Is Scorpio man cheating on Virgo woman?
March 26, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
A Virgo female asks:
I have read a lot of different horoscopes about Scorpios and Virgos. Are we really compatible and are these two signs a good love match? Also, my Scorpio man and I have been seeing each other for over a year now. I have revealed to him that I am in love with him. He has told told me that he loves me, but that he is not in love with me, but that he cares for me deeply and that it takes him a while to fall in love. Is this normal for most Scorpios and does it usually take this long for a Scorpio to fall in love? Also, I have no proof but at times I feel that my Scorpio may be involved with other women and I know that Scorpio’s are very sexual and lustful. Is it possible that my Scorpio man is telling me the truth that he does care for me deeply, but that due to his lustful nature he can still juggle other women, while having deep feelings for me? I have asked him in the past if he is involved with anyone else and to please be truthful with me. He always replies that I worry too much and that he is not seeing other people. However, my gut instinct and intuition makes me feel that he is. Should I take it that if I do feel that something is going on that it probably is and that he is being dishonest with me? If so, does that mean that he does not care deeply for me as he claims? Do you think that there is a chance for a Scorpio and Virgo to have a deep love bond, so much so that my Scorpio man will give up all other women and fall in love with me? Please help. Virgo girl not sure what to do.
“He has told told me that he loves me, but that he is not in love with me, but that he cares for me deeply and that it takes him a while to fall in love.”
Since you’re a Virgo, you will bear with me as I linguistically parse these phrases (with apologies to George Lakoff).
- When he loves you, he is performing an action, because love is being used as a verb. He is willing to care for you.
- When he is in love with you, both of you are in a box, for LOVE IS A CONTAINER.
- When he falls in love, he is not in control. He slips and falls into the “love box,” against his will.
As we know, Scorpios are control freaks, so it is not so easy for them to allow themselves to do anything against their will, to surrender. For a Scorpio, giving up control opens up the risk of hurt and betrayal, so perhaps it does take him a long time to fall in love.
One way to guard against surrender is by having affairs, for it keeps him at a distance from the love box. However, you may just be a Virgo worrywort. Just because you feel something is going on, does not mean that it is. But you also should trust your gut, especially because Virgo rules this part of the body. You likely have good “attention to detail” (Virgos love to put this on their resume). What would be “out of place” if your Scorpio were cheating on you? Would you notice? I’m not telling you to poke around his private affairs, for that will certainly make a Scorpio run for the hills. But think logically about what would be “out of order.” Also keep in mind that Virgos are self-critical. Maybe you don’t feel good enough to have a man devote himself wholeheartedly to you.
Virgo and Scorpio are a good match, but this is not what your concern is really about. I’d suggest that you look at your relationship history. Have you been cheated on before? Do you feel worthy of being loved? If after your own self-exploration you still feel in your gut that he is cheating, write back and we’ll see what we can do.
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I have a friend going through something similar. She thinks her mate is cheating, but has no proof. I think we all just have our ups and downs and need to adjust accordingly.
Sometimes we think of cheating, but dont act upon it. Sometimes we are just unhappy at the moment. It doesnt mean that they will cheat.. It just means they want a change.
I also know that if you push a scorpio, they will cheat by accusing them so often. They will eventually prove you right then be done with you.
Hey, I’m a Virgo girl falls for A Scorpio guy. Your story is incredibly the same as me…I told him I love him and he said he did too but he wasn’t — that was five years ago and he left me for another girl. That break up ruined me for months…but soon I got over him… No it’s not the end — Now he is back and starts playing his game with me again. He just broke up with that girl. I should have said no but I couldn’t…
Scorpio is so secretive, can’t win them easily. But once you love him.. you can’t love any body else…
I have been reading this blog all morning and have found everyone’s advice very helpful. I am a virgo dating?? a scorpio. I am going through the same thing everyone else is talking about. Do we stay with them when we feel they are cheating on us? Yes- NO? I have been on this emotional roller coaster with him for the past two years. He has moved across the country twice to be with me. But for some reason we can’t seem to just be happy. Yesterday night was another one of those nights. I heard “I just want to work on me for awhile, I’m not into working on this relationship. ” I’m frustrated as all hell. I have spent the last two years trying to be comfortable in this relations, digging though my own pile of trust issues and what it takes to have a healthy loving relationship. I have finally figured it out. What I want and what he has been searching for in a relationship for the past two years with me. Now, he wants nothing to do with this relationship, and he just wants time for himself. When I ask him if he’ll change his mind, and he just needs time. His response is I don’t know? I just need to worry about me right now.
