Why a Leo woman cannot win over a Scorpio man
When a Leo woman casts her eyes upon a man, the brilliance of sunlight follows. Unfortunately, the Scorpio man does not want his secrets illuminated. Sensing that a woman is trying to get underneath his skin, Scorpio pushes back. If he is going to reveal himself, it will be at his pace.
The Scorpio man may even feel suspicious being the recipient of Leo’s warmth and generosity. What is she trying to get from him? What is her ulterior motive? Of course, the Leo woman has no hidden agendas — but she’ll have difficulty convincing him of that.
Pluto is also turned off by Leo’s displays on the red carpet. He is behind the scenes, more interested in the machinations of the film industry, not the glitzy surface of its starlets.
Comment below: Share your exception to the rule.
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What a prick. He used you in his grand revenge towards his ex who cheated. What a coward. I would just report your cell phone stolen, get a report from the police dept and tell them who has it. Let him know politely, you will do this if you don’t get your phone back. I have no tolerance for lying deceiving Scorpios. They are cunning, manipulative and ruthless. Hope Karma gets him. It always does.
Run fast hun..and this is coming from a Scorpio man~!
you really DO NOT have to put wid dis s***! get over it! dere is absolutely no need to live such a miserable and uncertain life wid such an uncertain man!
am sure u love him n all, but wat guarantee do u have??? how can you trust sumone whos betrayed you once, how do u know after 3 weeks or 3 months or 3 years for tat sake he wont betray you again??? its one thing to forgive n accept ppl, n being “fooled” is another! make sure u know which route ur goin girl!
if sumone isnt sincere to u today, they wont be sincere to u ever! dey just dont have it in em!
Jus remember, if he plays wid u again, YOU ARE to be blamed! even after knowing his reality, u fooled urself!
Love drives u insane! U see wat u want to see, and u beleive wat u want to beleive. its a mirage. remember tat. in da end, it’ll be you feeling used, s***ty, and lonely! dis bastard wud have moved on n will have no guilt, no shame in starting a new life wid a new girl da very next day! tats reality. believe it.
FINALLY! People are admitting that Scorpio men are psycho. And the myth of Scorps and sex? WHAT? They cannot HAVE sex without falling in love. Sex to them is the be all end all, whereas w/ a Lion (male or female) we are great at it, and do LOTS of volume, and variety. I also love it when Scorps introduce themselves like they’re James Bond. Another Scorp man was my ex’s best friend, and he’s fat, ugly, and a loser. He used to jab and jab and jab at me, and then once, when he was drunk at a party, he admitted he thought I was so beautiful, it bugged him. I looked at him, smiled and said, “THANKS!”, in the fakest voice imaginable. Then, I ignored him for the next four years. He made me sick. Now, the ex and I don’t talk, and the fat, loser Scorp runs away when he sees me, b/c he’s afraid of my temper. Scorp men are wimpy wimpy wimpy. My most recent last one, even after I moved in w/ someone DRIVES BY MY HOUSE. This is after treating me like s*** for 3 years. To the Scorps who say, we think deep feelings are a sign of weakness, GROW UP. You don’t HAVE casual feelings, you don’t know how to casual with the opposite sex, and you fall in love TOO EASILY and then push people away. You more than likely will end up single. To the Lionesses who are with Scorps now, good luck, you’re obviously more patient and accomodating than I am.
And COURTNEY, You exhibited every psycho trait I was talking about re: Scorpios. You THINK nobody sees thru you reading btwn lines, but they do. You THINK you’ll get revenge on us, but you won’t. Nobody, but nobody, EVER wins with a Leo. Leos don’t sting, they kill. They don’t stay in a fight, they’ll let you get your shots in, and then rip your head off with one swipe of a giant paw. Scorpios have a stinger, and it weakens, but Lions have teeth, claws, and strength. I’ve made two Scorp men cry, and I liked it. And with my ex’s fat, loser friend, he sees me on the street, and runs. I stare at him, daring me to say anything, and he runs. Same with the most recent ex. HE wants us to be on good terms. I could care less if he lives or dies. Why am I posting so much on this website? I’m DAMNED if I’m going to perpetuate the myth of Scorpios any more. Scorpios believe their own myths, nobody else does. Everyone else sees through their “persona” to the lack of spine within. EVERYONE.
wow I get it now
I am enamored by a Cancer man who has JUPITER IN SCORPIO
Even though I have Scorpio rising my LEO MOON can’t back down!
He pulls into his shell and then sinks to the bottom of the ocean where I can’t reach him
then I have to WAIT!!!! I HATE WAITING!!!
I am a Leo Woman… I fell for a Scorpio Man.. I dont think I’ll ever date another one again… it hurts too much. He made love to me so deeply off and on for 6 months. As the incounters become more frequent and he stayed longer afterwards, I ask him to come onver one weekend and he textes back “its over”.. I was baffled.. we had just made love the weekend before and it was a wonderful experience, as usual. Knowing how tempermental they can be, I asked him if it was something i said or did, he said “no, its just over”… i felt my stomach drop, then anger set in, and my quest to find out what went wrong started. It has been almost a month and my body is slowly accepting the fact that I will no longer have him… we work together and the tention from encounters in the breakroom counld be measured on the Ricker Scale. I can feel that he wants me too, but when i ask him to comeover he just ignores my text. I’m done.
Dev says:
April 15, 2009 at 10:09 am …..
You have no idea how much strengh this posting gave me… I have the same mindset just needed a refresher.. THANK YOU!
Bulls***. I chased my scorpio, in three/four casual dates within a couple of weeks, and guess what. He was over at my house EVERY NIGHT FOR MONTHS!!!!! I made him mad, yes, got under his skin, yes. He’s irritated me, tried to get under my skin (when he does it consciously it’s just laughable; it’s when he’s NOT trying to bug me that he DOES … weird) but overall, he’s been extremely faithful – to my knowledge – ridiculously respectful in all the ways that matter, and understanding, loving, sweet.
