Are Libras unfaithful?
April 19, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
There’s been a short discussion in the comments section on Does Uranus in the Seventh House automatically mean infidelity?
proserpine wrote,
I have heard … that Moon in Libra means the person is unfaithful in relationships, but that that placement often means the native will have two relationships at the same time(or want to have them). Libra Sun will often have two relationships–and *that* I can testify to–personally, and second-hand.:-).I have known a few Moon-in-Libra folks and they often do have more than one love affair going on.
I scoured the web a bit to look into this, because it’s not something I’ve heard about. (Was I not invited to the cheating party?)
novareinna writes, “Libra is easily attracted to other individuals and fidelity is not this Sign’s strong suit…although ironically, there may be evidence of jealousy on both sides at displays of such disloyal behavior.”
Victoria Bazeley writes in the larger context of afflictions to Neptune in Libra, “I get a bit suspicious when I see a lot of Libra in any chart (including a Libra Ascendant), although I don’t actually have the hard data to back up my suspicions.”
Granted, I don’t have any personal planets in Libra, so this sign is somewhat alien to me. But conceptually, Libran infidelity doesn’t make sense. Yes, they’re flirtatious, but among the air signs, Libra would be the least likely to cheat. Aquarius is the sign of independence, and Gemini is the sign of “twos,” needing variety to keep stimulated. Libra is just so focused on partnership — why would they be unfaithful?
Perhaps indecision would be one culprit. Libra may be torn between two (or more) lovers, because they’re constantly balancing each person’s virtues and faults.
Libra is ruled by Venus, whose counterpart is Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love and beauty. Aphrodite frequently cheated on her hubby, Hephaestus. If you are a Libra, the sign placement of your Venus will be especially significant. Due to its proximity to the Sun, Venus can only be within two signs of either side of Libra, so that would mean Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio and Sagittarius. Venus in Sag would be prone to play the field.
I also suspect that the outer planets may have something to do with this reputation. Boomers born between 1943 and 1956 have Neptune in Libra, and people born between 1968 and 1975 have Uranus in Libra. Any Libras born during either of these periods are likely (using a 10 degree orb for a conjuction to one’s Sun) to have their basic nature influenced by either of these powerful planets.
Victoria Bazeley again writes,
afflictions to Neptune in Libra (affecting the generation now in its 50s) have proven to be problematic in a number of cases. (Libra is the sign of marriage, so this is a blending of the symbols for deception and marriage!)
And people with Uranus-Sun conjuctions need their share of freedom, not to mention the fact that Uranus in Libra breaks down the conventions of marriage.
Anyone with a Moon in Libra who was born during these two periods will likely have a Moon-Neptune or Moon-Uranus conjunction, which correspond, respectively, with poor boundaries or a need for independence in relationships.
I’m not convinced Libra deserves this bad rap, but I’m open to your comments below. My Aquarian Moon wants some logical explanations, though.
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that annoys me to suprisigly could it be that he woulndt know shed cheat. Im sorrt sweetexistance ive taknen an interested in observing the both of you. On a libra part heartless almost detached and a bit selfish but maybe this only describes younger libras. Dropped fast but in truth maybe its in there mind set not to waste time. Well there are my thoughts so far. Ill give more in due time. Since ive taken interest in this i’ll be reading and researching and waiting to see how your debate ends.
I am a Libra woman and I have never cheated on anyone. I’m a fairly young Libra too (23).
I have Venus in Scorpio and the Moon in Cancer, so that might have something to do with it. When I love someone, I’m very loyal, devoted…I just want to make the other person feel incredibly loved, needed, and appreciated…I also have a strong need to heal in love: to make the other person feel secure, emotionally safe (i.e., that he can be himself with me), content, and connected to someone who cares for him deeply and who is faithful to him. I would also expect my partner to be faithful to me as well.
To me, the whole concept of cheating doesn’t make any logical sense. If you just want sex and not a relationship, be honest about that. If you want a relationship to survive, keep it alive with romance and affection–relationships are living things and need to be cared for. If you have tried everything and a relationship just isn’t going to work, leave and give the other person a chance to find someone new (and give yourself this chance too!) who’s more compatible. That’s only fair. There are so many other options when it comes to not being satisfied with a relationship: talking it out, reflection, therapy, breaking up, etc. Cheating though is wrong because it’s a betrayal of trust. Plus, for me anyway, I never have eyes for anyone else when I really and truly care for someone: whenever I see another guy, I am reminded of why I love the one that I love and of what I like about him.
