Can a Sagittarius woman and a Virgo man make it work?
June 1, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Lucy in the sky with diamonds provided a birth time (click chart to view) and writes,im a female interested in a male virgo…what do you think?
A Sag and a Virgo are usually not the best match. Sag is an adventurous, spontaneous fire sign. Virgo is a cautious, modest earth sign. The first likes the big picture, the latter appreciates the finest details. These two signs make an aspect called a square to each other, which means they function at cross-purposes. The one thing they do have in common is mutability, which means that they are each flexible in their own way.
Virgo would be a good fit for you, though, because you have Pisces Rising. Your persona, or how you interact with the world, can be characterized as compassionate and sensitive. At the opposite end of your chart — where you find your partner — sits Virgo. You are drawn to a man who is focused on service and function, someone who can take care of the mundane aspects of existence so that you can live in your imagination (Pisces) and explore the possibilities of life (Sagittarius). In addition, your South Node — which signifies where you’re coming from, karmically — is in Virgo, so he may feel familiar to you (perhaps in a past life?).
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I think so. I knew a virgo and he was VERY funny and sweet! He has sun in virgo moon in libra. he never critiqued me and loved to make jokes so I think it could work. I am a sagittarius by the way.
Im currently seeing a Virgo guy and his distance is driving me mad!!!!!!!!!!!
Im a Saggie who likes her freedom and fuunnn.. but i cant seem to work him out at all.
When i 1st met him he arranged dates for nearly every day of the week, it was great!! But since ive been contacting him and its not really moving off, i understand they need organisation. But does that mean that there is NOOO spontaneous happenings at all!!?? I mean thats what i kind of
thrive off!!
I really like him however, but i dont know how to let him know this. And not so early on o scare him away.. Geezzzz hes more complicated than i thought!!
I am dating a Virgo man, he is everything (and more) than I have ever dreamed of. Yes, he’s organized and exremely clean, neat and tidy. (I love that about him as I am the same way) Although I was born on 12/20 as a sagitarius, I am also a gemini as I am also an Identical twin.
All indicators point against a relationship between a Virgo and a sagitarius, I am in my very early 50’s and he is in his very early 60’s. I am not shy to let him know how wonderful and special he makes me feel. He goes out of his way to be spontaneous and loving. I know the odds are against us which makes it all more challenging to make our relationship work, I don’t mind. We both love a challenge and we both love each other more than anything else. So if someone tells you Virgo’s and Saggies don’t mix, they’re not always right. Don’t let the stars discourage you, when you truly love someone and they truly love you too anything is possible.
HELP ME OUT!
I’m a Virgo guy and my girlfriend is a Sag. I love her to pieces and I have worked out how to keep hold of her (by not trying to keep hold of her, that is!).
However, throughout our relationship, she’s been very secretive and talks to guys all the time on facebook, that live closer to her and seem to have a lot more to offer than I do. She even gets angry at me when I say that it makes me feel bad when she sleeps over at men’s houses without telling me. I think this is rather selfish but I grit my teeth and bear it till my incisors crumble!
I keep telling myself that she wouldn’t go ALL THE WAY with someone behind my back but she makes me feel like she is always going SOME OF THE WAY with a whole selection of buff suitors. Throughout our relationship she has kept me on the extreme peripheral edge of her circle of friends, who I never see and know nothing about. This heightens the sense that there’s something fishy going on.
Still, I persist, because for my sins I love this girl.
What I want to know is, can a Sag really be this much of a cheat or is it my analytical Virgo mind playing tricks with me?
PS she came back from a camping trip with what looked like sex injuries and she also spent one Christmas (our first as a couple) with an ex of hers and covered it up. I forgive her, but I’m I deluding myself or what??
King Viz,
As a Sagittarius, I can confirm that she does need her space and freedom, fun spontaneous trips and all that jazz. However, what you’re describing does seem like unfaithful behaviour because ANY sign of the zodiac that sleeps at the opposite sex’s house without notifying their partner would be deemed suspicious. Furthermore, taking into account the fact that she spent an xmas with her ex while dating you, and tried to cover it up is one of the early signs of her true nature that you should have noticed. In my opinion, I think that you should disregard astrology and have a talk with your girlfriend. She should be aware of how you feel about this behaviour and if she doesn’t see how it affects you and your relationship, then you either find a compromise or find someone who won’t behave so… openly.
Hope I helped
Karolina,
Thanks very much for your response. I needed to know I wasn’t just being paranoid and lacking understanding.
I actually had a talk to her yesterday, and she went crazy that I should be so untrusting. I tried to explain that it’s not trust it’s respect, but she spent the rest of the night sulking.
We’re still together, but I think this is the closest we’ve come to calling it a day.
I am in love with a Virgo guy but i don’t want to show it. i play hard to get and i really want us to have something going on. like a long lasting relationship. he’s sweet and calls often, which i appreciate. i just want to find out something: Do Virgo men give up easily?
No we don’t. As a metter of a fact I am chasing a sag girl now who is doing the same thing. Playing real hard to get. I just wait till she cant take it no more and break her down with the smoothe, chill, and laid back sexiness. That is how we roll.
I'm a Sag girl, and for the first time in my life I feel like I want to make a full effort with this Virgo man. The thing about him is that he knocks all other options out, and that's what a Sag woman needs…A man that cannot be beat by any other. I am physically attracted to him, and we've had a mental bond too. They're very complicating men, but no more than a wild spontaneous Sag woman. I can't wait to see were this goes. I am optimistic about the future and I love a challenge, especially after reading Bernice M's story. We shall see…
Ladies im a Virgo gal but my bestie is a Virgo guy….now these guys are sweet n loves fun but are very fussy n can be turned off quite easily….my bestie loves girls who can cook n helps around his house….hes always cooking for his dates n treating them special but he is the hardest guy to get to commit….he calls me all hours in the night telling me what bothers him about the girls hes seeing. Some girls according to him are cocky…lazy…talk to much….nags bc theyre in love with him but cant see that hes not with them….some tooo pushy etc etc…
He basically wants a perfect woman…beautiful, domestic, non- dramatic, funnnn, really good in bed, smart and very appreciative of what he does for u so always show gratitude to him for his kindness. He hates being blown off or stood up but at the same time u need to have hobbies n stop harraaing him to spend every waking hour with him as well as please respect his job n the time it takes up.
So yes dating a virgo man is alot of work….personally i dont want one but for the record my bestie is drop dead gorgeous n knows it
so hes a handful….thank god im not into virgo men heheh. Hope my input helps tho.