Comments on: Seducing a Capricorn at the office http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:53:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Isadora http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-57895 Isadora Wed, 23 Dec 2009 17:04:31 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-57895 R9, thanks for your advice! It seems that if I decide to wait for him to approach, I will be waiting forever. Yesterday we were at the cafeteria at the same time and I said hello to him (oh boy, his face lit up, he was so happy!). He is sooo cute.... mmmm... Then we exchanged 2 sentences, but as I was with someone else, he left with his cup of coffee. He seems so reserved and shy and serious... Im cap too, but with 4 scoprio placements, so Im pretty impatient. Today I wrote him an email (an hour ago, after work...), I couldnt wait longer... 3 lines "Id like to get to know you, wishing you happy xmas.... bla bla". Waiting for the answer.... normally people dont check their work mail during the holidays, but he works in IT, so I hope he does... Im turning crazyyyy. R9, thanks for your advice!

It seems that if I decide to wait for him to approach, I will be waiting forever. Yesterday we were at the cafeteria at the same time and I said hello to him (oh boy, his face lit up, he was so happy!). He is sooo cute…. mmmm… Then we exchanged 2 sentences, but as I was with someone else, he left with his cup of coffee. He seems so reserved and shy and serious…
Im cap too, but with 4 scoprio placements, so Im pretty impatient. Today I wrote him an email (an hour ago, after work…), I couldnt wait longer… 3 lines “Id like to get to know you, wishing you happy xmas…. bla bla”. Waiting for the answer…. normally people dont check their work mail during the holidays, but he works in IT, so I hope he does… Im turning crazyyyy.

]]> By: R9 http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-57868 R9 Wed, 23 Dec 2009 06:11:16 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-57868 To Isadora <-- Nice name lol. Ok, well your right he seems that he his shy. Ok, if he said "hello" then great. What you need to do is approach him,and talk to him. Get to know him a lil, but not too much. Be yourself, and throw a little humor in there. If he is as shy as I think he is, then he is not going to approach. Capricorns rarely do that. Just make sure you have a good bit to talk about, because we don't tend to say much. And definitly do not talk about work. lol. Good luck : ). To Isadora <– Nice name lol.

Ok, well your right he seems that he his shy. Ok, if he said "hello" then great.

What you need to do is approach him,and talk to him. Get to know him a lil, but not too much. Be yourself, and throw a little humor in there.
If he is as shy as I think he is, then he is not going to approach. Capricorns rarely do that. Just make sure you have a good bit to talk about, because we don't tend to say much. And definitly do not talk about work. lol. Good luck : ).

]]> By: Isadora http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-57738 Isadora Sun, 20 Dec 2009 20:58:22 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-57738 Cap guy, I need an advice too! Im attracted to a work colleague too, I know that he is a cap, but he works for a different department, so our paths cross rarely (the organization we work for is huge, we are hundreds in the same building....), mainly in the canteen and cafeteria. 2 months ago he started to give me these penetrating eyes every time we cross, he eats in the same corner as me, he stops eating at the same time and comes into the cafeteria, but we never talked... he seems so shy. Maybe these crossings are purely casual and he doesnt feel a thing (my female intuition tells me something IS going on), but 2 weeks ago he told me "hello" for the first time (he doesnt know me, but I know his name, did a lil investigation:))). Im turning crazy, Id like to approach him! Im wondering if it is my fantasy.... Should I have patience and wait him to approach me (if he really is interested...)? He seems very serious and workaholic and not playboy. Thanks! Cap guy, I need an advice too!

Im attracted to a work colleague too, I know that he is a cap, but he works for a different department, so our paths cross rarely (the organization we work for is huge, we are hundreds in the same building….), mainly in the canteen and cafeteria. 2 months ago he started to give me these penetrating eyes every time we cross, he eats in the same corner as me, he stops eating at the same time and comes into the cafeteria, but we never talked… he seems so shy. Maybe these crossings are purely casual and he doesnt feel a thing (my female intuition tells me something IS going on), but 2 weeks ago he told me “hello” for the first time (he doesnt know me, but I know his name, did a lil investigation:))).
Im turning crazy, Id like to approach him! Im wondering if it is my fantasy….
Should I have patience and wait him to approach me (if he really is interested…)? He seems very serious and workaholic and not playboy. Thanks!

]]> By: Cap guy http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-57727 Cap guy Sun, 20 Dec 2009 13:33:35 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-57727 Ok, I wanna help beautibull out a lil. He is obviously attracted to you, and if he is giving penetrating eyes then he either likes you or he likes to mess with your head. I tend do that with a taurus girl, and she gets that same feeling and I ended up dating her, but she ended to be too crazy for me (going across the street and down the road). Anyways, I just wanna tell you this small tip, do not chase him or be persistent with him. Let him be the chaser, we love that it is very exciting. Flirt with him, mesmorize him...don't be afraid to express feelings for him, because if you open up then he will open up. Personally I show respect toward that. Ok, I wanna help beautibull out a lil. He is obviously attracted to you, and if he is giving penetrating eyes then he either likes you or he likes to mess with your head. I tend do that with a taurus girl, and she gets that same feeling and I ended up dating her, but she ended to be too crazy for me (going across the street and down the road). Anyways, I just wanna tell you this small tip, do not chase him or be persistent with him. Let him be the chaser, we love that it is very exciting. Flirt with him, mesmorize him…don’t be afraid to express feelings for him, because if you open up then he will open up. Personally I show respect toward that.

