Why Aquarius loves Libra women
March 28, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Aquarius doesn’t know how to “do” relationships, so who better than Libra, the expert on partnerships, to guide him? The sign of the scales is ruled by Venus, goddess of love. She knows how to navigate the rocky territory of coupledom, using charm, compromise and all manner of secret techniques.
Aquarius is ruled by Uranus. This outer planet is more comfortable at Star Trek conventions than blind dates sipping on mochas. Uranus is all ideas. Libra can connect to him on the mental plane without losing her human touch. Both are air signs, expressing themselves best in the social and intellectual realms. Libra may not be a space alien like Aquarius, but she can tune into his wavelength enough to decode his transmissions.
Why not Gemini women? Although Gemini is also an air sign, it is ruled by Mercury, planet of communication. Uranus is a “higher octave” of the messenger planet. Put together two thinkers and you’ll have some good discussions, but not much incentive to make the connection physical. Some goddess energy is required to take Aquarius out of the clouds and into the bedroom.
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From my own stand-point, it sounds like he’s just terrified of something serious..I’ve done that to women before and its usually just a fear of settling down,a relationship in general..we run when we feel like we’re not strong enough to fix the mistakes or be a good boyfriend..so sometimes it’s just easier to leave..the fact that he keeps tring to contact you is a good thing, it means you stay on his mind throughout those periods..We are flakes sometimes though, but its usually just us thinking too much about somethin, gettin’ nerveous, and then canceling..be patient with us:/
To libragel….the guy kinda sounds like he’s ashamed, he got someone pregant behind your back and he may not have forgiven himself for it yet, I think if you tell him exactly how you feel (at least to get it off your chest) you’d be surprised at the response…
Thank you for your answer, JlovesK! I am so willing to be patient with him (not a normal trait in me at all). I just feel strangely calm and ‘forgiving’ about his ways. Even surprising myself
pls say anyone what r the negative things that r faced by Libra woman from Aqua man pls
aquarius’ tend to not be plan makers, they go with the flow, they are spontaneous and hate restriction.
sometimes they tend to disappear for no reason, not call, not email, not text until days later.
they are a little odd socially, but endearing if you like that type of persona.
smart as hell and funny in their own quirky way.
i believe them to be faithful while in a relationship, but whores outside of one. lol
which is ok.
deep down they like attention and are a bit insecure.
sorry if i am wrong, just talking from experience, i have dated 3 aqauas and next year i will be giving birth to one.
wooo hooo..
Okay, need a little insight from Aquarian men and/or women who have been with them for a while. Here’s the update: Aquaman is trying to come back — this time, after a month long “pilgrimage” — whereabouts unknown. (See my previous post on “Aquarian Man Acting Distant” page — in sum, we have been in a long distance relationship for about a year, he gave me a ring after two months, chemistry is great, I’ve been trying to relocate to his state, he says he knows that I am the love of his life but the way that he goes AWOL drives me nuts.) Anyway, love him to pieces, know that we are probably soulmates, yada, yada but this disappearance thing is offending my Libran sensibilities and I’m getting sick of it. (Personally, I don’t mind having more time to myself and I’m not the clingy/needy/snooping type at all, but I feel like he takes me for granted, knows I’ll always be there etc. and, hey, I want to teach his a** a lesson — explaining my feelings is a waste of time with him and makes me feel like I’m whinning.) Need to hear from all the Aquarian men out there. What’s up? What did it take to finally get you to “act right”? With any other sign, I’d probably give him a healthy dose of his own medicine, disappear myself for a while and know with certainty that the light bulb would go off and he’d come to his senses. However, all the stuff I’ve read on here about Aquarian men not being jealous and being able to rationalize love and move on without a second thought gives me pause. I don’t want to loose him but I am not going to be in a relationship with someone who blurs the line between freedom and lack of respect. In the words of our president, I feel like this is a “teachable moment.” (LOL — had to laugh at that, sorry.) Other vital stats: he’s Aqua Sun but cuspy with Capricorn; Moon in Libra; Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Aries. Me: Libra I; Virgo rising; Moon in Gemini; Venus in Leo; Mars in Leo. Thanks for any feedback — think I might post this in the other Aquarian man post(s) on here as well.
Luvalileebra,It’s not a lack of respect that your aquaman is showing you!
