Should you trust a Scorpio man on blind faith?
April 3, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
God, no!
Should you trust anyone on blind faith? Scorpio wouldn’t. He’d hire a private investigator — if he weren’t a P.I. himself — to dig up all the dirt that can be found on you. Incriminating photographs, phone records, IM chat transcripts. If no evidence springs up after a good days’ work, he might trust you. But not on blind faith. There will always be that 1% suspicion that you covered your tracks like a pro.
Scorpio goes through the trouble because he knows — all too well — that people have secrets. Everyone’s got a skeleton in the closet, man. A dark past. Shady connections. He’s better than most at keeping his own indiscretions under wraps.
So there’s your answer, bub. Only a dupe would trust a Scorpio on blind faith.
Comment below: How long did it take you to trust him?
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Or a Pisces. I should be more Scorpionic. But when does a Scorpio finally stop being suspicious? Bc being distrustful can sure be hard, imo. Sometimes I wonder if the reason I trust people is that I’m too lazy to do all the footwork.
In order for a relationship to succeed, I think you have to trust. It does require a leap of faith. If you don’t suspend suspicion, you’ll never feel safe. Even if it’s an illusion, maybe it’s better to imagine that your partner is totally trustworthy than to constantly be looking for proof that they’re not.
I agree, trust is key.
Im a scorp, so for years I didnt trust anyone. It wasnt until I had kids that my heart truly opened and saw the beauty in trust. With kids, you have to trust. Im still such a sunny scorpio though. I do see the positive side of things, but its really easy to see whats hidden for me.
Scorp,
What’s your Moon and Rising?
Sag rising and aquarius moon. A walking enigma.
this is so funny … i am a cancer female and i’m “getting to know” a scorpio male. he thinks i don’t trust HIM and he’s so bent out of shape over it. i do, just not with my heart.
The heart and the mind work at different paces. You can rationally trust someone, but the heart remembers on a deeper level.
I would never trust a scorpio in a relationship sense as a friend yes they definitely make the best friends anyone could have, but speaking from experience we would die before revealing any of our hidden skeletons. I am a scorpio and i can tell u that nobody knows me at a full capacity level NOBODY..I am a scorpio, my moon, ascendant, sun and mercury and saturn are in scorpio.
@janis, I’m no Scorpio, but I imagine that TERROR is what prevents a Scorpio from revealing the skeletons in her closet. I believe that if you are in a truly safe, trusting relationship, you can risk cracking open the door. If you find out that you have not died, you can inch it open a little bit more.
and don’t forget to wear protective eyegear
Wait a sec, I’m confused Jeffrey. I thought you WERE a Scorpio? Or do you just have some Scorpio in your chart??
I’m a Pisces with Jupiter in Scorpio. However, I have a first house Pluto opposite Venus, so I feel like an honorary Scorpio.
I am a Gemini moon in Scorpio. I am dating Scorpio moon in Gemini. We are enthralled with one another yet most of what I have studied tells me that we are such a great match. What brings us together? I also study numerology and we match up splendidly there sharing Hearts Desire. He is also 11 years younger than me so I worry that the age thing along with our sgns will find us doomed. He seems very different than most of the Scorps I have been reading about. He has been living with me and is all about committing to me and my children. He loves me and wants me all to him. I want thesamebut is it real and is it possible?
I recently got back with a Scorpio ex. We were together for 18 months broke up for 18 months and we’ve been back together for about 2 weeks. We broke up the first time because he was in no way trustworthy and I was tired of being deceived…it seems this time that he has truly changed and is more comfortable both revealing himself and with trusting me (not that he isn’t without access to my practically empty closet)..funny thing is we RARELY mention what we did during those 18 months apart…
Im a scorpio, i have been in a relationship with a scorpio… and let me tell you that is one intense realtionship. I think the trust issue came up 24/7, but the bond that we shared was incredibally real and very passionate. I think we constantly reassured eachother how in love we were, which allowed us to connect even more on a deeper level. I think it the relationship overall was developed on lust, but because scorpios desire more than just a surface relationship it allowed us to connect emotionally as well. So scorpios, i reccomend this relationship, if your looking for a very intense emotional and physical partner.
Hmm.. should I trust a Scorpio now?
I think it’s better not to trust someone completely unless that person has proven himself/ herself over and over ^^.)
I’m a cancer woman, gemini rising, sagg moon – married to a scorpio man, libra rising. my sun is conjunct his moon, and my virgo and pluto in venus conjunct his virgo mars. my neptune is conjunct his sun and venus. we have a very emotional bond – and intuitive. i hear his words in my mind right before he speaks them (often enough tb scarey). i describe our sex as ‘other-worldly’ – it’s like an out of body experience, very intense. but i can’t seem to really let go and fully trust him – and it get’s in the way sometimes. don’t know if it’s me – or him -or us together?
I’ve been dating an INTENSE Scorpio for just a little over 3 months. This has been the most interesting relationship in all my years experience in the dating department. lol. He’s a true Scorpio man and loves attention from other women and is very secretive, which in turn kinda made it difficult for me, the Libra, to trust him. BUT I do. I just honestly feel that until he gives me a reason to not trust him, then I just should. He hasn’t done anything to date that would cause me to not trust him, and if he did. Then so be it. Trust would be gone and I would walk the other way.
I am a taurus… I just ended an eleven month relationship with a scorpio (like an hour ago) because i could not trust him. In the beginning of our relationship he said he was different than other guys… he wouldnt hurt me like my last boyfirend… a relationship that caused me to be very untrusting and have no faith in the future of our society. After catching him in a ew lies about his contact with other girls online i found myself acting once again as my own private investigator… which scorpio hates above all… his deleting private massages and refusal to let me see his conversations with other girls online, in combination with his anger and anxiety to the point of absolutely freaking out when i did look at his online interactions with others caused me to believe that he was cheating… there was no way I could stay with him anymore. Taurus values honesty openness and loyalty above all else in someone they are with… they need a partner… a second half. My scorpio was always asking me questions about what i was doing who i was with or who was calling or textig. he called me every few hours to see what was up. But the ability to check up on my actions apparently only went one way and i was not allowed to do the same to him… even when he was the one who we had proven a liar… not me.
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hey karen,
is his name justin? I think we might be talking about the same guy.
I don’t trust anyone fully and not sure if I ever will. It took me and my Scorp 2 years to build a trusting, loyal, respectful bond. I still don’t trust him “like that”, but I am not nosey either. I have been alone in his home and never went through his things. Never went through his wallet, car, his many rooms stacked up neatly with sh*t that he doesn’t need.
I never ask about other women. I tell him what he better not do and who he better not see and ask no questions. If my “womanly gut” tells me some heffa is sniffing around my man, I’m sure to unapologetically tell him what better not be happening.
Why bother worrying about someone cheating? If they are, they just are – has nothing to do with me.
Just don’t let me catch you. K? *smile*
I’d trust Noone on blind faith…Life has taught me this lesson too well…After you spit the gravel out of your teeth you stand up and you dont trust again for a LONG time….You cant trust anyone at blindfaith
Janis i disagree im a scorpio and im afraid of nothing and my scorpio woman has opened up to me as well.
thankx
Maddie miller thank you youve just givin me more hope in my scorpio scorpio relationship
Janis i disagree im a scorpio and im afraid of nothing and my scorpio woman has opened up to me as well.
thankx
Maddie miller thank you youve just givin me more hope in my scorpio scorpio relationship