Comments on: Aquarius woman put off by Gemini man’s romantic overtures http://sasstrology.com/2007/05/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures.html Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:57:57 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: me http://sasstrology.com/2007/05/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures.html/comment-page-1#comment-52217 me Mon, 12 Oct 2009 20:05:15 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/05/31/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures/#comment-52217 after reading all this this is the ultimate answer to all of it! and I am an aquarius woman! dating a gemini we are great lovers! we have the best lovemaking ever we like to be independent when we want to be when we say back off back off! but never be rude always stay by when we need you! like i said we can be with or without you if you want to stay you do the compromise we are set in our ways.when you give us space we like it but not to much space we will find new exciting people or things when we want it we want it!when we want you we want you! when we dont we dont! get with the program be good when we are good to you! if we need space give us some space for goodness sake ....said bluntly and honestly we are the most important listen to us! after reading all this this is the ultimate answer to all of it! and I am an aquarius woman! dating a gemini we are great lovers! we have the best lovemaking ever we like to be independent when we want to be when we say back off back off! but never be rude always stay by when we need you! like i said we can be with or without you if you want to stay you do the compromise we are set in our ways.when you give us space we like it but not to much space we will find new exciting people or things when we want it we want it!when we want you we want you! when we dont we dont! get with the program be good when we are good to you! if we need space give us some space for goodness sake ….said bluntly and honestly we are the most important listen to us!

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2007/05/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures.html/comment-page-1#comment-50724 LibraLady Tue, 29 Sep 2009 18:23:59 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/05/31/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures/#comment-50724 oops I gopt it wrong, LOL he was the Gemini, she Aqua.... well the Aqua ladies I know were romantic so I still find it surprising.... A romantic Gemini guy, havent met too many, mostly intellects :) She is crazy anyways, some of us long for that kind of affection :) oops I gopt it wrong, LOL he was the Gemini, she Aqua…. well the Aqua ladies I know were romantic so I still find it surprising…. A romantic Gemini guy, havent met too many, mostly intellects :) She is crazy anyways, some of us long for that kind of affection :)

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2007/05/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures.html/comment-page-1#comment-50723 LibraLady Tue, 29 Sep 2009 18:20:44 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/05/31/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures/#comment-50723 Reading the original post, I've never wome that pushed a man away for being nice. I've had some Gemini friends that were not like that, but Ive met a lot of people of many signs that were. For me, its the opposite, I walk when the guy doesnt show enough affection, to run from something good just doent make sense :) Most Aqua guys Ive met put very little into a relationship so I was surprised that this Gemini woman would push him away.... That is so sad. I would have shown him affection, of course he would have run like Aqua guys do to us Libras LOL I dont think its a Gemini trait to push love away, I think its more of a personal character thing. Reading the original post, I’ve never wome that pushed a man away for being nice. I’ve had some Gemini friends that were not like that, but Ive met a lot of people of many signs that were. For me, its the opposite, I walk when the guy doesnt show enough affection, to run from something good just doent make sense :) Most Aqua guys Ive met put very little into a relationship so I was surprised that this Gemini woman would push him away…. That is so sad. I would have shown him affection, of course he would have run like Aqua guys do to us Libras LOL I dont think its a Gemini trait to push love away, I think its more of a personal character thing.