It’s NOT a cop-out either. He has to get away from you(and everyone else) to hear the voices in his own head. Being an aqua is alot like suffering from info overload online- its a parade of constant chaos,socializing, networking, learning, etc. (all of our own doing, we realize)…we get cranky when we can’t escape!
I’m an aqua gal married to a libra guy for more than 20 years, we don’t have a perfect relationship but we do love and respect each other. We are compatible on every level, including tolerance of each others’ quirks. If I couldn’t run away now and then, it would’ve been over years ago. The fact that he knows/tolerates this has kept me faithful, cause I know there aren’t many decent men that would allow me this type of freedom; but because he trusts me I won’t let him down. Ironically, its during the AWOL time that I realize how I love him more than ever!
I am a Libra woman involved with an Aqu Man. To make a long story short we’ve been seeing each other for about a year with a “break” somewhere in there and we are currently on our second break (bc he needs to sort some things out on his own), however in spite of him saying we need to just be friends he keeps coming back to me as “more than friends.” Maybe he only wants sex.? We are really good together. That’s one of my faves about us. Anyways… The other night while we were lying in bed together he said he was used to me and, as a joke, he said if he ever did start dating someone he would have to call me to come over during the intimate moments! lol I said it’s not a bad thing to be “used to someone.” What did he mean by that comment? I’d say he’s not over me, but who knows with Aqu.
The second thing…I am trying to be stronger with my boundaries with him because he likes to see how far he can go with me and in the past I’ve let him do almost whatever he wanted which I think wasn’t too good on my side. I think it’s good to have boundaries with anyone, but will enforcing my boundaries too hard push him away?
Thanks for any insight you have!
Hello, I also dated a aqua but broke it off after 8 months because I thought at the time he just liked me as a friend and not as a “girlfriend” i figured u should treat your girlfriend different compared to your platonic friends. I also told him I loved him and waited for him to return with the same, and waited, and waited, nothing. Even though we were crazy about eachother he couldnt say it. So after waitin (im very impatient) i decided to end it and if he really cared he would tell me verbally not to go (not physically) he seemed sad, but said if thats what i really want, and since I opened the door (in his own words) he wanted to see whats outside. So 16 months later we still talk, and he makes fun of me because i choose to end it and recently we finally went to the movies, but still continues to turn me down when ever i invite him to something fun. Is this how aquas act? And is he really showing me he still cares? Is there anything else i can do to get this aqua back?
Anonymous Gal — Thank you. Thank you. Thank you – for the much needed insight. Aquaman and I are actually making some progress — mostly because I’ve adopted said attitude and it’s actually working for me. (Now that I know/feel/believe that he sees me as his soulmate, I’m like hey, you got all the free time you want dude — that means more time for me to get my beauty sleep, pursue my second career interest, get my hair done, etc. — LMAO.) We’re chatting away on the “Aquarius Man Acting Distant Forum” – I think that there are a couple of ladies on there who would also benefit from your pearls of wisdom. Also, while I’m here, are there any Aquarian Men who have any advice for us??? If so, check out the “Distant Forum” and let us know what you think, how you’ve responded in the past, etc. Particularly interested in hearing more from Water-bearers who are with Libra chicas.
I second that motion Luva. Kudos to Anon Gal!
I’m an aquarius male, and most of my life I’ve been surrounded by Libras, both women and men. My mom is a libra, my best female friend is a libra, my best male friend is a libra, so on and so forth. However, I’ve never dated one. Personally, I’ve found myself always gravitating towards fire signs which is odd because I make it a point not to ask about birthdays or astrological signs until well after I’ve established that there is a connection. From being close friends with a libra fem, though, I can say that libras do understand us a little better than most other signs, simply because libras don’t take things personally. Aquarians have a tendancy to need distance once in a while – we need to disconnect, pore over our own thioughts, and get some perspective, before going back out into the world fresh and ready for more data. What others might perceive as a “mood swing” is, to us, just a much needed break from being at the center of a swirling mass of information. Aquarius may not talk about it a lot, but we are CONSTANTLY observing and analyzing everything and looking for ways to learn from every experience. Yes, ladies, even during sex, our brain is still going a mile a minute . Libras tend to ‘get’ this a little more than most signs. Maybe because libra is intellectual as well?
my aqua boyfriend was with a libra girl for 2 years or so, and dumped her for me, the scorpio.
we get along great but i do miss the deep emotional passionate cancer males.
