Comments on: Is Scorpio man cheating on Virgo woman?

By: CrazyNLove

CrazyNLove — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 09:01:24 +0000

Engaged to a Scorpio… Fell in love with him two years ago. I was still married to my EX. I couldnt help myself the chemistry was there… It was fire. The only problem I had was that he and I stayed in different states. When I got ready to come back home after spending three months with him on family business… he was devestated. To make matters worse upon my arrival back to my hometown I my Ex and I ended up separating. I didnt call him him for two years. Fast forward to today… weve been engaged for three weeks and I am scared. He is everything i’ve ever wanted in a man in everyway. It almost seems too good to be true. I know he loves me but I always worry that maybe he still has hate for me in his heart for not contacting him for that long and for have intimate relationships with other men during that time. To this day even though I was married he says that I cheated on him and that he cant believe I was with so many guys before thinking about him…..

By: joyce

joyce — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 14:35:37 +0000

I fell in love with a Scorpio man once. Things didn’t work out for us and I moved on and he got married and started a family. But I still love that man dearly and I wish things were different. It is very hard to forget a good Scorpio.

By: virgoandyesinlovewithascorpio

virgoandyesinlovewithascorpio — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 06:00:59 +0000

oh wow, this site is just wonderful. i have the same experience!!
ive been yes, inlove with a scorpio for almost 2 years now, a month after i met him. he’s gorgeous, caring, smart, loving and broken hearted. LOL. but i knew him even before he and his ex started dating. he told me i should find some rich guy i can connect with, (but he himself said we had a connection. confusing right?) but i could care less! it’s he i want. ahahahah,, lol BUT I NEVER TOLD HIM I WAS IN LOVE WITH HIM. anyway, we didnt talk for 6 months after they started dating bcoz i guess i was just frustrated with him… but hell people we knew (who dont know i liked him) told me i looked like the girl if only my hair was shorter. :O i was sooo mad… but we remained friends. (im so stupid)
recently he told me that now that he’s single he can now flirt with me and he’s been hitting on me ever since. not that i dont like it, its just that im confused. he told me i should look for some other guy! and now, he’s flirting endlessly… i know he’s healing and it takes time for some scorpios to fall in love (wtv) but i just dont want to jump on him now. (im not that kinda girl!) and im not desperate. i dont want to be a rebound girl. BUT i dont want to let him go, im afraid he’s going to fall for somebody else…

i told myself maybe i could learn to love somebody else but my heart came running back to him
im so afraid to lose him and see him with another girl… ive waited for him for a long time and now im confused..
all my gut is saying i should wait and see how it works out,, **sigh…
help…

By: DominoRed

DominoRed — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 21:48:35 +0000

My mom is a Virgo and my Dad is a Scorp. They’ve been married 52 years. The first 25 my Dad completely controlled and the latter my Mom. Earth & Water signs have the same explosive temperment. THAT’S where the Virgo-Scorpio coupling becomes dangerous. Virgos are explosive. Scorpios are above reproach in their minds so it will be a TRUE death match if these two hurt the other’s feelings.

Where is does work is both signs are what I call “couple-ley”. They like to have mates and feel a void without them. If the Virgo can control their temper and their mouth when mad, you will be alright.

I tell my Scorp I love him and sometimes he won’t even answer me. That’s what teeth are for *wink*. LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

By: Virgo 47

Virgo 47 — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 20:27:23 +0000

If any of the Scorpio men wish to meet their match in vendictiveness and stubborness who shall have it with the Virgo woman. Don’t think for one minute
that the virgo girl will be controlled for any lenght of time. To this girl “love” is not to be betrayed or diminished. When you get this girl’s heart you have it all! Don’t blow it because she does have a breaking point and it may be to your surprise that once you cross it you are finished. Confuses me that a relationship that is so comfortable and sensual has to be dimished by the Scorpio game…even when it is what they truly want and won’t let themselves revel in the wonder of it all…just have to keep the b.s. going and spoil everything the Virgo has to offer. I’ve know more than one Scorpio sitting with regret over messing with his Virgo girl. When she shines her light on you you’ll be done. Hint to Scorpio…if you walk away from your Virgo girl you’d better not be gone long. She might want you…but, Virgo girls do not NEED a man! I’m telling you, you have met your match.

By: VirgoGirl..

VirgoGirl.. — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 06:16:00 +0000

I am a virgo girl, and I’m in love with a scorpio. I feel so comfortable around him, like I can just be myself no matter what. We argue a little but not much, usually when we’re drunk, mostly when I’m drunk. However I’ve never told him I love him, I’m so scared I’ll scare him away. I don’t know what to do.. I relly am in love with him. And it’s breking my heart. I told him we should just be friends because I care to much about him to see him with other girls. He said he thought that would be best because he saw us getting serious. Like he always hesitates and says something that keeps me there.. I can’t explain it. I want to tell him I’m in love with him, I just don’t know how. I can’t have him reject me, because that’s worse than him not knowing. I’d rather break my own heart than him break mine.

