Comments on: Should Virgo woman take friendship with Cancer man to the next level?

By: Joey

Joey — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 23:30:10 +0000

@Joan

Dump the son of a b*tch!

He’ll come crawling back on his knees to you……….

By: Joan

Joan — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 17:40:07 +0000

hopefully someone can help me. I’m a virgo and he’s a cancer. known him many yrs and we just got together recently, it’s been great but he recently told me that he hopes that hes not leading me on, didn’t know what to say I was numbed. He’s a great guy and he does everything for me but he confuses me. He wanted to get a girl’s phone number while I was present and i felt disrespected, how can I bring it up to him even though he has told me that this relationship is going nowhere basically when he said I hope I’m not leading you on. help?

By: Joey

Joey — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 22:24:06 +0000

Virgo Girl, I suggest that you keep your distance from this cancer man. If he was interested in you, we would have made some attempts. Why ruin a good friendship?

By: Virgo girl

Virgo girl — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 13:09:54 +0000

Hi,
I’m a virgo woman and i’ve been working with a cancer man for about a year we both get along great and we’ve had a strong connection early on i seriously do think we would be great together but i’m worried about ruining our existing friendship what should i do? i really like him!!

By: Alex

Alex — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 07:27:30 +0000

I have a question..I’m a Virgo met a Cancer man…been with his wife for 12 years, she has cheated on him multiple times, but he stays with her for the children and his military career. He has filed for legal separation and said he was going to divorce her as soon as he returned. We met and experienced 90 days of total bliss. We were together everyday and he opened up to me and I too him. We share a very similar history and I feel we connected. He said the same. He actally told me he “loved me”. He recently redeployed back home and in these last 30 days I’ve heard from him 3x. I keep asking the question if things are okay between us, but get no answer. In the time we were together, he did things that no other guy I’ve ever dated has done. Gone out of his way to make me comfortable and feel secure. Spent every minute with me and only me. So now that he’s home and competely distance has really thrown me for a loop. His last words to me were “patience, honesty and communication, are the only way this relationship is going to work”. I feel like I’ve been bamboozled. Any comments from you Cancer Men?

By: Lwanda

Lwanda — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:29:43 +0000

I am a cancer man and dating a virgo as well.everything is amazing actually she makes me feel good in a special way and yes she is very critical at most and i do get hurt many times.its always better that if the mood swings are present i be left alone because at that very moment i tend to be able to make irrational decisions and changes no matter how hard i try to point out to her how being so critical is hurting it never helps but if you real love a person you will have to learn to hang in there and as long love is there just hang in there its not always everytime that you gonna be happy in a relationship and virgos love independence and their own space and just give them and they will love you for it.goodluck

By: james

james — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 05:21:06 +0000

Im a Cancer man. the virgo woman I have been with the last eight months is absolutely beautiful and so amazing. I am truly blessed. I could not believe how often she appreciates the little things I would do because she had not experienced them before. she says that the way we just held each other was not something she knew before…and yes I do believe her because I have had woman friends who are not treated with respect by men, regardless of their sign. I am very much a cancer, but I am aware of my moods and try to keep them to the upside…which is a great trait to be aware and care enough to change.
I say listen to your feelings. If the person I am with energizes me and inspires me instead of depleting me, that is where I will be and want to give back 10x. we have a bad reputaion for our moods, fair or not, I am more easy going and upbeat than most people I know.

By: canceriancrab

canceriancrab — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 05:54:01 +0000

Just because the sun sign is in cancer, is not a great indication of if you are compatible…put a nice Venus in Gemini with a Scorpio moon and strap yourself in 4 a crazy ride. If you are ready to break this
Cancers heart by judging soley on a sun sign, I question if true love is present? If you are going do run your relationships via astrology, atleast go further than reading only the first chapter of many….do it the right way and find out about other placings in the birth chart and you will find a whole new world opens with more possibilities then you could ever imagine! I’m a cancer with a moon in Scorpio, rising in libra, mercury in gemini I along with Venus in Gemini and a mars in Pisces and am speaking to a Virgo at the moment and things are looking bright! Remember, love for the meaning of love not just because of the stars in the sky. Looks like a few caps of MDMA are here, toodles!

By: Huey

Huey — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 23:40:12 +0000

Hi. I completely agree with Billy. What you experienced are negative traits of the Cancerian sign working against a self destructive person. There are other cancerian with similar mood swings and a thirst for liquids. But as far as I see, they also know how to use their handy tough shell to get through the mood swings. And their drinks doesnt get any harder than large quantities of fruit juices. Most Virgo women are very quick to analyze a person. I wonder what made you stand by him for 3 months watching him make sexist comment at other women ? And if so, this cancerian has lost the most positive essence of the Cancer Sign – Decency & Kindness. By the way, I & my brother too are cancerian. My brother is similar to the person mentioned above and leads a wasted life away from his family. Whereas I live a blissful life free of drugs & alcohol with my precious Virgo wife and my sweetheart Taurus son..

By: billyO

billyO — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 15:04:00 +0000

I'm a Cancer man and I must say I hear those of you talking about our mood swings. Completely understood. The thing to take into consideration is where is their base? Is their base positive (optimistic) or negative? If their base personality is negative, then the swings will curve further in that direction, and in those times you see manipulation, sniping, defensiveness, etc.

If their base is positive, they will still have mood swings, but you, as a stable Virgo, can actually have influence over those - while at the same time give a little space for them to unmuddle their mood. Make sense?

As per the anon post about the addicted Cancer, that's not really about the sign. That's a more psychological disorder, and, no matter the sign of the individual will in the end result in self-destruction and quite a lot of damage to wheover is involved with them. The only thing to glean from that post is that yes, Cancers are Masters of Hedging so if you want a straight answer on a topic that is close to their core OR is something they are feeling extremely guilty about, it will be a hard time getting it out of them. Even then, that whole mess of a person described has much more than the negative traits of their sign working against them.

Make home a safe place, and your Cancer will almost always return, and hopefully want to continue to keep it a safe haven.