What does a Scorpio man want in a woman?
Scorpio man seeks woman who can keep a secret, stay faithful. Must have high sex drive, and must never ever look at another man (or woman, for that matter). Extra points if you have a healthy respect for privacy. Willingness to merge assets a plus — bringing along debts may be a dealbreaker. You should have completed a full round of psychoanalysis first, and know your dark side well — I don’t want to be your therapist, and I’d rather you have thoroughly examined yourself before I dig up all your skeletons. Tolerance for witnessing emotional extremes and black moods is a necessity. If you want to be possessed, I’m your man.
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OK everyone I need a little advice!
I have a date (round two!) with a Scorpio man next week…I’ve never felt a connection so early with someone before! Wow on so many “levels”! So, as a Cancer girl, what is the best approach to making this Scorpio man mine??!!
VirgoWoman:
Aw, thanks for the words of advice! If your parents could stand the test of time, then I can do it too. The position my BF applied for was a temp position lasting only two months. A girl always worries though. I value the time we spend together.
I’m a Virgo in both Jupiter and Venus
I never realized quite the interesting mix I have of elements. I have two planets in Virgo, two in Scorpio, two in Libra and a sun, two in Sagittarius, a moon in Aquarius and Gemini rising. Talk about a balance of earth, water and air!
canergirl2010:
Most important – be yourself!!! Otherwise those laser eyes will see through you. Good luck girl, knock his socks off!
Congratulations on your second date! Don’t reveal too much about yourself, keep him guessing. Play that mystery card. Scorpios are also engaged with intellectual conversations. Wear smart looking clothes that make you look good, but not sleazy. He wants a woman who takes herself seriously. This advice coming from my boyfriend who is a Scorpio himself. My side note: Make sure you have eyes only for him
Oops typo: I meant “cancergirl2010″, lol. Sometimes my typing gets beyond me! My apologies
I have read through many of your posts; the good, the bad and the ugly! I am living vicariously through your experiences with Scorpions!
As a Cancerian I have never dated or been physical with a Scorpio and this seems to fuel my fascination to their mystery even more, one person mentioned this, a woman should date a Scorpio man at least once in their lifetime!
I did meet a Scorpio but knew he was attached, I did keep my distance in that sense but upon first impression I could help my attraction to him. He has amazing green eyes! I was even more curious after talking to him for a moment and could not help but look in his direction across the room afterwards, he then walked passed me and caught my eye and we stared into each other’s eyes for a long moment as if no one was in the crowded room, the blaring music suddenly quiet.
I talked to him again later that evening and faced him rather than standing beside him, there was a strong sexual tension (I do like the tension when you first meet someone, as people do rush into the physical too quickly) As I was talking he stared at me as if he was scanning me from head to toe. I found out he is now single, he is as many ladies mentioned here a different experience whether it is being a Scorpio or not, in his presence I cannot help but smile, fumble my words, avoid eye contact from being shy, blush as he leans forward maintaining eye contact and questions me, his voice and deep eyes haunt my dreams in the most pleasant way.
I am constantly hounded by the eager Gemini’s. I don’t seem to meet enough Scorpions but I must say I did have an experience recently where a female Scorpio had a crush on me! (I am straight and have no problem with this lifestyle at all!) I am not interested and I was never offensive to her, I always treated her as a friend and with respect. She would text me a lot and questioned why I did not text back immediately. She also kept asking why I kept leaving (to go to the bathroom and get water) at a club we went to together while she was with her bf as if she was keeping tabs on me…
I do recommend reading Sextrology, The Art Of Seduction (with references to seduction in history i.e. Marilyn Monroe, Cleopatra, Napeoleon…), Linda Goodman’s Love Signs and Sun Signs if you have not stumbled upon them yet! It may give you some insight and clarity into the Scorpion mystery.
Dear Anonymous
I know what you feel with your male Scorpio. You definetly put what was missing in my post with my Scorpio. I feel your pain and good luck. I cant say that I’m all that crazy about Gemini’s. I have had too many bad experiences with the bad twin. And its odd because Gemini’s and Aries are very compatible.