By: Sophia Lauren

Sophia Lauren — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 23:44:06 +0000

Well, i have written here a few months back. my situation has changed a lot. well, a little back ground. im from Egypt. im divorced and have 2 boys. he’s 35 and never been married.
we r so inlove with eachother, but here in egypt parents meddle with their son’s or daughter’s lives like its just their own. his parents don’t want him to marry me. actually they r totally against it, coz i have 2 kids. i can see where they r coming from.. but still, it hurts a lot!
we broke just a week ago. he can’t go against his parents will. im so frustrated, so hurt, so… in pain, and so heart broken. i can’t stop crying, and i can’t stop thinking abt him.. but i don’t want him back! he just gave up on us with the signs of the first battle..
i fought for him everyone i knew. they told me he will never fight for u, which turned out to be right
anyways, Scorpio men hate commitment, but if i can advise any of u, i would say play along.. just make him feel like u don’t care about being together forever.
try to read him, be patient, be persistent. don’t rush things. also tell him how u feel, and be yrself all the time.
they r very passionate creatures once they feel loved, truly loved!
if u find a Scorpio man, hold on to him. they r very faithful, very giving, and extremely good in bed
good luck grils have patience and u wont regret it.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 18:01:26 +0000

Wow. I am a Virgo woman and also in love with a Scorpio man. My situation is mind-blowing. I met him 3 months ago.. he was working in my state, but lived in Texas. We were seeing each other for a few weeks.. when he up and quit his job and asked me to move with him out of state. For some reason I trusted my gut and dropped everything in my life to move down there with him. A week later, he said ‘his feelings fell off for me’.. left me at his house and I drove all the way back home (which is 1000 miles away btw). I was so heartbroken, i’ve never felt that way before. He still hasn’t stopped contacting me.. and was just being friendly up until the other day when he told me that he was in love with me. He was going to come up and see me, but then the plans changed and he wants me to now come back and see him. Then out of nowhere he started avoiding me again. It’s driving me up the [expletive deleted] wall!!! I need some advice cause I just can’t seem to shake this guy off and he is all I think about and want, but feel like i’m never going to get there.

By: virgo28

virgo28 — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 09:14:13 +0000

I have been in a on and off relationship with this scorpio man for the past 13 years. He cheated on me with another when were 16 and I treated him badly in return. He’s been with someone else for almost 9 years and he still comes to me and I don’t know how to get rid of him. He is always there even though we are not living in the same state because he’s in the marines. I express my feelings to him all the time but he never showed no emotions. He said after all this time he doesn’t need to tell me how he feel, I should know by now. He will call me about 5 to 7 times a day and Im like what about your wife? He doesn’t know what he wants and he doesn’t want me to go because I know he loves but he can’t just leave his family and I have never asked him either…Last night we finally spoke while he was at work and he told me that he can’t do this anymore because he is falling too much in love with me. He said he has been for the past 13years but I hurt him. He actually forgot that he was the one who cheated on me. He said he has to stop because he’s more in love with me than his wife and he can’t stop thinking about me. So we have to stop what we have because he can’t leave her. I said yes to his proposal, he was shocked. I am tired of his game. I told him he need to stop the phone call and the cyber sex but he doesn’t want to. He said but we still friends. I was about to go to GA to visit so I said I won’t go anymore but he still want me to come. I said no. He hate not getting what he wants. Im about to block him from everything in my life. Them scorpios need to know that we virgos can be as vengeful and cold as they are…Earlier tonight both of his best friend drove from upstate to see if Im ok and to ask me not to give up on him. He called them and complained just because I said I agreed with his descision…I am not going to say im not hurt because I cried a whole lot today but I am a big girl, I’ll get over it sooner than later. But I know he will think about my answer for a long time, specially they don’t like to tell others what they feeling. He’s on his own. I am a person just like him with feeling and he forget that virgo is as cold as the north pole when hurt to many times…..

Please let me know if im wrong for doing this to him. If I don’t this I will never move on because he has that idea in his head that he owns me.

By: ProfessionalVirgo

ProfessionalVirgo — Sun, 21 Jun 2009 06:04:41 +0000

I of course am a Virgo girl, I have been dating this scorpio for about a month now, he asked me before to be his girlfriend. I was just getting out of a long relationship and not quite ready but continue to see him…. His Ex Wife is still in the picture..they have a 4 year old daughter together and he is a very devoted father, I love that about him, I could never fall for a guy that I couldn’t see raising my kids…. But he told me the other day that he does not want to have anymore at all and is very serious about it… I truely think that I am falling in love with this guy(which is a hard thing for me to do or admit) but with him it is different.. I don’t know why. I am only 21 and plan on having kids in the next 4-6 years, should I be planning that far into my future? should I plan on this thing lasting that long? with my exes, I never thought it would.. I was the one saying let’s talk about it when the time comes. With this guy.. I am falling head over heels. I want to make it work! I don’t get to see him often because of our schedules but he texts me all the time, the other day he even texted that he thinks he is falling for me! I was just across the room when I got the message and I am sure he saw me blush. I responded with … good to know… he apologized for telling me because he said he could feel the akwardness!!! This guy knows things about me that I am afraid to even admit to myself. it scares and exites me at the same time! I don’t know what to do because I feel for some reason that he still has feelings for his Ex.. they were married and she is the first girl he was ever with.. I still have feelings for my first. why wouldn’t he? we have alot in common and all I want to do is be with this guy, but I am so afriad that for the first time in my life I will get my heart broken… I have never been cheated on before but in my eyes the emotional cheating would be the worst of it, for him to have feelings for another girl, exspecailly after everything she has done to him. which she freely admits, she slept with my best friend while they were together and to this day he doesn’t even know about that one, would it sink me to her level to tell him? would it hurt him? I’m not sure how I would feel if she still had that power over him…… He is unlike anyone I ever knew to be such a forgiving person, I thought scorpios were vengeful, but he forgave her for cheating 5 times, she left him and came back 5 times, he claims it was just for his daughter.. but I just don’t know what to think..