Comments on: How to seduce a married Cancer man http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:31:10 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Cancer http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-50798 Cancer Wed, 30 Sep 2009 05:56:28 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-50798 Married cancer woman meets married cancer man. We both have strong partners and good relationships, but seduce each other - no problem. Cant say who started it, just snowballed. Not looking to leave our partners, but loving the Cancer/Cancer thing! Married cancer woman meets married cancer man. We both have strong partners and good relationships, but seduce each other – no problem. Cant say who started it, just snowballed. Not looking to leave our partners, but loving the Cancer/Cancer thing!

]]> By: aymee721 http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-49173 aymee721 Sat, 19 Sep 2009 03:14:52 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-49173 WOW! is all i can say.....I know how u all feel....I had a relationship with a cancer guy....he is 51, I am 37....he was married....I had NEVER had a relationship like that in my life....and did not plan on it....he just constantly pursued until I gave in....I will say I dont regret the passion, communication, caring, protectivness, etc....He made me feel really loved when he wanted it all....but about a yr and a half ago he decided he wanted to try to make his marriage work due to his first grandbaby being born.....I am still to get over all the games, lies, SILENCE, betrayal..and do u know, he NEVER told me it was over never to this day...he still calls from time to time, to tell me he still loves me and to THINK about us......(GO FIGURE) I get sooo excited when I hear from him and all the feelings come rushing back..and then bam, I dont hear from him until another wk or so.....I would NEVER date him again if I could go back....IT has been the most hurtful/wonderful relationship. I still do not know him..... Trying to move on, Aymee~ WOW! is all i can say…..I know how u all feel….I had a relationship with a cancer guy….he is 51, I am 37….he was married….I had NEVER had a relationship like that in my life….and did not plan on it….he just constantly pursued until I gave in….I will say I dont regret the passion, communication, caring, protectivness, etc….He made me feel really loved when he wanted it all….but about a yr and a half ago he decided he wanted to try to make his marriage work due to his first grandbaby being born…..I am still to get over all the games, lies, SILENCE, betrayal..and do u know, he NEVER told me it was over never to this day…he still calls from time to time, to tell me he still loves me and to THINK about us……(GO FIGURE) I get sooo excited when I hear from him and all the feelings come rushing back..and then bam, I dont hear from him until another wk or so…..I would NEVER date him again if I could go back….IT has been the most hurtful/wonderful relationship. I still do not know him…..

Trying to move on,

Aymee~

]]> By: airesgirl http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-47109 airesgirl Mon, 31 Aug 2009 15:26:36 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-47109 Ah, I've never cheated on anyone, but my last Fall Hard Love was a Cancer who was "truely in love" with me. His words. We got along like butter and I was soooo happy. Then I found out he was a cheat. I broke it off, lost a lot of weight from shock and grief and became a hermit. He immmediately went on a zilion dates from the internet. Mind you , he still emailed and called and sometimes we even saw each other- but so sex. Then he jumped into co-habitation with a Pisces. He didnt tell but he did send me notes telling me his exact moves and addresses minus the news about the new girlfriend. Of course I found out. Then when move in time came , he wrote a series of desparate notes telling me how his soul was so connected to me. I know - cause I remember past lives, but that doesn't mean I'm going to play his game so I told him off in blazing Aires fashion that he made his bed -- now go lie in it. During the past two years of his cohabitation and he's still working on the divorce from the ex wife -- then he sends me note saying he's not sure she's the one and signs "love" Yet- the next thing I know he's sending me another note that he is moving on the 1st of Nov. and here's his address. The address is one block from my office. No mention of a girlfriend at all. Several notes and he's hurt his knee. I'm a healer type and said it would be interesting to see the xrays- just to test to see where he was coming from .. he said sure- he'd show me the xrays. Then I bait him about meeting him somewhere really public in the neighborhood and he admit he's living with a woman. The same Pisces. The divorce from the ex is still dragging on ( 4 years) and he co-bought this house with the new girlfriend and he's still trying to go after me. I know the honeymoon with the live in woman is long over and I'm tempted to seduce him. But I know what I really need is a new love interest who is true blue. I know that Mr Cancer is going to flip out once the official wife gets the divorce and the girfriend with whom he bought the house is expecting Marriage. He's barely tolerating his choice as it stands now. Working late, etc. I have a strong feeling that if he somehow got free from both ex and live -in girlfriend and we started being together, he woud soon start to be critical of me. As the unattainable woman, I have his heart and imagination. I think I'll leave it that way. Ah, I’ve never cheated on anyone, but my last Fall Hard Love was a Cancer who was “truely in love” with me. His words. We got along like butter and I was soooo happy. Then I found out he was a cheat. I broke it off, lost a lot of weight from shock and grief and became a hermit.
He immmediately went on a zilion dates from the internet. Mind you , he still emailed and called and sometimes we even saw each other- but so sex. Then he jumped into co-habitation with a Pisces. He didnt tell but he did send me notes telling me his exact moves and addresses minus the news about the new girlfriend. Of course I found out. Then when move in time came , he wrote a series of desparate notes telling me how his soul was so connected to me. I know – cause I remember past lives, but that doesn’t mean I’m going to play his game so I told him off in blazing Aires fashion that he made his bed — now go lie in it.

