Pamela provided a birth time (click chart to view) and writes,My Gemini man cheated. Call me crazy (in love that is), but I want him back. So far, I’ve only read negative compatibility matches for Gemini man/Cancer woman. Does anyone know any successful matches for those signs? (Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise don’t count for obvious reasonsAnd how do I get him back?
She also wrote the following to me in the IM widget on this blog:
Well, he cheated on me with a Leo girl he thinks is more outgoing and compatible… We sort of broke up because of that, but he keeps calling me and saying he still has feelings for me.
Saturn — the traditional ruler of your Seventh House cusp (Aquarius) — is being opposed by transiting Pluto in your Fifth House of romance. Pluto is the planet of betrayal, and oppositions by transit often signify a “culmination” point, in which you either separate or decide to further your commitment. Of course, he was the one who cheated, but you must decide whether you want to continue the relationship. From what you have written, it sounds like he wants you to take him back.
During a Pluto transit to Saturn, you may feel that the structures in your life are being demolished, and that you are being severely constricted. It’s a period of break-down, as well as a “no way out” existential crisis. This transit will not be over for you until November. If I were you, I’d be wary of taking him back with the attitude that it’s “water under the bridge.” This is an opportunity for you to expose the dark side of romantic involvements, not do further burying of the past.
Not surprisingly, your Saturn is in Gemini. You may be attracted to a man with this Sun sign, but your Saturn’s conjunction to his Sun (by sign) makes a relationship with him a series of trials. Also, Gemini can be rather restless to a homebody Cancer. Not to say that it’s not workable, but be forewarned.
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Why would you want him back? He cheated on you. Find someone who will treat you right.
Ditto. It could only get worse if you took him back and accepted his behavior.
Born on April 20th… what am I Taurus or Aries. I am so mixed sign! I’m seeing an Gemini man (it’s an affair). Lonely but happy with my career and wanting him consistantly. What am I and what is the ‘sign’ signs here?
April 20 Anonymous, I cannot know which sign you are — Aries or Taurus — without knowing the exact date and time of your birth. If you like, you can submit a question, and I may be able to answer you on the blog.
I am a cancerian woman, who always falls for Gemini Men, all I can say is I have had two serious long term relationship with 2 gemini men over the years, same story, was engaged to get married, caught them cheating. (one with another cancerian woman, very messy situations) both wanted to come back, both tried several times over the years. I told them to take a hike. Gemini’s dont want a long term relationship, they cant do home, family, fidelity. Broke my heart, messed me up badly, took years to get over them. Never spoke to them again. I still miss them, (still love them, not that they will ever know) just not there lying, cheating behaviour. If it helps, they didnt change, I know of others that they did the same thing too.
There just not worth the pain they cause. I wouldnt even date a gemini now. Very happy with a scorpio ; )
Hello, i been with gemini for 2 years and for that year he cheated on me. And if i where you, LET IT GO…………..
Jeffrey Kishner,
Am a Cancer woman (1st july) my husband a Gemini (23rd may) we have a child. he cheated me 3yrs back – reason (his parents) they want him to marry a girl from their country,religion,cast and so on. he divorced me (without my concernt) it all happned just like that in few months time. i was betrayed. he is a double minded unstable headed gemini man, one day he think for me next minute he think for his parnets then the next minute he wants somthing else.
i could never able to take him off my head. my parents and my relatives asked me to get out of the past, only advice they give me is come out of it. but its hard for me. my head is filled with memories i couldnt not come out of it easily. he is the only man in my life and he will be the only one. I WANT HIM BACK
for my son, for my peace of mind, for my life.
He had tried to contact me before a two year and now in contact with me every single day. but he cant answer me this, will he come back or take us abck with him. he says he is bound to his parents they would dare to kill themselves if he cross their words.
he says he want me back but he dont know how to make it happen. i want to know will he come back??? i can pass you both our natal chats. please reply. for past 2 years i been looking around all astrology websites to get an answer “will he come back”
the divorce happned in 2007 when this saturn thing was in my sign
i couldnt able to stop that misarable thing “divorce”
our relationship started so cute and lovely , we both never had any fights or argument so far till date. only thing made him go away was his relatives. he messed his mind when he was away from me. where iw as in other country for delivery and he went to his country to visit his parents.