Lovely_Libra
I am still waiting patiently, but I have stepped back a little. I wish I could tell you more details of what is going on but my in my job I can not share some things. I am totally convinced that he is married. I am also a customer at his work and I have some things to do there in the next couple of weeks and I am hoping that if things go right I can find out his status. Wish me luck…
I have alot of drama going on right now, but its sort of self inflicted. I pray to God everyday to heal my pain.
Hope you are having a great time at the Olympics:)
Hi – I’ve been reading your blogs and find them interesting, thanx ! Here’s my thing. I’m a pisces and he is a scorpio……he is on west coast I am east coast. He found me on a dating site cuz both of us are moving within 6 hrs of each other by June, I am flexible on that, he isn’t. We have been talking since last November, it’s now end of Feb. We talk for hours about all kinds of stuff almost every 2-3 days. We almost met 2x, but I had to travel other places at last minute. He would have met cuz at the locations we will be at by June. I would think he would come to me no matter where I was, yes, he has the means to make it happen without inconvenience. I ask myself well, what does he want……you’d think he’d make his way totally to me, he’s the guy……and that’s how it should work !
I’m beginning to get ‘very’ interested…..should I call him on meeting me or else why are we doing this……he says we’ll meet and the funny thing is I believe him, but find it tough to discuss all that we talk about with someone I haven’t met. However, he isn’t seeing anyone, I have been up front with that question. He tells me stuff I probably wouldn’t know about someone if I had been ‘dating’ them as opposed to talking to them for 4 months…….We get along so great, yet I’m needing more in order to go forward…….I think I should, but could lose him…….maybe thats the sign I need……not sure how he would respond………any ideas ? We are both in our 50’s, he was married 2x and I 1x…….Thanx in advance………
Dear Blue Eyes
I am not a harsh person, I’m actually the nicest person around. I know these words may hurt- why are you spending your precious energy on a man that is going to be 6 hrs away??? And why spend your energy on a man that is not avaiable to give you the attention you deserve and want??? Plus I would be concerned about him being married twice.
I am 20 yrs younger and I’m not really comfortable giving you advice but I have been down your road. My marriage of 10 yrs is ending and I am so tired of giving my attention to people, especially men, who do not deserve it. I too have been on dating websites and have met a few, my opinion is that people like to feed you what you want to hear. I know your are lonely as I am too but I have a job, beautiful girlfriends, a child and I spend time in charity- that’s where I spend this deserving energy. Plus spending my time and energy in these areas opens the possibilties of meeting men in my home town. Please do not be desperate, you to may have been divorced twice.
As Lovely_Libra has said in previous post, we are a goddess and should be treated as such, no ifs ands or buts.
Please give me feedback, I hope I was not too harsh. Have a great evening!!
i have been seeing a scorp guy for about 4 months on/off
i really like him and i feel that he likes me too.
he compliments me and buys my favorite wine. usually when we watch a movie
he will comment about some woman in it who s hot or whatever
but the last time we were together he did not do that.he also mentioned
something which kind of surprised me but ot made me feel good and very
special and i believe he truly meant it. it kills me when i can t see him more.
but i will wait for him to call me but not just waiting around i have things to keep me busy. i want him to want me always and forever !
I am a taurus woman and the scorpio is my opposite sign and my boyfriend is a scorpio and we have good communication, we understand eachother and we have the best sex that has ever existed. We complete eachother
It’s just all sex? then nothing is serious. Lmao!
flirtyaries:
. Vancouver did an awesome job organizing everything, as we found it fairly easy to get around. The crowds were a bit insane at times, but we managed. The line-ups to the ladies washroom, well, we won’t go there, lol.
I had a fantastic time at the Olympics! Go athletes!! We watched our country get a silver medal live, and the energy was out of this world
My man and I travel well together, as this was our first real trip. He definitely likes to take the reines. For me this was an adjustment because I’m used to having to find my own way around. I figured out his system of doing things, and worked with it. There were times when I stepped in, offering suggestions and we made decisions together. Male Scorps do like to lead, so that may be an adjustment for some gals
. Some women might find that difficult, but he and I find balance with this. I am the queen of balance after all, lol.
Good luck with everything that’s going on! Hopefully things will get sorted out soon. I just found out that my best friend is suffering from clinical depression
. She’s a Taurus. I’m not sure what I can do to help her feel better. It makes me very sad that she’s feeling this way.