Does anyone have any advice in regards to this situation.? Should I pack my bags and move on, or will he come around and we’ll have the amazing relationship that I’ve had glimpses of over the past two years.?
I am married to a Scorp. Once they commit to a relationship you cannot get away from the pincers or the stinger. If you are even asking what is wrong with your relationship with him, honestly, dump him. They have to be struck by a lightening bolt or something, they know exactly who they want. He told me that he knew, and was very romantic with his marriage proposal..They are loyal and a bit jealous, but worth every hairsplitting moments when they love you because they will try everything to make it work, they are in love and they are the defenders of that state. I hope this makes sense. Give space, they will hunt you down. There is no escape. good luck.
i am a scorpio guy in love with a virgo girl.I do not know how to tell her please advise
I am a virgo girl, write her a letter, expressing how you feel, be very clear in the words you choose, so there is no way to mistake what you are saying(virgo’s tend to over think every situation),don’t worry about rejection-because she won’t reject, then taken her out to a romnatic candle light dinner, we are suckers for romance…
Scorpios usually fall in love very quickly. If you aren’t fulfilling his needs, in and out of the bedroom, he will probably have doubts about his feelings for you. Maybe you could suprise him with a romantic gesture.. Something to remind him that he should love you for being there.
When I was with another Scorpio I was extremely secretive. Though Scorpios rarely cheat, physically. If you ask him about it he will only get more defensive and secretive. So, until he remembers that you are his girl, continue to shower him with love and attention.
Oh My Goodness i love this blog…every one of us are going through similar things WOW…Im a virgo girl and my “on and off bf” is a scorpio…he is a hard headed stuborn man…he gets what he wants when he wants it…he’s come after me 4 times already after we break up and he litterally cries for me and beggs me to get back with him but he turns around and does the same thing over and over and over again after 2 weeks and me like an eidiate goes back with him everytime he comes back…this last time we broke up for a little over a month and he called me 2 days ago telling me how much he misses me etc…but ive decided to really just move on now because there is no point i just turned off my phone and im going to try not to have any contact with him and i dont know wats going to happen from here honestly…
I have been looking all over the Internet for a solution to the exact problem and I’m so glad that I found this blog!
My man is a scorp and I’m a cancer. We’ve been together for less than a year and I told him in month 5 that I loved him. He said that he loves me but isn’t in love with me.
However, I don’t suspect him of cheating. I used to be suspicious early in the relationship but have learned to trust him. There was no proof and no reason. He does say that it takes him a long time to fall in love. I’m his second girlfriend (he’s 30) and it took him 3 years to be comfortable to tell his ex (1st g/f) of 6 years ago that he was in love with her.
It does frustrate me that he’s not in love, as he claims, but in the end, we’re both happy in the relationship and I wouldn’t feel comfortable rushing him to “fall in love”. He has all the qualities I look for in a b/f… except not saying that he’s in love with me… but I know that if I were in his position I wouldn’t want to be pressured into saying three words, “I’m in love”, to make my partner feel better about the relationship. Him not saying those three words isn’t a valid reason to break the relationship if you make each other happy. Hope this helps… just know that you, virgo, aren’t alone.
Maybe it does take years for them to build the courage of saying that they’re in love. I’m happy that he shows to me that he’s in love. He even admits that he’d rather show that he loves someone rather than telling them. Scorps, they’re just physical people.
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im a virgo woman going crazy over a scorpio man! he’s everything i ever wanted in a man. he’s very considerate, he’s passionate, he’ a great kisser (i donnu about sex YET!), he “gets” me!
but he’s driving me crazy. i donnu where exactly do i stand. i have known him for 4 months and been dating for 1 month now. am i rushing things? i mean i dont call a lot, and i dont txt him unless i get a reply.. im not pushing him at all. he even txted me a message saying “I ” ! it was only I.. what does that mean? i replied “u what?” he replied “forgot!”, so i told him u can take all the time in the world to remember, no rush.. but im frustrated. i donnu if he loves, and i donnu if he’s taking me seriously or not.
but i think we have great chemistry, and i think virgo and scorpio make a good couple.
u say scorpios r jealous, i hate jealousy.. it kills me and if it says anything it says that the person is not self confident and is insecure. i hate that in a man. im always crazy about self confident men.
also, im a very clear person, i donnu how to be mysterious.. and scorps like mysterious girls so ive read. i donnu i dont like pretending to be something that im not.. im easy to ready (i think!)
anyways, if any got some hints for me, they r more than welcomed!! i need them.