On the flip side he is moody, difficult to read at times, deeply insecure, appreciates validation, sincerely self centered, but is an incredibly generous, soft hearted and loyal friend — not only to me, but to his guy friends.
He’s elitist – loves the bitchy vibe i can give off – but has said before that I’m “too bitchy.” but he loves being in my “club.”
I dunno I don’t know if Leo Female/Scorpio Males work in the long run. All I know is that he was WAY INTO me for four months, and I broke things off with him because I was playing hot and cold — not him.
And now, we still get along VERY, VERY well — who knows what will happen?
- Oh, and how I “got him” initially.
I spoke my mind, wasn’t afraid to express my thoughts (if we were in a group, for example, and someone was running there mouth I’d say, “Dude, you’re full of s***, honestly…” I don’t know little things like that….after a while, I think he interpreted my bluntness as an admirable power)
I looked good. There were things he liked about me: my big hair (typical trait of Leo women, big ol’ manes of hair. i teased the SHIZZZ outta my hair, he loved it!) i have blue eyes, he loves me bringing out my eyes! every day i put effort into how i looked – flashy, not too flashy, sexy, not too sexy.
i have different looks, and i can be unpredictable (i look very indie and fresh a lot of the time, but I grew up on a farm, for example) – i look a specific way, but i look a little different every day, rarely the same. i think he liked those “surprises” into how i looked and who i was/am
i was forward, but not too forward. very first night he came over, it was to “pick something up.” i made the effort and risk of asking him to stay over and hang for a little bit – it was awkward at first, he acted surprised and taken aback, but he stayed for about four hours!!! — w scorps, it PAYS TO TAKE THE RISK. often they’re too nervous/scared to do it. and if they’re into you you will know. every time i asked him to hang out after that, he did. hands down, in a heartbeat.
so TAKE RISKS. be yourself, SAY WHAT’S ON YOUR MIND!!! look good, be confident, even if you don’t FEEL confident!!!
and also, tell them how you feel – don’t OVERLOAD them with emotions, but if you like them, let them know – by DOING and SAYING. sometimes they feel out their feelings – gratitude, happiness, remorse – through sex/touching/cuddling. be responsive. you’ll get results.
hot happy and shortlived is what i got out of scorp/leo. even though i broke it off, it’s a challenge and a half to get it back. but that’s the only reason i want it back. the challenge … i KNOW, i KNOW, love isn’t a game, blah blah blah. anyway, hope i have helped SOMEONE out there!!
PLEASE SOMEONE HELP!!! there is this scorpio guy (capricorn raising) that i cannot get off of my mind. I know he like me because everytime i see him i catch him staring but when i look at him he turns away quickly like he wasn’t lookin’ ( even thoughi can see him staring all the time. i think he is very shy. When i look in his eyes i feel this incrediable connection and surge ( not just in a sexual way). I feel there can be serious potential. I have never felt this way before. ADVICE ANYONE!
Wow, glad to see it’s not just me & mine, I’m a Virgo ~ Leo cusp, and well he’s no doubt a Scorp, but that pulling back s*** drives me Crazy, He’s doing it now, and of course my nature is to analyze the hell out of the situation, I have to ignore him to get a response, He’s ok if I email or text him at the moment, I can tell he checks, but he has nothing to say back, after the cold shoulder he’ll pop back up with some lame ass excuse, crazy I tell ya, but can’t just walk away, damn him!
Laia, i just reread ur post, and I always refer to my hair as a mane, jokingly, had never connected it as a trait, but ur so right, men love it, I get more compliments on my hair than any other feature, and as I spoke just a sec ago, It is that challenge that fuels me too, and ur right, you do have to be str8 with them, good advice. and ebonyeyes, yes they do have the whole eyes thing going, and yes it is so easy to be drawn in and hypnotized by them, seems as though it’s workin on ya, it’s kind hard to read them, be prepared cause as much as it feels good, with 1 push they can make it hit harder than any other guy, it’s a roller coaster at first.
To LAIA – YEah both my Scorps spotted me across a room and made a beeline for me. And they did EXACTLY what you had in your relationship, and like you, I bounced because I got bored. They are boring, and not that great at sex. I don’t chase guys. Never have, never will. The last Scorp dude phoned me three times in two weeks after I blew him off over and over (I live with another boyfriend now), and he still won’t let go. They’re so stupid it’s unreal.
Leo women rule!
I’m a Leo woman who fell in love with a Scorpio man. We have been together for almost 5 years now and have 2 sons together. I think it can work. Just depends on the people
I’m a Leo woman who fell in love with a Scorpio man. We have been together for almost 5 years now and have 2 sons together. I think it can work. Just depends on the people
here we go, I shared a skeleton with my scorpio man and he told me that he need to focus on his job, and that it was possible for us to spend time together just not at the moment and I need to do what I have to do and he in return which is focusing on our careers. I felt like I need to be honest with him before the relationship got more serious. So for the experienced was this a good thing to do. I use to use drugs, clean 5yrs. He seem to have alot of baggage also,just let me know how to be able to love this man again.
@leolady mine pulled the same he needs to work on his life thing. I honestly am at a loss for what to do. From a previous relationship I was in with a Scorpio the further I pulled away from him the more he wanted me. This one is just surrounding himself with a bunch of other people and I am of no consequence. Unless I contact him I don’t hear from him so I am on the verge of cutting him out although I don’t want to waste the five years of friendship we had before he opened it up to more.
