Comments on: Why did Libra turn cold? http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold.html Sat, 20 Mar 2010 09:15:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: david http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold.html/comment-page-3#comment-61334 david Fri, 19 Feb 2010 13:48:12 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold/#comment-61334 ok all you women who do not understand the libra man.i am libra and when it comes to love we only want one thing and thats someone who can show affection at the spontanious moments during anytime of day. we want someone to leave us a short note to say ive been thinking of you and cant wait to tell you. we want someone who is not afraid to put their arms around us out un public. we want a lady who does appriciate the things we do each day that surprises you. not to be taken for granted. our love is not like any you have ever known. you draw us in by your reactions on a daily clock thats ticking. when we feel as though you do not want to be with us we are quite cold. we need the love that you so want to recieve too.hope i wasnt to harsh. me and my wife are both libras and for the past twenty years she continues to be my life line. i think of her each day knowing she is doing the same. we all need space but when are feeling down or need a friend to talk too we know exactly where to look. if you dont have that then keep libra far from your relationships because its hopeless. ok all you women who do not understand the libra man.i am libra and when it comes to love we only want one thing and thats someone who can show affection at the spontanious moments during anytime of day. we want someone to leave us a short note to say ive been thinking of you and cant wait to tell you. we want someone who is not afraid to put their arms around us out un public. we want a lady who does appriciate the things we do each day that surprises you. not to be taken for granted. our love is not like any you have ever known. you draw us in by your reactions on a daily clock thats ticking. when we feel as though you do not want to be with us we are quite cold. we need the love that you so want to recieve too.hope i wasnt to harsh. me and my wife are both libras and for the past twenty years she continues to be my life line. i think of her each day knowing she is doing the same. we all need space but when are feeling down or need a friend to talk too we know exactly where to look. if you dont have that then keep libra far from your relationships because its hopeless.

]]> By: Marzy http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold.html/comment-page-3#comment-59271 Marzy Thu, 14 Jan 2010 15:15:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold/#comment-59271 Yeah, I should not have gotten involve in a libra male... My friend introduced me to him and we all went dancing. He gave me a look, (reading through his eyes).. and asked me if i wanted to dance. His friend was like dance with me! and he turned to me and said " i will dance with you but not her" Well anyways we ended up talking and exchanging numbers.. I wouldn't text him but he would text me in the mornings saying " hey love :)" So those stopped.. and he went to cali and came back and i saw him at my friends party and was trying to make the moves on me by being sweet.. we did ended up making out and sleeping next to each other, holding each other.. I ended up liking him, but i did not talk to him about my feelings at all. Then he told my friend " she does not know what she wants and she is giving me mix signals" so i tried talking to him and he was like ignoring it.. Then i kinda laid off of him but we were still talking and hanging out every now and then. Then I told him about my true feelings for him again then he ignored it and so i was like ok im through!.Told my friend that he wasnt fond of me and thought i was pyscho so I deleted his facebook and his number.. and did not talk to him for three months.. Then he requested me back on facebook and told me " thanks for deleting me" I replied ( i should not) then we began talking again, and he gave me his new number, so i visited him and we talked and everything seem to go smooth right? we texted and i would see him every two weeks so i won't get emotionally attached.. then i saw him on sunday cause i was bringing him pie..lol then he began flirting while we were watching a movie.. then we were playing and next thing you know he pulled me in to kiss him and i was like no, but we ended up ccleeping with each other.. we got done and asked if i was ok and gave me hugs and kisses and told me next time i will decide... now he is barely texting, so i guess i m going to ignore him again.. everytime i don't pay him any mind he comes back.. and i know he have other girls he sees.. ugh I need to leave this man alone!!! Yeah, I should not have gotten involve in a libra male…
My friend introduced me to him and we all went dancing.
He gave me a look, (reading through his eyes).. and asked me if i wanted to dance. His friend was like dance with me! and he turned to me and said ” i will dance with you but not her”
Well anyways we ended up talking and exchanging numbers.. I wouldn’t text him but he would text me in the mornings saying ” hey love :) ” So those stopped.. and he went to cali and came back and i saw him at my friends party and was trying to make the moves on me by being sweet.. we did ended up making out and sleeping next to each other, holding each other.. I ended up liking him, but i did not talk to him about my feelings at all. Then he told my friend ” she does not know what she wants and she is giving me mix signals” so i tried talking to him and he was like ignoring it..
Then i kinda laid off of him but we were still talking and hanging out every now and then. Then I told him about my true feelings for him again then he ignored it and so i was like ok im through!.Told my friend that he wasnt fond of me and thought i was pyscho so I deleted his facebook and his number.. and did not talk to him for three months.. Then he requested me back on facebook and told me ” thanks for deleting me” I replied ( i should not) then we began talking again, and he gave me his new number, so i visited him and we talked and everything seem to go smooth right?
we texted and i would see him every two weeks so i won’t get emotionally attached.. then i saw him on sunday cause i was bringing him pie..lol then he began flirting while we were watching a movie.. then we were playing and next thing you know he pulled me in to kiss him and i was like no, but we ended up ccleeping with each other.. we got done and asked if i was ok and gave me hugs and kisses and told me next time i will decide… now he is barely texting, so i guess i m going to ignore him again.. everytime i don’t pay him any mind he comes back.. and i know he have other girls he sees.. ugh I need to leave this man alone!!!

