What does a Scorpio man want in a woman?
February 27, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Scorpio man seeks woman who can keep a secret, stay faithful. Must have high sex drive, and must never ever look at another man (or woman, for that matter). Extra points if you have a healthy respect for privacy. Willingness to merge assets a plus — bringing along debts may be a dealbreaker. You should have completed a full round of psychoanalysis first, and know your dark side well — I don’t want to be your therapist, and I’d rather you have thoroughly examined yourself before I dig up all your skeletons. Tolerance for witnessing emotional extremes and black moods is a necessity. If you want to be possessed, I’m your man.
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@phoenix/scorp – hate to tell you love if her birthday is sept 5, she’s a VIRGO, not a scoprio. As far as your moon signs, you need the year of your birth and possibly your birth times.
yeah its actually nov. my bad lol
ok ive got the dates and year but where do i go to find out?
I have another question is a scorpio woman as loyal and wanting of a realationship as a male?
Scorpio women are the most loyal friends I’ve ever met. They are your friend even if you made them mad as long as you show that you’re a real friend too. I have had a lot of friends but my best friends were always Scorpio’s. I know that they all wanted a relationship but were very choosey, good idea but sadly they expect other people to be as good as they are as a freind and keep getting disapointed. Thats the problem, you can’t expect everyone to be as nice as you are. But Scorpio women give everyone the benefit of the doubt then the person lets them down. Its too bad. Its not fair but men just arn’t fair creatures…..
I’m fair more than i wanna give my scorpio girl the world and if she wants the same and if what you say is true then i’ll relax a bit. A scorpio woman with a scorpio man its been almost a month and weve known eachother for a year.
Thats good, nice to speak to an evolved man Phenix/scorpio
(I’m a Libra but I’m also Scorpio Rising) I think you’re worried for nothing. If youre good to her she’ll love you for life 
Yes, she wants the closest relationship ever…If you are her best friend then she’ll never leave you
She wont mind your jealousy either…LOL Its flattering to be loved so much
actually when i m with her my gaze never turns she blushes like crazy. Im always close and very open more than i thought i should be but i want her so if she wants more she can have it. Ive even gone as far as to confide in her more than anyone else on my secrets and sje did the ame even though i knew her secret. When i was her friend i was always helping her and she was what i protected and even now i go with her and stay with her. Im around er when she needs and i get along with her friends though admitivley i dont have many myself. Ive find myself changing to a more social person becuase i need to be and that is all i need to know. Though im still whishing i could read her like any other girl. I know her but i dont its a fnny thing lol but thank you and could you look up our charts im not so good with ths please. I am october 26th and she is nov 5
@ph/scorp – you need the year, place of birth and the birth times as well to look up your charts.
btw i meant to ask on the other thread only because it does make a difference how each sign acts to a certian extent but around what age group are the both of you?
@Phenix/scorpio: Wow, her birthday is just two days away from me.I’ve a friend who has that birthday too.
Phenix/scorpio,
No wonder I felt a slight heartbreak when I read your story….I read about your Cancer woman, thats really sweet, you are a very thoughtful selfless person, to let people go that you love, I get the whole let them free and maybe they’ll come back, thing…trouble is the guys I do that with NEVER come back…You may have a slight hint of Libra in your soul, poor guy….
I dont knoiw how to read charts too good, and I think they ask birth times, which is a puzzler, cest la vie….I can tell you Nov 5 my dad died so I kind of swallowed hard, I know a lot of life changing things happen on that date, including the election in the US last year…As far as your birthdate my friend, wow, thats really interesting most Oct born Scorpio’s are extreme romantics
I respect your way of loving, You really deserve a lot more form a relationship then you’ve gotten. From one romantic fool to another, I feel your agony. I step back too when I love, noone wants to feel like they’ve interfered with their true loves life…I know.
I hope that life brings you love, really I do. And know this, if I had a man love me the way you love a woman, I would do everything to make him happy, thats why I’m alone and thats why you’re in the mess you’re in, to love so much in this world. where everything is unfair … I hope that you get a woman to love you that intense. I hope I meet a man like you. Just for once, to be “loved” it would be very precious, the reason why you don’t have what you want is that you are in an impossible world. I’ve decided to let my elusive Aquarian go, he wont come back anyways, after analyzing it, he wont because I “love” him. Thats why I cant have him…It doesnt make sense.