LMAO @ tracye…too much drama for an old lady
I think it’s a bit unfair how Scorpios are being ragged on in here. I myself am a Scorpio and I’d like to make something clear: Yes Scorpios have generally the same traits but not all of them are the same. There are several variations of Scorpios out there. the ones I’m reading about here apparently are pretty evil spirited. I myself am a pretty nice guy, I get along with pretty much anyone as long as they don’t come at me with hostility. I’ve been faithful to all the girlfriends I’ve been faithful to all my girlfriends and had absolute confidence in them. Though they’re the one’s who were cheating and all. But anyway’s Scorpio’s are definitely not stupid, each just uses their intelligence for different things. So what if we’re deeply emotional people, it’s not like we asked for it, its just the way we are. To my understanding only fellow water signs would really get this because they share this depth to an extent. Any other sign will just be lost at sea and drown. Don’t get me wrong, i’m not trying to be arrogant about it. I actually meditate a lot trying to figure out what it is that gives me these emotional drives. I’m fully aware of some of the traits that I have. Mainly it’s high sensitivity, though the only people that can hurt me are those I care for, anyone else means nothing to me and i could care less what they have to say or think about me. I also know that I attach myself to people easily, and I’ve been working on it. What everyone runs into is either un-evolved or dark Scorpio’s, they’re definitely a challenge, I’ve had run-ins with a few myself. I wont say I’m evolved just yet since i don’t fully understand all that is the nature of my sign, but i think i can pull myself out of those categories and say I’m maturing. It seems I’ve become lost in what i had to say so I’ll just say this: Do not pin all Scorpios as the same, you just need to develop a level of understanding with one, give it time. If you’re too impatient to try to understand then you really can’t go insulting us.
Scorpio man, scorpio man. I have been involved with one for 10 years on and off. He was my first love when i was 15 years old, I have always thought of us as soulmates. I feel like no one else can understand or connect with me like he. He has taken me on the ride of my life for years. Like the woman above when i was 16 he just striaght dumped me with no explanation. Scorpios are very consistent with their inconsistency. To be with one you truly have to learn patience and dedication. You need a missions statement. I am a Leo and we both are stubborn and like having our way. Compromise is very important. I broke up with him last year June and recently we have reconnected. I thought I would never speak to him again but as we can see that didnt happen. We want to try it out again but this time we have to start fresh leaving all olsd baggage and bad flavor ffrom our past 10 year relationships/friendship. Is this possible to start fresh and relearn each other as we are as adults. I believe he loves me and is trying so hard to be a better person for me. Why are scorpios so bipolar and darksided sometimes. They have good intentions but live in their own world in their own head. SMH. I dont know, time will tell.
I wonder if i am just wasting my time but im tired of running. Like my friend said sometimes for love you have to be willing to get hurt
To Dante: You sound like another V. good friend of mine who is also a Scorp, and I love the dude. I’m not saying there are no good ones, there just aren’t that many. By and large, Scorpios believe their own myth, are too emotional, they are pathological liars, self-aggrandizing, can’t stand getting hurt and hurt you before you get them, and then come crawling back when you can’t stand them anymore ie: Spineless – a scorpion crawls on the ground and is invertebrate. BTW, latest update? The Scorp I cut out of my life followed my friend around at work and grilled her about why I won’t talk to him. When she told him that I hate him, HE WAS SHOCKED and kept arguing with her as to why I hate him. When my friend said – repeatedly: THAT’S NOT WHY SHE HATES YOU, IT’S A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT REASON, he didn’t believe her. Another Scorpio trait: TOTAL LACK OF SELF-AWARENESS. Worked with another Scorpio woman who is a nobody bitch who people can’t stand, and she honestly, honestly believes she’s fantastic. Scorps are delusional and deluded. And for those who think the guy I hate cheated on me, he didn’t. I slept with someone else and lied to him, and I don’t really give a rat’s ass what he thinks of me. Sorry Dante, you have a big stereotype to overcome. Good luck!
GOODESS I ALREADY KNOW THIS IS THE GIRL I WAS TALKING ABOUT IN MY BLOG UNDER THE NAME TRACYE – YOU NEED MEDS AND YOU NEED TO GET A LIFE AND GET YOUR OWN MAN – YOUR AN OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE AND YOU LET “MY MAN” DOG YOU OUT AND NOW YOU ARE STALKING THE BOTH OF US – I CANNOT WAIT UNTIL WE MEET FACE TO FACE YOU ARE SERIOUSLY CRAZY AND WE – AGAIN MEANING “MY MAN AND I” HAVE A SURPRISE FOR YOUR CRAZY DELUSIONAL CANT FIND YOUR OWN MAN CUZ YOU CHASIN MINE AND YOU REALLY ARE NOT THAT ATTRACTIVE AND I KNOW ITS BECAUSE YOU ARE POSSESSED WITH A DEMON – GO TO CHURCH GIRL AND FOCUS ON YOUR KIDS – QUIT BEING SATISFIED WITH BEING “THE OTHER WOMAN” HE NEVER WANTED YOU HE USED U FOR MARIJUANA WHEN HE USED TO SMOKE BACK IN THE DAY AND WHEN HE SAW U AGAIN HE KNEW U WERE STILL DESPARTE AND THIRSTY! GET A LIFE!
ALSO GODDESS IS NOT THE NAME U SHOULD USE – YOU SHOULD USE DEMON BECAUSE ITS UGLY HOW YOU ARE NOW STALKING THE BOTH US – DONT YOU GET IT GIRL “HE DONT WANT YOU” SO EMAILING HIM WHAT I PUT ON HER DONT MATTER IN THE END HE STILL DONT WANT YOU! I FEEL SO SORRY FOR YOU BECAUSE I WOULD NEVER ACCEPT THAT TYPE OF REJECTION AND STILL BE OBSESSING ABOUT SOMEONE WHO OBVIOUSLY DOESNT WANT ME! GET A LIFE! I KNOW YOU LIKE DRAMA SO I WONT ENTERATAIN YOUR DELUSIONS ANY FURTHER I WILL NO LONGER VISIT THIS SITE AND YOU ARE GOING TO MAKE ME REAL UNLADY LIKE IF YOU KEEP F@#$*@8 WITH ME AND MINE PYSHCO!
