Comments on: Why Aquarius loves Libra women

By: A Sad Aquaman

A Sad Aquaman — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 00:32:34 +0000

To
Lib Aqua, dont avoid him, understand him, support him and be there for him when you know he needs you. Show him your love and be open towards him. To achieve this you will first need to understand him and never take his as he is but rather take him as what he is in total. And one more thing, dont ever take an aquarius for granted, and dont play games with him because those are the two things he hates. Talk to him openly about his interests and never critisise his opinions, thaat will make him feel insecure and you will become unatracive. The aquarius prefers an intellectual love relationship from the strait beauty that he sees within you Libra. Just trust me and always listen to your heart and feelings. dont try and figure out what to do and how to balance yourself out becasue then you will miss the opportunities to show him why you are so important in his life and why he fell in love with you to start, If you choose to play games like, using the distance and neglet him in order to get him closer, you are going to mess it up in the long run and put him out of balance. Im not telling you to worship him but to understand his needs, intellectural, phisical and emotional. Have sympathy for him and show him that you are determined to work and give and not just recieve and trust me, this will make him do for you some amazing things you couldn’t possiby dream about. Just focus on the process, because that is what an aquarius is into, he is not into the outcome, and he is not into your beauty, but into how you can cope with him as a person and on a personal level. Just do your best not to let him down and give him space only when you have asked him if he needs it and only if he says yes. but make sure you ask about how he is doing all the time. not just for the sake of it, but be honest and show your understanding and support. give him a hand becasue he is under the pressures of this world, more that you could ever possibly imagine.

good luck and please, dont be selfish, think about him and do it dont just keep it inside of you!

hope i could help

ps i have broken up with my libra girlfriend becasue she was lazy and closed and just didnt ever try to get to know me.

By: LibAqua

LibAqua — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 23:36:10 +0000

I m lib woman likes aqu man . is it true that aqua man are intrigued by what they cannot have and go after it? he shows interest in indirect ways in me but does not say it or no actions. but whenever i avoid him he comes after me? if i become distant from him wld he show action of interest then?any suggestions???he likes me but does not step forward or step backward either?
how do i get his attention or to express take action/ please suggest

By: A Sad Aquarian

A Sad Aquarian — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 00:05:26 +0000

that was very kind of you ilovelibra. Thanks for your support on this one I wish for love and peace between all stars!

By: ilovelibra

ilovelibra — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 19:24:16 +0000

for sad aquarian – i think you’ve done just the right thing. she is a young libra after all. i am a libra and surrounded by libra friends as well. i don’t know how it happened but all of my closest friends happened to be libras! we just got stuck with each other! lol! and we do possess a lot of similar traits. from our youth up until we start growing. i remember i used to possess these traits. i didn’t understand real love. i got so insecure and dependent and just crave for physical touch. yes, libras need to be touched and be told that you love them. libras are ruled by venus the goddess of beauty and of love. we must constantly feel that we are adored. we are vain by nature but we are very down to earth people as well. we tend to get rosy ideas about love all the time. and libras tend to be lazy, it’s because of their indecisive nature. we try to think things and balance things which for other people might mean that we are irresponsible. it’s just that we weigh things and try to get the best possible option before we jump into it. the problem is, it is hard to decide because everything has their pros and cons. love for a young libra? everything is so superficial. but libra’s are wise so im sure she is to learn afterwards. it wasn’t after a very harsh breakup did i learn to stand on my own and learned to love unconditionally. i found love when i have learned to love myself and my individuality. you must get yourself ready though, as she is a libra and a very young one, she is yet to meet plenty of other guys. and libras have the tendency to be in love with the idea of love. meaning, falling in love with the next better guy that comes. it isn’t that we are bitches, it’s just the need to stay in love which is our sickness. i shamefully admit. but once a libra grows and matures, all of this will seem really lame. you coming back in three years? for sure your libra will grow more beautifully and become wise and mature. and if she still isn’t committed, she will just be the perfect match for you! if you manage to get back to her after she’s all grown up and mature, you might feel like the luckiest man in the world. and make sure that you let her know that you intend to keep her, otherwise, she will tend to wander off or grow back to her insecurities and repeat the same thing over again.