I love this site. I am in LIKE with a scorpio man, and I am a Virgo woman. We have only been dating for three weeks. I really like him and could see myself falling for him. But, …….he hasnt kissed me or tried to have sex with me? Whats that? I am maybe 5 years older than him and thinks he is sometimes intimdated but im not sure. Does he like me? confused virgo
I am a pisces he is a scorpio. My first experience astrologically speaking where everthing is supposed to be so great. Whatever to that! Yes sex is intense, passionate, great, all that. I keep coming back to the things I hear about games and tests and whatnot. And I really don’t get it. I am in no way naive about what he does when I don’t see him, and who knows how long that will be? But I do know he wants me and I want him and eventually , on his terms of course, we come back together. Naturally I am not a person who easily is intimate with many, several or a few different people. For him who knows? But to continually have to listen to snivel about how weak I am because I take time and effort and basic human emotion and feeling to understand everyone around me the best I can simply because I am pisces is rediculous! I am more so or as capable of playing any game a man presents to me if I choose to do so and my soft sweet easily hurt always crying exterior will not feel a thing. Must be the mutable fit into any situation and go with anything that makes me capable of this, right? Or maybe individuals are easier with the idea pisces are weak because the extreme duality and multi-faceted aspects are admittedly too complexfor most people? I don’t apologize ever for being loving giving and forgiving. As for the Scorpio, we play the same games and if I choose to pursue it I will. In so far I am not shy afraid or meek about saying exactly what I think or exactly what I want.
Maybe update your site and your blogs, just a thought.
hey i love this blog,,, im a virgo woman a and i inlove to a scorpio man..hes very jealous man.even im in the internet.he said if im stil looking a another. i just meet him for one week,i dont know what to do,hes very sweet but sometimes stubborn in word.. he said he want to meet me today but hes not txting me if hes coming or not..
I love this blog….mine is a little different but still the same situation….Im a lesbian….im a virgo and my scorpion lover is tomboyish girl…honestly she’s not girly at all, just her features, she’s very beautiful….Well, ive been talkin to my scorpio for bout 5 months from September…at first, i wasn’t tryin to be with her 1. because she said she doesnt do relationships because of her last break up that left her severly wounded and she has trust issues, on top of that she would always say mean things to me like, im jus another female she doesnt care about, i could drop u and never call you again, your nothing to me, etc (most of the time id just let it role through one ear and out the other, she’d say mean things but never made any real actions to let me gp)….non the less…she told me she liked me and opened up bout her terrible past and what she wants from her future…probably in the 3rd month we ended up sleepin together…at first i thought maybe she was jus usin me as a booty call but she still came around and we talked on the phone jus bout everyday….it wasn’t till a couple of days after the new year I noticed some change….she stopped callin all the time…..we had made plans to go to the movies but when i would text ed or call her, she wouldn’t pick up ( i got worried and was hurt, i felt betrayed used and nothing)….so i quit callin altogether the day after that, i deleted her numbers…. a week had passed and she decided to call me….i didnt know who it was at first…she called my phone….i went off…i told her i was worried bout her and how could she not call me for a week and just leave me hangin to dry…i also slipped and said i loved her (not that i was lyin, i just didnt want her to know yet) but she acts so non chalant like she really truly doesnt care and it hurts cause I don’t know what she feels on the inside and when i ask she even says she doesnt know…(the last time i was with her she had a bad cough and cold) She told me that she wasn’t use to anybody caring like that and she didnt think it was that serious. I asked her what she thinks of me and she said that she likes me and if she didnt she would have never had sex wit me. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO BELIEVE OR WHAT TO DO…..that last conversation happened this past sunday and when i had called her 2 days ago…we didnt say much….I want her but at the same time i dont wanna get hurt…….previously bout 2 years ago i was with a SCORPIO for 3 1/2 years and we even got artificially inseminated and had a baby together….she cheated on me and left me on my birthday….I was crushed for the longest of time….dont wanna get hurt again
Basically let me start off with this I think teenage relationships is a game, but I myself am 18 and fooled for the game (which is not very easy). I’ve been go’in with this scorpio since last August but known him since my freshman year in high school. This dude is the most flirtasious dude I know and I didn’t think I’d like him, but obviously I did/do lol.