To Dev
Hahah, yeah it’s not very fun to deal with. especially with the little description there. Though I’m not really going to make a huge effort to represent all scorpios out there, I already made my point the best I could explain. I’m trying my best not to fall into the negative category of scorpios seeing as how they have such bad reputations and such, if I can I’d rather be in my own category. I’m not too fond of being like alot of other people, that’s why I have a love/hate relationship with certain qualities I have, you’re set up for “All people who are “this” always do “that” “People who are “this” usually never do “that”" you know what i mean? Being a black guy who’s a scorpio I already have major stereotypes chasing me from all directions and TRUST me it is not fun at all lol. It would me just my luck to run into a girl who’s racist and sexist and an opposing sign, worst nightmare right there. But all that aside thank you for the recognition and reading me with an open mind.
I just realized I never really shared my story with anyone. What actually brought me here was an interest in a leo woman I have. Though how it came to be was a bit strange to me. We haven’t met face to face yet, we’ve only gone as far as trading pictures and talking on the phone or through IM’s. I first talked to her on some website I was getting bored of about two years ago, and in our first meeting she actually didn’t like me at all, that’s why I have to laugh when I think about how things are now. We were 17(me) and 15(her) back then, now we’re 19 and 17 with birthdays coming up. being 20 is going to be weird to say…anyways, we talked at very random intervals. Sometimes it was every day for hours, others it was a few days a week for maybe 25 minutes, and it would even be as long as a total of one week within a month. She’s been through alot and is still going through it and I tried to be around as much as possible. During that time and even now I have my own problems so it went both ways. So at some point I had started developing feelings for her and I had told myself I wasn’t going to do the online thing since they typically never work out and had it in my mind it would be pointless, plus we had never really spoken romantically with each other, just friendly conversation as always. Though as time went on we had started throwing little hints at each other, not always obvious but they were there. Then hints started turning into mini-confessions up until recently. It was about a month ago: I was really tired, like pass out before you reach the bed tired, and I had just lifted the covers to crawl in and go to sleep. But for no reason I wanted to look and see if she was online, and she was. So I had been talking to her for hours and everything she had told me just flowed into my mind and all hit me at once. So from that moment on my hands were moving by themselves and typing out what I wasn’t really ready to say (sounds dumb I know, but thats what it felt like), and I started talking about how bad I feel for not being in a position to really help her or be there for her when she needs someone and that I truly cared and wish I had a better way to express it to her so that she could really understand. But I also brought up the point that I’m here and she’s there and we’re still getting a grip on our lives, but no matter the situation she would still mean alot to me (I really don’t remember my exact words, this is the gist of what I said). So of course I freak out after sending when I could have deleted it at any time (seriously, it was a long message), but then she told me she understands and was surprised, but she feels the same, which was a huge mixture of shock and relief. So after that day we were talking like normal and she brought up some website with a bunch of silly quizzes in it and we were doing them together while talking on voice chat. This actually leads to what brought me here, several hilarious quizzes later I come up on an astrological based quiz and it occurred to me that I had no idea what her sign was. That was the day I found out she was a leo. So I was thinking to myself “Well, one of my best friends in the world is a leo, so there’s probably nothing to worry about right?”. So when I had some free time I was just searching around for the theory of how things might work between us if we started going out. I got a lot of mixed results, most of them basically saying “this is dangerous, it probably wont work, it COULD work, but probably wont.” So reading this after our last conversation about possibly getting together sometime next year wasn’t the most comfortable experience. So I looked around more finding results saying “this will DEFINITELY work, with complications here and there, but those can be fixed easy.” And then I eventually came here hoping that maybe reading what people have to say about it would shed more light on it and possibly give a little guidance. Plus I didn’t really get the whole “Why a Leo woman cannot win over a Scorpio man” title, since I’ve seen for myself that it’s not true.
Well, this is my story. Sorry if it was too long or my grammar was poor. I’m trying to create a level of certainty in my mind, but I just keep asking myself questions. So I’m just looking for some opinions, maybe some suggestions, things like that. Thank You for reading and have a good day/night ^_^
(by the way am i seeing things or is there a really tiny smiley face in the bottom left corner of the screen?)
Life is like that,you meet people you most need to learn things from.
There is no point in saying this star sign is good and this one is crap.
Scorpio and Leo have a natural magnetism for one another,the difficulty lies in the fixity both sign’s posses.One is Masculine in it’s outlook and expression and the other Feminine both equally as stubborn.Both on there own power trip with different motives.
My understanding of astrological incompatibilities doesn’t deter me from giving my time to Leo women because i ultimately understand that each one is unique and is on her own evolved level.
Bad exists only so that we can recognize good we we get to it.
And by the way you guessed it,i am a Scorpio,but not just that alone.