So, those of you who have been hurt by some of my fellow Libras, take note: we are not ALL like that.
And as for Virgos…I personally find that many of them are very kind. I also like how many Virgo men appreciate intelligence in a woman ^_^. There’s a certain purity to many Virgos–purity of mind, heart, and spirit. Granted, you will meet some Virgos who have really badly-placed ascendants, moons, and Venus signs, and Virgos who manifest more of the negative traits of the sign, but those are the exception, not the rule. I’ve usually found Virgos to be delightful, loyal, and honest. Not every Virgo is nice–there are good and bad types of every sign–but overall I’ve never had major problems with them.
I have a Libra ascendent and Ive never cheated, but I do flirt!
I have alot of Libra friends and have dated 3 Libras, I notice from my friends that they are faithful to the person they truely unconditionally in love with and commited to the person they simply love. Theres a big difference! But once they stray… you can consider the relationship over way before they strayed, they just didnt know how to break the other persons heart yet and are usually already attached to this new person. Their kind of innocently unaware of just how deep they wound a person by prolonging the inevitable with their reasoning being [I still care about the other person and I feel "responsible" for their feelings so maybe if im cold enough THEY will leave.]
Which is so far from the truth, its a selfish act for an unselfish logic. The sign of balance though might not mean these indivduals ARE infact balanced, from a third persons perspective theyll say, “Nah Libra thats not fair to just keep stringin that girl on while your attached to the other one.” than libra feels pressured by the statues quo of how love SHOULD his logic seems to everyone else unfair to both women and since libra is the sign of relationships he takes what others say and is now married to a women he didnt truely love but, simply loved.
And thats hard to understand for most people… you love nature, you love chocolate and you can love moments you love this womens beauty or that womens romantic gestures, for libras its difficult to see why people think the joy of life comes principally from the joy of human relationships, love is all around us its in everything and its for everyone. Their country is the world, and their religion is to love and do good.
But all that love its not easy loving the external entity that is THE “relationship” giving energy and love to that entity permanently for a libra is a hard lesson sometimes because there is so much to LOVE, but they learn true happiness is only real when shared.
Libra’s goal is relationships not careless sex, some “date” aggressively in their youth though which can hurt alot of admirers. But eventually they learn not to be so love drunk and inlove with aspects of relationships and choose to settle down and find true love to share.
I also see libras give as much as they get, so if they feel the unbalance in the love thats shared from the other person than thats a misdemeanor on the offender for not being fair, so it wouldnt be unfair is libra chooses to get their fill of love elsewhere. LOL! I know I know… alot of people might not agree with that rationality. And not all sun libras behave the exact same way.
Sadgie:
So if a Libra cheats on you does that automatically mean that they are not “in love” with you but simly just love you?
Pisces Queen:
Thats my opinion only because… well im not a libra so im only speaking out of observation here. But Libra’s concept of love is different from alot of other peoples concept. And Libra is the sign of relationships, so their soul journey in this life is about love, balance and relationships. Through relationships they get balance which to them is love you being the ying to their yang kinda thing. And sometimes Libras get caught up in finding the balance with someone that is only them working for the balance they can end up sacrificing their time, energy and whatever other resources into a relationship that should naturally be balanced already.
Thats just my opinion.
Thanks Sadgie
Sadgie
Very good observation….I tried to make it work, I was the busy Libra in the reltionship, my Libra ex, he was sort of along for the ride, I never called it balance though, I called it repairing. Constantly trying to fix every little crack in the dam, Of course, Libra against Libra can make a dam explode…..
Both Scorpio rising too, somehow made it worse
Pisces Queen
If anyone cheats on you they are a creep…Regardless of sign or age. Not all Libras cheat and I cant imagine anyone that creepy being capable of love….If I fell out of love with someone I would tell them and move on, then I could see other people…I hate cheaters and I resent the fact that men always suspect me of this behavoir just because I smile at everyone, I smile at women too and at the neighbors cat, I wouldnt sleep with any of them either LOL
my ex had a venus in libra. he cheated on me by saying it came from the thing that he was cheated by his aries ex girlfriend. however, in his next relationship with a different girl he kept cheating and cheating. at one point, they ended up having an open relationship cuz the girl herself (venus in aries) wanted to be with different men.