What attracted me to him was how clean he was ( you know clean fingernails, nice clothes, hair always right, and always made me smile) the only thing was if he thought I was lookin at sombody he’d have this look of jealousy like ( what the hell you lookin at him for) or he would just say it. (rediculous). So thing that gets me is that we didn’t start goin out till after he graduated and his reason for that was because he would’ve have cheated on me. I’m like wat the hell is the diffrence now you have more of a chance because you in college. My done ass fell for just letting that go and just go with him on this. What we had was the best I’ve had from any boyfriend. always talkin, flirtin, jokein, hangin around, whatever was positive. Then it sorta wore off.
Anyway, I havn’t talked to dude since the 27th of december and today is the 20th of january wat! (oh yeah OBAMA 09! yea) So main thing is his phone is off but he can always barrow sombodies phone at least let me know he ok. you know. Another thing about this is I know how flirty he can be so I have the thought of 60% he is cheating on me and not thinkin bout wat he has (which is me) but what he can get (which is anyone else) not a good look. So why did all that change I’m thinkin he lost intrest. teenage relationships is a joke. but we’ll see wat happens next.
HI IM A VIRGO GIRL AND MY SCORPIO AN I FIGHT ALL THE TIME HE IS VERY CONTROLING A JEALOUS. HE’S BEEN IN PHILLY FOR TWO MONTHS AND HE KEEPS CALLING ME TELLING ME THAT HE MISSES ME, HE ALSO KEEPS QUESTIONING ME ABOUT MY WHERE ABOUT, AND THEN HE GOES OUT AND GETS DRUNK AND THEN WHEN I CALL TO CHECK ON HIM HE GETS MAD AND CALLS ME NAMES AND HANGS UP. THE NEXT DAY 12NOON HE CALLS ME AND SAYS HE SORRY BUT IM THINKING WHAT WHERE YOU DOING FOR THE LAST 18 HOUS HE SAYS HE WENT TO BED IS HE CHEATING
Im 35 virgo woman, seing this 29 yearold scorpio man. we have this passion for eachother on and of for 3 years now.
In the beginning it was so beautiful, but soon he said he wasnt up for a relationship and i couldnt understand that….throug the years a war has gone on, me expersseing my feelings him getting more and more cold, me getting angry, him ignoring me…..but I feel like he loves me, eventhough he dosnt show,,,but he keeps contacting me when i try to forget him, but swtill feel like he is the obne i love but cant have….
Now its hopefully a new and 3 period….but im afraid its the same, that he will not admit he has feelings for me, and only wants sex, wich he says is the best ever……should i forget about him ever opening up to me and showing love to me ?
I’m a Virgo woman who’s has been in an on and off again relationship with a scorpio man, until recently we both kind of just cut each other off. I got my phone number changed, and he stopped calling. So a couple of days ago, after nearly 6 mos of not communicating he decides to pop up at my house. I told my son to tell him that i was asleep. I think he’s finally gotten the picture, but it still hurts and I still really care about him. But ladies, here it is, LIFE IS TOO SHORT, a scorpio will play mind games with you for as long as he can, or until he meets someone else to play the same sadistic games with. He was a fantatistic lover, friend, but when it comes to commitment and not cheating. You can forget it, he’s going to do it, and you’re going to have to be the type of woman who can look the other way and remain loyal. Sad but true!!!!
heloooo guys,, please give me a any comment if what the best thing to do this scorpio man… im a virgo woman,20 years old and im meeting a scorpio man 50 years old..is that bad??? big big differents in our age.. but doesnt look like 50years old.. like 39years old..anyway,i have feeling towards him but somtimes i ask myself if that a true or just little love.we think like the same. we dont have any dissaggreement in any matters.. he just came to see me for 3or 5days and stay with me and the left again to go home..but sometimes he txt me and sometimse hes not. i meet him in a website. when i go online he get mad and tell me that if im still looking for a man, but hes online sometimes.. i dont know what he do there..hes very jealous even when somebody txt me and ask who that man..and too stubborn in words sometimes,, very frank but very gentle..
i dont know what to do with him? can you give me some advice.. he want me to stay with me? is that a good decision to stay with him??