During the past two years of his cohabitation and he’s still working on the divorce from the ex wife — then he sends me note saying he’s not sure she’s the one and signs “love”
Yet- the next thing I know he’s sending me another note that he is moving on the 1st of Nov. and here’s his address. The address is one block from my office. No mention of a girlfriend at all. Several notes and he’s hurt his knee. I’m a healer type and said it would be interesting to see the xrays- just to test to see where he was coming from .. he said sure- he’d show me the xrays. Then I bait him about meeting him somewhere really public in the neighborhood and he admit he’s living with a woman. The same Pisces.

The divorce from the ex is still dragging on ( 4 years) and he co-bought this house with the new girlfriend and he’s still trying to go after me. I know the honeymoon with the live in woman is long over and I’m tempted to seduce him.

But I know what I really need is a new love interest who is true blue.

I know that Mr Cancer is going to flip out once the official wife gets the divorce and the girfriend with whom he bought the house is expecting Marriage. He’s barely tolerating his choice as it stands now. Working late, etc.

I have a strong feeling that if he somehow got free from both ex and live -in girlfriend and we started being together, he woud soon start to be critical of me. As the unattainable woman, I have his heart and imagination. I think I’ll leave it that way.

]]> By: Scorp with Cancer soulmate http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-40476 Scorp with Cancer soulmate Wed, 08 Jul 2009 05:09:50 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-40476 No matter how strong your connection with a married Cancer is, he won't leave - especially if there are children involved. He may love you with all of his heart and want to be with you, but he knows his responsibilities. If you believe in your love then you have to walk away, and if you're prepared to wait, then do it. If he's in a rocky relationship, then he needs time to sort it out. If he comes to you when all is said and done, then lucky you. I guess the question is - how long are you prepared to wait? No matter how strong your connection with a married Cancer is, he won’t leave – especially if there are children involved. He may love you with all of his heart and want to be with you, but he knows his responsibilities.

If you believe in your love then you have to walk away, and if you’re prepared to wait, then do it. If he’s in a rocky relationship, then he needs time to sort it out. If he comes to you when all is said and done, then lucky you. I guess the question is – how long are you prepared to wait?

]]> By: BeautifulThings http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-32178 BeautifulThings Wed, 27 May 2009 18:37:38 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-32178 Wow Valkyri, That's big stuff you're talking there. He was in a long term relationship with kids and liked you better so he "left"? What happened to the kids? And if the Family unit is failing, it's alright that he'll choose "himself" over the hell he's in? What about the poor innocent kids that have no choice? They stay in the hell? What about the fact that most of the time, he is the direct cause of the hell? The Cancer man is NO prize. He has some of the best PR in the zodiac but the fact is that these men feed on attention. Every married Cancer man I know is hypercritical of his wife, restless at home and always convinced there is another woman out there who will love him more and understand him more and take better care of him than his mother, err, his wife does. They compete with their own children for attention even. And I guarantee you that just as his relationship with his wife was "open", his relationship with you is as well, lol. He's always going to be looking for a woman to shore up his fragile ego and to tell him how desirable and manly he is and to be willing to be with him even though he's married because he's just THAT special. And if you try and stop him, your home will suddenly become a hell he'll have to free himself from. I don't mean to be such an old school fuddy duddy scold but dang that post grated my last nerve. Wow Valkyri, That’s big stuff you’re talking there. He was in a long term relationship with kids and liked you better so he “left”? What happened to the kids?

And if the Family unit is failing, it’s alright that he’ll choose “himself” over the hell he’s in? What about the poor innocent kids that have no choice? They stay in the hell? What about the fact that most of the time, he is the direct cause of the hell?