I’m a Libra and have never cheated on my boyfriends. In the beginning of the dating phase, I have dated other guys. But once there is an established relationship, I tend to have only eyes and heart for that person. Even when the relationship has soured beyond repair and is on its last legs I can’t bring myself to stray. Part of is a loyalty, while I’m a bit of a flirt and love attention, the act of following through on cheating doesn’t appeal to me. There’s always something that prevents me, could be some moral compass or the fact that I tend to value my lover/boyfriend. I have those lighthearted daydream fantasies about running away with another guy, but normally when the relationship is on bad terms.
The funny part is I’m currently being cheated on in my relationship. It was so traumatizing, it was a huge betrayal. There’s something so horrifying about being lied to and the act of deception that is completely overrides the whole “sex with another person” thing. Right now I am still in that relationship still, but I intuitively know that it won’t be for the long haul. I could never marry or be with someone longterm like that. But when I love it’s hard to say goodbye. Aiyaiyai.
I am a libra.. I admit after several years of being in a relationship that has gone sour.. if you are in a relationship and the romance and the fire is gone. Someone good looking come along that shows you the affection you haven’t had in two years.. it is possible to cheat. i have cheated before I will admit, it happened once. It was because I was severly unhappy in my relationship. A happy libra won’t cheat!
Libra women usually dont cheat. The men do. My boyfriend’s friend is a libra with venus in scorpio. And currently he is in a relationship, but goes secretly at night to meet someone else.
Inspector of Venus:
Has he ever said why he does that?
haha to tell you thr truth a libra cheats . but they cheat because they easily get annoyed and get tired of a relationship they will feel bad and wont tell the partner the truth of what happen this reason is because ibras hate to hurt peoples feelings they love keeping people happy they flirt and love to be in love so when ever a men looks at a libra they immidatly think damn what do i do hes so cute oh welll am going for it. i know because i am a libra and i have cheated on all my relationships . AND ITS NOT BECAUSE I AM A SLUT I JUST GET BORED EASILY SORRY
Hi there Pisces queen, I am not sure about which libra guy you are asking here, but I’ll talk about the two I mentioned.
My ex cheated on me because back then I got busy with my school and gave him less calls. He told me he was in fear that I was going to walk out of his life and so he ended up catching another’s tail. When I asked my bf what is wrong with his friend he simply told me that the guy can’t resist temptation. He told my bf he feels bad to hurt anyone. Interestingly, his looks and the way he talks attract women very easily. So they invite him and he accepts it.The woman who is his real girlfriend goes through intense insecurity and often finds herself bursting into tears in public when she catches his eyes “wandering”. They often argue about his behavior. I must also say here that she is a fire sign and thus likes to control the relationship. My boyfriend told me the guy doesn’t like that, but at the same time he doesn’t want to break up with her because she is highly educated and has a job through which she makes him dine and wine in fine restaurants. So you can say that the guy is a gold digger and is with her because of her money.
As a Libra woman that never cheated I think I’ve done worse really, there are worse things than cheating. For me it’s my heart that strays, I can fall in love with a guy then get over him so fast if things didnt work out then fall in love again with another, this cycle has happened since I was very young, go to the dance with a date? I had 4 boys show up at my door, all buddies yet the prettiest girl at my school lived 2 doors down from me and didnt have a date ??? These things would bore me, the jock guys bored me, the guys trying to get my attention bored me, then there would always be that boy with the cute freckles on his nose that he tried to shade with his glasses, you know that kid with the funny walk, always trying to hide from everyone, that was the guy I wanted……I would deliberatley bump into him in the hallway, the other girls would call him a geek but they didnt see how cute he was, he always smelled like outdoors, my arms would ache to wrap around him, I just wanted to get near him….There were a lot of boys like that and I would fall for them over and over while the jocks made fools of themselves in the cafeteria picking on the tiger hiding in the plain navy sweater, (they all had that sexy sweater)
I would always find another one of these guys to secretly love and they would always avoid me like the plague…..cheating heart LOL
I definitley agree, us libras Heart can stray. If I am not Happy I will leave witH no Hesitation, still will Have love for tHem, but not as blossoming as it was before; also we are romantics so we would be on cloud nine about a person we tHink fits our ideal love, we will daydream about tHem and all tHat good stuff, but as soon as He mess up, it is like someone poke my dream wit a needle and I become more observant and will feel not feel I on cloud nine anymore.. My ex once told me air signs, especially libras, blow just like tHe wind, we are unpredictable and cHangeable, in wHicH interrelates witH our indecisiveness. I am 23, so a few years ago If I felt like sometHing was wrong and was not Happy. I will just leave witHout no explanation because I didnt want to Hurt His feelings, I like to please and make otHers Happy, and I know tHat news would not make Him Happy. I look at it now, I felt like it was a coward move so I did not do tHat no more, and If I know sometHing is wrong in tHe relationsHip I will converse my issues witH my partner ratHer not say notHing at all. If a Libra is Happy, we would not stray, if we are giving reassurance, we will feel security in tHe relationsHip and not stray.