HELP!! I am a virgo girl falling in love with a Scorpio man. We have been very good friends for several months. We spend most of our spare time together and we both have the same job – but in different locations. We are both skeptical of people and obviously have trust issues with most people, but we trust each other. We get each other. He is very quiet and rarley speaks to people he does not know, but he totally opens up to me except about emotions. His behavior is very confusing though. He does not talk about emotions when it comes to us. So I can’t figure out what he’s actually thinking or feeling. Sometimes he acts as though he wants to be more than friends and other times he acts as cold and stand-offish. He spends 4 out of the 7 nights at my house – has toothbrush, own shampoo ect. He keeps spare cloths here. But physically he is impossible to read. I’ve asked him why he just won’t kiss me his response was “I can ask you the same” So I kissed him – got a positive response. But then the ice covered things back over. He does things that for me that a great boyfriend would do and he’s so thoughtful. This is very confusing. I’m afraid to run him off by being to pushy, especially since what we have is awesome even without the physical part – but at the same time I can’t help it, I feel like I can’t keep my hands off him. I know 100% he is not seeing anyone else. Scorpios are so confusing – and help here???
i have this thing about this someone hes a scropio man 19 and im 15 fin to be 16 in 5 months he lives in los angeles andi live in alabama he is so fine he doesnt know that someone out in this world really is inlove or like him my plan was to move in LA after high school and find my man but i dont know if thinks im good of him hes very shy i know that how can i make him that im the only one for i love him jacob very much.
siging otu arianna joyce bryant a.k.a lilbeauitful -virgo girl-
i am a virgo but the guy i am seeing exclusively for 2 months is a scorpio. he is smart, funny, generous, hot, caring and outgoing. girls would kill him get their hands on him but he asked me to be exclusive with me 2 weeks after we met.
i just trust him for some reason. but i know that he still flirts / talks with other women. but i tried not to let it bother me cos by the end of the day, i am the one who gets to keep him. but yeah… even though he told me that he really cares about me and likes me alot, he is really unpredictable in a way that in front of other girls, esp. the one he once hooked up with before being exclusive with me, he seems more distant. while i have to watch him talk to the girl in the name of friendship, i can’t do the same like try to talk to him too much around friends as i don’t wanna seem like a control freak. i really really like him and i wish he would pay more attention to me esp. in front of other people so that at least my silence is really painful for me.
i am a virgo but the guy i am seeing exclusively for 2 months is a scorpio. he is smart, funny, generous, hot, caring and outgoing. girls would kill to get their hands on him but he asked me to be exclusive with me 2 weeks after we met.
i just trust him for some reason. but i know that he still flirts / talks to other women. but i tried not to let it bother me because by the end of the day, i am the one who get to keep him. but yeah… even though he told me that he really cares about me and likes me alot, he is really unpredictable in a way that in front of other girls, esp. the one he once hooked up with before being exclusive with me, he seems more distant. while i have to watch him talk to the girl in the name of friendship, i can’t do the same like try to talk to him too much around friends as i don’t wanna seem like a control freak. i really really like him and i wish he would pay more attention to me esp. in front of other people because it’s really painful to keep my mouth shut when girls are around him and acting like he is single and available, he told me himself that he won’t consider himself single .
Inlovewithscorpio don’t react ,don’t be be drawn into his games.Ignore it and he will soon get tired of his games.I only know 3 scorpion men and have been married to one for 10 yrs so I don’t know if I’m the expert but they hate when you don’t take the bait.NO SCENES and tears and hysterics because they hate toooooo much emotion.No interrogation or he will soon get bored with you.Keep him guessing they like mystery(trying to find out what going on in your head).Gal, you an earth sign so you got what it takes.Don’t blurt out your insecurities because thats giving him the upper hand.Like I say the more mysterious you are th more he will try to possess you.Good luck
I am virgo and i am in love with a scorpio man. And i constantly second guess myself about it. Just wondering am I worrying to much or do i really need to leave him alone. I constantly wonder if he really love me or do he just say it. And when I ask him he always say Where is the trust in my word. I ve just told myself if it don’t work at least I tried
Heyy! haha i love this blog. I am a virgo woman (16 yrs old) and have been with my scorpio boyfriend for just over a year. Our relationship has had many ups and downs! In the beggining, he did what all other scorpios do. I told him that i loved him..but he said he wasnt “in love” with me. I am a moon in cancer, so i am quite emotional. Scorpio’s dont like too much emotion, and that’s what i’ve learned! But we have been through so much, and he is my best-friend! He really is my soulmate, even though we fight sometimes (but it’s always over stupd things) SO MY ADVICE IS JUST GIVE IT TIME AND YOU WILL HAVE YOUR PERFECT SOCRPIO! OH YEAH AND DONT ACT LIKE “YOUR ALL THAT”..THEY HATE IT.