]]> By: Danny http://sasstrology.com/2007/05/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures.html/comment-page-1#comment-25373 Danny Sun, 19 Apr 2009 01:26:25 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/05/31/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures/#comment-25373 I am a Gemini guy and I was dating an Aquarius. We were going together for a year and a half and every 3 months without fail, we would be having a discussion that would totally turn my world upside down. Being that this was my first relationship since getting divorced I was very rusty on my relationship skills. What I found out too late was exactly what the last poster said, the need for space and not to be smothered is critical. When my girlfriend and I started getting to know each other we expressed similar wants and desires in a relationship. I told her up front how I like to treat a woman and she didn't have a problem with it then. But apparently what I didn't know was enough about the Aquarius woman and how to understand her needs. I tried to be a typical Gemini and solve the problems in the relationship and now I have lost her for good. This last time she went so far as to move back home to another state and I don't thing I will ever be with her again. I wasn't totally to blame, since she still had unresolved relationship issues herself which contributed to the break-up but add to it the way I treated the relationship, it is no surprise that it ended. I agree that for a Gemini we want to have intimacy and be able to express ourselves, but as I have gotten older I don't think it's so necessary to be so over done. I learned this lesson too late and have lost one of the best lovers I have ever had. We fit like a glove in so many ways and we had the ability to have fun where ever we were and I hope someday I will be able to find a similar match. I am a Gemini guy and I was dating an Aquarius. We were going together for a year and a half and every 3 months without fail, we would be having a discussion that would totally turn my world upside down. Being that this was my first relationship since getting divorced I was very rusty on my relationship skills. What I found out too late was exactly what the last poster said, the need for space and not to be smothered is critical. When my girlfriend and I started getting to know each other we expressed similar wants and desires in a relationship. I told her up front how I like to treat a woman and she didn’t have a problem with it then. But apparently what I didn’t know was enough about the Aquarius woman and how to understand her needs. I tried to be a typical Gemini and solve the problems in the relationship and now I have lost her for good. This last time she went so far as to move back home to another state and I don’t thing I will ever be with her again. I wasn’t totally to blame, since she still had unresolved relationship issues herself which contributed to the break-up but add to it the way I treated the relationship, it is no surprise that it ended. I agree that for a Gemini we want to have intimacy and be able to express ourselves, but as I have gotten older I don’t think it’s so necessary to be so over done. I learned this lesson too late and have lost one of the best lovers I have ever had. We fit like a glove in so many ways and we had the ability to have fun where ever we were and I hope someday I will be able to find a similar match.

]]> By: Aquarius http://sasstrology.com/2007/05/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures.html/comment-page-1#comment-17504 Aquarius Fri, 13 Mar 2009 07:39:25 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/05/31/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures/#comment-17504 Hey, I read this and found it very interesting that you are having problems with an Aquarius when you are a Gemini. I am an Aquarius and I am surprised that you are having issues... my advice to you is to JUST be yourself. I think you are putting too much thought into this and you are giving her too much attention. As an Aquarius, I can admit that I get turned off by men who give me way too much attention. I get annoyed very easily and I need A LOT of space. I am dating a Gemini and have been dating him for 11 months. I really like how he is very unpredictable and does not show too much affection. I am extremely turned off by men that give me the impression that they have fallen head over heels for me in short time. Being an Aquarius, we love challenges but I assure you once you have won our heart we are very faithful and devoted to the relationship. Just don't forget to give us our space and just because she seems distant does not mean she has lost feelings for you. We are not good at expressing our feelings and express them in other ways. So don't feel so down about the whole situation. My advice to you, is not to smother her... thats the last thing you want to do!! What I adore about my Gemini is that we can talk for countless hours about just any thing and we have our own way of communicating that I don't think anybody else would understand. They key to our heart is in fact connecting intellectually. Well I hope this has helped you a bit.. Hey, I read this and found it very interesting that you are having problems with an Aquarius when you are a Gemini. I am an Aquarius and I am surprised that you are having issues… my advice to you is to JUST be yourself. I think you are putting too much thought into this and you are giving her too much attention. As an Aquarius, I can admit that I get turned off by men who give me way too much attention. I get annoyed very easily and I need A LOT of space. I am dating a Gemini and have been dating him for 11 months. I really like how he is very unpredictable and does not show too much affection. I am extremely turned off by men that give me the impression that they have fallen head over heels for me in short time. Being an Aquarius, we love challenges but I assure you once you have won our heart we are very faithful and devoted to the relationship. Just don’t forget to give us our space and just because she seems distant does not mean she has lost feelings for you. We are not good at expressing our feelings and express them in other ways. So don’t feel so down about the whole situation. My advice to you, is not to smother her… thats the last thing you want to do!! What I adore about my Gemini is that we can talk for countless hours about just any thing and we have our own way of communicating that I don’t think anybody else would understand. They key to our heart is in fact connecting intellectually. Well I hope this has helped you a bit..