Like wine, we all get better with age, right!
P.S. Don’t you dare feel old, you and I are around the same age group and we’re at our peek of sexiness!!
Marie:
Well, yes, but all good relationships need a strong physical side too, as well as emotional, no?
blue eyes:
Good luck girlfriend! I hope all goes well for you!
@BlueEyes – I’m going to disagree with Flirty Aries (no offense love! I see where you’re coming from) about the 6 hour distance. If you’re in your 50s you should know by now you never know what’s going to happen. Thing and circumstance in life can change drastically from moment to moment in ways you could never predict. I myself when I first seeing my scorpio was really concerned about schedules. I worked days. He worked nights and we never had the same days off. I felt like a relationship like could never move ahead. And we were both very into our careers and wouldn’t want to change it anyway. But down the road, certain things came up in BOTH our jobs that ended up opening up a lot more time for us. But neither of us could have predicted it from the beginning. As far as needing signs to go forward, take it easy my dear. Take it day by day and just have curiosity about what could happen than needing to know advance what is going to happen. You’re a big girl, you’re not going to fall apart whatever ends up happening. As far as seeing him, scorpios sometimes play their cards close to their chests and aren’t always the most revealing about their intentions. Sometimes they are when they’re confident, but if they aren’t, they’re very good at keeping mum. Sometimes direct questions work with them and sometimes it’s the worst to get answer. When I used to want to know what my scorpio had in store for us or if i wanted to do something, I would question what I wanted out loud and then take it back like I wasn’t so sure. Like “I was thinking about going to this place tonight. We could meet up there and then go do this. But I’m not sure, I might go see a movie with my girlfriend.” Every single time it worked like a charm, he would INSIST that we go do what i originally suggested. However if i just said, “you want to go meet up at so and so?” He would vacillate and usually end up rejecting the idea. In my case, I’ve come the realize it’s a control thing. He always wants the one to be calling the shots and wants to keep me thinking I have no control over him. But over the years I’ve come to realize it’s because he thinks I already have too much control over him to begin with! So he does these silly games to keep me in check.
Take your time love. Enjoy the newness and excitement. Don’t predict the future, let it unfold for you. You’ll enjoy him and your time together a lot more.
@Lovely_Libra – do they ever like to take the lead. But it’s not just to lead, they want to do what they want to do and heaven help you if you don’t want to or have other ideas. Lol. Another thing i find curious about them is even the most delicate, insecure scorpios (like the one i’m with, lol) will want to feel like “the man”, despite the fact sometimes they create other situations where they want to be babied. It took me YEARS to learn that this is so important to them and they get very put out if you get in the way of it. I’ve had my scoprio more the once shout, “Can you just let ME be the man for once?!” Being the typical oblivious aquarian I am, I’m always bewildered when he states this as I have no idea at any give moment who’s the man, the woman, the dog, or whatever, Lol.
In M. Night Shaymalyan’s (sp?) movie The Village, there is a scene where the female lead (Ron Howard’s daughter) is sitting on a porch telling the male lead (Joaquin Phoenix) that she is now free to marry since her older sister has been spoken for. Despite the fact that her and the male lead are not in a relationship but have been long time childhood friends she states, “When we are married, will you dance with me? I find dancing very agreeable. Why can you not say what is in your head?” Joaquin’s very dark and quiet character replies quite frustrated, “Why can you not stop saying what is in yours? Why must you lead, when I want to lead? If I want to dance I will ask you to dance. If I want to speak I will open my mouth and speak. Everyone is forever plaguing me to speak further. Why? What good is it to tell you you are in my every thought from the time I wake? What good can come from my saying that I sometimes cannot think clearly or do my work properly? What gain can rise of my telling you the only time I feel fear as others do is when I think of you in harm? And yes, I will dance with you on our wedding night.”
Sounds just like a scorpio! And I’m sure it’s no coincidence that our dark, brooding lead man, Mr. Joaquin Phoenix, is actually a scorpio himself.
