Comments on: Seducing a Capricorn at the office http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:57:57 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: leo female http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51300 leo female Sun, 04 Oct 2009 12:28:38 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51300 The Goat- I am sure it is good advice, just not me. Feels too much like game playing. I am way to straightforward and honest for that. To my detriment I guess. I don't agree with you about the respect thing. There is a reason he became distant that I can't talk about here and it had nothing to do with me. Then I think he used that as an excuse to back off when it finally hit him. He has absolutely no qualms whatsoever about an office romance. Why would he email from his office on a holiday weekend when no one in their right mind is working so he could tell me i need to start meeting him at the office on weekends? This is what I don't get most. That is so confusing to me. I don't hear from him for weeks then that email. Are we on or off?? Hey, thanks though. Good to hear from the male perspective and from a cap since that's his moon. Women can only surmise about what men think, how they react, but we will never really know. The Goat-

I am sure it is good advice, just not me. Feels too much like game playing. I am way to straightforward and honest for that. To my detriment I guess.

I don’t agree with you about the respect thing. There is a reason he became distant that I can’t talk about here and it had nothing to do with me. Then I think he used that as an excuse to back off when it finally hit him. He has absolutely no qualms whatsoever about an office romance.

Why would he email from his office on a holiday weekend when no one in their right mind is working so he could tell me i need to start meeting him at the office on weekends? This is what I don’t get most. That is so confusing to me. I don’t hear from him for weeks then that email. Are we on or off??

Hey, thanks though. Good to hear from the male perspective and from a cap since that’s his moon. Women can only surmise about what men think, how they react, but we will never really know.

]]> By: the goat http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51296 the goat Sun, 04 Oct 2009 11:16:56 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51296 @leo female "Oh I mean business!! And according to him I am drop dead sexy. Not sure what you mean by lost respect office fling; it was his idea!!" of course it was his idea, the man wants something. i beleieve ur a attractive woman , so no real man is going to turn that down. libralady gave u good advice. @leo female
“Oh I mean business!! And according to him I am drop dead sexy. Not sure what you mean by lost respect office fling; it was his idea!!”

of course it was his idea, the man wants something. i beleieve ur a attractive woman , so no real man is going to turn that down.
libralady gave u good advice.

]]> By: the goat http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51295 the goat Sun, 04 Oct 2009 11:01:56 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51295 @Beautibull the whole straight up attitude,.......definite yes. we like a woman who can hold her own. @Beautibull
the whole straight up attitude,…….definite yes. we like a woman who can hold her own.

]]> By: the goat http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51294 the goat Sun, 04 Oct 2009 10:59:08 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51294 @Beautibull can it lead to emotional? that's a tough one, we caps can be lustful creatures. we can hold back a lot feelings. sometimes a cap man seeks a woman that can help him unleash that. if the conversation is good then u got something going. as a man, lot of times i can tell a woman what she wants to hear, but may feel totally different about it on the inside. understand his "feelings" when he is talking about things. then use that wild feminine mystique thing that drives us crazy. oh another thing, don't talk about ur self too much during convo. @Beautibull
can it lead to emotional?
that’s a tough one, we caps can be lustful creatures.
we can hold back a lot feelings. sometimes a cap man seeks a woman that can help him unleash that. if the conversation is good then u got something going. as a man, lot of times i can tell a woman what she wants to hear, but may feel totally different about it on the inside. understand his “feelings” when he is talking about things.
then use that wild feminine mystique thing that drives us crazy.
oh another thing, don’t talk about ur self too much during convo.

]]> By: Gemini gal http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51260 Gemini gal Sun, 04 Oct 2009 02:39:56 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51260 Man, as a Gemini in love with a Cap since I was 21 (now 45), reading these boards has been SUCH a relief. I've never known a man like him and even after all the years of our acquaintance have wondered often if I was crazy or just plain thick as a brick for not being able to figure out what was going on with him most of the time. It's enormously reassuring to know there are other people who have the same confusions with the Capricorns in their lives. I have no idea if, after a hiatus of a decade and a lot of life experiences on both our parts, we can rebuild a relationship or not, nor (even after all these years) can I tell if that's in fact what he wants or if he is simply being his surprisingly generous, gentle, supportive self. Either way, it doesn't much matter -- I've long ago come to terms with the fact that this simply is how I feel about this man, and after a quarter of a century I know it's not changing. Man, as a Gemini in love with a Cap since I was 21 (now 45), reading these boards has been SUCH a relief. I’ve never known a man like him and even after all the years of our acquaintance have wondered often if I was crazy or just plain thick as a brick for not being able to figure out what was going on with him most of the time. It’s enormously reassuring to know there are other people who have the same confusions with the Capricorns in their lives.