]]> By: Kara http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold.html/comment-page-3#comment-58819 Kara Wed, 06 Jan 2010 23:04:38 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold/#comment-58819 Im puzzled about the Libra guy I know. He is very Mysterious, but yet a nice guy. I have known him a long long time. He called and ask me if I wanted to date him, he would come we would eat, go to Casino had alot of fun, he would call and text me. Once I ask him if he had someone at work, he said work? no. Have one at such and such, a matter of fact two women? S o then he in return said do u have anyone? I said no and to be honest I like you. He got all bent out of shape, said oh thats not possible, I need someone my own age, someone that works same shift as I do and someone different than my mom. I thought What?????????????????????? Why did he ever call in the first place or even come??????????????????????? Always said we were friends. And to this day if you text him that would be a benefit to him he will answer otherwise he wont. I fell for him to. I do NOT UNDERSTAND LIBRA MEN...THEY ARE VERY DIFFERENT. Dated one in High School that was the same way, and Im in my 50's now. By the way Im a Virgo, Libra has alot of personal planets in Virgo, so we should hit it off well if he was normal. lol And when he does answer he is always nice, and tips for me? Im puzzled about the Libra guy I know. He is very Mysterious, but yet a nice guy. I have known him a long long time. He called and ask me if I wanted to date him, he would come we would eat, go to Casino had alot of fun, he would call and text me.
Once I ask him if he had someone at work, he said work? no. Have one at such and such, a matter of fact two women? S o then he in return said do u have anyone? I said no and to be honest I like you. He got all bent out of shape, said oh thats not possible, I need someone my own age, someone that works same shift as I do and someone different than my mom.
I thought What??????????????????????
Why did he ever call in the first place or even come??????????????????????? Always said we were friends. And to this day if you text him that would be a benefit to him he will answer otherwise he wont.
I fell for him to. I do NOT UNDERSTAND LIBRA MEN…THEY ARE VERY DIFFERENT.
Dated one in High School that was the same way, and Im in my 50’s now.
By the way Im a Virgo, Libra has alot of personal planets in Virgo, so we should hit it off well if he was normal. lol
And when he does answer he is always nice, and tips for me?