I first want to say ‘Thanx’ to those who responded to me. I don’t mind people being honest at all, I think that’s how we learn. Everyone seemed caught up in the 6hr difference, and I get that and it was good for me to see the ‘drama’ in it. I think for me what is/was going on is I am having a fun, intimate relationship from a distance. Yes, I know its just the phone, but for some ’safety’ (probably) reason, I hadn’t been open like this w/someone in a long time. So I think it kind of blind-sided me. It’s ok…..I have other offers to go out here at home and when I have this relationship with this scorp, I kind of felt wrong to go out with someone else. I know it isn’t, but nonetheless I was feeling odd about it. I am divorced for 6 yrs and was sick for the past 4.5……..so for me it’s like starting over. So I kind of need to get my ’sea’ legs, ha ha. I don’t allow myself to be overly available for this scorp, but the connection is fierce…….Oh well, today is another day, Thank God ! He’s still calling, emailing……but me, well I have a lot to make up for in my own life that I have missed, so my life is becoming fuller and like I said, if any guy wants to have a relationship that goes deeper than normal, he had better have a plan to be ‘in’ my life……not just part of my life.
TheCountess:
Ha! What a great scenario from M. Night’s movie you described. I think that sounds like a lot of couples. My best friend and her husband sure come to mind . . . Mighty Taurus dominates the Pisces . . . My man’s a Spock. He will very rarely show his emotions. He has his way of showing me he cares, so I never press him for what he’s thinking about. I have no reason to, he’s a man of action
. Being with a Scorpio, you really have to understand body language. Don’t you agree?
It’s funny how you mentioned about men wanting to be “babied” sometimes. I’ve been busy playing “nurse” this weekend, as my Scorp has thrown his back out
. He loves that I have a need to take responsibility and help others. Call it mothering instincts? I don’t know . . . We look after each other 
. An Eagle will make you feel safe.
blue eyes:
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We’re gearing for you! I think that’s fantastic that you are living life to its fullest. You sound like you deserve it. Distance can make a relationship more difficult, but absence can make the heart grow fonder. There’s something special about a friendship that grows between two people who have a very deep connection with one another. Regardless what happens, it sounds like you’re taking things as they come
@Lovelylibra – i find particularly, of all the men i’ve encountered, scorpios really eat it up when you comfort and care for them. My leo father absoluely hates it when a women fusses over him whens sick. My pisces ex seemed helpless but oblivious to the care. A gemini i dated once, almost seemed to expect to it and joshingly requested things. My sag male cousin is gracious and thankful but fine on his on. But my scorpio, who constantly creates situations because he is the UBER emotional kind (except for when angry and then he is stone cold) i can just picture him in my head adjusting into the fetal position wrapping his arms around me. He burrows into me almost. He’s no eagle scorp though. He’s the dark intense kind and very very delicate but also very very fierce when he feels the need to be. The word cutting comes to mind. My is protective from in the shadows which i find so curious. He’s always watching out for me, but its from the background, almost like he doesnt want to know. Twice he’s found me in a crowd of people just as i looked up and looked around for our group i had seperated from (Typical aqua, wondering off). All of sudden he was just there leading me back to the group. Even one time my daughter was bouncing around on the bed (she was 6 at the time) and he was watching a movie on the computer next to her and i was in the bathroom getting dressed and out of the corner of my eye i see him extend his arm almost without looking and caught her by her arm as she almost tumbled off the bed. He’s always watching. But yes, you’re better off being adept at reading their minds and their bodies if you ever want to have a clue of what’s going on. But then again, i think we are particularly handicapped because he’s so secretive scorpio and i’m so oblivious aquarian so a lot of times we miss each other’s intentions. But we make up for it in strong vibes that we both naturally pick up on. I’m good at knowing where his thoughts are going and he’s good at knowing the moment my mood or emotions change.
@blueeyes – everyone sees distance as an obstacle but i see it as a gift. it allows thing to go slower, which can form better bonds in my opinion. You really get the chance to know somebody before you get carried away by lust and irrational emotions (spoken like a true air sign, lol). And if it’s fun, why stop?
As for their body language, good god, my aquatic ways completely failed me on that one. I still to this day have no idea when he’s fuming with me and yet other people can see it.
sorry about those paragraphs getting split up. computer glitch.
