How does an Aries girl keep a Gemini man interested?
March 27, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
GeminiLover64 asks:I’m an Aries girl, who seems to be a perfect match for my Gemini man. My question is how do I keep him interested in me and get him to propose marriage? By the way i’m 3 yr. older than him.
A Gemini man has a wandering eye and a fickle disposition — what can you do to keep him interested?
You can start by not boring him. If he does not feel engaged in conversation with you, he’ll seek stimulation elsewhere. Surely, as an Aries you’ve got the inspiration to at least start the momentum. You can begin with your favorite topic — yourself — and no doubt he will take that subject and run with it. As long as you don’t keep bringing the discussion back to “me me me,” you two should have a blast.
Frankly, I am surprised than an Aries would ask a codependent question like, “How do I keep him interested in me?” If he’s not into you, there must be something wrong with him! Let a Libra do all the deliberating. If a man doesn’t go along with you on your mission, leave him in the dust!
Also, “How do I keep him interested?” smacks of, “How do I compromise myself or manipulate my man to keep him in love with me forever?” All you can do is be yourself. If you sacrifice your authenticity to make someone else love you (if you can call that “love”), then the woman (or girl) your man thinks he loves is no more than an illusion. Leave fantasy to Pisces! Your job is to initiate the cycle of the seasons. If an Aries wavers in her truth, then the sanctity of the entire zodiac is threatened. You’re the more active sign in this couple, anyways — why don’t you propose marriage?
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im an aries..and im madly in love with a gemini man too…the problem is he just got married.it feels end of the world to my hope.when i read your question.it just what i wanted to ask too.what shoud I do now? is moving on the best option…i wonder.
If he’s married, then moving on is the only option, unless you want to torture yourself, him, and his wife.
Yes, Aries.I’m sorry to say Jeffrey K. is right.I’ve experienced not wanting to believe a marriage betwen someone important to me, and someone else will work, or should work–and even when I *was* right(not always), it might not dissolve for 17 years.And that’s my experience not a made up guess.
No matter the veracity of your feelings and the seeming “rightness” of this Gemini for you, he made a choice, and then that *is* what is meant to be.
If he chooses to leave on his own someday without you interfering ever, (or anyone else for that matter) only then could you consider it.
But, I would not wait and hope for this, Aries.Live life now.
What Jeffrey said in one sentence is right-on and summed it all up..
I am an Aries woman in love with a Gemini for the first time in my 34 years of life. I have had three other serious relationships, two sag’s and one leo, both very strong long lasting relationships… So different than my gemini. We are so vibrant and lively together but as good as it can be, is as bad as it could be. He is the only man that has ever made me have self confidence and jealousy issues, something I’m not too proud of. But I’ve never loved anyone so deeply, or felt loved so deeply and genuine. I keep him busy and on his toes. We have deep talks and work well together. But boy can we argue… Phew. We’ve figured out a formula to prevent unneccesary blows, and things are getting better, but without the love, physical and mental attraction, it wouldn’t happen. Love it what drives this relationship. No expectations, just love. I think that’s what keeps him on his toes.