i was just dealing with a scorp guy about 4 or 3 months ago and he was the complete opposite of what i have read so about a month or two ago i meet this other scorp. we’re just friends so we do as we please but i would say friends with benefits but in the mix i’m starting to getting feelings i don’t want to tell him becuz i don’t want to run him away. sometimes when we are together i get a sense that he don’t really like me and he might just be using me for sex becuz i’m 20 and he’s 26. and when we’re just chilling talking he’ll remind me that he really likes me but just sometimes the vibe i get is other wise. his birthday is oct 23rd so i consider him both a libra and a scorp becuz he can be the most sweetest being on earth but sometimes hes just fustrated and annoyed for no reason at all. like this once he came to get me and was irked dropped me off and when i called him back to come get me he was cheerful…do they have mood swings like periods. becuz i read that scorps are faithful all about business crazy and all that but in the end they are faithful loyal men. how do you know when you have a scorp heart? how do you know when you won them over? when i ask my scorp guy do you really like me he says yea i do things for you i won’t do for no one. like the first day we met i asked him to take me to get my license he took me. i was stranded in maryland due to car problems and he offered to come get me and thats 2 states away. he plays softball the first few games he’ll ask me to come watch him play but now he don’t ask idk its like he’s switching up on me like he’s feeling different about me or something and i’m really confused. at the beginning i had him and now its like he got me and i want to be back in control i want him to miss me i want him to want me but it seem like i just want him.than i thought to just give him space and call him every other day i tried that but i just have this urge to want to hear his voice everyday…any suggestions
like this once he had heard something about me and i was in florida he was mad at me but than when he thought he couldn’t be mad becuz i’m not his girlfriend and he’s not my boyfriend so i sense that him being mad at me was a sign of that he cared
i just kept playing mind games till i won and he is still in the dark about me
I am a leo woman.. The last two men I’ve dated have been Scorpios. I love scorpio men, They are fun and honest. They have dreams and goals that they willing to work very hard to accomplish. I always have this intense chemistry with scorpios. Unfortunetly because our sex life was so amazing, we never developed other important parts of the relationship. For example: While hanging out with groups of friends sometimes I felt like I didn’t know him at all. When we were alone everything was great.
Sometimes I sense that he going thru strong inner termoil, which makes him cold to me. i used to confront him about it but it only made things weird. When this happens now i just leave him alone for a couple days. Even though I saw many red flags early in the relationship, it was still very hard not to fall in love with my scorpio. Overall I really enjoy dating scorpios.
I’m a Gemini Sun with Leo ascendant. I’ve found that Leo suits me better than Gemini (I’m always told, “Look at that hair!” LOL), and this topic really caught my attention because there’s a man I know who’s been making me crazy. All I know is that he has a November birthday. He doesn’t seem anything like a Sag, but I could be wrong. I’d like to get to know him better, but I think it’s hopeless. I feel that no matter what I do, I will never be able to attract him, not just as a woman but as a human being. I’ll be the first to admit I’m not used to being ignored by men. I don’t really know how to handle that. I’m not “intrigued” by him or feel that he’s a mystery to be solved or that he’s presenting a challenge, though. I just wish I knew why he’s acting this way. I’ve done nothing but be nice to the guy and in return I get ignored? What’s up with that?
He’ll say “good morning” or “good night” but he rarely makes eye contact and seems to find the sidewalk more interesting than me. When he does make eye contact, the intensity is just irresistable. I feel like I’m being hypnotized or something, that’s how powerful it is.
Awhile ago, I gave up trying to coax him into talking to me and started to ignore him. Not being rude, just not making any extra effort. If he didn’t want to talk to me, fine. No problem. The funny thing is that he seemed to take it personally and he then went out of his way to make sure he at least said, “Good morning” even if he was 20 feet away.
I’ve caught him looking at my chest or at my legs when he thinks I’m not paying attention, so he’s not totally immune, but getting anywhere with him is like pulling teeth. I’m not a bold woman by any stretch and in fact I hate attention (it makes me uncomfortable), but I usually have no problem talking to people. I just can’t seem to bring myself to strike up a real conversation with this guy–something about him stops me and yet at the same time I’m really attracted to him and I don’t know why.
Is there such a thing as a shy Scorpio man? He’s very quiet and keeps to himself. He rarely talks to anyone, so maybe I should just count myself lucky that he speaks to me at all.
Is he a Scorpio? I don’t think he’s a Sag–I was married to a Sag and they are as different as night and day. If he is, is there any chance of getting to know him any better and what strategy should I use since the last 3 or 4 I’ve come up wtih don’t seem to be working? Or should I just give it up and move on?
i fell in love with a scorpio man… though i knew already that he s married. he has a kind of warmth and love in all of his conversations with me… i love him .. though we know we can not go ahead together ..but still we have feelings ..and its the love and care which we starve for and m sure we get that even talkin to eachother.. if i talk to him once in a day .. it makes me happy and cheerful the whole day…
“i love you…be with me always.. you have realised me actually wat love is.!”
woww…quite amazed there are similar stories like I’m having with a scorpio man!
I’m a confused leo woman that’s why I got here…
I met this scorp guy online few years a go as friends. First meeting was fun. He was misterious and intense, he took care of me very well.
After that we talked online, then he just disappeared. So I went seeing other guys.
Then he came back online again…he didn’t even say anything about why he disappeared. So i refused him. Then he came visited me in my country. Everything was nice! Great sex, sweet moments! He even talked about getting a land here and stuff. He said he never did what he did to me with other women. Then he went back to his home…. and just disappeared! Again! And yes, like most of you, i couldn’t stop wondering what’s wrong…but no answer! Suddenly I saw a picture of him and another girl in different country.
Ok, that’s it!!! I hated him, but stil cursed him that he’ll love me. Then I went seeing another man. Somehow this Scorp got intuition whenever I’m with other guys…he would show up again, by calling or emails. This time I was so cold. Surprisingly he got more aggressive in chasing me. He even started to email using words ‘LOVE’. Then he came visited me again when I was studying in different country. I put on my guard and distant. But he was soo caring, loving, intense, sensual…after he left, I fell for him again. Damn! But this time we manage to keep the talking longer than before. He didn’t disappeared again. I told him I didn’t like him disappeared. I felt hurt when I saw him with other girl. I guess it’S right…YOU GOTTA BE STRAIGHTFORWARD WITH SCORP, TELL WHAT YOU FEEL AND WISH HIM TO DO TO YOU. He might not do it or defense himself…but at least he should know! (though it makes me feel weak and too vulnerable). Despite all sweet moments, he kept saying that nothing’s change..we’re just friends. But..when I told him I met some guys and kissed…he was soooo pissed and said ‘I thought we’re special’ I said, WHATTT???
And he said he wants to try things with me, but take it slow step by step (what I understand is we are now in casual relationship). He wants to invite me visiting him, on his expense.