I am a Virgo sun and venus with a Libra moon and rising sign. I’m crazy about a Scorpio with a Capricorn moon and Sagittarius venus. I don’t know if he likes me. He’s always nervous and stuttering around me. He can’t look me in the eye. But he says he can’t look anyone in the eyes cause he feels “socially awkward”. I swear when we’ve talked alone he’d look me in the eyes. I asked him to coffee, and he agreed. But he backs out each time stating his schedule is too hectic. He works full-time and goes to school full-time. He doesn’t let anyone in, but even he commented that he wasn’t use to revealing this much about himself so fast.
Should I wait for him to make a move or just move on (we’ve known each other for roughly two months)? We have venus conjunct mars (I’m mars). And multiple moon, sun and venus aspects.
The other day, He came in a button up dress shirt, hair done, and smelling of cologne (either that or he just really smells good to me). He sits next to me (I always sit next to one of my good friends). He generally is wearing a hat while wearing in jeans and a t-shirt.
TheCountess:
Yeah, this week has been rough on my guy, he’s not one to get sick very often. I’ve noticed that he’s very attentive towards my efforts in helping out. I feel appreciated. With my Pisces Ex, I just felt like his mother
(you’re right – he was helpless too). He always expected me to clean up after him and it annoyed me to pieces. My Scorpio doesn’t make me feel that way, rather we’re on the same team. We look after each other – as it should be. A man/women’s loving relationship shoudn’t be parent/child, it should be adult/adult. You’re equals. I don’t remember who addressed this theory in Psychology, maybe you remember?
Yes, they keep us guessing that’s for sure! That’s the beauty of getting to know someone on all levels. Mine isn’t the kind to burrow in the shadows, he’s too sociable a fellow. He likes getting out, interacting with people, and experiencing new things. It’s true, just when you think they aren’t paying attention – they are. He’ll notice things about me that most people overlook. When you’ve captured the Scorpion heart, he will difinitely make you feel like the most special girl in the world. They are incredibly loyal.
VirgoChick:
. Don’t play down your intelligence though, as that is very unattractive – however, it doesn’t hurt in asking his advice about something! That is something men do love 
Good luck!!!
I say go for it! Keep him hooked with some intellectual conversation that makes him want to get to know you more! If you’re in the same class, maybe you could set up a study date for your next midterm?
I ask him for help with grammar, but I offer him help with dialogue (we’re writers). I think he’s super busy right now cause a) he said he would be the next couple of weeks and b) he’s not returning text messages that normally would get returned immediately. Is his interest waning or he just super busy (he wks & goes to school full-time)?
Sorry, I have lot of virgo and powerful scorpio aspects in my chart. I won’t budge or take risks until I’m 99% sure he’s into me.
I’m a SCORPIO FEMALE I DATED MY SHARE OF SCORP MEN,….THEY WANT PASSION/LUST/EXCITEMENT/BEAUTY/ MONEY/ AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE……..DONT WE ALL. I notice we can be cheaters if paired with LIBRA’S They are to superficial and ditsy most of the time… Me and my ex are still firends he is dating a Pisces a Virgo and a Gemini… He doesnt like the Gemini but she is gorgeous… He likes the Pisces but she is not smart enough and he says the VIRGO is too boring… I have noticed VIRGOS can be boring well the men are and they are to plain… We like someone who dresses well or eccentiric like Pisces but who give a intellectual challenge most cant do it.
SUBMISSION
plain and simple
My ex scorpio broke up when I walked in on him going through some of my stuff.It amused me greatly the excuses that came out his mouth.It took six months of me ignoring his phone calls emails etc to get the message
I am a text book scorpio. damn near everything read perfectly about me lol i find it amusing and how. Sincere benevolent and compassionate with lots of affection is the perfect woman for me. All of those have to be present in some percentage order. Looks are amusing but though is provoking. the way a woman thinks and carries herself her wisdom is key to locking me down. I love strong minded women. I like a women who seems like a bitch but really isnt one she is really sweet passionate and true to her endevours lol whoa Im getting hot just thinking of such a puzzle(smiles)(scorpio Humor)
hi ppls i need some advice please…
ive met this lad(scop) and i feel like i really like him, i feel connected with him,i feel totally different with him… i dont want to scare him but i want us to work so bad… any tips on how to keep him?? And also how do u know if he really likes you.. thanks guys.
give your scopio full commitment and give him full freedom but demand respect be flexible… watch him begin to humble to you