yeah ashna i can relate to wat you mean. Its actually opposite way round for me. Im an aquarius girl and dating a libra man but the things is im not that really into him and told him well just be friends. Everytime he gets close i push him away.. and it annoys me when he gets all emotional.. maybe becuse i dont know how to make him feel better but we get along really well and have many things in common. he gives me all the time i need to tink and have time to myself which i respect about him but as for my x whose a scorpio.. he was possessive and domineerining which i didnt like.. and this caused alot of arguments because he didnt like me being independant.. tryin to take control.. and i didnt like the fact that he just couldnt be honest, was always keeping secrets and ad such a short temper.. If i questioned him.. he bit.. and I know scorpian men are attracted to cancerian.. because there both emotional and passionate lovers (well my x was anyway) bcus he wasnt loyal as he always told me im not passionte with him much and it explaind alot bcus he was having an affair with a cancerian. O well im better off with my libra man.. atleast hes loyal and understanding.
shoana, i think thats how me and my aquarius boyfriend are. im too psycho for him… and in the beginning of the relationship i was seeing two other cancer men just to prove to myself that i didnt like my boyfriend and didn’t really need him… hes just so… i don’t know … empty. but scorpios tend to be very loyal unless you make them feel threatened. you must have made your scorpio feel that you can live without him and stuff… which leads us to go to people who can’t be without us.
Hi Jeffrey,
Any advice for a kicked to the curb soul like me? My Aqua guy disapeared one too many times, I cant imagine living with a creature that disapears like this permantly…I gave him his space and he took it, trouble is no matter how my=uch he claimed he “loves” me, he just isnt showing it.
I’m going to move on and try to meet other people. Theres the problem though, what to look for next time…Im not really compatibl;e with any sign, Sun in Libra, Arie moon, Scorpio rising, its not good karma is it….any suggestions on what sign would be a better choice next time? THank you
LibraLady, don’t look for signs, just look for people
Thanks Jeffrey
based on what you said though a gemini wouldn be a bad match
Hi JLovesK
Thank you
Yeah, Gemini’s are pretty cool 
You should start by saying to her everything that you stated in your last paragraph or so beginning with "I drive past her job and break my neck thinking Ill see her" expressing that level of vulnerability with her will be sure to blow her mind but only if she is indeed still interested in you, and in terms of you getting her back try letting her know of your elusiveness and seemin aloofness ahead of the time walk her thru the journey that is you, and help her to understand that its not her, but just who and how it is that you are, and see how well she adapts to this insight, if at all, and go from there. (From a Libra W)
I’m currently in a relationship with an Aquarian man, he is open about his feelings and expectations in life, as for the relationship itself, he is actually the one teaching me how to get closer. I had no idea I’d had so many walls up untill he began to break them down. He called me reserved in the beginning and talks about committment constantly and all the things he dreams about…..Sometimes I wonder which one of us is the Libra or Aquarian ????
Ayways he is very sentimental and romantic, where I lack, sort of a reverse on our sun signs, I am madly in love with a sensitve guy, he displays all the things I’ve fought to conceal my whole life. I respect that side of him.. We miss eachother everytime were appart…So different then the other Aquarain men I’ve known. I’ve never been bombarded with so many kisses in my life, and he doesnt care who’s watching or what LOL I think when an Aqua guy gets in touch with affection, its the best. I find him a very romantic soul
I don’t know what we do, Libra women, but Ive met so many being pursued by Aquarius men and Scorpio men, it cant be our looks alone, there are so many pretty faces in the room so why do guys head to our table first? I dont understand it but I wont complain….. My Aqua guy makes me feel like a goddess even if my hair is messy or he shows up unexpected and I have no makeup on, he still kisses me as if Im his favourite person….He has so much love to give, Ive never had so much affection. I cant beleive Ive lived so long wihout his kisses….
I have read almost all of the comments and it makes me smile! i can relate to every single one with it! the traits that i once was so annoyed with my aquarius guy, i have learned to be amused by them! that is why i find the comments really good. everytime i read one, it just reminds me of him! i actually love this site! I am a libra woman and totally in love with my aqua guy. I think the feeling is mutual. we’ve already made plans. plans which changes from time to time! lol! i totaly feel as if i have met my match! it’s not that he is perfect, he is very far from that. it’s just that we compliment each other’s strengths and weaknesses. if he wasn’t as eccentric or as spontaneous and funny and smart, i would have been bored with him and would have jumped into the next guy i find interesting, being the libra that i am.
