Comments on: Older Scorpio man, younger Capricorn woman

By: WH

WH — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 16:20:38 +0000

Well, that’s basically what’s up: typically other people are jealous. Yeah, scorpios REALLY ARE that good [kinda like an Aries at sports or something]. And yeah, Libras get a bad rap b/c really, they are trying to keep the conversation going for reasons of their own and don’t actually care about the content…..not so much flaky as they have a zillion things going at any one time, and don’t care about the details or follow through of an idea that that came up in conversation: that’s not what they do.

Unfortunately there is a major issue with the scorpio/libra relationship: The scorpio is very focused, even obsessed with particulat objectives, and the libra takes it as it comes….translation: we are too intense for you, and you are too laid back for us. And if it bothers you that the Aries will pull the trigger, we WILL push THE BUTTON. Just as a scorpio will never have the broad mindset that the libra requires, the libra just can’t keep up with the scorp once they move in a particular direction, be it emotionally, business, military, whatever. I see it in my own family and coworkers and had a libra gf once [REALLY good in bed, btw, and REALLY good company before/after, in general actually, you can bring them almost anywhere, just not on the battlefield] but it’s always the same: we choose a course of action, and the libra does something else altogether. Unless there’s some other chart influence, it’s a pleasant BUT temporary arrangement. Now, a libra with strong cap or cancer influence in chart, or vice versa, and you have my attention. Libras are gorgeous in every way. (oh, and flattery WORKS on them, but not so much on us: we NEED you to mean it, because, well, i dunno, we do).

I DO like libras as friends and everything else, but they are not the meat and potatoes of our emotional life. They can run on Deisel, unleaded, super or regular, we need plutonium

As far as the Pisces / Libra thing goes: Pisces have this need to manipulate /control others, but Libra is the master of this, so it’s just a power struggle. Plus, the both like the drama of an argument. The libra likes the debate, and the Pisces are just insane (loooove you) and given that they both have their prefences harwired into them, no one will ever concede a point, so they are better of going bowling. Plus, remember, the Pisces can relate to people by BEING that person, and the libra likes to sit around and converse/debate, add a virgo, and you’ve got a verbal war where it’s not even clear what the big deal is about. Funny though, these signs typically are lifetime friends. But, i’m on the outside of the dynamic, so there’s probably other issues. anywho. Happy New Year

By: LibraLady

LibraLady — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 15:09:56 +0000

B
Some of us know more then you would like us to….

By: LibraLady

LibraLady — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 15:08:56 +0000

I remember way back in school, the Capricorn girls were so serious about their work and home life…makes you wonder if they party hard when the day is through……Must be some way to keep sane…funny they would hang out with the Pisces girls and fight a lot, Pisces and Capricorn girls were always trying to change each other…weird since both are strong willed, throw in a Virgo friend and you had a vicious fight…..Hopefully these 3 signs don’t meet in the workplace much…chaos!!!!! LOL

By: LibraLady

LibraLady — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 15:03:07 +0000

Walter
I have always liked Scorpio men for a lot of reasons. You are fair and down to the point when it comes to love…I think you guys get a really bad rap
I know that a few Scorpio men are notorious womanizers (well the other signs are doing it too, just not as suave) but I’ve always been lucky enough to be at the friendship level with Scorpios. I know that you guys have a lot of heart, a few go bad due to life screwing them up but in general you guys are the best lovers and friends a girl could have. Your Capricorn Lady is very lucky…..Cest la vie, all Libra women are judged as flakes and tramps and all Scorpio men are judged as cruel and dangerous…..The other signs should really have a look in the mirror sometimes…The most vulnerable of hearts get the baddest rap….

By: B

Wed, 02 Dec 2009 21:32:26 +0000

Scorpio Male….if anyone knew what goes on in our heads…

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 02:39:21 +0000

Sc/Sc/Pi here again. No, not every Sc acts or thinks like a porn star.