To make it short…suddenly now he said, that we are just friend. But he still offers me to visit him. OHHH!!! I would like to go there and act cool… I just wish it won’T be emotional-masochist vacation ever. We’ll see.
I always believed despite his cold, distant and misterious surface,..he’s a man who needs love and actually very kind. But now I’m not sure anymore.
@Dev, this Scorp really can have great sex without love. On the other hand, I feel as a leo… when I love..I give all. No hidden agenda. But scorp is scared of love.
to all..how to win back this man’s heart..to make him realize I’m precious and his loss let go me. I just want him to be on his knee saying “I’m sorry!!” (This scorp rarely say sorry)
Oh, my God! =D
Leo and Scorpio will not always work well together because both signs are fixed and both want to be in control, period.
Let's face it, my smiling Lion friends. Some of you are sweet as pie but beneath all that can be just as manipulating as a Scorpio can be. Add to it a fear of change or loss, and we have ourselves quite a pastry!
I'm a Libra who has found it very difficult to get along with Leo females. Many of them have been way too competitive and one of them even chased after my then boyfriend. Needless to say, she didn't win, especially after that overly-dramatic, 1,800 word e-mail she sent him in which she shot me down numerous times in spite of the fact that I was nice to her. They're not friends anymore. Not because I demanded that, but because she was kinda nutty.
Go figure. Guess some Scorpios and Leos equally want the spotlight on them at all costs.
:p
To everyone- wow this thread is defeintaly different then the ones i have been on. And yes i admit there are alot of fools that are scorpios but then again theres al ot of fools under every sign. As for leo wemon ive never really been in to much contact with them. Ive been mostly around aries,other scorpios,libras, capricorns,sagitarius and virgos. Though i find leo males have an annoying need for attion and i wonder if its the same for the wemon. The only leo friend i have is a male and wants attion at any cost even if its to embaress himself in front of others. His ego ii huge for reasons unknown considering the factors that most everyone hates him. I hate that peple are so cruel somteimes. As for things wouldnt it be wise to know when to give and take someones gotta be the wiser or nothings going to go good.
Natasha- thats another problem with us scorpios sometimes sex becomes the realtionhip the relation ship burns up before it starts. oh to any courious i wrote on why are scorpios so sexual how a scorpio males mind is or at least and overview ill read more and gather more information on these insane scorpios but everyone hs insane.
I’m in desperate need of advice.
I’m a 7/30 Leo with a Scorpio Moon and a Sag Asc. with a bunch of earth and water scattered throughout my chart. Matt is a 11/20 Scorpio with a Virgo Moon, Sag Asc. and a bunch of earth and water scattered throughout his chart. We met halfway through our freshmen year in high school and are now in our sophomore year of college, so we’ve known eachother about six years. The following is our relationship (Long Version) (Short Version is after):
Freshmen Year: I show up the new kid in school, he introduces himself to me, I’m immediately so captivated and affected by him that I turn the other way and run because of how strong the feelings he gives me are. We don’t talk for the rest of the year. He dates a Virgo girl for a few months, she breaks up with him saying she has to focus on school.
Sophomore Year: We sit next to eachother in world history class with a teacher who wants to play match maker with us. I pretend I hadn’t met him and introduce myself as if we hadn’t. We’re flirtatious and there’s intellectual banter and teasing, but we have seperate groups of friends and avoid each other out side of class. He becomes my muse, I want to draw and write after every conversation with him and this just heightens my fascination, confusion and terror.
Futhermore, even at only 15 I’m used to guys being interested and trying to date me so when I don’t get any of that from him I’m confused, frustrated, and my ego is going insane. I’m huggy with a male libra friend of ours, and I suppose from an outside perspective it looks like we’re dating.
Around the end of the year Matt and I discover the myspace phenomona and continuously email and flirt over the summer until he finds out from my sister I won’t be going back to school next year because I tested out to go to college early. He asks me why I didn’t tell him, I, thinking he isn’t interested in me, stupid as I was, say “Well, I just didn’t want people to do that “oh we’ll miss you” thing”. He retreats and we barely speak for a few months. I’m upset and don’t understand why he’s suddenly stopped wanting to be friends but I let it go…He’s the only man I’ve ever met who makes me feel like I have no control, and yet makes me willing to not try to take control.
Junior Year: I go to college, he stays in high school. My younger sister and his younger brother are both freshmen, so I go to back to school night with her. We wander around and talk for ten minutes away from other people, at the end of it he hugs me…So delicately like I’m a piece of glass, but still with strength, like he’d protect me. I still, four years later, feel that hug. I was absolutely elated. I didn’t call or contact him so far as I recall though.
About a month later we hang out in a mutual group of friends, we end up going to homecoming in the same limo. I didn’t have a dress really so I where this black thing, thats high cut, but very short. I suspect he found it trashy. I, being a leo, naturally become flirtatious and social. In the mean time he’s gotten involved with the Virgo again, they’re officially dating but they will be in a few weeks. Once they start dating he doesn’t talk to me until they break up. Almost like he feels guilty talking to me when they’re dating.
Anyway in March they break up, and she doesn’t keep it a secret. She tells our entire graduating class and has everyone except me (she doesn’t know we’re friends, because in groups we always ignore each other and even say things about how we’re not friends) and his male best friend, Jesse (Virgo), hating him. He’s miserable. She’s talking to me about it thinking Matt and I aren’t friends, and so naturally I send him message asking how it’s going. He tells me the whole story from his point of view, feels completely guilty…Doesn’t know what to do. Show’s me the messages from her and her best friend to him. My best friend went though something similar so I tell him that story, except I tell it like it was me who went through it. I also say that she should be more forgiving, people make mistakes, if you love someone you work through things, etc. I didn’t have teh heart to tell him she was probably just looking for an excuse to break up with him.