Since laying eyes on my guy almost 2 months ago, Ive suddenly lost interest in flirting with anyone else, funny how thats never happened before. I dont even notice other guys anyomre, its freaky…I’ve never cheated in the past but have always had a flirtatios nature…What the heck happened? ha ha
I’m Libra,with Moon in Cancer and Venus in Sagittarius (!!!!) and i’ve never cheated on anyone!It is really true the fact that we think the pros and cons of anyone and sometimes we’re very undecided between 2 lovers but when we’re REALLY in love nothing can’t stop us being faithful!
BubbleBee, this is interesting. I think I am now in love with a Libra man with moon in Cancer and Venus in Sagittarius (as yours). I am Taurus with Libra moon and Venus in Gemini. (Besides, my north node conjunct his Ascendent in Capricorn.) I feel very close to him as if we had grown up together. Sometimes I feel loved by him but some other times I see he shows his caring to some others too. That may be the way he always is, but that somehow doesn’t make me feel special, and in doubt if he secretly has other girls due to his sweetness. Sometimes I found he turned cold and felt he was not telling me truth. We used to have arguement, and after the arguement, I always felt that was the end, and thought of moving on though it was hurt. One way or the other, he just turned the relationship back to normal, and I responded to it.
Hey, im a lucky libra with a whole lot to say about this. i cant speak for all the other lucky libras like myself but i can say, even tho i love who i was with very much i still ended up sneaking around. i love making girls happy and if showing them a good night is what it takes then i would. but in the end i’d feel horrible. because now im a cheatr and my heart only beats for her. i get torn in two. i’d say first and last time but it’d happen again with sumone else.there was a time when i was loyal to the fullest, but then my girl came to me saying she kissed someone so i think thats where it all started. i dont think i flirt but i get told i do it all the time. but anyways libras are faithful. jus dont stear us wrong. we’d still love you but it;d never be the same.
Junior, what do you mean by “we’d still love you but it’d never be the same”? What would never be the same….the way Libras show their love to their lover? or what?
TauSunLibMoon
I think Junior means that Libras fall in love so many times that each one feels stronger….I still love the guy that I was engaged to and disappeared but I’m in love with another now and it’s stronger….I think its a sad fact, the libra heart gets stronger each time it gets broken, which makes the next heart ache even worse. Your new lover will hurt you more then the last because you have more love for them…It sucks being at Venus mercy
I am a libra im not to sure what my ‘moon’ lies but I am definitely a libra. I do I agree with you Libralady. We libra’s do fall in love a lot ..’in love with love’..And at times we mistaken the love for lust …ect..I have cheated before toward the end of a disater relationship where I was being constantly cheated on and didnt know it. Now older I am more mature and have learned to end the relationship before cheating. I have always been comitted when I am in a relationship. But when I get hurt the lioness claws flare out …I am learning how to calm her down when her heart is in pain
I do feel that ultimately if a person wants to cheat he/she will cheat and it does not determine the sign it depends on the character of the person and his/her situation.