By: lajoaco

lajoaco — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 19:09:06 +0000

first of all, chill out with the judgments…i am a scorp man, had girlfriends all my life, never been single for more than 4 months or so, just finished a 3 and a half year relationship with a lovely libra, but her air element got to me… instead of making love we talked to much, which i enjoy, but sometimes i just want to f*** her brains out… so i dumped her. two weeks ago this happened, now i am dating a capricorn girl, and i tell you the truth, she has something. the deattached, chillout point of view she has on life is really refreshing, most girls i meet, at least according to society now a days, are completly borring, they are girls not women. hook up with bunch of men, get wasted, are shallow and really really dumb or boring… with my cap girl i met her by a friend, she was really interested in me, i could tell, so i just couldnt get a grip on my self and had to have mindblowing pleasures with her. know we are dating and really her energy is refreshing, something i noticed is that i am a very black or white person, if something in a girls attitude crashes with me (she has to take the lead (she is a girl for god sake, my woman, the girl who has my last name, is secure enough and trust me enough as to follow me) also girls who are trash or have a bad taste…not my style) so my relationship with girls i know either fall completley in love (if i sense emotional frigidness i bail out, instead caps ease and patience is maturity… is so exciting). my style of life crashes completley with my cap girl, she is so easy about everything, really mature, and that drives me crazy, since the day i met her and heard her laughter, i wanted to take her to the beach and do very ilegal stuff (thats another thing of scorp man, sex is something so pure for me, but also something so ravaging that i cannot balance it, if i have to have a girl i HAVE TO HAVE HER MIND AND SOUL, i will not take less, girls i finished the relationship with me are usually completley head over heels with that part, i am a very intense person and at the risk of sounding arrogant, i need my match. the cap girls attitude is everything i look for in a girl, she is polite, well educated, interesting to talk to, and so damn insecure i f***ing love it, i just want to f***, protect and love this girl for eternity… cap girls fragility is exactly that i love… for she shows me her real self, and that real self, is what nobody shows now a days (less a scorp) so her honesty proves to me she is for real.

a tip about scorps: we go head over heels for very chill out girls.
we love a challenge… to the point of desesperation, be a challenge, you will not regret it.
in the end we always win, always, at least in relationships i always had to be the best lover, the best provider, and the best friend… that is winning. it has its up and downs, and i get it, we can be very freaky… but what the f***, if you are just like everybody else where is the fun.

By: sandrar

sandrar — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 21:37:48 +0000

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By: DominoRed_15099498271256810229

DominoRed_15099498271256810229 — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 21:33:11 +0000

Walter is the devil (j/k) I will shoot my imaginary BB gun at him too.

Walter says:
December 23, 2008 at 3:17 am
Nothing says I love you like a show at the opera(my family), drinks afterward at a biker bar(my friends) and then tantric sex…or we could just talk untill dawn. And I alreay know what you want for breakfast b/c I asked you 4 weeks ago…and as long ago as that little memory was, I forgot to bring the opera tickets…oh yeah, the wonderful Capricorn was keeping track of that litle detail. DAMN we’re good
Oh you just want to stay home, watch a movie and cuddle…that’s awesome, ok I’m in. You know that I’m massaging your neck to get you to undress, right? you look better naked, wear this cowgirl hat hehe
Do you get the Scorpio now??? I am a Scorpio and so much has happened, so fast in my life that I’m kinda just ready for whatever, I would have to spend months just writing it down, well, what I can remember. Capricorn has a way of organizing this crap into something a little simpler, oh my I was happy once, why did it have to end? and please let this time work out! and why do i have to go through this dating crap? just marry me
I know we are good together, but we just met so I have to be cooler about things, but now you think I don’t care, I want to make it up to you, but now you have no idea what I’m talking about….so what are you doing later dear, I get out of work in a few hours…my place or yours? or do you want to sneak it at work

Having fun? duhh…admit it without us, you Capricorns would miss out on all the stuff that makes life worth it. I know a ‘perfect’ Cap couple, and all they have is their money…and because they never took any risks, they don’t even have that much. Ok, yes, I (scorpio) have gone WAY OUT there and crashed in the past, so sue me…I just got promoted 5 times in 2 years and then changed career paths, left the boring cap couple in the dust….have fun watching the F**king simpsons every F**king night. And maybe I’ll try that for a couple years, then uh, i dunno, make freinds and stop watching it…or hehe invite them over to watch. and YES I KNOW, without stable people I won’t get anywehere, so my best friends in the world are Caps (cuz they really are worth it) and Leos (you do the math on that one)

By: Anonymos

Anonymos — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 05:13:49 +0000

I’ve just finished reading through all the comments about the sco/cap connection.
And I have to say that I can verify that I’ve experienced a lot of these same things in the last relationship that I had with a scorpio man.
WE WERE BEST FRIENDS!
He understood me to a degree that I wasn’t even able to understand about myself.
We’d spend endless hours talking over the phone.
There were many times we talked until the dawning of the next day.
I found that I had to watch what I said because he was a no nonesense type of guy and a lot of times he would stop talking to me.
This was such an emotionally charged reltionship, it often drained me.
We’d often reconnect and things would be fine for a while.
He went into the military a year ago and at first he wrote, but then the letters stopped and I haven’t heard from him in a year!
I think about him all the time.
I feel so drawn to him and I don’t understand why I can’t get him out of my mind.
I often wounder if he may be thinking of me or if I’m just obsessed?