaster. Right now, I’m living with him (roommates) but this is really getting next to me, as he has his friends over nearly every night (party!) and I just want to hide in my room and sleep, if I can get any sleep!! You’d think that me stomping around and yelling would get his attention to make his friends leave, but he just frowns and asks sweetly, ‘Darling, why are you acting crazy?’ (serious! It’s a wonder I haven’t thrown a cast iron skillet at his head). Then what makes it bad is the Libra man is currently dating a Scorpio (not going to last, I know, but I’m watching from the sidelines shaking my head at this train wreck as they constantly fight (Libra tries to outtalk her calmly, but inwardly he’s steaming) as she’s far more jealous and is suspscious of me cos Libra and I get along too well for her taste.) As long as you keep the fliting fun and light and muster the strength for parties and don’t give in to sex (Libra was angry at me cos I didn’t put out for 3 years, cos we’re supposed to be friends, you idiot), then it’s all good. But from Libra’s charts and my astro chart, we’re destined to be in each other’s lives for a long time. Can you imagine 20 years of this craziness?!
I am a Taurus female moon in Scorpio and Venus in Aries and I can’t stand consistency the longest I’ve kept a job was two weeks. And I was never able to get along with signs that I’m supposed to. My best friends are an Aries, Gemini, and Aquarius and my man is a Libra. I never got along with Pisces, Cancers are irritating, Capricorns are very boring, Leos are very up my alley, Virgos are way too up the ass. I’m deeply intellectual, I love thinking about the complexities of the world. Right now I’m in an open relationship my Libra and I’m talking to a Gemini and I constantly lie to him about my emotions towards him ever so often so that he understands that I can do without him, before he lies to me which he has I’m sure. I drastically need change because it’s better for my personality. The only Taurus thing about me is my appearance I’m athletic build, and my curves and squinty eyes. In relationships I prefer Libras and Aquarius’s because they can keep up with me mentally.
LIBRAS ARE FAKE, CHEATERS, AND AT TIMES NOT REAL. Personally I can go without them, but the world needs flicky people like that.
Hello… I am a taurean female. Dated a male Libra for .. well.. four years.. not really sure how we put up with each other, by what you guys are saying.. perhaps because of the deep connection I had with him. you know, knowing when he would call or going out and just feeling that he would be somewhere around the place and surprise! there he was etc.. yep! But I must say, not all Tauruses are boring! I think why we where up for four years is because we could actually balance and accept each other.. I accepted of him having lots of friends who happened to be girls and he would do the same with me.. no flirting too much on behalf of me which was ok, cause it is not really my type.. and he would be just the same with them. We where both very social people and liked to meet new people and arrange parties and social gatherings as well so you would see us out very often.. We both loved philosophy, art and fine music. The problems arose when he 34 years of age got involved sexually with a girl 19 years old.. me being 25.. I found out, and by the hard way as I actually seemed to know the girl as she was a friend of a friend who told me she had been having a sexual relationship with someone a lot older and needed to tell us about it so that we could support her with our ideas on how to get him.. yes, that is me with my “knowing people” and she told me of a guy *note she did not know I was dating him* and when I made the connection and asked him he did not deny it… for me that was it.. not because he had an affair so much, but because that girl was too young and he was exploiting her.. for me I want a man who I can be proud of.. and since we are both lawyers I expected him to be a “right” person, respecting him self and the woman who he was with, my self. I had to brake up, I felt really ashamed of him and the fact that both our families knew each other did not make things so easy.. I know he loves me and unfortunately I love him. But I cannot forgive the fact that he stood so low as to get involve sexually with a girl that age… Even though he apparently is not moving on, I am. Even though I am deeply hurt and ashamed of what he has done, I will always love him and wish the best for him and who ever gets involved with him.. I told him this. I hope the new person I have met does not end up falling from his grace in my eyes as well… you see this new person is again a Libra, and I only found out recently..
Wow, it’s been a year since I wrote my comment. Still live with my libra roommate, but the girlfriend is out the picture (she broke up with him 2 months after that post). he still parties, I still get little sleep, but we’ve gotten into our groove. Now he tells his friends to quiet down when he sees I’m going to bed and he knows to duck and cover when I get cranky from the little sleep i do have (he tries to pacify me by cooking me dinner or doing a load of my laundry which does help, haha).
I still haven’t put out, agonizing my poor libra, but it helped to learn from each other. His relationships with women always started out sexual and he didn’t learn about their basic personality until the shiny newness wore off and reality hit and the fights started. Because I didn’t fall into bed, I learned how my libra ticked. Now he’s making hints at marriage cos he’s tired of playing the field (and he’s approaching 30).
I realized that it had been a year since either of us went out on a date, always finding an excuse to stay home. We always found something to do with each other, like catching an interesting movie or rocking out at 3am. We finally accepted that we’re a pair of rock and rollers and altho I have to curb it for my day job (sucks getting up at 6am when you’ve partied all night), this arrangement works for us. When I took my libra out for dinner on his b-day, we realized we had much stronger feelings for each other than we thought, that being ‘just friends’ was a hard part to continue playing. Hell, our friends keep insisting that we get together, but it took us much longer to figure that out.
I wish everyone luck on their endeavors and remember, astrology isn’t everything! childhood and life experiences shapes a person’s personality as well.
I think this web sites info is very WRONG I am a taurean women and my boyfriend is a libra. We get along great! It really was love at first site:) we both want the same things out of life and r working toward it. He is the most loving man I’ve EVER met. We both no that we r meant to be together because we both have never felt this way with other people. Go out there and find ur match skrew astrology :p