LibraLady and librachocolata, thank you for sharing your ideas. I don’t like cheating at all, and am always honest to the one I love. I am not sure if this is becos of my Sun in Taurus or my moon in Libra.
hi, i am a libra female. i cheat sometimes and other times i dn’t. if i respect the person and their intentions for me are good i would not cheat, but if i feel the person has hidden unwanted emotions for me then i would cheat. if i lose respect for you or am unhappy i will cheat. but it’s not really that i am going to go looking for someone to cheat with but instead i am wide open for any guy to take my heart. i am not the best person when it comes to breaking up so i normally become distant in the relationship 1st. i think that’s a lot of time for my lover to realize something is wrong and try to repair our love, but if instead my lover chose to not try to work it out, or continue to argue, or do not return to their loving ways toward me they make it much easier to leave or cheat. i love to love! i feel i was born to love, everyday i give love out to strangers without asking for anything in return. i feel someone who loves that much needs someone just as loving. so now i am single, and i am praying for a libra guy. i feel maybe he’s the only one that might understand me and my crazy behaviors.the funny thing is i come off so calm and collected in public, but my mind never stops thinking and it can be a bit much to handle at times.peace
Well, it all depends on the situation at hand. No, I haven’t cheated on anyone who has claimed me for their own…actually asked me to be with them. However, if I am just supposed to be ‘friends’ with the man I was sleeping with, and we were separated for some time, (in my youth of course), I had relations with other guys. Sometimes I fully regretted it, but generally they were only in it for sex too. Nowadays, I wouldn’t dream of cheating on someone who was kind enough to ask me to be with them…I prefer to be monogamous…it is too risky not to be for a start, and I will only give myself to someone who really cares for me now. I know many Libra men who have strayed from their wives, but those wives also hen-pecked them or put them down, so they were trying to find love elsewhere. So, if you want them to stay close, treat them well and don’t give them reason to stray…simple!
I’m a Libra girl. I got tons of guys waiting in line for me but I always end up dating ones that weren’t the best out of them. That’s the weird part of me. I hate to cheat! When the relationship is going down, i’d take a break up and then move on. There’s no need to cheat. Cheating sucks!
I always feel there are 2 different persons living inside of me. At times, I got this simple charming, innocent but elegant look with this very graceful manner that would be easily to catch any person’s attention. Although, I’m pretty flirty, but in a sophisticated way. I also look too innocent to the point where lots of people thought i never kissed anyone, or didn’t do anything like that when they first met me (even tho im 21 already!! And the relationship im in right now is the 7th!!). But at other times, I can talk like a gang LOL, the way i walk or talk is just totally opposite too. Just like if you ever see me in this state, you would never be able to believe i can be the Totally opposite, just like someone else at times and that freak my boyfriends out sometimes too with saying things like “f***! or I dont give a damn”! LOL. Well, I love pink, piano, guitar, elegant and peaceful environment, i enjoy intellectual conversations, i got style and love perfumes, I can fly high with music, I love sunset on the beach…and love to look at the star through my room window…i feel too romantic to the point where im shy if people see me that way. A lot of contradictions in me. Does anyone the same way too?
But i’m a very lucky Libra. I tend to be pampered so much by the boyfriends. I tend to date business-oriented boyfriends. One of them was a Libra also and our love before was like Heaven, he’s a real gentleman, treated me with fine gourmet, bouquet of flowers at high class restaurant by the beach, he took the perfect care of me from head to toe and too much more to talk about!! Feel soooo pampered in a classy way. I have a childlike look but have lots of experiences in relationships. I always frustrated myself by questioning it too much like “why can’t i love someone long??”. I can get into a relationship easily when im interested in the person but im really hard to keep. If any guy thinks that he’s won my heart already, he should think it twice. I hate how i get into the relationship so quick and then end up knowing i actually don’t love the person im together with. It always feels so hard to leave someone behind knowing they are so much wounded by me and then it holds me back until every of the fire from 2 persons completely dies on its own. Sometimes I feel im a bird flying everywhere in the sky. Always have a boyfriend but never feel like I do. Nobody can tie me down. Anyway, I wish I can love anyone real much someday.
Se;pt 23rd,
It is one of the beautiful things about being a Libran, that we are very diverse creatures and can adapt to all situations. I can dine with the governor and wife at their house, but then slum it with fishermen or basic individuals. I can feel just as comfortable with either group…great stuff.