]]> By: Capricorn http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold.html/comment-page-3#comment-58678 Capricorn Tue, 05 Jan 2010 03:33:08 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold/#comment-58678 I have a Libra friend who I think I am falling in love with. We have been friends for 2 years. We have a friendship and business partner type of relationship. WE do go out both have fun together. He often will buy my dinner or lunch and vice versa. When we are out he talks about "wanting our relationship to work" So far we have a very good friendship but its not to the real dating stage in my opinion. Yet others who see us think we are dating. They see the chemistry between us when we are together. The problem is I guess as a Capricorn I am looking into the future and want to know if we can have a real relationship. He's said he loves me but it sounds like one uses love in casual conversation. As in you say I love you to someone who does something nice for you. Yet friends have told me they notice he acts jealous when others are around me his tone changes. He seems to be nervous or find an exit. Yet when we are alone or around his friends or collegues he acts very friendly. If alone he will act flirtatious. He will use certain sexual body language to convey a point but in a discrete manner. He also smiles or laughs if I use certain words to tell him how sexy or cute he is. I told him that its hard for me to tell a person how much I love them but rather I use actons. I will often bring him his favorite sweet treats or snacks. Yes I eill go across town just to bring him something just to spend a few minutes in his presence to see his smile or hear his voice. Yet he doesnt call often. If I call though he calls back immediately and will spend a long time talking on the phone about nothing at all. Often giggling or asking me how I am or anything he can do for me. If something happen to upset me or make me mad at him hes devastated. He rushes to fix whatever it is he said or did to make it right. Once he knows its right hes back to being charming and oh so cute. So what do I do? Is there a problem here? It just seems its taking forever for this relationship to progress beyond this. One other thing Hes 25 and hes Chinese. His family still allows him to live at home as its very common in the culture. Hes often talked about getting his own place or try to convince me to buy a home. Yet I am not sure where its going. Once I know he loves me I want it to work and will love him always. I have a Libra friend who I think I am falling in love with. We have been friends for 2 years. We have a friendship and business partner type of relationship. WE do go out both have fun together. He often will buy my dinner or lunch and vice versa. When we are out he talks about “wanting our relationship to work” So far we have a very good friendship but its not to the real dating stage in my opinion. Yet others who see us think we are dating. They see the chemistry between us when we are together. The problem is I guess as a Capricorn I am looking into the future and want to know if we can have a real relationship. He’s said he loves me but it sounds like one uses love in casual conversation. As in you say I love you to someone who does something nice for you. Yet friends have told me they notice he acts jealous when others are around me his tone changes. He seems to be nervous or find an exit. Yet when we are alone or around his friends or collegues he acts very friendly. If alone he will act flirtatious. He will use certain sexual body language to convey a point but in a discrete manner. He also smiles or laughs if I use certain words to tell him how sexy or cute he is. I told him that its hard for me to tell a person how much I love them but rather I use actons. I will often bring him his favorite sweet treats or snacks. Yes I eill go across town just to bring him something just to spend a few minutes in his presence to see his smile or hear his voice. Yet he doesnt call often. If I call though he calls back immediately and will spend a long time talking on the phone about nothing at all. Often giggling or asking me how I am or anything he can do for me. If something happen to upset me or make me mad at him hes devastated. He rushes to fix whatever it is he said or did to make it right. Once he knows its right hes back to being charming and oh so cute.

So what do I do? Is there a problem here? It just seems its taking forever for this relationship to progress beyond this.

One other thing Hes 25 and hes Chinese. His family still allows him to live at home as its very common in the culture. Hes often talked about getting his own place or try to convince me to buy a home. Yet I am not sure where its going. Once I know he loves me I want it to work and will love him always.

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold.html/comment-page-3#comment-58622 LibraLady Mon, 04 Jan 2010 17:00:52 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold/#comment-58622 cold not clod....come to think of it mine was a clod, LOL cold not clod….come to think of it mine was a clod, LOL

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold.html/comment-page-3#comment-58621 LibraLady Mon, 04 Jan 2010 16:59:57 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold/#comment-58621 Now that he knows that I've met my soul mate (my Aquarius man), 10 yrs after our last physical meeting, he told me that he wished he had been able to touch me more often, how he meant that is a mystery, "twice a day wasn't enough" LOL or if he meant affection wise, I have no clue, but I find that since our breakup he thinks about "us" more, now that there is no "us" Maybe your Libra guy needs to see that you won't live in a clod relationship forever, it's as if they need that wake up call sometimes (crazy boys) Now that he knows that I’ve met my soul mate (my Aquarius man), 10 yrs after our last physical meeting, he told me that he wished he had been able to touch me more often, how he meant that is a mystery, “twice a day wasn’t enough” LOL or if he meant affection wise, I have no clue, but I find that since our breakup he thinks about “us” more, now that there is no “us”
Maybe your Libra guy needs to see that you won’t live in a clod relationship forever, it’s as if they need that wake up call sometimes (crazy boys)

