i might not be an expert, but as a woman, i can tell you ALL women are sexy and passionate, especially when they're in love and the sexual part of the relationship is happening big time. scorpios, pisces, cancers, tauruses, we all love the beginning (and not only) of a relationship where the partner thinks we're sexy and there is also a strong sexual chemistry going on.

i am going to tell you some things because i sense you are living the same experience as the one(s) i had with Leos (i am a cancer, so a water sign as well). i am not saying all leos are the same but we're on an astrology site so let's keep it as such (i am saying this just in case someone will pop up saying 'not all people are the same', blah blah). thus, from what you're saying, i guess i can spot where you're coming from. this is just my opinion, i do not expect you to take it for granted so feel free to disagree!

i am not saying fire signs and water signs cannot be happy, but this is a genuine exception. what u consider as the intrinsic qualities of your girlfriend (sexiness, attitude, courage, 'dignity'- the leonine dignity is basically pride and big balls…, etc) are the things that you lack, as a water sign, and you find them appealing in someone else. i'm not Pythia here to predict things, but from my experiences with Leo men (two of which were serious relationships and two just sexual relations, i've had quite a few Leo men now that I realized they were Leos..), you will get asphyxiated by these qualities. they are not bad, they are not good, they are just incompatible with you as a water sign, trust me. i used to be super excited about my Leos character and admire him for his strength and inner light, he was sparkling, especially in public. it will overwhelm you, first of all, because Leos need constant attention and they might be loyal in a relationship but as a water sign, youll always feel insecure and need proofs, which the leo will forget to give as time passes by. And this is what is going to kill your relationship-the leo usually extracts his 'energy' from the water sign and when the generosity (mostly emotional) is over and it's time to return the 'favor' and BE together, it ain't gonna happen, the Leo will slowly retreat or just vanish,….with a pretext or another, it won't matter. you'd also be so sick and tired of slaving on the Leo's rice paddy that you'll be happy to get rid of such a demanding and everything-consuming person.

'the only thing'- well, with all respect, i'm laughing already. that's not the only thing, that is THE thing. your girlfriend might seem 'disappointed' but if she reacts like this every time you don't comply with her, whether it is materially speaking, or sentimentally, or you made a promise and its getting hard to keep, etc, then it's time to run away, my friend.

and it is because WE ARE SENSITIVE, AS WATER SIGNS, and the Leos never understand this. it is because of our sensitivity that we're ready to sacrifice everything for the loved one and do our best and more to satisfy and see him/her happy…and at this point the Leo takes advantage. shamelessly. TRUST ME. it was UGLY. i might have been scarred and generalize, but they're all selfish, arrogant….and don't understand our need for sentimental pampering. that's the problem. i think that all leos agree with this saying.

so your girlfriend will continue being sexy and passionate because this is how u see her leo-ness, as a water sign. she's daring and outgoing, of course you like it. but when i was with a Leo, i felt used after having done everything for him and he never reciprocated and never appreciated, but wanted more, and immediately, and i was just his caterer/babysitter in a sentimental manner (never had the problems i've seen here, like financially supporting him or something, God no!) until i realized this is his…charm. this was the thing that attracted me in the first place, that shameless assertiveness and humongous aura of entitlement he sported. i got tired of not being on the same page, and trust me, earth-shattering sex will never compensate for a water sign.

you could stay together for long periods of time and cheat on one another. you will most certainly end up being unfaithful and not break up with her because it's going to be uncomfortable, a tempest and too much ado…and maybe because you do love her but you feel like her doormat, or because you are going to be so psychologically devastated you'll think nobody except for her would want you.
this is what my leo did to me. now i'm okay, but….

so take these words as an advice. i am sorry if i seemed harsh or paranoid but i feel like it's my duty to warn other water signs of the problems arising with Leos and fire signs in general. it is especially sensitive for me because i KNOW and i remember how much i loved him and what he did to me, and how i didn't see some things, and how i got out of it, A MESS, and how i would have wanted someone to tell me, warn me…

hope it helps and sorry for the long message. and the negativity.

@ jolie

i dont know about water sign and fire are not compatible totally or everytime… but i think i will marry this leo woman…
i always feel attracted to her intense fire… (ouch!)
the only one thing i get fuzz about her is that she is easily disappointed when i dont get what she expects from me… and its a world at war to us when that happens… well i submit to that point not because im a wimp but because i understand her fiery sign…

i agree anyways that if i would look for water sign girls and my life would be much like an ocean love… but for now im still looking up to my relationship with my cute leo girl.

I don’t think i have given anyone a reason to feel embarrassed by me being a cancerian. it is true that i have feelings in general, like any other normal human being, and that i am a rather emotionally sensitive person as a cancerian. But what you are saying is a bit more far fetched. Maybe you didn’t go through all the message thread i have posted here, especially in my communication with Leo Female.

First of all, i did not allow anyone to ‘use me for sex’. If you wish to describe this sort of relationship as ‘using’, then we were using each other. I never intended to begin a relationship with this man because of the fact that he is not compatible with me from many points of view. We had a great and intense sexual chemistry and we felt attracted to each other, this was all. I did not feel used, but OFFENDED. It was my choice to have a sex-based relationship with him and with all due respect, my choices are none of your business. I did not get a broken heart, but a broken ego and dignity,and as soon as i saw that this man wasn’t capable of understanding what the whole point of our ‘thing’ was i backed off immediately and i haven’t seen him ever since.

He is not a lowlife without morals, ironically. He is a successful professional with an intense social life, which used to include me a long time ago. His flaw, from my perspective, is that he excluded me from his circle of friends he shared things and spent time with, and respected, just because i was having this relationship with him. It is not that he doesn’t have morals, it’s that he understands some social concepts differently and is completely immature. I believe ‘infantile’ would describe him best.

I did like him very much and at one point i thought i was beginning to care about him, but thank God that did not happen. I did not allow myself to become his doormat because i am a normal person, just like you, and not a prostitute. I just assumed that someone like him would muster enough manners, judgment and reason to be able to carry on this type of relationship without being offensive or disrespectful. He did not call me a slut or a bitch if this is what you think has been going on. he just lied and thought he could have me at his convenience, this being the moment i BACKED OFF. I am not seeing him anymore now, haven’t answered his calls or his Facebook messages.

I hope i have exposed my point clearly enough. You’re most welcome to express your personal opinion as long as you are not crossing the line and making assumptions about my character as a person.