I have no idea if, after a hiatus of a decade and a lot of life experiences on both our parts, we can rebuild a relationship or not, nor (even after all these years) can I tell if that’s in fact what he wants or if he is simply being his surprisingly generous, gentle, supportive self. Either way, it doesn’t much matter — I’ve long ago come to terms with the fact that this simply is how I feel about this man, and after a quarter of a century I know it’s not changing.

]]> By: leo female http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51221 leo female Sat, 03 Oct 2009 14:25:45 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51221 Beautibull- I agree...all work and no play is not even healthy. I am totally serious about my work but I can work AND play at the same time!! My moon in cap guy used to be able to do both but now he's so uptight and it is such a downer. These guys need to loosen up!!!! Beautibull-

I agree…all work and no play is not even healthy. I am totally serious about my work but I can work AND play at the same time!! My moon in cap guy used to be able to do both but now he’s so uptight and it is such a downer. These guys need to loosen up!!!!

]]> By: Beautibull http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51210 Beautibull Sat, 03 Oct 2009 13:19:02 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51210 I just thought about this last part. He had not been returning my messages so I just asked him straight-up if he had received them. He said yes and apologized. He also said that he would call me later. My response was don't worry about it because I will see you in the office about this later. He called me on my cell much later that night from his personal number. I know he called me for business purposes but, would it be appropriate for me to text or call him back on that same number for pleasure? This whole serious attitude and overachieving workaholic thing is just mind-boggling to me. I respect it completely I just don't really understand it. I mean I am a bull so I know how to work to, but indulging in something absolutely sinful is so much more fun than work. I just thought about this last part. He had not been returning my messages so I just asked him straight-up if he had received them. He said yes and apologized. He also said that he would call me later. My response was don’t worry about it because I will see you in the office about this later. He called me on my cell much later that night from his personal number.

I know he called me for business purposes but, would it be appropriate for me to text or call him back on that same number for pleasure?

This whole serious attitude and overachieving workaholic thing is just mind-boggling to me. I respect it completely I just don’t really understand it. I mean I am a bull so I know how to work to, but indulging in something absolutely sinful is so much more fun than work.

]]> By: leo female http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51208 leo female Sat, 03 Oct 2009 12:46:15 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51208 Libra Lady- good advice. i just don't have it in my to do that. too shy. not typical leo that way. and when i get the brush off from him i become a shrinking violet!! came over to me at happy hour last night, which was a huge shock since he hasn't done that for months, and i couldn't really even talk to him since i have neither heard from him or seen hi at work for over a week. i mean that's just rude and cold. he thought i was down about work. WRONG!!! it's all him.... i'll try your advice, though, if i ever see him!! ough to be sexy around him when he seems to hide out at work... he does deserve torture but being a pisces he won't even get it.... Libra Lady-

good advice. i just don’t have it in my to do that. too shy. not typical leo that way. and when i get the brush off from him i become a shrinking violet!!
came over to me at happy hour last night, which was a huge shock since he hasn’t done that for months, and i couldn’t really even talk to him since i have neither heard from him or seen hi at work for over a week. i mean that’s just rude and cold. he thought i was down about work. WRONG!!! it’s all him….

i’ll try your advice, though, if i ever see him!! ough to be sexy around him when he seems to hide out at work…

he does deserve torture but being a pisces he won’t even get it….

]]> By: leo female http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51207 leo female Sat, 03 Oct 2009 12:37:35 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51207 The Goat- Oh I mean business!! And according to him I am drop dead sexy. Not sure what you mean by lost respect office fling; it was his idea!! I wouldn't say I am shallow; he and I actually have alot in common as far as our seriousness at work but not with that damn passive pisces thing!!! drives me nuts!! I wouldn't say toughen up, just get off the pot already!!!! The Goat-

Oh I mean business!! And according to him I am drop dead sexy. Not sure what you mean by lost respect office fling; it was his idea!!

I wouldn’t say I am shallow; he and I actually have alot in common as far as our seriousness at work but not with that damn passive pisces thing!!! drives me nuts!! I wouldn’t say toughen up, just get off the pot already!!!!

]]> By: Beautibull http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51204 Beautibull Sat, 03 Oct 2009 11:50:39 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51204 @ the goat: For Caps can just physical lead to emotional? From as far as I can tell the answer is, no. What do you think? I was unsure if it was physical or not because we usually have more substantive conversation. So, I am glad you think there is a physical attraction. I want to treat it like there is definitely more there than just the physical. I am hoping that this is the case. What is the best step to take? I mean serious how slow and sensitive do I need to be here? This has been going on for way too long as it is... Thanks for your earlier responses!!! @ the goat:

For Caps can just physical lead to emotional? From as far as I can tell the answer is, no. What do you think?

I was unsure if it was physical or not because we usually have more substantive conversation. So, I am glad you think there is a physical attraction.

I want to treat it like there is definitely more there than just the physical. I am hoping that this is the case. What is the best step to take? I mean serious how slow and sensitive do I need to be here? This has been going on for way too long as it is…

Thanks for your earlier responses!!!

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