How to make the Taurus man leave her
May 7, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Before the internet, you had to ask a girl friend for advice on how to break up a relationship. Or if you were lucky, there’d be a how-to article in a woman’s magazine. Nowadays, all it takes is a simple google query, and all of your answers are solved. The secrets of ruining another person’s life are at your fingertips!
Back in the day, a girl friend would have talked some sense into you. She would have told you that you’re as unlikely to get a Taurus man to leave his girlfriend as you are to rouse a lazy bull from his resting spot. Why would any creature of habit who’s living the good life be tempted to do things differently? Your girl friend would also have told you that you’d be stupid to think that a guy who leaves his wife for you wouldn’t do the same to you later on.
But no, with the beauty of the internet, if you don’t find the answer you want, there’s always 729,000 more websites to browse, until you find what you were looking for. So shut down your computer and give your gal pal a call. She’ll tell you to put your energy into a man who’s actually available.
You see, not only are you drawn to a man you can’t have, you’re drawn to a Sun sign that is least likely than any other sign to ditch his girl for you. Maybe therapy is what you need!
Comment below: How successful have you been in getting a Taurus guy to leave his girlfriend or wife?
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I havent tried to rid of tauri, I love them.
But I can say they dont get offended easily, but try to make them see something they love as ugly, you are out.
Wow, you get a lot of these types of questions, don’t you, Jeff? Do you ever get the male equivalent, ie, how do you get a Cancer chick to leave her husband?
It’s pretty disheartening.
Most questions concern men. But it’s a chicken egg question. Since I mostly write about relationships with men, most of the search queries that send peope to this blog are about men. Although I gather that more women than men look at astrology when thinking about relationships.
I meant more, do men think about getting women to leave their husbands as much?
Marly, Just looking at human nature, I’d think that both genders are equally “guilty” of wanting to get their love interests separated from their current relationships. Longing is universal.
Yeah. YOu’re right. The only thing I’ve got to say for myself is that my longing has always been for men whose unavailability is not related to their being married but to other stuff (professional, psychological or geographical). I admit it. When it comes to looking to poach others’ partners, I’m very judgmental.
I didn’t really try.
One married when we were all quite young,(he was the oldest of all of us at 21) and I had been seeing him, so I was annoyed.
He even said it was to help his wife get away from her troubled family.
But, while he and I saw each other sometimes, he never even considered leaving her.
For a time when I didn’t see him at all, he told me later, he’d got to feeling trapped, and saw lots of girls for awhile.
But never left his wife.
I had another Taurus lover, but never tried to get him to leave his girlfriend at all.
This was all over 30 yrs ago.
I wouldn’t be doing it now–I didn’t like myself then for it.
My husband now is a Taurus–come to think of it–he left me once and came back.Never left again.
I’m happy now too.
Too bad it took forever, but that’s life.:-)
BTW, when I first saw this I thought a woman wanted her Taurus man to leave *her*.And I thought, why are they asking that?
But, actually, that would make sense too.
Because when a Taurus’ mind is made up, he will not leave easily.
Proserpine, it’s all a matter of interpretation. With google searches, sometimes I probably read them the way I want to read them.
EASY! just be all the mundane things they love-SEX & FOOD!!! be persistent and kind and sweet and nice don’t be loud, mean, look sloppy etc-they will notice-and don’t be a slut either [not that they won't love that either, but not enough to leave]-they love a good girl more but one who exudes sexual allure makes them wild–I can go on and on-but don’ make him leave a wife- that is just plain wrong!
How can I find out interesting things about my sign only?
Hey mine left me… You guys can have him if you want… My life was hell with him anyway. Tooooooo controlling , bossy, vindictive, and verbally abusive… so don’t try to get yours to leave someone you can have mine!
This is an interesting post.
I have to first tell you that Mr. Kishner is right on the money with what he is saying.
Most taurus guys (including myself) hang on tight to their woman, even when they are being driven insane or beaten like dogs.