I also like to be honest and true to one man…just wish he would be around to show it. Yes, we do seem to have a lot of duds before we can find a good apple amongst them. Keep up the classy act and you will attract class in return(: Try not to give into the jerks too much, as they can really drag you down…but do look beneath the skin to find their true selves, as sometimes there is a diamond beneath the dirt that can go unnoticed of not digging deep enough(: Good luck young lady.
I have been in bad situations with men and although I have thought about cheating I would never do it! If Im with a man I am totally devoted to him even if he isnt treating me right. While this is sad I think I have learned my lesson. I fall for some guys too fast and then Ill put up with almost anything not to lose them. Yes I will flirt with other men but usually Im singing the praises of my current man in some form or fashion
sept23rd
OMG, i am a Libra, and what you said is exactly the same with me, i have so many guys lined up and can easily get into a relationship, but then i can’t seem to keep that one…and then i feel so guilty that i broke their heart….Currently, i have met a libra guy and he is just amazing and perfect and romantic. I really couldnt have asked for more in a man, but who knows a Libra better than a Libra so i can’t help but think about the unfaithful side of it, ofcourse acknowledging that Libras are natural born flirts. I think im just afraid of opening my heart for a guy because i might get hurt badly, and i feel that no one is worth that much hurt and pain. I think that may be the problem of not being able to have a long term relationship with a guy….
Yep! We are no different to Aries in matters of the heart…always trying to find the perfect partner and so wary of getting hurt that oft times we tend to lose out by being so cautious. I am currently in love with an Aries man who is protecting his heart to the max…won’t accept any form of friendship or compliment. I also recently went to another city for business reasons, and as the aries had denegrated me prior to leaving, I left myself open to offers, and was blown away by the attention I got from so many affluent males. One actually fell for me and wanted to come back home to my town! Not happening. I was flattered by the attention, but couldn’t stop thinking of the Aries who tells me to delete his number. I feel that he really likes me deep down but is afraid of the intensity of my affection. Therefore, I am prepared to wait for him to come around. Is that weird? Maybe, but that is how I feel.
As a Libra with an ASC Gem and both Venus/mars in SAg…I never cheated
(except technically… during my drug out 3 years divorce I was with someone yet married….)
My advice to self and friends was always finish whats on your plate or scrape it away clean.
I see some cheating in Libra women but not enough to stereo type the sign. Usually some odd ingredients to the situation.
Libra men seem more prone …. I only know one faithful 100% out of the 8 I acquaint. They either are doormats or dogs that want a stable of unknowing “only girls”.
But… fickle? In action yes. A Libra will switch horses if that horse is dead and can’t be beat to life. Young Libras set themselves up for this by not expressing her Cardinal demands and covering with over submissive Venusian pleasing. With some a blunt aspect they may say what they want outright and therefore find a more suitable mate. And they can be won away from a former flame gone cold if a warm spot opens up and beckons with honeied promises.
But LOYALTY is important to ALL Libras. and most practice what they preach. But you have to announce that you are theirs and they are yours to expect that Loyalty. Otherwise they consider it a rental and will be gone at expiration!
I am a Libra female so hopefully I can give some insight. If we have not found a man we want to partner up with, we will date other people. In other words, don’t look for exclusivity. However, we also will not waste your time in games, if in subtle ways you think a Libra girl likes you, she most likely does, but if she has not voiced her expressions of adoration, then sadly, she probably only likes you as far as friends go. There shall be no guessing with Libra girls, but we can be very indecisive in what we want; so please if you like a Libra girl, have some patience cause you may be the one that wins the last race
Also, I have personally NEVER cheated on any of my long term boyfriends and will never be that type of person. I have strong values and strong morals and I value loyalty, devotion and commitment as much as I love it in return. So no we are not cheaters but YES we are big flirts but will NEVER cross the line to cheating if you are our love. No doubt, if Libra loves you and you know it, they are NOT cheaters. They cherish their relationships and intimacy as something sacred. So trust a Libra even if you think they are a flirt but to keep a Libra, they need constant reassurance. And if all else worries you, lay down what you think and feel. Libras love to hear what you think and love to hear how to make you happy; we love to please
I very recently broke up with a Capricorn who i have been dating only a month…Apparantly he fell inlove but my heart was not in it, so ended it in the most gentle way i ever could because he was such a sweetheart and romantic but conversation was dead….he had no sense of humour, this is basic although i don’t even have high expectations, and im not afraid to date different types of guys, i don’t really have a type. Sooo….i think i had to end it because i couldnt fool my feelings into being with him out of pity and guilt…I have reached the point where i really cant be bothered with “the whole love thing” It’s a feeling that will die down at some point, this is coming from the analysis of my experiences and would like to state that all you people who have found love, are luckyyy…..
