usually if a Scorp “forgives” it’s to serve our own need. whether it’s to toy with your emotions before we sting you or to be able to smirk at that person you left us for knowin we still control you; it’s all about revenge.

however, there is that blindly loyal side to us. and if i really truly care about someone i can forgive a few slip ups and i’ll work like hell to make them mine again. we play for keeps. if your Scorpio had really cared about your relationship you’d be with him now.

There was this Scorpio guy that I had known for years, I’m a Scorpio female, and we were friends and then things started to go sour. I was engaged at the time so we never got together, even though he kept saying how much he “cared about me” and “wanted to be with me”, and then fast forward a couple of years and he’s engaged and we started having this bizarre and violent bdsm affair. She found out and then all the people we knew also knew about it and it was very awkward. We fight and don’t speak for months and then out of the blue we speak again and have sex and I had been really confused.

As a Scorpio (my rising sign is actually Scorpio as well), I share the same quality to manipulate others to get what I want, so we both were manipulating each other to get kinky sex, but out of the both of us I was the only person to still kind of have feelings for the other. I don’t really love him per se but I am kind of attracted to him so I guess I always had this stupid hope that something would happen but I know that’s not true.

This post has really helped me to realize that because even though Scorpios are very sexually inclined we are also one of the most loyal and faithful signs of the zodiac, so if he cheated on his girlfriend with me then that obviously shows that he thinks of me only as a sex object. And also, even though he cheated on his girlfriend, when they were together he treated her so well and always made concessions for her (atleast it seemed that way from the outside) so that obviously means that he doesn’t see me that way.

I don’t really see him that way anymore but there was still these lingering “feelings” I hadn’t dealt with but this post really made it clear for me to understand!

Thank You!

yeah once you lose a scorpio’s trust it’s gone for good. however we’re extremely loyal and remain emotionally attached forever, even to someone who’s hurt us. alot of times i’ll use exes for sex out of convienence and because it gives me a little high bein able to manipulate someone who wronged me, makin them want me then tossin them aside. doesn’t sound like he’s goin to leave his wife, the only guy i’ve ever cheated on happened to be a capricorn who smothered me and drove me nuts but i didn’t have the heart to hurt him. sneakin around and findin happiness else where was easier on me. you’re this married scorpio’s else where.

“Could some one help me. I am fully aware that a divorce is not in the best interest of the family”

SAYS WHO?

either divorce the skank or make her get a job so she’s too busy to have affairs

you shouldn’t put up with this, not from a woman– she keeps it up because you allow it, and she’s got too much time on her hands