However, there *is* one way that has a clearer chance of succeeding than most. The key to this plan is to focus on the woman in the relationship, not her taurus guy.
If she can be seduced and swept away from him by another man, then you have an opening. Infidelity hurts us like a heart attack. While we are still apt to forgive our cheating partners, there is a good (read: possible) chance we will seriously consider starting anew with another girl. My guess is that this will be a lot easier if the lady you are trying to pull mr. taurus apart from is a sagittarius as opposed to a cancer/virgo, but I respectfully defer to Mr. Kishner for that verdict.
It’s not an easy plan, as it requires the help of another man, but it’s the best possible ploy I can think of. Be warned though, there’s always a chance it can blow up in your face (I figure the likelihood of such a bad result increases if you target is a scorpio woman, but I’m not Jeffrey, so I could be wrong on all this.), so be sure of what you are getting into. Also, for the love of all that is good, look deep inside yourself and ask if you are doing this out of true love, or just out of spite, greed, and/or lust. If it’s the latter, shame on you. If its the former, ask yourself if you are truly meant for this guy. Also, if you do care about him, ask if he is truly happy with this other girl. If he is, then it may just be best treated as a case of setting something you truly love free by choosing to not interfere.
Now, I usually don’t recommend or think of devious little plots like this, but in this case, I’m volunteering my thoughts because there are some men who truly need to be set free from the miserable relationships they get stuck in. I used to be one of them.
@LS9AWD, so you’re suggesting that if woman (A) wants a Taurus man (B) to leave his girlfriend (C), then (A) should find another guy (D) to seduce (C) and make (C) cheat on (B)? And that (B) will be so destroyed he’ll leave (C) and that will provide an opening for (A) to seduce (B)?
Yes, that is a good question, I was wondering the same thing.
Sounds a little devious and manipulative to me, and even though I’m a Scorpio I could never pull such a stunt. Sounds like an incredible waste of time and energy.
I prefer to be pursued openly.
@ Jeffrey:
That’s exactly the idea, and thinking back on it, it is a bit of a harebrained one.
Victoria has a good point, it would be a big waste of time and energy (BTW- Scorpio ladies are awesome! Dating one right now, and she is amazing
).
Moreover, if the guy is in a relationship with the wrong girl, the mismatch will come undone naturally. It’s probably best to just carry on without any schemes, and be forward and honest if and when the time comes.
Hi, i hope someone can help me out,n put my mind at rest, i saw this guy at uni a year back n i liked him since day one, n we kept seein each other almost every week. he wud look at me n i wud look back n sometimes if i didnt see him, he wud cough etc. so i decided to add him on facebook, n he accepted..den i wud mail him n he wud mail me bak. den i decided to add him on msn..n dis is wen everythin sort of went wrong..he would talk to me all day long n we talk abt everything..we were so compatible. so i asked him if he was with someone he said yes n he asked me if i was too? he knew i liked him cos i made it so obvious. he is a taurus and im a cancer. i dont know what dis guy wants from me or where i stand? the last three days he stayed up all nyte n just chattin 2 me. im so lost.
Hi, i hope someone can help me out,n put my mind at rest, i saw this guy at uni a year back n i liked him since day one, n we kept seein each other almost every week. he wud look at me n i wud look back n sometimes if i didnt see him, he wud cough etc. so i decided to add him on facebook, n he accepted..den i wud mail him n he wud mail me bak. den i decided to add him on msn..n dis is wen everythin sort of went wrong..he would talk to me all day long n we talk abt everything..we were so compatible. so i asked him if he was with someone he said yes n he asked me if i was too? he knew i liked him cos i made it so obvious. he is a taurus and im a cancer. i dont know what dis guy wants from me or where i stand? the last three days he stayed up all nyte n just chattin 2 me. im so lost.
Personally being with a taurus, I find it offending that someone would try to ’steal’ anyone’s boyfriend or signifigant other. And, all things considered, if these two people are really in love, you cant pull them away from each other for any long time. Its just life. So stop trying to break other people’s happiness.