I feel for you, life is just as cruel to you…I guess you’ll just have to live for the moment, and do things for yourself even if it seems cold, you have to make yourself happy because other people just arn’t doing it for you. You are “the Friend” its about time that you had a friend. You are giving and they just take. I know the routine, I live it. I hope that you get what you deserve, it isnt this. I felt something from your soul when I read your story, you are too much of a giver and this is a world full of takers. You need to demand more from your friends, in love and otherwise, you need to be a bit selfish. You deserve more then they give. I’m a fool so I cant get it out there, but I know youre sharp enough to get something good for you. You cant expect people to be as good as you, theyll always disapoint, so you’ll have to find some happiness whenever you can. I have a lot of respect for you. Youre a rare person in this world. Good luck to you. I also read about the “loser” complex, thats exactly what I do to myself, thank you so much for putting it into words, I get it finally…that how I screw up my life. Thank you for that
You made me think. God Bless You
libra lady
I thik everyone would be suprised at how young i am but its experience in life that carries a soul.My own is very old. And i i dont live for the momments i observe and help where i can and dissapear. I ohnestly dont have to much experience enjoying life to be ohnest i expect peope to behave that way witch is why im so guarded. Unfourtantly i cant be selfish or greedy or even lustful what i want more than anything requires none of those things. Maybe greedy for her time. Unforutantly i have a helping nature and cant help but try to help someone evne if they take. and as for me i know i comprimise and look for ways theres always a way but i cant help but to want to trust in someone unfourtantly sometimes all you can do is have a leap of faith. Though if it feels wrong its wrong
Phenix/scorpio,
I used to expect everyone to live like that, helping others before themselves, I’ve lived almost 39 years and have been disapointed enough for a thousand. There are very few people that show that kind of selflesness. I dont consider myself a selfish person, in a relationship I always find that I’m the one that gives, the one that steps back and the one that gets hurt. I usualy get the pretty words from him, I’ve heard a lifetime of beautiful words but devotion or action never seems to present itself no matter what his birthsign is, I’ve learned that the more you give, the more pretty words you get in return without any substantial return of love or thoughfulness.
I didnt mean be selfish and turn your back on others.. That would mean not being yourself
You deserve to be happy, thats what I meant. I cant stop being a fool anymore then you can stop feeling the way you do, I think in the end that what we do get is the sattisfaction when we look in the mirror oneday of knowing that when the relationship fell appart it wasnt our fault…It still hurts though. And then theres always that sense of guilt, That if you let go, even though they clearly were never participating in the relationship you feel like your wrong….It really isnt fair. Its a shame that those who do all the caring, ultimately are the ones that suffer the most…And yes, from your comments I really thought that you were an older person, at least 35
Phenix/scorpio,
the place I checked my personal horoscope is http://www.astro.com. It was interesting :
Libra lady thankx
And myself i understand this now. Though im trying to be more strait forward and less secrative. Ive casted away the dark in myheart for my cancer i know i love her but i cant love her that way. The way she thinks she wants. I am but an anker to her and if were ment to be ill see her again. As for my scorpio woman. Ive charged at her and am giving more im opening opening up more than i ever have and she was hesitant but today proved that she wants me more than physical andi find myself happy. She charged right back at me and refused to let go or back down. Such strength i find it enlighting. Thouhg she did notice she deosnt turn me on as much as i do her. Any suggestions on what might help. Id rather get help then suffer the problem. It may be that my heart is or was with someone else but i feel im short changing her. Shes waiting for me to lose control but i cant for some reason. I want t but im not so giving and i dont want to tell her that sometings wrong or feels wrong but i know shes holding back cuase she feels i am. Though i must admit we figured out we feel the same t all times almost. Like when shes feeling great ill say ifeel a fraction at the sametime lol. Shes great and i dont want to say no to her. Any advice on how to get me feelin better on uh well you know lol (sorry uncombterable a little bit. Also i though you guys would fid this interesting. We also feel the same way twords love. She feels that if it were the way everyone else desrcibe love we could say were in love but wwe both have a higher opinion of it. And she wants that so bad.Also this remnds me well what you said.
To love is to suffer therefore one mustnot love but not to love is to suffer. Well theres a short version i thought youd find that interesting. Thank you guys well gals lol
Sounds like you’ve got a soulmate
You may not be turned on becaues you are so busy loving her in otherways….I think that as long as you’re honest she will understand where you are coming from. I know all abou the suffering part 
but I keep hopefull about tommorrow…You took a big chance going to her, it shows your strength. 