Honestly I think that Libras are prone to cheat just because they seek to fullfill themselves. I have been dating a libra for several months and I understand how libras are. If they are put under pressure or dont feel like the relationship is working then they will move on OR cheat and keep you on the side just because they dont want to hurt others and leave you. Gemini’s are like that too but until you find a deep mental connection and respect for each other that will not happen. Im happy with libra, theyre nice, respectful(until theyre mad), love new things and better things in life, acknowledge the good and bad of things, understanding,oppurtunity to grow together and have fun, and are pretty much my partner in crime. But they can def cheat on you if you dont share these qualities and are boring and just dont have a personality… MOST DEF
You two have nailed it! How can anyone claim someone is cheating on them if they haven’t laid claim to them??? Until you buy something it is not yours!…and by that, I don’t mean in a prostitutional way! I mean we want to have stability and honest feelings, and if what you are offering in your relationship with a Libran lady is sex on call or unspoken desire or even worse, head f’s then don’t expect us to feel secure enough to think you are ours or we yours! TALK TO US & TELL US WHAT YOU EXPECT and make sure you live up to our expectations too. How dare anyone claim someone else as theirs when they haven’t openly stated it? Personally, I have wasted a lifetime on these kids of men/boys, who can’t talk to me about how they feel and expect me to be waiting patiently for them to make up their minds. Life is too short to be stuffing around with other people’s insecurities, and if we can find true love, why would we stick around for someone who doesn’t meet the standard? That’s not cheating, that’s common sense!!
If Libra can be faithful to the most undeserving of lovers, then someone who shows them all the affection & attention they want- just might get it back x10. I used to be a big flirt, cheater too. I’ve fallen completely over a Virgo love (cold, never meets me in the middle, selfish, status obsessobed, unaffectionate), so much so that I’ve behaved as a married woman the whole time. Meaning- not even a glance or thought of another man. I wouldn’t have believed it until it happened to me. I was afraid that I would be unsatisfied in some way and wonder about others, no matter who I was with. I’m truely amazed at how pure of mind, body, and heart I’ve become at 24. BUT- now I’m wishing it away lol. I didn’t get the same pure love in return. I think Libras just might be some of the most loyal lovers out there.
Oh and Geminidude,
The only other man I’ve ever loved, was a Gemini. The “Partner in crime” thing is so true lol. Until I saw the extremely dishonest, violent sides of him, I believed in the word “soulmate”. Now I don’t know if they could ever stay 100% committed to one woman- I wonder.
October Libra, you are so right! I am still sooooo deeply in love with a man that everyone says is not worth the time of day, and he keeps pushing me away. We haven’t even kissed but the incredible intensity of feeling in my heart and body whenever I even think of him,let alone when I see him, is so new to me, and yet I thought my former Aquarian was the love of my life and no-one could take his place. How wrong I was! I am in a whirl 24/7 and can’t bring myself to talk to him as, even though outwardly very chatty with others in front of him, it is as if I will fall apart if I speak to him…he tells me to f off then drives out of his way up to my place and turns around and drives off again the same night. I feel he really liked me, as watched me everywhere I went, but is extremely jealous, being an Aries Dragon, and is scared I will cheat on him as I talk to everyone. I couldn’t even think of looking at another man, but don’t know how to get that point accross to him when I can’t talk and he claims not to read my txt. We sure can put up with a lot before calling it quits, and yes, if someone shows true affection for us, and we feel it back, WE ARE THEIRS FOR LIFE!! Those who choose to cheat are obviously not happy and need ot reassess their situation. I know another Libra Lady who cheats on her husband, but stays with him for financial security…not nice. I sincerely feel for her husband, who is devoted to her. To make it worse, she is playing up to the man I love, yet claims she doesn’t even like him…helloooo we are both the same star signs…who does she think she is kidding???