I appreciate that. I have heard from many people, including this girl in question and they all agree… It is not normal behaviour, its messed up, and I deserve better. I guess I feel like I gave her everything I had. Loved her intensely, and committed totally so all in all its her loss and I know she will regret it. But the lying to me about that guy, and sleeping in the same bed… yeah I have lost all respect for her and would never have her back. But I agree, there are some good Cancer women out there, I just have to find a good one and stay away from the messed up ones who have sexual promiscuity issues, not a turn on at all.

Im sorry you went through that too, it really sucks I know. But as I said, its their loss.

“For pisces men, Are cancerian women boring to pisces men?”

Depends on the type of person you are dealing with. If you are dealing with a Pisces guy who is a bit older, wiser and more capable of handling himself, then you will be just fine with him. It is the younger and more wild Pisces boys that may seem incapable of settling down with you. However, find yourself one who is a little older and more seasoned from life, and I am fairly certain that he will have no problem committing himself to you. I know that is certainly my case.

Vancouver,

“She has not asked for me back but says she still loves me and is not closer to anyone like she is with me, bla bla….”

I have a sinking feeling that we are brothers from the same issue. My ex-crab still had some feelings for me before she leaped into her rebound marriage, as I have almost a sixth sense for this type of thing. She may never admit it, but it was written all over her face in the engagement photos. That, coupled with the fact that she admitted that he was a “mistake” before we reunited about a year ago.

“Well I tried begging her, pleading… She said we argued too much and she doesnt want to hurt me.”

If she thinks that she is going to get out there and find someone else who doesn’t argue with her, then she is nuts. Mine did the same thing to me. Made me feel bad because we had the occasional squabble over something, but the key thing to remember is that EVERYONE SQUABBLES! Squabbling is a perfectly normal part of being committed to someone. It happens all the time, and the less experienced people in relationships FAIL to understand that squabbling is perfectly okay.

“I actually found out she had been lying to me about a friend she has who she slept with right before we met and they slept in the same bed together while we were together.”

Is she a Decan II crab? They tend to be the sneakier crabs with sex and stuff related to it. Just curious.

“ALl I can say is I would not take her back even if she begged me. Im dont with this crap and I deserve so much better. I think she knows that too.”

Good for you! Stand up, and have some respect for yourself! I like that! Critical thing you need to remember is to not have a knee-jerk reaction, and write off all crab women. There are some really wonderful crab women out there who are not jerks, so remember that.

“Also if there is one thing I cant stand, its breaking up.”

I agree, and can offer you this advice as well: DO NOT RUSH INTO A REBOUND RELATIONSHIP. That is the worst thing a person can do while recovering from a broken heart.

I find your story to be very charming! So you care about your Fishy? Emotional and moody, eh? That sounds right! Just don’t snap at him too much, even though he may snap at you as well!

Just maintain what you have with him, and hopefully things will continue to strengthen.

Dear Kimmy,

I am so sorry that your Fishy has died. My ex-crabby also called me the love of her life and her soul mate. We dated for 4 years, but things broke apart and she married this sophomoric capricorn idiot on the rebound. Ah well. She was just desperate to get married, but I believe she may still have feelings for me? Then again, perhaps it is a completely dead issue for her and she is truly as cold as a Siberian iceberg.

Who knows, but more importantly: Who cares?

There is a lovelier crabby out there for me.

Yeah, there is certain fish I started talking to… We’ve been talking for awhile now and I’ve started to care about him — a lot. It’s quite nice and natural to talk to him.. we share laughter and sadness. I know that we’re both emotional and can get moody, but it doesn’t get too serious enough. I wonder if it’s too good to be true….

Any ideas and suggestions on how to continue this awesome connection without ruining it?

Thanks. ^_^

Hellllllllloooooooooooo????

Yes, Mark.

That you are!