Let's face it, my smiling Lion friends. Some of you are sweet as pie but beneath all that can be just as manipulating as a Scorpio can be. Add to it a fear of change or loss, and we have ourselves quite a pastry!

I'm a Libra who has found it very difficult to get along with Leo females. Many of them have been way too competitive and one of them even chased after my then boyfriend. Needless to say, she didn't win, especially after that overly-dramatic, 1,800 word e-mail she sent him in which she shot me down numerous times in spite of the fact that I was nice to her. They're not friends anymore. Not because I demanded that, but because she was kinda nutty.

Go figure. Guess some Scorpios and Leos equally want the spotlight on them at all costs.

:p

I met this scorp guy online few years a go as friends. First meeting was fun. He was misterious and intense, he took care of me very well.
After that we talked online, then he just disappeared. So I went seeing other guys.
Then he came back online again…he didn’t even say anything about why he disappeared. So i refused him. Then he came visited me in my country. Everything was nice! Great sex, sweet moments! He even talked about getting a land here and stuff. He said he never did what he did to me with other women. Then he went back to his home…. and just disappeared! Again! And yes, like most of you, i couldn’t stop wondering what’s wrong…but no answer! Suddenly I saw a picture of him and another girl in different country.
Ok, that’s it!!! I hated him, but stil cursed him that he’ll love me. Then I went seeing another man. Somehow this Scorp got intuition whenever I’m with other guys…he would show up again, by calling or emails. This time I was so cold. Surprisingly he got more aggressive in chasing me. He even started to email using words ‘LOVE’. Then he came visited me again when I was studying in different country. I put on my guard and distant. But he was soo caring, loving, intense, sensual…after he left, I fell for him again. Damn! But this time we manage to keep the talking longer than before. He didn’t disappeared again. I told him I didn’t like him disappeared. I felt hurt when I saw him with other girl. I guess it’S right…YOU GOTTA BE STRAIGHTFORWARD WITH SCORP, TELL WHAT YOU FEEL AND WISH HIM TO DO TO YOU. He might not do it or defense himself…but at least he should know! (though it makes me feel weak and too vulnerable). Despite all sweet moments, he kept saying that nothing’s change..we’re just friends. But..when I told him I met some guys and kissed…he was soooo pissed and said ‘I thought we’re special’ I said, WHATTT???
And he said he wants to try things with me, but take it slow step by step (what I understand is we are now in casual relationship). He wants to invite me visiting him, on his expense.

To make it short…suddenly now he said, that we are just friend. But he still offers me to visit him. OHHH!!! I would like to go there and act cool… I just wish it won’T be emotional-masochist vacation ever. We’ll see.

I always believed despite his cold, distant and misterious surface,..he’s a man who needs love and actually very kind. But now I’m not sure anymore.

@Dev, this Scorp really can have great sex without love. On the other hand, I feel as a leo… when I love..I give all. No hidden agenda. But scorp is scared of love.

to all..how to win back this man’s heart..to make him realize I’m precious and his loss let go me. I just want him to be on his knee saying “I’m sorry!!” (This scorp rarely say sorry)

“i love you…be with me always.. you have realised me actually wat love is.!”

He’ll say “good morning” or “good night” but he rarely makes eye contact and seems to find the sidewalk more interesting than me. When he does make eye contact, the intensity is just irresistable. I feel like I’m being hypnotized or something, that’s how powerful it is.

Awhile ago, I gave up trying to coax him into talking to me and started to ignore him. Not being rude, just not making any extra effort. If he didn’t want to talk to me, fine. No problem. The funny thing is that he seemed to take it personally and he then went out of his way to make sure he at least said, “Good morning” even if he was 20 feet away.

I’ve caught him looking at my chest or at my legs when he thinks I’m not paying attention, so he’s not totally immune, but getting anywhere with him is like pulling teeth. I’m not a bold woman by any stretch and in fact I hate attention (it makes me uncomfortable), but I usually have no problem talking to people. I just can’t seem to bring myself to strike up a real conversation with this guy–something about him stops me and yet at the same time I’m really attracted to him and I don’t know why.

Is there such a thing as a shy Scorpio man? He’s very quiet and keeps to himself. He rarely talks to anyone, so maybe I should just count myself lucky that he speaks to me at all.

Is he a Scorpio? I don’t think he’s a Sag–I was married to a Sag and they are as different as night and day. If he is, is there any chance of getting to know him any better and what strategy should I use since the last 3 or 4 I’ve come up wtih don’t seem to be working? Or should I just give it up and move on?