Well it isn’t easy being with an aquarius guy. It took a lot of patience and understanding. but once you have gotten past those stage, the relationship is almost heavenly! I have never noticed my aqua guy wanting space from time to time. it’s because i never really minded. that attraction was crazy right from the start! we started living together and that was when i got to experience all those stubborn and mind blowing aqua traits. i felt like i was in a rollercoaster! i get torn up between staying and leaving for good! thank god i stayed! the thing that helped me the most is my past experience from being with a gemini man. it was good at first too but it turned into a relationship made from hell! i learned to control all my libra traits such as being too clingy and too emotional. i stopped being bossy. well, actually i still am. it’s just amazing how much patience i have with my aqua guy! as a libra, i know very well how to handle guys and how to make them love and adore you and just get your way almost all the time. it’s just that i know with my aqua guy, i can never get my way if i pushed it! you have to let them be the boss and they would end up serving you. i also know that me being stubborn and wanting to be chased and adored isn’t going to work with him. because i know, and i truly can feel, that when i test him, he would just give me up without a second thought! they don’t like being tested and being doubted. you really have to trust them and just let them do what they want for they value the trust you give them and in return, will stay loyal to you no matter what. how to control an aquarius? it really is simple. don’t even try to! they will love you with all their heart as long as you don’t put any restrictions with them. libras…just be patient with your guy…it sounds unfair, but trust me, it surely is worth it! they appreciate everything and all the patience that you are giving them. he may be cold and distant one time, but just let him be. he would surely come back with raging fires of passion the next time and would really appreciate and would even cry in too much gratitude (more than you deserve, because they actually show too much love just as you are giving them) on how you were able to put up with him. It’s not even a problem because you would surely love his ways. even his tantrums! aquarius guys are just so sexy!!! just being in the same room with my guy turns me on! even if he is just watching tv. he have this badboy side, he is too rude and straightforward sometimes. he says his opinions without second thought about your feelings. it’s just that they don’t tend to be emotional. they rationalize things and are always on the practical side. but deep inside, they want to be loved too! and they are very loving person! sweet in the most eccentric way. they have their insecurities and when they have felt secured with a woman, they would just pour it all out! at start he was just so mysterious. it frustrates me how he keeps on lying and making up stories all the time! i just didn’t confront him about him. well, he have his reasons and i respect that. the thing is, at the start, i just didn’t put expectations about is. i think it was how the pressure was released in his side and he just started opening up. very slowly at first. i just simply listened…i thought before that we could never be friends but now we’re like the best of friends! an aquarius guy is very observant. you might see them sitting quiet at one corner or it may seem like he was just eating at a restaurant, but he analyzes everyone’s moves and can give you a detailed explanation about each person on the room! one thing that still frustrates me is how he keeps on insisting things and planning about things…as i’ve said, it changes from time to time! the next day you talk, it would seem like he hasn’t said anything about the plan that he so eagerly initiated. i used to think it was because it was my guy’s personality, but after reading the posts, i realized it was just an aquarian trait! the trick is to not believe what he says until it actually happens. when he starts planning things like a dinner with my family with a specific time and place, i just pretend to listen and then let it all out at my other ear. there is a still a possibility that it will happen, after a couple of weeks or months! hahaha! just don’t push him. he will end up punishing you without you noticing that this is what he is doing! he knows how to piss you off without appearing to do so! he also expects his girl to stay at home. this is ironic because they don’t want to be restricted and yet they put all the restrictions on you! they want to be taken care of without you being too needy. they admire a woman who is independent and smart. but you also have to be able to play with him. be silly and witty and funny just as they are. see? libra and aquarius are just perfect for each other! once a libra has learned to value their individuality, then everything will just fit perfectly like a puzzle. libra’s tend to be indecisive and this annoys aquarius who are so decisive and straightforward. i don’t know how to deal with this since this has always been a start of our argument. it’s just that my guy really loves me that he has tolerated it as well. the best thing with it is that he teaches me to decide and to stick with my decision. we learn a lot from each other and we continually grow and adjust to each other. everyone says that aquarius doesn’t like to commit. well, they do! once they have felt secured enough with a person. i believe that an aquarius is loyal and faithful to only one person once they have found their partner. they only seem to be fickle because they are intrigued with people. they are very good with people and knows just how to charm a crowd! they seem to be friends with everyone but there are very few people that they really value as their friend.
i actually just love talking about my man. i am so in love with him! i didn’t tell him though until after he poured all his heart out to me.
