Dear Xanthe, we all contains our own love, own emotions and own personality. we can do sacrifices, and strongly believe that, just as like the fingers in our hands, not every people are same in this world. But if we expect a very little from some one in a return, is it clinging? it’s our faults? if we want to say some thing which we don’t like, but we don’t want to hurt any one, and say that thing in a different manner, that means we are indirect?

Xanthe, Aries are Sun Sign, but they never want to realize that we the Cancer are also the Moon Sign. which is also a Important Part of the Universe. we also carry the Same pride that the Sun Does. But we are Soft and we never want to show off that. But when it’s required to show we do in a Polite manner. To let people remind about our Existence. is that our faults??? )

Sorry Xanthe, I feel you as a good friend of mine, that’s why I just Write down all these. But if I say Anything wrong then please don’t take it in a wrong way. I can’t tell you, how much I love that girl and from the same place of my heart how much I hate her…. I just read Some where, (in a Book), you can only Measure your love by hating them. if you hate them in less than you will know that your love was also in same weight… Isn’t that R8?

Take Care Xanthe, And really Want to thank you to build a Excellent relationship with your Cancer Husband. Dear Xanthe just want to request you, (I know you do a Lot of Sacrifice for your Husband and you love him a lot) but still please, Xanthe, Doesn’t matter how the Worlds will Appears, you guys just never left alone each other. ) you guys are the best Couple in this world Xanthe.. ) I can Imagine that, how you guys love each other. and I feel so jealous.. ) ( I always do Pray for you that May The God Almighty, keeps you together always, in your happiness and in the time of sorrows. That’s a wish from one of your good friend. )

Take Care Mam. )

Thanks a lot,
M.

Thanks a lot,
M.

xx

This is an Aries woman writing. Oh dear – that does sound like a premium jerk to me. He’s on a major Aries ego trip, by the sounds of it. I think that at some stage he probably expected something from you that you didn’t deliver. For instance: he expected you to reassure him in some way, say, by paying him the right compliments or giving him the right emotional feedback at the right time, but you didn’t read his signals and failed to comply when he most expected you to. We Aries can be quite childish and unreasonable that way, and react in a tit-for-tat manner afterwards. “You didn’t tell me I was amazing after I won that argument with those arrogant guys at that dinner party the other night? You didn’t take the hint the following day either, that I wanted you to saw something about how clever I was, that one time when I won the argument at that dinner party? Fine! I’m not gonna return your next two calls, then! That’ll teach you!” Or something like this…

I blush to admit, M, that the Aries mind and ego CAN work like this. Honest to God, it’s often that simple. What you have to ask yourself now is whether you think your Aries man is worth keeping. If he’s a jerk tout court (and it sounds like he may be – believe me, I don’t always feel kinship towards fellow Ariens!), tell him to go to hell better by ignoring him even more than he’s ignoring you. His ego will sting so bad when he hears that you’re doing very well without him – nay, thriving! Nothing bruises an Aries ego more than being ignored, whereas one-to-one, head-on combat is where we most feel at home (think of a battering ram, literally). We also think that if someone confronts us, it’s because they care enough to risk a confrontation with us, and consider us worthy adversaries. Whereas if someone starts treating us as if we don’t even exist – well, nothing stings our pride more.

If on the other hand you do think that your Aries man is worth fighting for to have back – that he’s just rash and impulsive and big-headed, but also someone you still think has a lot of good in them, then I’d appeal to him in the frankest, most honest way possible. Tell him exactly how you feel about the way he’s behaving with you now, putting aside all pride, but do it in a confident, strong manner, neither confrontational nor abusive, but self-assured, firm. HIS pride may give you an arrogant response to start with, but if he’s responding it means you’ve reached your target: his heart. His next response may well be totally different, and he may come back to being his generous self again. Aries respond well to honesty, as there is nothing we fear more than deception (which doesn’t mean that we can’t be liars ourselves! Though lying isn’t actually Aries’s biggest sin, usually).

Another perk with Aries is that we don’t bear grudges, but if your man has already moved on… well, he may not bear a grudge, but there’s little that might persuade him to come back to you at this point. Not in the short term anyway. He’ll have to make his own mind up, as you simply cannot MAKE an
Aries do something!

Basically, if you want to confront him you’ll have to strike the right balance between putting your pride aside and NOT grovelling (be strong, assertive, but also coaxing). Lace your criticism with compliments (eg: “I’ve always admired you for your intelligence, but I really don’t like it when you…” etc). And most importantly, SAY THE TRUTH. Or, if you’re gonna tell a white lie, make extra sure it’s totally credible.

Sorry if any of this is a bit confusing or contradictory… I may be an Aries woman myself, but the one relationship I did have with another Arien years ago didn’t work out that well, so I may not be the best person to ask, haha! Good luck, M! Keep us posted.

If you Love Someone truly, U can’t Forget Him/Her, but you have to be strong too. Right? If you Don’t Love your self, if you don’t respect your self, How could you love or respect some one else?

So do what ever your heart says, but you also have give a Right Guidance to Heart Also.

I don’t know My Text will help you or not. But I wish you All the very Best. And Pray to God He Give his all mightiness to you that you got everything that you want….

Thanks. And Take care. (I get Scared to say any Body Do Take Care Now.. Ha, hah, ha ))

My aries guy broke up with me 6 months back… after that i tried to reach out to him again when he found out he again withdrew now i am trying to reach out to him via phone.. sending him funny stuff etc he never responds though but i am wondering how is he taking it…. there is no point getting senti with aries they run away…