]]> By: Laura http://sasstrology.com/2007/05/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures.html/comment-page-1#comment-6047 Laura Thu, 25 Sep 2008 09:03:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/05/31/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures/#comment-6047 I realize that no one has posted here (or maybe even read here) in quite a while, but I really feel like I need to add something. Personally as an Aquarian woman I can tell you to go back and re-read Blahblah's 12:38pm comment. This is spot on... for me. <br/>Everyon is going to be different, and I believe that life experiences shape who a person is and how the react, just as much as the stars may or may not, but there is something undeniable about being an Aquarius. <br/>The emotional side of what we go through is everything Blahblah and others have writen here. Dave, if you are that upset by what Blahblah has written, maybe that is because it all hit too close to home and you are uncomfortable admitting that. Is it possible that what he said was too upsetting because it meant facing the fact that you were not ok with a relationship that emotional unavailable, and you knew that it meant your realationship may not work? <br/>I am sorry to have to disagree with you Dave, but Blahblah - you could not be more right if you tried. This is me in a nutshell. <br/>Dave - make 2 - 3 set of plans with other friends, that do not involve her. Once she shes that you have a life outside of her, she will be interested. We just need space (sometimes a lot), but we also want to know that you still have your own thing going. Once you make the plans and go out, she will want to curl up with you and hear all about it. Don't invite her, just go! <br/><br/>Knowing that this is over a year later.... <br/>...I wonder if they "made it"...? I realize that no one has posted here (or maybe even read here) in quite a while, but I really feel like I need to add something. Personally as an Aquarian woman I can tell you to go back and re-read Blahblah’s 12:38pm comment. This is spot on… for me.
Everyon is going to be different, and I believe that life experiences shape who a person is and how the react, just as much as the stars may or may not, but there is something undeniable about being an Aquarius.
The emotional side of what we go through is everything Blahblah and others have writen here. Dave, if you are that upset by what Blahblah has written, maybe that is because it all hit too close to home and you are uncomfortable admitting that. Is it possible that what he said was too upsetting because it meant facing the fact that you were not ok with a relationship that emotional unavailable, and you knew that it meant your realationship may not work?
I am sorry to have to disagree with you Dave, but Blahblah – you could not be more right if you tried. This is me in a nutshell.
Dave – make 2 – 3 set of plans with other friends, that do not involve her. Once she shes that you have a life outside of her, she will be interested. We just need space (sometimes a lot), but we also want to know that you still have your own thing going. Once you make the plans and go out, she will want to curl up with you and hear all about it. Don’t invite her, just go!

Knowing that this is over a year later….
…I wonder if they “made it”…?

]]> By: Anonymous http://sasstrology.com/2007/05/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures.html/comment-page-1#comment-6046 Anonymous Fri, 09 May 2008 21:44:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/05/31/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures/#comment-6046 I am an Aquarius woman who hates her relationship with a Gemini man. I fell in love since the beginning and he is just a cold person who is only afectionate 10% of the time. We are married with children and I want a divorce. I am so caring and affectionate and he makes me feel miserable. I am an Aquarius woman who hates her relationship with a Gemini man. I fell in love since the beginning and he is just a cold person who is only afectionate 10% of the time. We are married with children and I want a divorce. I am so caring and affectionate and he makes me feel miserable.