I am glad i read these posts. I have been in a long disance relationship with an aquarius man for 13 months. It has been bliss! We see each other once a month for a 2 week period. When he came to visit this time, he was completely different! I have only spent 2 days with him, and it seemed as if it was to have sex only. Of course i questioned all of his distance and disappering. Myquestions only brought about more coldness and distance. Eventually he stopped taking my calls. I thought it was me ani have wrecked my brain trying to figure out what i did. I am glad to know that this is just him. It has nothing to do with me. It will be hard, but i am going to try to ignore him and see if he comes back.
to ‘NLUVWITHAQUAMAN’
honestly yes these are traits for an aquarius male… but what you are describing is a trait for a male who is blowing you off.
you cant rely on just the astroligical traits to tell you if he’s being a jerk or not. i would worry if i were you…..
You have to realize that these guys don’t pass hints, The only way you’ll know if he loves you is if he says it, and he won’t say it unless its true….. When they do blow you off they still want to be friends unless they say otherwise
Mine is older, we are both almost 40, and has outgrown the committment fear, when they “pick” you, and thats how it happens, they don’t let go, You can never keep them unless they think they caught you, Its funny, I pretend that I hate being tied down so my Aqua guy is pushy about any spare moment together, they love to have the last word, If you are very lucky like me he will be scared to lose you, then they have to have you, its funny like that LOL
Hi All, I am AquaMan! Very proud to be one but i have a problem… 23 just finished and have told my girl friend what i think o her (honestly) and have left her to think about that… I decided to leave her for 3 years and then come back an see how she is doing. I still love her and think its the best for her so please dont think of me as a jerk, im not a jerk. I just know things and she has still a lot to learn.
We were together for over a year. We were in a distance relationship and i only managed to visit her 5 times over the past year, each being 2-3 weeks. Normally we communicate – ed. via skype and that was nice. but recently i have noticed that she is unhappy, i instantly realised that our love was really hurting us because she was not yet so experienced. She is a young libra, 19 and i believe that i have to give her time. She agreed with me when i told her that i must let her go, things were pretty messy anyway so its something we both wanted. I said to her that i would want her to be open about her feelings and also to be open in her mind as i cannot be my 100% when she has so many walls and fears love. I am also insequre because of this because i feel like im not the one she wants – maybe that is an delusion but maybe i am right and either way i am the idea that time will heal our poor hearts and soon all will be okay. Perhaps when i come back, both my sense of what is true and what isn’t will be sorted and the same goes to her. I hate to do this to her and myself but i really cannot find another way. I just want her to be happy and if she cannot be happy with me then i hope that by herself she will be as least better off. Another thing is that i would like her to grow confidence and become more independant and i think that the only way she will achieve this is by herself. I cannot teach her becasue she always told me off for being to authoritarian on her and always pressing her and trying to forcefully motivate her to do her part, to engage and, you know, share her love with me. Unfortunatly after an argument relating to this she would try but after a few days she would return to her old self and be lazy and just cold (in my precieved sense of her) Its really not so much about me, i can be better off by myself but its that i love her and it breaks my heart to see her unhappy and me being the reason for it. I know we dont get to hug and have phisical contact like everyone else but there is love and love is all that matters. Unfortunatly for me, i guess her sense of ideal cannot be filled to complete by ideas and a vivid imagination like i have, she needs to have the phisical touch. I understand, because i need the same reasurance. I give her reasurance when we are not together, when we see each other on skype all the time but she does not return. Even when i am with her, she does not return. It sometimes felt like it was a monologue between myself. She didn’t have the confidence to engage and prove her love to me when it mattered so i did something against my own will and ended it with the hope that when i see her in a few years she will have probably forgotten about the pain this caused and the pain i was giving her when i demanded from her to do her bit. Either way, its what i think is best for us in the long run. I just want to add that i will not feel bad if she finds herself someone else of if she already found someone that hugs her and spends phisically close moments with her as long as she is happy she i am okay with that. But as long as i dont know of that though. So my contact with her is down to nothing at the moment and hopefully whoever she meets will give her the lessons she needs. If she finds another perfect aquarious like me there that will match what i have given her so far she will know i was not the only one for her, and if she wont, she will realise what a lazy and cold person she was to me. Either way this will teach her and when i do come back i will be watching out for the shange in her spirit. If she will be taught by life she will be ready for the 100% of me and i will also be able to give it to her. I really want that becasue i want her to be happy and i want to be able to love her to the maximum.
