How to come back to Aries
Aries is always
right — for there are no other viewpoints to consider — so the best way to come back is to yield. You probably broke up because you locked horns with the Ram, and realized that he would never concede. So you left, and realized either that you were wrong, or that even though you are right, you are willing to brush pride aside to be held beneath his powerful arms.
You don’t need to plan an elaborate apology. He burned through his anger weeks ago! Just admit the error of your ways, and pledge that you will follow his lead on all matters. If he has not already moved on to someone else, Aries will likely take you back.
Comment below: How have you returned to the Ram?
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Thanks Xanthe…Out of all the advice I have received, yours finally seems to make the most sense because I finally know the reason why…Everyone has told me he’s a jerk, or told me he’s a typical Aries in the way that he cares more about the chase than the final result, or just told me to forget about him and not feel bad about his childish behavior…But I’ve been analyzing this situation to a point where I not only tried to find the flaws in him, but myself also…In reality, it was he who didn’t deliver (in the bedroom, if you know what I mean), and being that he wanted his way as to when and where, practically forcing me (even though I had consented to having sex with him), I wasn’t exactly in the right mood, and mood, as we know, is all important to Cancer…Now, I’m a typical Cancer to a certain degree, but this time, I really overlooked alot of faults of his, as well as insults, and would always respond right back with something as clever or more as his. After our arguments, he would just dismiss them as if they never happened, and so I thought, well, better to keep things rolling…Which is why I really enjoyed this guy and overlooked so many things about him I didnt necessarily like–that he had a personality…I want to believe him, but I think he may just have a lying streak to a certain extent at times when it suits him, but that’s a trust issue…Anyway, after our awkward sexual encounter, he stopped contacting me, and I didn’t contact him either, though I was definitely thinking about him to the point where I did make an effort to contact him…SO maybe he wasn’t great in the bedroom, but he was alot of fun otherwise…When I confronted him, at first he said he was busy…And me investigating the issue further, he blurted out why hadn’t I contacted him—that he thought I didn’t like him because I didn’t contact him…So after saying some things about us being incompatible and him being in another country for work (which I dont know if I can believe bc hes pulled that one bf), he actually said he wanted to meet up with me when he was back…Before I could even answer him, he says hes changed his mind and misses his g/f, which at that point I went ballistic on him and made a rather sarcastic comment to which he either didnt understand or ignored and tried ending things on good terms with ‘Thanks you too…Good luck in the future’ Needless to say I deleted him from my fb account (which he had done to me once bf) and also sent him a nasty text about a week or 2 later when I was partially drunk and depressed about the situation, to which he ignored…Well, I blocked him out completely for a good 3 months bf I’ve began thinking about him again, and finally just tried legitimately contacting him with a simple text just saying his name, to which he responded that I had the wrong number sorry, and I just responded with a simple “lol fine” text, not believing that it wasn’t his # anymore. This happened less than a week ago…I’ve been debating whether I should, again, push him more with a simple text saying that sorry isn’t good enough, and admitting my own faults, or maybe using one of the suggestions you’ve mentioned above, or if I should just leave him alone–That he has moved onto another girl or went back to his ex…But, like you mentioned before, he did respond…But whether he responded because I got to ‘his heart,’ as you mentioned, or if he just wants me to leave him alone, is where my confusion lays….Basically, I don’t whether I should continue to contact him or finally bury the situation?
Thanks a lot,
M.