]]> By: leo female http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51300 leo female Sun, 04 Oct 2009 12:28:38 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51300 The Goat- I am sure it is good advice, just not me. Feels too much like game playing. I am way to straightforward and honest for that. To my detriment I guess. I don't agree with you about the respect thing. There is a reason he became distant that I can't talk about here and it had nothing to do with me. Then I think he used that as an excuse to back off when it finally hit him. He has absolutely no qualms whatsoever about an office romance. Why would he email from his office on a holiday weekend when no one in their right mind is working so he could tell me i need to start meeting him at the office on weekends? This is what I don't get most. That is so confusing to me. I don't hear from him for weeks then that email. Are we on or off?? Hey, thanks though. Good to hear from the male perspective and from a cap since that's his moon. Women can only surmise about what men think, how they react, but we will never really know. The Goat-

I am sure it is good advice, just not me. Feels too much like game playing. I am way to straightforward and honest for that. To my detriment I guess.

I don’t agree with you about the respect thing. There is a reason he became distant that I can’t talk about here and it had nothing to do with me. Then I think he used that as an excuse to back off when it finally hit him. He has absolutely no qualms whatsoever about an office romance.

Why would he email from his office on a holiday weekend when no one in their right mind is working so he could tell me i need to start meeting him at the office on weekends? This is what I don’t get most. That is so confusing to me. I don’t hear from him for weeks then that email. Are we on or off??

Hey, thanks though. Good to hear from the male perspective and from a cap since that’s his moon. Women can only surmise about what men think, how they react, but we will never really know.

]]> By: the goat http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51296 the goat Sun, 04 Oct 2009 11:16:56 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51296 @leo female "Oh I mean business!! And according to him I am drop dead sexy. Not sure what you mean by lost respect office fling; it was his idea!!" of course it was his idea, the man wants something. i beleieve ur a attractive woman , so no real man is going to turn that down. libralady gave u good advice. @leo female
“Oh I mean business!! And according to him I am drop dead sexy. Not sure what you mean by lost respect office fling; it was his idea!!”

of course it was his idea, the man wants something. i beleieve ur a attractive woman , so no real man is going to turn that down.
libralady gave u good advice.

]]> By: the goat http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51295 the goat Sun, 04 Oct 2009 11:01:56 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51295 @Beautibull the whole straight up attitude,.......definite yes. we like a woman who can hold her own. @Beautibull
the whole straight up attitude,…….definite yes. we like a woman who can hold her own.

]]> By: the goat http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51294 the goat Sun, 04 Oct 2009 10:59:08 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51294 @Beautibull can it lead to emotional? that's a tough one, we caps can be lustful creatures. we can hold back a lot feelings. sometimes a cap man seeks a woman that can help him unleash that. if the conversation is good then u got something going. as a man, lot of times i can tell a woman what she wants to hear, but may feel totally different about it on the inside. understand his "feelings" when he is talking about things. then use that wild feminine mystique thing that drives us crazy. oh another thing, don't talk about ur self too much during convo. @Beautibull
can it lead to emotional?
that’s a tough one, we caps can be lustful creatures.
we can hold back a lot feelings. sometimes a cap man seeks a woman that can help him unleash that. if the conversation is good then u got something going. as a man, lot of times i can tell a woman what she wants to hear, but may feel totally different about it on the inside. understand his “feelings” when he is talking about things.
then use that wild feminine mystique thing that drives us crazy.
oh another thing, don’t talk about ur self too much during convo.

]]> By: Gemini gal http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51260 Gemini gal Sun, 04 Oct 2009 02:39:56 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51260 Man, as a Gemini in love with a Cap since I was 21 (now 45), reading these boards has been SUCH a relief. I've never known a man like him and even after all the years of our acquaintance have wondered often if I was crazy or just plain thick as a brick for not being able to figure out what was going on with him most of the time. It's enormously reassuring to know there are other people who have the same confusions with the Capricorns in their lives. I have no idea if, after a hiatus of a decade and a lot of life experiences on both our parts, we can rebuild a relationship or not, nor (even after all these years) can I tell if that's in fact what he wants or if he is simply being his surprisingly generous, gentle, supportive self. Either way, it doesn't much matter -- I've long ago come to terms with the fact that this simply is how I feel about this man, and after a quarter of a century I know it's not changing. Man, as a Gemini in love with a Cap since I was 21 (now 45), reading these boards has been SUCH a relief. I’ve never known a man like him and even after all the years of our acquaintance have wondered often if I was crazy or just plain thick as a brick for not being able to figure out what was going on with him most of the time. It’s enormously reassuring to know there are other people who have the same confusions with the Capricorns in their lives.

I have no idea if, after a hiatus of a decade and a lot of life experiences on both our parts, we can rebuild a relationship or not, nor (even after all these years) can I tell if that’s in fact what he wants or if he is simply being his surprisingly generous, gentle, supportive self. Either way, it doesn’t much matter — I’ve long ago come to terms with the fact that this simply is how I feel about this man, and after a quarter of a century I know it’s not changing.

]]> By: leo female http://sasstrology.com/2007/04/seducing-capricorn-at-office.html/comment-page-1#comment-51221 leo female Sat, 03 Oct 2009 14:25:45 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/04/20/seducing-a-capricorn-at-the-office/#comment-51221 Beautibull- I agree...all work and no play is not even healthy. I am totally serious about my work but I can work AND play at the same time!! My moon in cap guy used to be able to do both but now he's so uptight and it is such a downer. These guys need to loosen up!!!! Beautibull-

I agree…all work and no play is not even healthy. I am totally serious about my work but I can work AND play at the same time!! My moon in cap guy used to be able to do both but now he’s so uptight and it is such a downer. These guys need to loosen up!!!!

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