Keep thinking positive 
You deserve to be happy, maybe this will be the bridge you just crossed to get there 
Libra lady THankx im going to try though this weak is somewhat plagued
going to chruch with her today maybe thatll make me feel batter thankx for the help and note to self read all of the countess stuff.
I was trying to get some advice on my Scorpio. I really like him but every time he takes 5 steps forward I open up then he takes 10 steps back. The only time he will act right is when I am away for a few days. Should I let him go?
Hi Deshawn
He is treating you better when you’ve been away for a few days? Sounds like he misses you a lot when youre away, maybe that will keep him interested
Keep being independent, no I wouldnt give up on him 
You just have to keep him on his toes… I think he likes it
well nobodys talkin now?
I am just here.I just don’t like any scorpio men anymore.Money is a big deal.I am scorpio too but I am not kind of..Just earn and enjoy.don’t count the money but count the blessings.For scorpio men.They are too in love with the money.hahaha.count this and that when relationship ended. sorry..but I guess I have nothing to do with a man who acted as smart as he is when he is not and that is my ex fiance..lol. I moved on.I realized that when scorpio men in love with the woman they choose they are trying hard to get you into their manipulation.Why? simply because they feel in love and they hate it ’cause afraid of losing you.They are too jealous and insecure because they flirts a lot and when their woman acted the same way as they are..opps that’s a big deal.They creates fights and acting that it is your fault when it’s not.hahaha.I know their weakness.If they don’t love you they will just say it normally without torturing a woman.If you disapproved your part they just told you that you have agenda.hell! they are just afraid of losing you one day. that’s the reality. Go scorpio men have fun and have your misery.I am done.I am strong enough.ladies…let them chase you.Sting them if needed.let them know they are not the only man here on earth.there are so many.give them a multiple space..email them and call them but don’t ask them to repay..then be mysterious.Then they will start worrying…lol
Marie- i apologize for your experience please believe that were not all that way. The only reason ive ever wanted money is to take care of who im with. Please dont say that in any bitternees. Please dont take it like that. Most scorps do things becuase they feel wrong or to test. I will admit alot of scrops have that problem. And worrying most of us are this way for a reason not to justify but in a defense that no people are the same. Btw as a show of confindence in you. And repayment. My name is juan but please call me jay.
I understand you jay..loving a person is NO BUT’s and IF’s. Scorpio men just make it too complicated.I was never been bitter.Scorpio men does it.you know why? Because they are in love.When you lost the love to your partner you don’t hold bitterness..you just simply let it go and make it fly away from you.Scorpio men are too crazy..they say things which is different to the moves they do.They are pointless..Like my ex He dumped me but he still jealous and don’t give my freedom because scorpio men are selfish.Loving a person is a self dying and selfless giving.Why count the money and blamed all to their partner.Well In fact they are the one making all the dramas in the relationship.Scorpio men back off and give me your fist bump.take it easy.don’t be self defeating because you alone carry your burden. hahaha.I know scorpio men’s weakness.Opps I did it again.
Maria- us a scorpio men are bitter that would be a down fall for most. Theres always a momment though that changes them or a person strong enough to change them. Actually my scorpio woman did this more so to me. Andi understand saying something and doing different. If its somewhat uncombterable then did you think that maybe they just need some support. Most scorpio males dont have many friends and are often loners. In terms of a scorpio man think of a woman ohnestly think of a woman not that we are imasciline its how it is. And selfish some are but not all but then every sign has selfishness. And think did you ever do anything to make it bad. A few words can hurt deeply more deeply then youd think at first it could appearto be fine but unside there kinda sad. A scorpio males weakness is more of not belonging. Tryiong to find that thing that’ll in short make purpose and fullfillment. ANd waht of a scorpio woman. Those deep thoughts and insecuirities that they try to hide from themselves. SOme i know are afriad of everything yet youd never know that they really do want to be taken care of but not in the ways most would think. Some i know go home at the end of the day lonley and tired and feeling so alone. Whishing something could dure there lonliness. Cure that empty. In terms a scorpio woman is only slightly different then a male. Just a scorpio womans mask is generally better. There nuatraully better. In terms ive found that scorpio wemon are indeed more active and social and tend to give in more then a male would. well i must go and think carefully id like for you to emial me as well on a different matter. If you dont mind that. Thank you maria maybe i can prove you wrong in the ways of a scorpio male.