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold.html/comment-page-3#comment-58619 LibraLady Mon, 04 Jan 2010 16:51:40 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold/#comment-58619 minamay Ias married to a Libra man for 5 years, we'd been childhood friends then dated in high school, years later met up in our early twenties and he was very affectionate. One day he changed. After we were married he stopped being cuddly and became sexually charged, he stopped giving me hugs and kisses and wanted rough sex every day, and I don't mean once a day, he was never satisfied, not too many men can climax 3 times and are ready again in a half hour but he was, he was "sure" of me now, so why should he try making me happy, right? The more I tried to make him happy, his fave meals, showing interest in his lame video games ect, the more he withheld affection and when I confronted him he said that sex meant the same thing, I found out later that he suspected me of cheating (which was stupid, where would I get the energy?)and that he was trying to exhaust me so I'd stay home (I never went out) After 10 years of divorce I finally asked him, why he thought I was cheating, he said it was because of the way I looked.....Sometimes these boys are not smart, then he said the strangest thing, "I would have cheated on me" Maybe your guy has low self esteem and needs to find out why you care about him the way you do.... minamay
Ias married to a Libra man for 5 years, we’d been childhood friends then dated in high school, years later met up in our early twenties and he was very affectionate. One day he changed. After we were married he stopped being cuddly and became sexually charged, he stopped giving me hugs and kisses and wanted rough sex every day, and I don’t mean once a day, he was never satisfied, not too many men can climax 3 times and are ready again in a half hour but he was, he was “sure” of me now, so why should he try making me happy, right? The more I tried to make him happy, his fave meals, showing interest in his lame video games ect, the more he withheld affection and when I confronted him he said that sex meant the same thing, I found out later that he suspected me of cheating (which was stupid, where would I get the energy?)and that he was trying to exhaust me so I’d stay home (I never went out) After 10 years of divorce I finally asked him, why he thought I was cheating, he said it was because of the way I looked…..Sometimes these boys are not smart, then he said the strangest thing, “I would have cheated on me” Maybe your guy has low self esteem and needs to find out why you care about him the way you do….

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold.html/comment-page-3#comment-57262 LibraLady Mon, 14 Dec 2009 16:57:21 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold/#comment-57262 Chip Raw intensity? For me you bet! there are many times like that. I cant speak for other Libras but I've made snap decisions and didnt regret many, a few times when I listen to other people I regretted it, so I go with my instincts now, so far okay too :) Chip
Raw intensity? For me you bet! there are many times like that. I cant speak for other Libras but I’ve made snap decisions and didnt regret many, a few times when I listen to other people I regretted it, so I go with my instincts now, so far okay too :)

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold.html/comment-page-3#comment-57261 LibraLady Mon, 14 Dec 2009 16:53:47 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold/#comment-57261 Chip Hi, it never hurts to pre heat the oven. Right now Im crazy in love with a man that pre heats the oven every other day, if you love her keep pursuing... :) Minamay No, we are not all like that. I've never had trouble making up my mind. I love hot not cold and I'd kill or die for those I love. My Libra ex husband was the opposite, he is the "cold" libra type, selfish and cruel, glutunous and perverse, so no 2 libra are the same. My older brother is a hermit libra, and get this, the man I love is an Aquarian, in touch with his feelings and emotions, he's more emotional then I am, (which is very hard, I'm emotional) so I'm learning that Aquas are all different too. If you meet one Libra that is an a@#%$le it doesnt mean the next will be. Chip
Hi, it never hurts to pre heat the oven. Right now Im crazy in love with a man that pre heats the oven every other day, if you love her keep pursuing… :)

Minamay
No, we are not all like that. I’ve never had trouble making up my mind. I love hot not cold and I’d kill or die for those I love. My Libra ex husband was the opposite, he is the “cold” libra type, selfish and cruel, glutunous and perverse, so no 2 libra are the same. My older brother is a hermit libra, and get this, the man I love is an Aquarian, in touch with his feelings and emotions, he’s more emotional then I am, (which is very hard, I’m emotional) so I’m learning that Aquas are all different too. If you meet one Libra that is an a@#%$le it doesnt mean the next will be.

]]> By: minamay http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold.html/comment-page-3#comment-57000 minamay Fri, 11 Dec 2009 00:23:19 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/04/why-did-libra-turn-cold/#comment-57000 ooh and another thing,he suddenly turned cold to me after I told him about my feelings but he has never said anything about anything,I have no idea what he wants from me,what he feels...nothing then again everytime we hang out he makes plans for other days,he keeps making plans for us!!! he invites me to places,he says things like "when we" go there...or "I have to take you there" or "we have to go to that party" stuff like that and I seriously hate this,im starting to feel annoyed by his attitude even if I love the guy hes gonna end up by making me crazy and im gonna back off him i know...and i dont want that,hes a good person and great friend bu tseriously,are all libras like that?? why the hell cant you make up your mind!!! ooh and another thing,he suddenly turned cold to me after I told him about my feelings but he has never said anything about anything,I have no idea what he wants from me,what he feels…nothing
then again everytime we hang out he makes plans for other days,he keeps making plans for us!!!
he invites me to places,he says things like “when we” go there…or “I have to take you there” or “we have to go to that party”
stuff like that and I seriously hate this,im starting to feel annoyed by his attitude even if I love the guy hes gonna end up by making me crazy and im gonna back off him i know…and i dont want that,hes a good person and great friend bu tseriously,are all libras like that??
why the hell cant you make up your mind!!!

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