Im a Sun in Leo, Pieces Moon and Rising, Cancer in Venus and Taurus in Mars. I like this one guy who ive know for 4 years now and we were good friend first and after 3 years we started going out. His sun is in Aries and his moon, venus and mars in Aquarius. It was going well, but unfortunately one of my friends told me a rumor that caused me to dump him horrifically through a text message. I later on found out that the rumor wasn’t true and i felt horrible. So i apologized and he didn’t want to get together because he didnt like the fact that i trusted my friend over him and he was really hurt. So i began getting all emotional like my pieces moon and cancer in venus. But he still would not take me back he only wanted to be friends. so i decided to move on with another guy and after a while, my ex responded weirdly by wanting to hang out more. So obviously i dumped the new guy i was with and talked with my ex again. He asked me to hang out with his friends a couple times and he even kissed me, and hold my hand, and i was just shocked, and REALLY confused as to what he wanted with me. So i dont know whether he was just being that flirtatious Aquarius or still has feelings for me, but doesn’t want a commitment yet? please help any advice would be appreciated

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Aquarian girls have lots of patience because they dont feel much emotionally. About she being your last love, I sincerely hope it does. My first love too was an Aquarian but she cheated on me(checkout the Aquarian girls cheating discussions, its really interesting). All I am saying is be on alert and protect that soft Cancerian heart….yours sincerest cancerian, Xander

Here’s what you do Aqaurius woman – If you want to win back your cancer man be honest with him. True, blatant, honesty with a sincere tone is the only way to reach a cancer man. Instead of performing the traditional aqaurian acrobatic wordplay and story telling where you use your intillect to derive this approach or master plan to winning back you man – just sit and talk. Perhaps touch his hands, shoulder, look into his eyes, and plead your case. BE the cuddly wuddly sugar bear that he needs and you must mean it – or you are in the wrong game anyway. Don’t make things that they aren’t. Don’t hide things to protect him. Don’t cover things because of “the way he reacts.” Just be real. Be you. If you lie to get him back, bend reality, stretch the truth, or all out balls to the wall falsify your plead and he finds out later – his hatret will flare almost as deeply as did his care and love.

In order, and if ever, a cancer man and aqaurius woman relationship will work you must understand that we need some reassurance, okay – quite a bit of reassurance. We need you to take the time to show us that you care more often than once. We need softness at times, cuddling at times.

CANCER MAN – if you stumbled upon this you have to realize that FRIENDS are just friends to the aqaurius woman. Guy friends most likely. Her privacy is just that, her privacy – respect it. Her life is her life and under no circumstance will it ever be a co-joined union in which the two of you leave what you had for what the two of you will have. She can do her thing and still be faitfull to you, and enjoy a life with you.

She doesn;t always want you to go where she is planning to go. She enjoys these excursions alone. Let her go! She’ll be back and if you don;t whine about how much she doesn;t care about you and how she leaves you alone all of the time, she will come back to you with much more passion, much mkore excitement, much more fire in her eyes, and much more respect for you. COme on Man, you are a cancerian!!! Use the free time to do all the little things you’ve been neglecting since you stuck your head up your aqaurius friends behind. She needs time away from you to do her socializing, planning, resting (yes they need much sleep.) She needs to be allowed to live in her head, at her friends house, or at the drafting table for saving the world. Go clean the living room or plan something to do with the children. As long as you show her that you can be trusted, prior, go hang out with your friends (which are most likely women.) she’ll be cool with it as long as you don’t always compare her to them, or always talk about them. Listen cancer man, and don’t critique.

Good luck.

She’s been taking the break up pretty hard, but decided that it wouldnt have worked out in the long run. My boyfriend has a cancer moon and I a scorpio moon. The best way Ive learned to get them to stop being crabby or closing up is to just be caring. Watch for signals. If he stops talking he probably feels rejected, and an aquarius wouldnt be able to pick up on these emotional undercurrents so well or quickly. Good luck!