“If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.”

The Libra man I’m with now… we were having a good conversation, than I just said somethin like its so fun talking to you here’s my number call me lol. And left to go meet up w/ my friend. He actually called me right away, then made sure to call me on my lunch break after that and at night from than on… talking for hours and hours. I think you gotta “tickle their fancy” as one of my libra friends put it, you gotta leave a lasting impression so they think about you. In fact all air sign men seem to be like this, if you intrigue them intellectually… they come back for more.

That’s why it’s really good to have Sun/Mercury, Venus/Mercury… well Mercury synastry period when it comes to air sign men. Its a good sign in my opinion. Just another of my opinions… but if you think a man is stringing you along, he more than likely IS. If a libra is doing that, hes probably not a very secure/mature one :S and do you really want to spend time/energy on that? Because your time/energy is a valuble thing, you cant exchange it or get it back once its gone its gone.

OK- first thing is first—–
Without knowing his entire natal chart… you don’t know really the WHO you are talking about- we got he’s a LIBRA MAN- OK but rest of his chart will tell us more.
The thing with LIBRA- you are dating his friends- not him. THEY make his choices for him. If his friends aren’t all raving about you- you don’t exist.
They also like to have a whole stable full of girls- married, single etc.
What THEY think of you is all that matters there. So now you’ll have this dude whining to these chicks, and if you’re a type that other women are jealous of you may as well paint a target on the back of your coat!
A REAL BIG ONE
He’ll claim he had NO IDEA what was going on when they start getting catty.
NO IDEA.
Then he’ll go back to his guy friends- and of course if they don’t know you personally, you’ll have even MORE trouble.
Then he’ll mess with you, and here come all the head trips and mind games (and hey I have a stellium in Taurus- ascendant in Scorpio– I don’t DO HIGH SCHOOL GAMES….)
and if you decide OK you’ve had enough games and decide to LEAVE, then he’ll REALLY WHINE and claim you’ve wounded his soul and ruined his life- NOW you’ll have all kinds of trouble coming from EVERY CORNER of the planet!
And it will all be by people you never even spent 5 minutes with- and they have now deemed you the next Anti-Christ.

I merely speak from experience….
Be real careful- this could be the biggest waste of time you have ever spent- and you won’t be getting your 5 minutes back when all is said and done- REALLY THINK IT THRU.

After I was finally out of the picture I watched this dude play this same game OVER AND OVER AND OVER with every chick he went out with- they’ll do it until they’re too old to get away with it.
I have no idea WHY- but I do know you’ll most likely wind up having to leave town- if it somehow doesn’t go HIS way.

My mother is also a Libra- I swear I just don’t understand these people AT ALL.
I seriously wonder if SHE even knows how many marriages she’s broken up with her little games. Her theory on the whole thing is people are in relationships because they are “living in FEAR” and they are “weak”.
She’s got more than a couple planets in Libra- if that gives you any idea at all there.

One of my best friends is Libra- I’m thinking she likes to SPECULATE the whole
ordeal. So of course I am in HER stable of friends- I have seen this first hand- the boot on the other foot.
This speculation has been going on for over 10 years.
And there is a child involved.
It has gotten like a bad nightmare.
I just do the best I can with it trying to be fair to both parties.
AGAIN love from afar- longing- being in love with being in love- not actually BEING IN LOVE.
It’s all very ethereal- very romantic.

But viewed thru my Gemini/ Taurus / Scorpio lens .. very annoying- very impractical and a total waste of good socializing in public time and Kleenex.
(New Years was a BUST!)

From what I gather- when someone is born IN a certain sign- it doesn’t always mean they are the EMBODIMENT of the said sign- it often means they need to LEARN how to DO that sign.
They are LEARNING about the subject of being Libra. Not TEACHING it.

SO Libra is said to be the sign of marriage and relationships- I’m surrounded by Libras in my life- not a one of them can actually BE in a relationship.
Or marriage.
They can’t seem to make decisions either- which can also be really annoying.

But as I said, looking at merely a SUN SIGN can’t really give us enough to work with at this point. Having your friend be your go-between- there’s ANOTHER NOT TOO BRIGHT IDEA- trust me.
Either THAT friend will wind up with him- or like the person above said- it’s not a direct thing- too high school.

Maybe you need to BE where he is- and just fall in step if he’s THAT important to you- because chances are since they tend to base their whole opinion on whatever his friends think…. you had better BE one of the people there.
Ya see what I mean? If you’re not THERE you can’t defend yourself when people start getting catty- it’s a dirty game- but there ya have it.
Oh and when doing this- I’m not sure what you’re supposed to do when they start making out with whomever happens to jump on his lap….. but there’s always THAT little problem too- remember the “catty” sh!t I spoke of earlier?

been there and done that- and while the “game” is on– forget about dating someone else- that pour soul WILL be banished from whatever coast you live on by said group of “friends” as well.
So trust me- your precious time WILL be wasted in more ways than one!
And NO you don’t get any of that wasted time back.
EVER.
I learned MUCH from this game.
Hopefully you’ll find a way to be “friends” because that’s what is REALLY important and just leave it at that- oh and don’t have any feelings either – because that will be construed as you being JEALOUS- and HEY that’s just NOT ALLOWED- you’re “friends” remember?

Good luck Miss!
I mean that in the nicest possible way.

~WW

Has anyone met a Lbra man who doesn’t to this??

Also are there any successful Pisces female/ Libra male combinations??

I’m Pisces female, Leo rising, venus in Aquarius. I seem to attract Air and fire signs, but wanted to know if this combo works. Thanks.

P.s. I know astrology is only guidance on peoples basic characteristics, and life experiences etc mold someones true personality. However, the more I read I realise that each person has the basic characteristics of their sign even though they have different personalities.

Thanks for your advice. It can be confusing at times when they blow hot and cold, and they are quite manipulative, VERY charming and tell you what you want to hear. Sometimes I get sucked in by this!!lol. I guess I need to follow my gut instict/ hunch as I think he is still a player and likes the attention he gets from his attractive female friends, which he has many!! lol.

I will move on and thanks for your perspective. Pisces female/aquarius rising.