Could someone please tell me what i am doing becasue i am unsure whether that is the healthiest thing for her and myslef. Though i am more worried about her.
Thanks
ive posted a messege here before if you want to look at it for broader undersanding:
AQUARIUS says:
February 22, 2009 at 10:19 am
for sad aquarian – i think you’ve done just the right thing. she is a young libra after all. i am a libra and surrounded by libra friends as well. i don’t know how it happened but all of my closest friends happened to be libras! we just got stuck with each other! lol! and we do possess a lot of similar traits. from our youth up until we start growing. i remember i used to possess these traits. i didn’t understand real love. i got so insecure and dependent and just crave for physical touch. yes, libras need to be touched and be told that you love them. libras are ruled by venus the goddess of beauty and of love. we must constantly feel that we are adored. we are vain by nature but we are very down to earth people as well. we tend to get rosy ideas about love all the time. and libras tend to be lazy, it’s because of their indecisive nature. we try to think things and balance things which for other people might mean that we are irresponsible. it’s just that we weigh things and try to get the best possible option before we jump into it. the problem is, it is hard to decide because everything has their pros and cons. love for a young libra? everything is so superficial. but libra’s are wise so im sure she is to learn afterwards. it wasn’t after a very harsh breakup did i learn to stand on my own and learned to love unconditionally. i found love when i have learned to love myself and my individuality. you must get yourself ready though, as she is a libra and a very young one, she is yet to meet plenty of other guys. and libras have the tendency to be in love with the idea of love. meaning, falling in love with the next better guy that comes. it isn’t that we are bitches, it’s just the need to stay in love which is our sickness. i shamefully admit. but once a libra grows and matures, all of this will seem really lame. you coming back in three years? for sure your libra will grow more beautifully and become wise and mature. and if she still isn’t committed, she will just be the perfect match for you! if you manage to get back to her after she’s all grown up and mature, you might feel like the luckiest man in the world. and make sure that you let her know that you intend to keep her, otherwise, she will tend to wander off or grow back to her insecurities and repeat the same thing over again.
that was very kind of you ilovelibra. Thanks for your support on this one
I wish for love and peace between all stars!
I m lib woman likes aqu man . is it true that aqua man are intrigued by what they cannot have and go after it? he shows interest in indirect ways in me but does not say it or no actions. but whenever i avoid him he comes after me? if i become distant from him wld he show action of interest then?any suggestions???he likes me but does not step forward or step backward either?
how do i get his attention or to express take action/ please suggest
To
Lib Aqua, dont avoid him, understand him, support him and be there for him when you know he needs you. Show him your love and be open towards him. To achieve this you will first need to understand him and never take his as he is but rather take him as what he is in total. And one more thing, dont ever take an aquarius for granted, and dont play games with him because those are the two things he hates. Talk to him openly about his interests and never critisise his opinions, thaat will make him feel insecure and you will become unatracive. The aquarius prefers an intellectual love relationship from the strait beauty that he sees within you Libra. Just trust me and always listen to your heart and feelings. dont try and figure out what to do and how to balance yourself out becasue then you will miss the opportunities to show him why you are so important in his life and why he fell in love with you to start, If you choose to play games like, using the distance and neglet him in order to get him closer, you are going to mess it up in the long run and put him out of balance. Im not telling you to worship him but to understand his needs, intellectural, phisical and emotional. Have sympathy for him and show him that you are determined to work and give and not just recieve and trust me, this will make him do for you some amazing things you couldn’t possiby dream about. Just focus on the process, because that is what an aquarius is into, he is not into the outcome, and he is not into your beauty, but into how you can cope with him as a person and on a personal level. Just do your best not to let him down and give him space only when you have asked him if he needs it and only if he says yes. but make sure you ask about how he is doing all the time. not just for the sake of it, but be honest and show your understanding and support. give him a hand becasue he is under the pressures of this world, more that you could ever possibly imagine.
good luck and please, dont be selfish, think about him and do it dont just keep it inside of you!
hope i could help
ps i have broken up with my libra girlfriend becasue she was lazy and closed and just didnt ever try to get to know me.