hanks Xanthe…Out of all the advice I have received, yours finally seems to make the most sense because I finally know the reason why…Everyone has told me he’s a jerk, or told me he’s a typical Aries in the way that he cares more about the chase than the final result, or just told me to forget about him and not feel bad about his childish behavior…But I’ve been analyzing this situation to a point where I not only tried to find the flaws in him, but myself also…In reality, it was he who didn’t deliver (in the bedroom, if you know what I mean), and being that he wanted his way as to when and where, practically forcing me (even though I had consented to having sex with him), I wasn’t exactly in the right mood, and mood, as we know, is all important to Cancer…Now, I’m a typical Cancer to a certain degree, but this time, I really overlooked alot of faults of his, as well as insults, and would always respond right back with something as clever or more as his. After our arguments, he would just dismiss them as if they never happened, and so I thought, well, better to keep things rolling…Which is why I really enjoyed this guy and overlooked so many things about him I didnt necessarily like–that he had a personality…I want to believe him, but I think he may just have a lying streak to a certain extent at times when it suits him, but that’s a trust issue…Anyway, after our awkward sexual encounter, he stopped contacting me, and I didn’t contact him either, though I was definitely thinking about him to the point where I did make an effort to contact him…SO maybe he wasn’t great in the bedroom, but he was alot of fun otherwise…When I confronted him, at first he said he was busy…And me investigating the issue further, he blurted out why hadn’t I contacted him—that he thought I didn’t like him because I didn’t contact him…So after saying some things about us being incompatible and him being in another country for work (which I dont know if I can believe bc hes pulled that one bf), he actually said he wanted to meet up with me when he was back…Before I could even answer him, he says hes changed his mind and misses his g/f, which at that point I went ballistic on him and made a rather sarcastic comment to which he either didnt understand or ignored and tried ending things on good terms with ‘Thanks you too…Good luck in the future’ Needless to say I deleted him from my fb account (which he had done to me once bf) and also sent him a nasty text about a week or 2 later when I was partially drunk and depressed about the situation, to which he ignored…Well, I blocked him out completely for a good 3 months bf I’ve began thinking about him again, and finally just tried legitimately contacting him with a simple text just saying his name, to which he responded that I had the wrong number sorry, and I just responded with a simple “lol fine” text, not believing that it wasn’t his # anymore. This happened less than a week ago…I’ve been debating whether I should, again, push him more with a simple text saying that sorry isn’t good enough, and admitting my own faults, or maybe using one of the suggestions you’ve mentioned above, or if I should just leave him alone–That he has moved onto another girl or went back to his ex…But, like you mentioned before, he did respond…But whether he responded because I got to ‘his heart,’ as you mentioned, or if he just wants me to leave him alone, is where my confusion lays….Basically, I don’t whether I should continue to contact him or finally bury the situation?
Thanks a lot,
M.
Sorry for posting that twice didnt meant to
@ dhrubo – Sorry it took me a while to get back to you. I’m really sorry that things didn’t work out between your Aries beloved and yourself! I hate to be too blunt about this, but it does sound as if she may have moved on… and this was probably well before you and I met on this website and exchanged opinions on the matter. I think trying to get in touch with her again at this stage will only make her feel pestered, so make sure you avoid any contact with her from now on, or you may not even manage to stay on friendly, albeit platonic terms with her. As an Aries wife of a Cancer man, one thing that you guys tend to do without even realising it is cling too much. My husband, whom I love dearly, tends to do it even while I’m telling him not to. Now, I love the man dearly, and put up with it because there’s lots more besides that I love in him. But then I’m an unusual security-seeking Aries, despite also maintaining a strong need for independence and adventure. Some other Aries will flee as soon as someone starts seeming too clingy – and I’m sorry to say that this is usually the case with a Cancers. It’s unfortunate, but it does happen, my crabclawed friends: what you consider to be an acceptable display of affection and attachment will be interpreted as clinginess or neediness to an Aries. So dhrubo, I would no longer try to analyse what the hell went wrong with this lady – it just sounds as if your needs were very different.
Dear Xanthe. Thanks. for all your kind words Mam.
all the words you wrote for me I have read very carefully, and I will try my best to understand those, and Follow those. The thing is Xanthe, As you know we are the most loyal guy in the zodiac, and we have that ability that, we can love some one extremely and also can hate some one in the same way. 
) we never want to loose our most favorite things. But if some one doesn’t understand that, and feel that is clinging, then is that our fault??? 
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Dear Xanthe, we all contains our own love, own emotions and own personality. we can do sacrifices, and strongly believe that, just as like the fingers in our hands, not every people are same in this world. But if we expect a very little from some one in a return, is it clinging? it’s our faults? if we want to say some thing which we don’t like, but we don’t want to hurt any one, and say that thing in a different manner, that means we are indirect?
Xanthe, Aries are Sun Sign, but they never want to realize that we the Cancer are also the Moon Sign. which is also a Important Part of the Universe.
we also carry the Same pride that the Sun Does. But we are Soft and we never want to show off that. But when it’s required to show we do in a Polite manner. To let people remind about our Existence. is that our faults??? 
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Sorry Xanthe, I feel you as a good friend of mine, that’s why I just Write down all these. But if I say Anything wrong then please don’t take it in a wrong way. I can’t tell you, how much I love that girl and from the same place of my heart how much I hate her…. I just read Some where, (in a Book), you can only Measure your love by hating them. if you hate them in less than you will know that your love was also in same weight… Isn’t that R8?
Take Care Xanthe, And really Want to thank you to build a Excellent relationship with your Cancer Husband. Dear Xanthe just want to request you, (I know you do a Lot of Sacrifice for your Husband and you love him a lot) but still please, Xanthe, Doesn’t matter how the Worlds will Appears, you guys just never left alone each other.
) you guys are the best Couple in this world Xanthe.. 
) I can Imagine that, how you guys love each other. and I feel so jealous.. 
) 
( I always do Pray for you that May The God Almighty, keeps you together always, in your happiness and in the time of sorrows. That’s a wish from one of your good friend. 
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Take Care Mam.
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