Other than that, I think the other guy’s comment about trying to go after the women to get the man, is genius! Absolutely correct assumption. Except with scorpios, or another taurus. A taurus might leave the nest briefly (like my friend who is a taurus female) but dont like the exiting of security for too long. A scorpio women isnt someone to be underestimated, and we are certainly loyal. Sometimes extremely loyal. And if you took something away from us, especially someone we love…it would result in us trying to ruin your life, and most likely succeeding.
LS9AWD: yours is typical Taurus manipulation!
im a taurus male whom was curious 1 wk ago when my scorpio woman had her ex husband at her apt.. They have 2 kids together. After she told me that he was there, i went to home w/o her knowing. I got caught by the police looking in her window and now she says that its over between us. Is it possible for a 2nd chance at romance 4 this taurus man?
Mark-
As a scorpio, I know that she will take you back IF the reason she broke up with you is because you were looking in her window. On the other hand, if she used that as an excuse to break up with you and get back with her ex, then there’s not much you can do. Once her mind is made up, it’s made up.
Have you guys had any more problems? It seems that way if you did not trust her. Trust is huge with me, and if I can’t trust my boyfriend or if he can’t trust me, it’s not likely to last.
i do not agree with you at all. i can have whatever i want and i can get anything even a lazy bull to follow me. just call me Aphrodite the second
Sarah Lee you are a bitch and it is really funny to me that you feel you can have anybody. Anybody? maybe if you fake who you are as I am sure that is what you are talking about. Being manipulative is not a plus it just shows lack of understanding of who you are. And if that is what you are manipulative if that is your very being. Im so sorry for you because you are going to be so lonely.
Well. I do not think there is anything you can do to make them leave. They will leave on their own if they make up their mind to leave. .
Hey take my Taurus man, please! He has gotten very comfortable with his lifestyle and doesn’t want to change it for anything!! He spends my money I work hard for and we butt heads and argue all the time because he is soo sensitive (Venus in Cancer) and all I do is try to keep him calm all the time – always trying to spare his feelings. Well, what about me? I have feelings too and he isn’t part of them anymore. If I’m late coming home and don’t tell him – he freaks out! Or if I go somewhere and don’t let him know first – he freaks out again! (I’m Aquarius rising, so that may explain some of it.) He has a need to know exactly where I am at all times; it is wearing thin and I want to break free. Possessive, controlling, verbally abusive, that’s my Taurus male. It seems to be all about him…well it’s time for me to move on – got a Scorpio, Cancer, Virgo and now a Cappy all waiting in the wings…which one to choose??
Mine is sort of a long story… I fell in love with a married Taurus at the time of my divorce and massive change in my life. Total love at first sight (at least for me) but he’d be lying if he denied anything on his part. We were careful to keep it friendly and at some point his live started to cave in, he was gonna loose his marriage. Instead of encouraging this, I actually helped him with his relationship? See, most people did not understand (and probably not him either) that I loved him so much that I only wanted him happy even if he wasn’t with me. They got their sh** back together. Later, him and his family moved away and I had lost contact with him for nearly four years till finally deciding to look for him again. I had a feeling… I added him on Facebook. Turned out that at the time I found him his wife had left him for good. It took almost a year till I’d see him. I got to hang out with him just this past Christmas break and I was happier than I ever was, I felt like I was where I needed to be, this missing piece gone for years finally returned. Things got a bit much and I somehow got sloppy, when he got back home he left me a long email explaining himself and basically he’s still hung up on his wife though they cant be together, she hurt him so bad that he wants no part in any relationship right now and he really kind of just wants to run his game. He pushed away but with out pushing away… which is confusing, he still left the window opened a crack maybe hoping that when the time is right I may try and climb through again. I’ve waited six years to kiss him… I’ll wait sixty more to be with him.
Amphitrite
Wow what a story…it seems that taurus really loved hard….anyway hope things work out for u. I however will never wait so long on someone….i think there is someone out there for everyone.