So we don’t talk after that until June when we run into each other totally out of the blue at a little carnival. He’s there by himself, I’m there with my sisters and their friends. He hangs out with us for about an hour, and then we run into his Virgo ex and two of her friends. I think he’s gonna ditch me for her, but he actually hangs back with my sisters and their friends while I make small talk with the girls. After that we ditch my sisters and wander around on our own. I’m wearing unattractive clothing (jeans, converse, teeshirt, sweatshirt), no make up, my hair is all over the place but I expect nothing. At one point when we’re all alone he corners me, but I’m so giddy on the high he gives me just talking to him that it doesn’t even occur to me he’s thinking of anything romantic because I long ago resigned myself to thinking he’s never going to be interested. We continue walking around for a few hours and eventually end up at his car, knowing we both need to leave. This whole time I haven’t initiated any physical contact, he’s done it all. And I’ve thought nothing of it. When he goes to leave he hugs me, and it feels perfect. I go to pull away and he doesn’t let me get more than a few inches from his face and he just stares into my eyes like he’s trying to read my soul and I stare back into his trying to see what’s going on behind them. I realize just before he does it that he’s going to kiss me and I think “you’re never going to forget him, you’ve never been kissed.” but I let him kiss me anyway and its so soft and tender and innocent, and I had no idea what I was doing because I’ve never been kissed. When we pull back we stare at each other again, and I, totally wide eyed, say “I don’t do this, ever.” and so he kisses me again. This time his tongue licks my lips and I can taste him and I fall into him completely, like I’m melting, but I trust him to hold me up. When we break apart again I stare at him for a while and then I bury my head in his shoulder and am torn between grinning and crying because he’s just put me through the most intense emotional ride of my life. I was so scared by how intensly I felt that I jumped away from him and tried to act fine and said I had to go, and good luck on the SATs (which he was taking the next day) and all of that. Then I literally ran in the opposite direction.
I called him a few days later, asked if he wanted to go to the beach, he said he was hanging out with a friend that day. I was so nervous I just was like “oh, okay, sorry.” and hung up.
Senior Year: I meet a Leo boy in October who is everything Matt isn’t, his name is Cory. Cory is charming, and heart-on his sleave, easy to read, easy to make fall in love with me. He’s an extrovert, he isn’t deep or intellectual, but he’s intelligent and a good dancer and confident and beautiful and madly in love with me, very good for my ego. Naturally Matt and I spend almost all year ignoring each other. Cory gets very serious and is convinced he’s going to marry me. But he doesn’t make me feel like Matt does and for a while I convince myself I can live with that.
In fact, Matt and I end up in the same group of people and someone asks me how things are going with Cory and I, and I say, “I think I’m going to marry him” grinning like a silly girl. Matt looks surprised and walks away.
A few months later over the summer I run into him coincidentally (again) at a sushi place. He’s on a date with a very boring average sort of girl and he must have been bored because I pretend not to see him and start leaving with my sisters, when he yells my name across the resturant and so I go and talk to him for a minute. I’m thinking “I’m in love with Cory, Matt can’t affect me.” but a minute into it I start to feel that giddy happiness and confusion and bubbling emotion and so I smile, almost laughing at my own stupidity, and say “Oh, I don’t want to interupt your date.” And turn and leave. He seems a little bewildered.
Freshmen Year of College: By the time it’s half way through our freshmen year of college, and Matt and I are going to school five hours away from each other, I’m throughly out of love with Cory. But he’s sweet and loves me and I try to convince myself I can be happy with the boring simple easy life of a loving husband I’m not in love with that I’m setting myself up for. I’m trying to convince myself I’ll fall in love with him. I let this go on for another year, and our relationship gets so bad that is just has to be over.
The summer between freshmen and sophomore year, Matt and the Virgo get back together again. It lasts for a month, and ends in her screaming at him that there’s no point in them dating because she’s not going to marry him because he won’t make enough money.
Sophomore Year of College: And so it ends, with Cory jealous and suspcious and accusing me of all kinds of affairs, screaming at me for little things (like dying my hair) getting drunk and calling me all the time…it’s really awful. In the mean time I’ve become wonderful friends with Matt’s best friend, Jesse. He’s like my brother…Excpet he may have a little crush on me, but that will fade with time, Virgos seem to be practical. Jesse is aware of how upset I am over everything with Cory and I and he’s also aware of my mysterious muse (Matt, but I don’t tell Jesse who it is). He’s perpetually trying to cheer me up though and so he decided over winterbreak we should go camping. And we do, me and him and Matt.
Matt and I work well together, I automatically find myself backing him in everything, like this strange unspoken loyalty. Being around him makes me happier than it ever has before. And by nightfall we’re sitting by the fire and Jesse isn’t talking but Matt and I are, we talk continously about everything that comes up. When we go into the tent to sleep, Jesse knocks out right away, but Matt and I stay up for four hours talking. We’re lying text to eachother in sleeping bags with our faces four inches apart, staring directly into each others’ eyes smiling and talking about everything from poltics, to movies, to abortion, to teenage sisters, to our parents, things in our life. He ends up telling me about something very personal, and I’m not sure if he’d tell most people, he doesn’t seem like he would, he’s usually very secretive…In fact, like I said, we’ve always been so secretive about each other that not one knew we were friends. So I tell him about the reason I disappeared for a month in our sophomore year of high school. It took me two years before I told Cory about that; it took me two hours to tell Matt. And then our conversation just continued, like he accepted it as unconditionally as I accepted everything he was telling me. It was wonderful. At one point he poked his hand out of the sleeping back and brushed a strand of hair behind my ear. I was thinking “Nope, not doing this again.” no matter how much I wanted to. I stared at him and stopped talking a bit, he said “Your hair was in the way, I couldn’t see your eyes, I like looking at your eyes when I’m talking to you.” I said “It’s fine” in a voice that said otherwise, but continued our coversation as if nothing had happened. Eventually we fell asleep.