I of course am a Virgo girl, I have been dating this scorpio for about a month now, he asked me before to be his girlfriend. I was just getting out of a long relationship and not quite ready but continue to see him…. His Ex Wife is still in the picture..they have a 4 year old daughter together and he is a very devoted father, I love that about him, I could never fall for a guy that I couldn’t see raising my kids…. But he told me the other day that he does not want to have anymore at all and is very serious about it… I truely think that I am falling in love with this guy(which is a hard thing for me to do or admit) but with him it is different.. I don’t know why. I am only 21 and plan on having kids in the next 4-6 years, should I be planning that far into my future? should I plan on this thing lasting that long? with my exes, I never thought it would.. I was the one saying let’s talk about it when the time comes. With this guy.. I am falling head over heels. I want to make it work! I don’t get to see him often because of our schedules but he texts me all the time, the other day he even texted that he thinks he is falling for me! I was just across the room when I got the message and I am sure he saw me blush. I responded with … good to know… he apologized for telling me because he said he could feel the akwardness!!! This guy knows things about me that I am afraid to even admit to myself. it scares and exites me at the same time! I don’t know what to do because I feel for some reason that he still has feelings for his Ex.. they were married and she is the first girl he was ever with.. I still have feelings for my first. why wouldn’t he? we have alot in common and all I want to do is be with this guy, but I am so afriad that for the first time in my life I will get my heart broken… I have never been cheated on before but in my eyes the emotional cheating would be the worst of it, for him to have feelings for another girl, exspecailly after everything she has done to him. which she freely admits, she slept with my best friend while they were together and to this day he doesn’t even know about that one, would it sink me to her level to tell him? would it hurt him? I’m not sure how I would feel if she still had that power over him…… He is unlike anyone I ever knew to be such a forgiving person, I thought scorpios were vengeful, but he forgave her for cheating 5 times, she left him and came back 5 times, he claims it was just for his daughter.. but I just don’t know what to think..
I have been in a on and off relationship with this scorpio man for the past 13 years. He cheated on me with another when were 16 and I treated him badly in return. He’s been with someone else for almost 9 years and he still comes to me and I don’t know how to get rid of him. He is always there even though we are not living in the same state because he’s in the marines. I express my feelings to him all the time but he never showed no emotions. He said after all this time he doesn’t need to tell me how he feel, I should know by now. He will call me about 5 to 7 times a day and Im like what about your wife? He doesn’t know what he wants and he doesn’t want me to go because I know he loves but he can’t just leave his family and I have never asked him either…Last night we finally spoke while he was at work and he told me that he can’t do this anymore because he is falling too much in love with me. He said he has been for the past 13years but I hurt him. He actually forgot that he was the one who cheated on me. He said he has to stop because he’s more in love with me than his wife and he can’t stop thinking about me. So we have to stop what we have because he can’t leave her. I said yes to his proposal, he was shocked. I am tired of his game. I told him he need to stop the phone call and the cyber sex but he doesn’t want to. He said but we still friends. I was about to go to GA to visit so I said I won’t go anymore but he still want me to come. I said no. He hate not getting what he wants. Im about to block him from everything in my life. Them scorpios need to know that we virgos can be as vengeful and cold as they are…Earlier tonight both of his best friend drove from upstate to see if Im ok and to ask me not to give up on him. He called them and complained just because I said I agreed with his descision…I am not going to say im not hurt because I cried a whole lot today but I am a big girl, I’ll get over it sooner than later. But I know he will think about my answer for a long time, specially they don’t like to tell others what they feeling. He’s on his own. I am a person just like him with feeling and he forget that virgo is as cold as the north pole when hurt to many times…..
Please let me know if im wrong for doing this to him. If I don’t this I will never move on because he has that idea in his head that he owns me.
Wow. I am a Virgo woman and also in love with a Scorpio man. My situation is mind-blowing. I met him 3 months ago.. he was working in my state, but lived in Texas. We were seeing each other for a few weeks.. when he up and quit his job and asked me to move with him out of state. For some reason I trusted my gut and dropped everything in my life to move down there with him. A week later, he said ‘his feelings fell off for me’.. left me at his house and I drove all the way back home (which is 1000 miles away btw). I was so heartbroken, i’ve never felt that way before. He still hasn’t stopped contacting me.. and was just being friendly up until the other day when he told me that he was in love with me. He was going to come up and see me, but then the plans changed and he wants me to now come back and see him. Then out of nowhere he started avoiding me again. It’s driving me up the [expletive deleted] wall!!! I need some advice cause I just can’t seem to shake this guy off and he is all I think about and want, but feel like i’m never going to get there.
