We may not be quick to say how we feel but Scorpios believe that actions speak louder than words. So, if you want to know how he feels about you watch his actions. If he’s really into you he will be attentive, caring and will set you on a pedestal and will do all he can to make you feel like a princess.

Likewise, although he will want to hear how you feel about him he will judge you by your actions more than your words. As for trust, yes we are slow to trust and it has to be earned rather than given automatically. We are very intuitive and can very quickly sense if something is not right. I would also say that we are very sensitive and can be hurt sometimes by something rather small that others might consider insignificant.

Lastly, as for the comments about cheating it surprises me. Scorpios in general are known to be very loyal and faithful to the one they love. I’m 50 and have never been unfaithful to a woman and any other Scorps I’ve known feel the same way.

You are sooo right!!! I just recently found out that he cheated with his ex-girlfriend from an e-mail. He says he loves me constantly and wants us to make it but I am so leery now that my trust has been violated. I mean, it’s only been three months!!! He lied initially but when he saw that I didn’t believe him (HELLO…I had a printed copy of the email) and wasn’t hearing it, he confessed and told me EVERYTHING (maybe, who knows with Scorpio). He has offered to go to counseling and has read books on infidelity that I have bought so we can discuss. I want to believe him and my family adores him but I am trying to determine what should I do. I am a stick and stay girl (Taurus sun with a Scorpio moon) but my flight defenses have been activated.

Wantsherscorpioback:

Leave! Just leave before he stings you bad. You do not want to be the recipient of a stinging lash out. I think he will respect you more as a woman if you set your eyes on a man more worthy of your attentions. It sounds like his actions are saying enough already. A man who’s really into you will respect and love you fully as you deserve. There’s none of this stupid back and forth business because he would not let you get away.

Action Speaks louder than Words….Its not the “Quantity its the Quality”

I have:
Sun Scorpio
Moon Leo
Aries Asc……

can you give me insights into the scorpio male? i was scared about all of the recent snow. didnt recieve calls or texts from him. we both live in different states. he texted me to say we were through and never to talk again. we had a misunderstanding before about an ecard i sent him and it ended up with a viagra link attatched to it. he was ticked! but forgave me. i left some texts for him that he took to mean i accused him of cheating and dumping me on the sly. i was joking, i do that when i try to deal with intense emotions. he knows this. i called for rest of whole day no answer. he was working and i didnt know. he was supposed to be on downtime for 3 months. he never said he drove 4hrs a day. or that he needed space. said he’s over it. don’t ever want to talk to me again. but he still loves me better to have love and lost thatn never at all. i’d find someone new. he knows i want no one but him. how do i get him to talk with me so i can get him back? do i date other guy? play hard to get? it seems so dishonest. we are really compatible in values, attractiveness, education, adventure, and highly sexual, i am aquarius to his scorpio. can you say if i never lied, cheated, been dishonest or anything would a scorpio take me back? he is inflexible about somethings, but really fair. bur the text dump was pure ice. how do i get him back? ignore him?

Fast forward about 6 years, and last year I just met another scorp guy. This went better, we went out, and he was extremely sweet about everything. It's hard for me to be at ease with people but he put me at ease anyway. So after the first outing which neither of us wanted to really end, I had to leave the country (I was there for work; we're not of the same nationality), both sides promising that there will be another meeting. So I go back home somewhat dizzy and happy…

Of course, things would f*** up. And it's due to him being Mr Secretive. I'm neurotic, so I tried to flirt (and I think? it went wrong) — this resulted in a panicked apology from me and him saying that I was "funny" and "should relax". Ehh. Well, relaxing is no good for neurotics, so I simply told him outright I think he's attractive. Guess what he said? "Thanks, good luck with the work, remember! relax!"

Anyone with a modicum of sense can tell that he is not saying ANYTHING at all about me. Thanks?? Geez. He's continued on as though nothing has happened at all, but I'm tired of this ambivalent s***. I'm not a fan of uncertainty. I'm just sick of it; tell me whether you find me attractive or not, and we can begin taking practical steps to working the whatever-it-is-s***e out. For we get along well and I would want to be friends if nothing else is possible. What is up with these games? I've shown my hand, show me yours. It's only fair!

(Scorp males out there: wtf is going on, if you guys actually KNOW)

Anyway I've had enough and have silently hidden his fb posts etc from myself. Do not feel like talking to him anyway; imo if he was attracted etc he would do more and not play games or whatever. So I'm just going to pretend he doesn't exist from now on. I figure he won't notice anyway; if he does he can go and attempt to communicate — I'm sick of being the one always having to initiate communication all the time. Enough is enough.

One thing I DO know: he had better NOT come around after a few years raging with that dark scorpionic anger, accusing me of being cold and unsympathetic or whatever, or else. Scorpios have a bad rep for having terrible tempers (and from experience this is true) but we capris can pull quite a punch. If this one tries to sting me I will step on the tail and slam my goat-horns into his face.

Of course I've noticed a few trends with these:
1. Always handsome, with those eyes, those eyes, those eyes.
2. Outwardly calm and controlled, but inwardly seething and controlling.
3. Successful and manipulative

I have no idea why they always seem to try to pull me to them — and given that they do have magnetic power this seems to work. Then once having 'pulled' me to themselves, and I'm interested, they become Mr Secretive and begin going cool, whereupon I get fed up (are you serious or are you not? Because I am serious, and if you are not, then I'm not interested) and decide the wisest and most practical course of action would be to get on with my life and work. *facepalm*