The next day we went rock climbing everywhere. It was just Matt and I for most of it, Cody had gone off somewhere. I sort of followed Matt around, but at the same time tried to give him his space. After six years I’ve learned I have to let him be the one in control.He was sick and not feeling well that night and fell asleep quickly. The next day we woke up early in the morning and left, had a good conversation on the way back, but Jesse was there so we didn’t talk as candidly as we ordinarily would I suspect.
We all went our seperate ways for the day. I went home and drew more than I had in the entire three years Cory and I were dating. Matt is my muse, Cory is my anti-muse. It was insane and intense. What an effective way to get over Cory. Everything I’ve felt for him was nothing compared to the way Matt managed to make me feel in a few days.
That night Matt, Jesse and I went to the same New Years party. His Virgo ex was there. I get there and hour late, and he’s thinking of how to escape by the time I show up. I talk to him for a few minutes and he says he’s going to leave because he just can’t stand being around her. I give him a sideways hug and pat his back, saying “I understand” (and I do, that’s how Cory makes me feel) but when he doesn’t seem to be responsive (he just seems miserable and annoyed with her) I sit down and start going through an iPod with a friend. He and Jesse leave the room but I don’t follow, always aware not to be too needy or intrusive.
Now it’s the next morning. And I can’t get this boy out of my head. Of course, I haven’t been able to since I met him at 14, so no surprise. He’s absolutely beautiful. And he’s got my heart. All of it…I suspect he always has and that’s why I couldn’t make it work with Cory. Matt makes me feel so much, and I love him unconditionally. He doesn’t know it. And I’m not going to tell him because I couldn’t stand getting so hurt.
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Short Version:
Matt and I meet freshmen year of highschool, he makes me feel so intensly I don’t know how to handle it so I avoid him, he starts dating a Virgo girl, that lasts a few months then she breaks up with him. Sophomore year we develop an odd friendship, flirtatious and talkative in class but ignore eachother outside of class and in groups but have great one on one convos via myspace.
Junior year I leave, he seems hurt, and stops talking to me except when we end up around each other in groups. Then he starts dating the Virgo again. He acts guilty talking to me when hes with her so he doesn’t. They break up, he’s upset, tells me the whole story, I’m comforting, give him a story about my bestfriend when something similar happened, except I made it seem like it was me who was in the situation not her. (Two years later I confessed that I was really talking about her…it’s the only time I’ve ever lied to him. Mistake I’m sure.) We don’t talk for another few months, then run into eachother randomly. We walk around and talk for three hours, at the end of it he gives me my first two kisses. I’m so overwhelmed with emotion I run away. Call him a few days later, ask if he wants to go to the beach, he says “I’m actually hanging out with a friend.” and I get so nervous that I say, “Oh, okay, sorry.” and hang up.
A few months later I get a leo boyfriend. I date him for three years, but realize about a year into it I’m not in love with him, because he just doesn’t make me feel the way Matt does. Matt and the Virgo try dating again for a month, it ends in her screaming at him that she won’t marry him because he won’t make enough money. Now he seems to just be perpetually annoyed at her and miserable around her. During the time I’m dating the Leo I’m very loyal though and try to convince myself Matt was just a crush, so we don’t talk very much. In fact, after he hears me tell someone I’ll probably marry the leo he walks away from the group and doesn’t even look at me for months.
Now we’re half way through our sophomore year of college and we went camping with a mutual friend of ours, Jesse (Virgo) for three days, just the three of us. On the first night we stayed up for four hours after Jesse fell asleep laying next to each other in sleeping bags, our faces inches apart, smiling and maintaining eye contact and talking about everything that came up. I told him a secret in two hours that it took me two years to tell the Leo. I was so happy that whole camping trip it was euphoria. He’s like a drug.
He went back to sort of ignoring me as we began to go our seperate ways after the camping trip though.
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He’s sending so many mixed signals. Or am I just a stupid girl madly in love and he doesn’t feel the same at all? I’m so good at reading, except when it comes to me…When it comes to how he feels about me I’m completely thrown for a loop.
I just don’t know where to go from here. Am I doomed to having wonderful deep heartfelt conversations and stolen kisses once a year from a boy who has all of me and leaves me wondering if I have any of him? Or is there something that I can do to get him to date me right. Someone please give me advice on what to do now. How should I act, what should I wear, how do I get him intrigued, is there anything I shouldn’t do? Help, please!
~ So in love I’m going insane.
(Sorry for the length by the way, that’s what the short version was for, I just tend to feel I give better advice when I get into the details of someone’s relationship, so it seems silly to ask for advice without telling the story).
WAIT…Leo women are some of the most SELFISH, egotistical women i have ever dated. I married a Leo women. I am a Scorpio man 11/1. Leo women think they are above everyone else. Us Scorpio men are NOT Spineless. At least im not. We have principles that we live by. Its simple, just give us respect and we will give you anything your heart desire. But try to play with our emotions and watch out. Most Leo women play mind games and thats where us Scorpios draw the line. If you LEO women can be upfront and lay your cards on the table, and stop pretending like you can take the truth, and when the truth is told, you cant take it. Scorpio men can be your BEST friend or WORST enemy. It depends on haw you handle the relationship. We have no problem with breaking up. it comes with the territory. but once we give our love unconditionally, we expect that in return. I must admit, Leo women and a Scorpio man are the BEST lovers sexually. its off the chart. but once the love making is over we cant seem to deal with each other. Lwo wants control and scorpio DEMANDS control. If i can find a SUBMISSIVE Leo women, I will give her all that i have. I will bring home my paycheck to her. Just call me MASTER and everything is smooth.
To: Sir_Scorpio,
How unfair that you would label all Leo women as selfish and egotistical. As a Leo with a very tender heart and mega warmth, one who is caring and sensitive to people’s needs, I think it’s sad to be ‘lumped’ in that category. Perhaps you are the problem, not the Leo woman!!