Well, i have written here a few months back. my situation has changed a lot. well, a little back ground. im from Egypt. im divorced and have 2 boys. he’s 35 and never been married.
have patience and u wont regret it.
we r so inlove with eachother, but here in egypt parents meddle with their son’s or daughter’s lives like its just their own. his parents don’t want him to marry me. actually they r totally against it, coz i have 2 kids. i can see where they r coming from.. but still, it hurts a lot!
we broke just a week ago. he can’t go against his parents will. im so frustrated, so hurt, so… in pain, and so heart broken. i can’t stop crying, and i can’t stop thinking abt him.. but i don’t want him back! he just gave up on us with the signs of the first battle..
i fought for him everyone i knew. they told me he will never fight for u, which turned out to be right
anyways, Scorpio men hate commitment, but if i can advise any of u, i would say play along.. just make him feel like u don’t care about being together forever.
try to read him, be patient, be persistent. don’t rush things. also tell him how u feel, and be yrself all the time.
they r very passionate creatures once they feel loved, truly loved!
if u find a Scorpio man, hold on to him. they r very faithful, very giving, and extremely good in bed
good luck grils
I am a virgo girl, and I’m in love with a scorpio. I feel so comfortable around him, like I can just be myself no matter what. We argue a little but not much, usually when we’re drunk, mostly when I’m drunk. However I’ve never told him I love him, I’m so scared I’ll scare him away. I don’t know what to do.. I relly am in love with him. And it’s breking my heart. I told him we should just be friends because I care to much about him to see him with other girls. He said he thought that would be best because he saw us getting serious. Like he always hesitates and says something that keeps me there.. I can’t explain it. I want to tell him I’m in love with him, I just don’t know how. I can’t have him reject me, because that’s worse than him not knowing. I’d rather break my own heart than him break mine.
If any of the Scorpio men wish to meet their match in vendictiveness and stubborness who shall have it with the Virgo woman. Don’t think for one minute
that the virgo girl will be controlled for any lenght of time. To this girl “love” is not to be betrayed or diminished. When you get this girl’s heart you have it all! Don’t blow it because she does have a breaking point and it may be to your surprise that once you cross it you are finished. Confuses me that a relationship that is so comfortable and sensual has to be dimished by the Scorpio game…even when it is what they truly want and won’t let themselves revel in the wonder of it all…just have to keep the b.s. going and spoil everything the Virgo has to offer. I’ve know more than one Scorpio sitting with regret over messing with his Virgo girl. When she shines her light on you you’ll be done. Hint to Scorpio…if you walk away from your Virgo girl you’d better not be gone long. She might want you…but, Virgo girls do not NEED a man! I’m telling you, you have met your match.
My mom is a Virgo and my Dad is a Scorp. They’ve been married 52 years. The first 25 my Dad completely controlled and the latter my Mom. Earth & Water signs have the same explosive temperment. THAT’S where the Virgo-Scorpio coupling becomes dangerous. Virgos are explosive. Scorpios are above reproach in their minds so it will be a TRUE death match if these two hurt the other’s feelings.
Where is does work is both signs are what I call “couple-ley”. They like to have mates and feel a void without them. If the Virgo can control their temper and their mouth when mad, you will be alright.
I tell my Scorp I love him and sometimes he won’t even answer me. That’s what teeth are for *wink*. LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
oh wow, this site is just wonderful. i have the same experience!!
ive been yes, inlove with a scorpio for almost 2 years now, a month after i met him. he’s gorgeous, caring, smart, loving and broken hearted. LOL. but i knew him even before he and his ex started dating. he told me i should find some rich guy i can connect with, (but he himself said we had a connection. confusing right?) but i could care less! it’s he i want. ahahahah,, lol BUT I NEVER TOLD HIM I WAS IN LOVE WITH HIM. anyway, we didnt talk for 6 months after they started dating bcoz i guess i was just frustrated with him… but hell people we knew (who dont know i liked him) told me i looked like the girl if only my hair was shorter. :O i was sooo mad… but we remained friends. (im so stupid)
recently he told me that now that he’s single he can now flirt with me and he’s been hitting on me ever since. not that i dont like it, its just that im confused. he told me i should look for some other guy! and now, he’s flirting endlessly… i know he’s healing and it takes time for some scorpios to fall in love (wtv) but i just dont want to jump on him now. (im not that kinda girl!) and im not desperate. i dont want to be a rebound girl. BUT i dont want to let him go, im afraid he’s going to fall for somebody else…
i told myself maybe i could learn to love somebody else but my heart came running back to him
im so afraid to lose him and see him with another girl… ive waited for him for a long time and now im confused..
all my gut is saying i should wait and see how it works out,, **sigh…
help…
I fell in love with a Scorpio man once. Things didn’t work out for us and I moved on and he got married and started a family. But I still love that man dearly and I wish things were different. It is very hard to forget a good Scorpio.
