Why did Libra turn cold?
April 4, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
In early March, a Taurus wrote:
i arranged to go out for drink with a Libra, he agreed to meeting up and seemed quite friendly in his texts. Until the day of going out he textd me a blunt message saying he couldnt make it, i assume hes not interested but y did he turn cold
Today, presumably the same person wrote:
Im female had a date with Libra male. Before his texts were warm and friendly. He cancelled last minute saying couldnt make it his text was cold. Thought that was it. Then he text me after 3 weeks. I replied but not heard again yet. Help?
One wouldn’t normally accuse Libra of being cold. This Venus-ruled sign is charming and polite. Unfortunately, Libra goes out of his way to avoid offending anyone, and there may not always be a diplomatic way to cancel a date.
How to back out gracefully? I’ll leave matters of textiquette to Miss Manners. Although cell phones are a great medium for an air sign, it may be difficult to convey emotional subtleties via SMS. Just because a text feels cold doesn’t mean that was the texter’s intention. And besides, would it have been better for him to write that he was no longer sweet on you? I’m not sure a Libra would text anything to hurt your feelings. Maybe he thought that “i cant make it” was all he could muster.
And yet … he texted you three weeks later, and did not respond to your reply. Libra indecision for ya! Why don’t you just CALL HIM?! Tell him you like him but are getting mixed signals, and you want to know what’s up. Yes, it’s a risk (anathema to Taurus, I know), but it’s the easiest way to stop torturing yourself. If he’s not straight with you, take that into consideration when you continue pining for him.
Comment below: Have you known a Libra to turn cold? How do you make sense of it?
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I pray for you. I’m sorry that it had to happen.
As for you Gemini Woman, I don’t think he’s actually serious. Sex is sex. It can be special, or it can just be a one-time thing. Libra men, although they truly wish for their perfect partner, they tend to get really carried away when it ISN’T their top-choice “partner,” they know it. Just the other day, I found out my soulmate had a one-night stand with some random woman during a party. He didn’t care for that woman.
In other words, if he at the least shared some feelings, then perhaps it is real. However, if he pulls the dissapearing act like he is Houdini (or starts to distance himself real fast), pull away and get ready to move on. Don’t fall for a Libra man if you have even the slightest feeling that it won’t last so long. It hurts.