The Cancer man is NO prize. He has some of the best PR in the zodiac but the fact is that these men feed on attention. Every married Cancer man I know is hypercritical of his wife, restless at home and always convinced there is another woman out there who will love him more and understand him more and take better care of him than his mother, err, his wife does. They compete with their own children for attention even. And I guarantee you that just as his relationship with his wife was “open”, his relationship with you is as well, lol. He’s always going to be looking for a woman to shore up his fragile ego and to tell him how desirable and manly he is and to be willing to be with him even though he’s married because he’s just THAT special. And if you try and stop him, your home will suddenly become a hell he’ll have to free himself from.

I don’t mean to be such an old school fuddy duddy scold but dang that post grated my last nerve.

]]> By: debra http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-18736 debra Wed, 18 Mar 2009 09:28:38 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-18736 how to control emotions ,we had sex twice when i was 17 yeras old, and then he left me, now after 20 years i found him, iwant to see him, meet him, i am dying of emotional trauma, but he seems hardly bothered about it,plz tell me what to do, how to control emotions ,we had sex twice when i was 17 yeras old, and then he left me, now after 20 years i found him, iwant to see him, meet him,
i am dying of emotional trauma, but he seems hardly bothered about it,plz tell me what to do,

]]> By: Valkyri http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-18641 Valkyri Tue, 17 Mar 2009 23:53:05 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-18641 Interesting thread. I'm a pisces female with a cancer male partner. He was in a LTR (with children) when we met, hooked up, and he left her. Before I get the whole OMGCHEATING is so rong! his relationship was "open" and his wife knew where he was when he was with me. He just liked me better, and left. Didn't ask him to, that was not my goal, but he was the one. We fell hard, deep, and fast. It's been 7.5 years now, we're still together and still happy. Cancer men do leave, when they've had enough, and they don't want to be in their relationship anymore. He may be a family type person, but he preferred the stable family to the one he had. So, just because Cancer comes with the label "family" it does not imply loyalty. In fact, if the family unit is failing, the Cancer man will eventually choose himself over the hell that he's living in, and go. It's hard not to fall for the caring, giving, loving Cancer. For those that find ones that are not available, they also make excellent friends, I have several not counting the one I kept. Interesting thread. I’m a pisces female with a cancer male partner. He was in a LTR (with children) when we met, hooked up, and he left her. Before I get the whole OMGCHEATING is so rong! his relationship was “open” and his wife knew where he was when he was with me. He just liked me better, and left. Didn’t ask him to, that was not my goal, but he was the one. We fell hard, deep, and fast.

It’s been 7.5 years now, we’re still together and still happy. Cancer men do leave, when they’ve had enough, and they don’t want to be in their relationship anymore. He may be a family type person, but he preferred the stable family to the one he had. So, just because Cancer comes with the label “family” it does not imply loyalty. In fact, if the family unit is failing, the Cancer man will eventually choose himself over the hell that he’s living in, and go.

It’s hard not to fall for the caring, giving, loving Cancer. For those that find ones that are not available, they also make excellent friends, I have several not counting the one I kept.

]]> By: cappie chick http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-18444 cappie chick Tue, 17 Mar 2009 03:00:05 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-18444 Why would anyone want to seduce someone that is already married? I don't think cheating is right, I saw what it did to my parents and I would never want to put someone I love through that and I wouldn't want them to put me through that either. If any guy Cheats on me again, (and I've only been cheated on once) and I swear to God he'll wake up without his c*&k :) Why would anyone want to seduce someone that is already married? I don’t think cheating is right, I saw what it did to my parents and I would never want to put someone I love through that and I wouldn’t want them to put me through that either. If any guy Cheats on me again, (and I’ve only been cheated on once) and I swear to God he’ll wake up without his c*&k :)

]]> By: Cupcake http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-18430 Cupcake Tue, 17 Mar 2009 02:09:47 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-18430 I'm a Sagittarius female, 12/06/79. He's a married Cancer, 07/19/69. I've always looked down on women that were involved with married men. I'm now dealing with the heartbreak of him pulling away from me, to work things out with his wife. I wouldn't wish this pain on anybody. I’m a Sagittarius female, 12/06/79. He’s a married Cancer, 07/19/69. I’ve always looked down on women that were involved with married men. I’m now dealing with the heartbreak of him pulling away from me, to work things out with his wife. I wouldn’t wish this pain on anybody.

]]> By: anna http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-18131 anna Sun, 15 Mar 2009 16:29:31 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-18131 meet him to do what? maybe he feels the same way and it would be better for both of you to stay apart since you are now both married?! meet him to do what? maybe he feels the same way and it would be better for both of you to stay apart since you are now both married?!

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