Engaged to a Scorpio… Fell in love with him two years ago. I was still married to my EX. I couldnt help myself the chemistry was there… It was fire. The only problem I had was that he and I stayed in different states. When I got ready to come back home after spending three months with him on family business… he was devestated. To make matters worse upon my arrival back to my hometown I my Ex and I ended up separating. I didnt call him him for two years. Fast forward to today… weve been engaged for three weeks and I am scared. He is everything i’ve ever wanted in a man in everyway. It almost seems too good to be true. I know he loves me but I always worry that maybe he still has hate for me in his heart for not contacting him for that long and for have intimate relationships with other men during that time. To this day even though I was married he says that I cheated on him and that he cant believe I was with so many guys before thinking about him…..
I am a virgo woman dating a scorpio man and so much of what you are describing is true. I try leaving but he tells me HES not unhappy (as though its only up to him) and then does something romantic and makes me stay. Truth is– I am, in fact, very happy. I’m scared to fall in love with him because I’m scared of exactly what a lot of these other women have described which is basically once you do you can’t get out of it and you could never love anyone else the same or forget him. I don’t want to be stuck in an endless circle of arguments, break ups and amazing make-up sex, like I know every other virgo female is going through with their scorpio man. That cycle has already began and the more it goes on the more in love with him I fall. How can I push him away far enough until I’m ready without completely losing him?
I think I am in a same situation, I am in love with a Scorpio male, but the only interaction that we have had is via yahoo instant messenger. He is in the Military…. He makes me feel safe and secure, all though he has not said he loves me but that he cares deeply for me and that he trust me. I am not so silly in love with him to not recognize that he maybe lying to me, and only wants to see me naked via the internet! But I feel honestly that I can trust him cause if he only wanted to see me naked why would he keep coming back, I know there are far more beautiful women on the internet than me! The things that he has told me about himself growing up and just in general makes me love him, makes me want to take care of him make him happy! Yes I know that Scorpio males are dominate in relationships, but I think that is what I have been lacking in my life! I know when I am in control my life falls apart, I get lazy and go with the flow but when I have someone who guides me I find I have direction! Is it possible for me to be in love with this man and can our relationship actually work!
virgos are very nieve, so are tauruses (me). i fell in love with a scorpio, we dated for a year and i was getting very suspicious when he got an apartment w/ a virgo (behind my back). i later on caught my scorpio cheating, he had two girlfriends at the same time (virgo and taurus). he played both of us. BEWARE, THIS SIGN IS NOT TO BE TRUSTED. will lie and get away with it for so long only because they are good at what they do, very sneaky. im saving you a lot of chaos and misery. please, dont get involved with a scorpio. WILL BREAK YOUR HEART.
Hey ya’ll i’m in love with a scorpio man and i dont know how to tell .. because its a weird story.. this thing with eachother goes on , awile… and he dont contact me all the time, just sometimes .. its like he cant with me or without me .. i dont know .. i read the blog and i think ya’ll can understand .. so my problem is .. i dont know if he means it serious, i think that he do , but otherwile i think he dont .. my heart said to me yeahh he loves you .. but my mind says NOO HE DONT .. because he is a player and he always be why he would be change for me ? Im scared to start a relationship with him because i dont wanna left heartbroken. That problem with scorpio men is that they mysterious, all of em. And it seems like they proud about that and it makes them happy to see that the girl thinks about them why he did this or that.. i dont know .. pleaseeeeeeeee help mee im LOSSSSSSSSSINGG MY MIND WITH THIS BOY !
i agree with you taurus. ‘my’ scorpio does have a player side on him but he is loyal to those he truly love. i think i do understand them considering i have a scorpio rising (ive been called playgirl but i AM loyal to that one person).
as a virgo i can say i can be pretty naive and some scorpios do take advantage of that. but scorpios do ‘evolve’; and i think mine has. every scorpio is different.
advice: think. if ure a virgo that should come natural. one thing i learned is DONT ASSUME. i evaluate myself by going back to our conversations and reading it again and again (reading between the lines). I make sure i understand his intentions so whatever mistakes i did, i can change the next time we talk. My intentions change (im not that much of a lovey-dovey anymore but i do give hints
and this makes him back off and rethink HIS intentions.
hope that helps……