]]> By: Anonymous http://sasstrology.com/2007/05/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures.html/comment-page-1#comment-6045 Anonymous Wed, 16 Apr 2008 06:08:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/05/31/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures/#comment-6045 Wow I'm glad I came across this post because I am going through the same thing. The only thing that makes it a bit different is that I'm an Aquirus woman and the guy that I like is a Gemini.<br/><br/>There are times when he can be a bit distant and that drives me crazy and makes me want him even more. The whenever he gives me that needed attention for some strange reason I back down. Once I back down he backs down then I feel bad because I feel he's probably thinking that I dont feel the same way he does when in fact I do. So then I'm literally kicking myself for being shuch a chicken and not expressing my true feelings.<br/><br/>She feels the same way you do. Its just that Aquarius women are not quick to open up if you know what I mean. Its easy to say that we "think too much" and it causes us to miss out on alot of amazing things.<br/><br/>The best advice I could tell u is that you will have to be up front with her voice up your feelings to her thats the ONLY way she will get a clue. Wow I’m glad I came across this post because I am going through the same thing. The only thing that makes it a bit different is that I’m an Aquirus woman and the guy that I like is a Gemini.

There are times when he can be a bit distant and that drives me crazy and makes me want him even more. The whenever he gives me that needed attention for some strange reason I back down. Once I back down he backs down then I feel bad because I feel he’s probably thinking that I dont feel the same way he does when in fact I do. So then I’m literally kicking myself for being shuch a chicken and not expressing my true feelings.

She feels the same way you do. Its just that Aquarius women are not quick to open up if you know what I mean. Its easy to say that we “think too much” and it causes us to miss out on alot of amazing things.

The best advice I could tell u is that you will have to be up front with her voice up your feelings to her thats the ONLY way she will get a clue.

]]> By: Anonymous http://sasstrology.com/2007/05/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures.html/comment-page-1#comment-6044 Anonymous Fri, 22 Feb 2008 23:06:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/05/31/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures/#comment-6044 I would like to try to help give some insight since I am a Aquarius sun, moon, mercury, and venus. However my mars is in taurus. I like the thrill of the chase initially but not for long... In love I am very faithful and dedicated, however do need some space from time to time or maybe i get scared of it getting boring that I suddently act up out of fear.. I am not sure which it is. I do know this i need love, intellectual stimulation, and passion. Maybe from my scorpio rising. I know I am a lover, but i love friends and space also. Romantic jestures send me through the roof, I love them, flowers, poetry stuff like that..Trust is very important also. I can be wild sometimes and definitley love to socaialize alot! but i think the with your girl you need to keep trying to help her get comfortable it's a trust thing I am sure. Once we trust you and fall in love the rest is bliss! I would like to try to help give some insight since I am a Aquarius sun, moon, mercury, and venus. However my mars is in taurus. I like the thrill of the chase initially but not for long… In love I am very faithful and dedicated, however do need some space from time to time or maybe i get scared of it getting boring that I suddently act up out of fear.. I am not sure which it is. I do know this i need love, intellectual stimulation, and passion. Maybe from my scorpio rising. I know I am a lover, but i love friends and space also. Romantic jestures send me through the roof, I love them, flowers, poetry stuff like that..Trust is very important also. I can be wild sometimes and definitley love to socaialize alot! but i think the with your girl you need to keep trying to help her get comfortable it’s a trust thing I am sure. Once we trust you and fall in love the rest is bliss!

]]> By: jennimi http://sasstrology.com/2007/05/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures.html/comment-page-1#comment-6043 jennimi Thu, 21 Jun 2007 21:46:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/05/31/aquarius-woman-put-off-by-gemini-mans-romantic-overtures/#comment-6043 Absolutely true. Consults are where the true energy resides.... But I will definitely keep reading and yes, I'll buy a planet when I am back on my feet. There is gold here for astro peeps, but also for bloggers. As a librarian/blogger there is a lot of best practices stuff here - great work. :) Makes me think "Geek Astrologer" fits for names, too. [smiles] Absolutely true. Consults are where the true energy resides…. But I will definitely keep reading and yes, I’ll buy a planet when I am back on my feet. There is gold here for astro peeps, but also for bloggers. As a librarian/blogger there is a lot of best practices stuff here – great work. :) Makes me think “Geek Astrologer” fits for names, too. [smiles]

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