Can a watery Gemini woman and an Aquarius man last as a couple?
April 10, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Aquamarine writes:
Dear Jeffrey,Along your various posts, you ‘ve seemed to consider that Aquarius & Gemini, if not star-crossed, are not altogether a match made in heaven. I’m a Gemini woman with Cancer rising, a Scorpio moon, and Venus in 1st House and conjunct Cancer, if that’s any help… I’ve just started a relationship with an Aqua guy: conversation rocks even if we often agree to disagreee, sex is great although I’d like him to be more of a lingerer before serious stuff begins, the only thing is I find him way too detached, as he would be; but I’ve also read somewhere that a gemini with cancer rising is all an aquarius man needs, what with her gentle yet relentless energy to support and stabilize him.
I’d be super grateful to hear your take on all this. Do you think we could last as a couple, starwise of course?
I don’t recall stating that Aquarius and Gemini are star-crossed. In fact, these air signs get along well. Unfortunately, you’re water-heavy, which does not fit well with Aquarius. With your Moon in Scorpio and a first-house Venus in Cancer, you are focused on intimacy. Someone with Venus close to the Ascendant looks to her environment with an eye for beauty and love, and this goddess’ placement in Cancer adds a romantic, sentimental touch. A far cry from cold, detached Aquarius, if you ask me.
Additionally, with the Moon in Scorpio, you delve deeply into the world of emotions, and feel most secure when you are intensely intimate with another. Another Aquarius repellent. So although your chatty Gemini Sun connects intellectually with the Water Bearer, many of your important chart factors clash with this distant sign. Unless he, too, has some water in his chart to orient him towards closeness, he may be put off by all the lovey-doveyness of your Venus.
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I’m a watery aquarius with a moon in scorpio with asc sign gemini. My husband is a gemini with moon in scorpio and leo rising. I’ve never connected to another (air sign boyfriend) in my past like I do him. It was instant connection since the moment we meet. We fullfill each others emotional needs and he’s noted that many times. I’ve always attracted gemini but none have fit me well i guess I needed a partner with some water in his sign. Kinda of the same situation but flipped since I’m a aquarius and he’s gemini.
Good luck to you!
Thank you so much Jeffrey, this is really spot on, amazingly accurate even….Unfortunately…Yeah, we’re kind of estranged at the moment, and the first thing I told him that I knew would be a pb is that I knew I needed more intimacy than him – to date I don’t have a clue about his asc or moon sign – he does consider himself sentimental, though, more than me!! so he said, so maybe there’s hope!
And thanks to aquagirl for wishing me luck. Hopefully, I’ll keep you posted…
Wow Aquagirl, your husband sounds like a perfect fit for you, astrologically speaking anyway. I’m wondering what you and your hubby’s Venus/Mars signs are.
By the way, my ex boyfriend is also a gemini with moon in scorpio and leo rising. Are we talking about the same person?
I’ll bet not, because my ex is…emotionally stunted to say the least.
Also, go Moon in Scorpios!
hehe
My husbands venus and mars is in cancer. Thats probably what makes him a softy.
Yeah moon in scorpio does rock!:)
Are you an air sunsign?
If only I could meet a man with venus/mars in Cancer. *sigh*
To answer your question, no I’m not an air sun sign, although I get along well with you all (mom, dad, brother, 2 exes, and many current good friends are air signs).
My sun is in Cancer, but nobody can tell, what with my Sag rising and venus/mars in Gemini.
But underneath all that air/fire is a Cancer sun/Scorpio moon combo dying to meet a “softy” who can appreciate (and give) a good cuddle.
I can see why you would get along with air signs.
Good luck finding that “softy.”:)
I have my sun in gemini, moon in scorpio, and asc in cancer. On top of that, my current love interest is an aqua man. Couldn’t be happier! His moon is in cancer and his rising.. libra, So I am a tad bit more emotional than he is but everything is working out fine. I also read about how “aquarius’ attract more of the emotional type of people because that’s what they lack and those relationships work out just fine if not great”.
Aqua men are sentimental though, they just don’t know how to show emotion and aren’t very comfortable with it. I’ve never met a more loyal partner than him. He is manipulative though, dang his cancer moon!BUT everything is working out fine for me! (as far as I know) Good luck! If you have any questions email me chrisssssstina@netscape.net i would be glad to answer any questions
Hello from another Gemini sun, Scorpio moon, Cancer rising! Nice to know there are several of you out there… Jeffrey likes the Gemini/Scorpio dynamic between partners, but I find it hard to reconcile the different parts of myself sometimes
I am also in a relationship with an Aquarius man (libra moon, aquarius venus, cancer mars). I tell him he has no heart, but he is as thoughtful as can be… just doesn’t spend any amount of time feeling… anything. The issue we are working on is that he does not know how to relate when I go to any depth… can’t comprehend what I’m talking about. I love spirituality and the abstract and wish he could go there with me.
Any advice from those of you who have experience with these kinds of guys is very appreciated! Thanks!