By: A Sad Aquarian

A Sad Aquarian — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 19:35:53 +0000

ive posted a messege here before if you want to look at it for broader undersanding:

AQUARIUS says:
February 22, 2009 at 10:19 am

By: A Sad Aquarian

A Sad Aquarian — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 19:22:12 +0000

Hi All, I am AquaMan! Very proud to be one but i have a problem… 23 just finished and have told my girl friend what i think o her (honestly) and have left her to think about that… I decided to leave her for 3 years and then come back an see how she is doing. I still love her and think its the best for her so please dont think of me as a jerk, im not a jerk. I just know things and she has still a lot to learn.
We were together for over a year. We were in a distance relationship and i only managed to visit her 5 times over the past year, each being 2-3 weeks. Normally we communicate – ed. via skype and that was nice. but recently i have noticed that she is unhappy, i instantly realised that our love was really hurting us because she was not yet so experienced. She is a young libra, 19 and i believe that i have to give her time. She agreed with me when i told her that i must let her go, things were pretty messy anyway so its something we both wanted. I said to her that i would want her to be open about her feelings and also to be open in her mind as i cannot be my 100% when she has so many walls and fears love. I am also insequre because of this because i feel like im not the one she wants – maybe that is an delusion but maybe i am right and either way i am the idea that time will heal our poor hearts and soon all will be okay. Perhaps when i come back, both my sense of what is true and what isn’t will be sorted and the same goes to her. I hate to do this to her and myself but i really cannot find another way. I just want her to be happy and if she cannot be happy with me then i hope that by herself she will be as least better off. Another thing is that i would like her to grow confidence and become more independant and i think that the only way she will achieve this is by herself. I cannot teach her becasue she always told me off for being to authoritarian on her and always pressing her and trying to forcefully motivate her to do her part, to engage and, you know, share her love with me. Unfortunatly after an argument relating to this she would try but after a few days she would return to her old self and be lazy and just cold (in my precieved sense of her) Its really not so much about me, i can be better off by myself but its that i love her and it breaks my heart to see her unhappy and me being the reason for it. I know we dont get to hug and have phisical contact like everyone else but there is love and love is all that matters. Unfortunatly for me, i guess her sense of ideal cannot be filled to complete by ideas and a vivid imagination like i have, she needs to have the phisical touch. I understand, because i need the same reasurance. I give her reasurance when we are not together, when we see each other on skype all the time but she does not return. Even when i am with her, she does not return. It sometimes felt like it was a monologue between myself. She didn’t have the confidence to engage and prove her love to me when it mattered so i did something against my own will and ended it with the hope that when i see her in a few years she will have probably forgotten about the pain this caused and the pain i was giving her when i demanded from her to do her bit. Either way, its what i think is best for us in the long run. I just want to add that i will not feel bad if she finds herself someone else of if she already found someone that hugs her and spends phisically close moments with her as long as she is happy she i am okay with that. But as long as i dont know of that though. So my contact with her is down to nothing at the moment and hopefully whoever she meets will give her the lessons she needs. If she finds another perfect aquarious like me there that will match what i have given her so far she will know i was not the only one for her, and if she wont, she will realise what a lazy and cold person she was to me. Either way this will teach her and when i do come back i will be watching out for the shange in her spirit. If she will be taught by life she will be ready for the 100% of me and i will also be able to give it to her. I really want that becasue i want her to be happy and i want to be able to love her to the maximum.
Could someone please tell me what i am doing becasue i am unsure whether that is the healthiest thing for her and myslef. Though i am more worried about her.

Thanks

By: LibraLady

LibraLady — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 19:37:33 +0000

Mine is older, we are both almost 40, and has outgrown the committment fear, when they “pick” you, and thats how it happens, they don’t let go, You can never keep them unless they think they caught you, Its funny, I pretend that I hate being tied down so my Aqua guy is pushy about any spare moment together, they love to have the last word, If you are very lucky like me he will be scared to lose you, then they have to have you, its funny like that LOL

By: LibraLady

LibraLady — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 19:33:22 +0000

You have to realize that these guys don’t pass hints, The only way you’ll know if he loves you is if he says it, and he won’t say it unless its true….. When they do blow you off they still want to be friends unless they say otherwise

By: librachickie

librachickie — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 19:15:41 +0000

to ‘NLUVWITHAQUAMAN’
honestly yes these are traits for an aquarius male… but what you are describing is a trait for a male who is blowing you off.
you cant rely on just the astroligical traits to tell you if he’s being a jerk or not. i would worry if i were you…..

By: NLUVWITHAQUAMAN

NLUVWITHAQUAMAN — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 08:04:44 +0000

I am glad i read these posts. I have been in a long disance relationship with an aquarius man for 13 months. It has been bliss! We see each other once a month for a 2 week period. When he came to visit this time, he was completely different! I have only spent 2 days with him, and it seemed as if it was to have sex only. Of course i questioned all of his distance and disappering. Myquestions only brought about more coldness and distance. Eventually he stopped taking my calls. I thought it was me ani have wrecked my brain trying to figure out what i did. I am glad to know that this is just him. It has nothing to do with me. It will be hard, but i am going to try to ignore him and see if he comes back.