Comments on: How to seduce a married Cancer man http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html Tue, 16 Mar 2010 20:17:46 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Bright.Awake http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-63316 Bright.Awake Mon, 15 Mar 2010 15:53:29 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-63316 A few nights ago, I met a Cancer guy at a club. We ended up sleeping together. He is: Sun in Cancer Moon in Gemini or Cancer Venus in Cancer Mars in Scorpio Pluto in Libra (How sweet) I am: Sun in Sagittarius Asc in Scorpio Moon in Aries Venus in Sagittarius Mars in Gemini Pluto in Scorpio He told me the next day that he has been in a relationship for 4 years, but the sex is a problem.. I forgot something in his car and told him he could drop it over whenever he had time... He instantly wanted to get over here and see me.. kept telling me he couldn't get over how "hot" i was and that he'd be all over me if we hadnt met in such a circumstance.. So he came over, we hung out for a couple hours, talked.. Nothing happened. With all the fire in my chart I am not clingy... I havent called him or messaged him since... maybe ill send him something in a few days.. My question is: Does he plan on seeing me again? He is really into me... he told me I am his type of chick... blablabla. I don't want a relationship I just want sex.... Selfish I know.. but we're young and there are no kids/marriages involved..anyways im not looking for judgment here. Am I getting any more action from this guy? A few nights ago, I met a Cancer guy at a club. We ended up sleeping together.
He is:
Sun in Cancer
Moon in Gemini or Cancer
Venus in Cancer
Mars in Scorpio
Pluto in Libra
(How sweet)

I am:
Sun in Sagittarius
Asc in Scorpio
Moon in Aries
Venus in Sagittarius
Mars in Gemini
Pluto in Scorpio

He told me the next day that he has been in a relationship for 4 years, but the sex is a problem..
I forgot something in his car and told him he could drop it over whenever he had time… He instantly wanted to get over here and see me.. kept telling me he couldn’t get over how “hot” i was and that he’d be all over me if we hadnt met in such a circumstance..
So he came over, we hung out for a couple hours, talked.. Nothing happened.

With all the fire in my chart I am not clingy… I havent called him or messaged him since… maybe ill send him something in a few days..

My question is:
Does he plan on seeing me again?
He is really into me… he told me I am his type of chick… blablabla.

I don’t want a relationship I just want sex…. Selfish I know.. but we’re young and there are no kids/marriages involved..anyways im not looking for judgment here.

Am I getting any more action from this guy?

]]> By: Xanthe http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-62177 Xanthe Tue, 02 Mar 2010 12:06:25 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-62177 Jeffrey, loved the characterisation of Saturn: it'll take a while to wipe the smile off my face after reading that! Now, regarding seducing married Cancer men; indeed, what's the deal, here? What are you gals thinking? That's just a big no-no! Especially since I'm a Cancer man's wife. Not to mention the daughter of a man who was constantly unfaithful to my mother, which does not make me exactly moralistic about marital infidelity, as overwhelmed with feelings I have yet to elaborate (above and beyond anything else, the extreme insecurity that this can create in a child and growing young person is immense). But let's get back to the subject du jour. PurpleChild89, I'm not overly surprised about your cheating Cancer man story, to be honest. My husband and I have often discussed such matters, among many others, and I do believe that there are precise and specific circumstances in which a Cancer man will cheat, as family orientated and devoted as they may be. Though I'm certain that R (my husband) would never cheat on me, I try not to take his fidelity for granted. Now, what I've come to see from being married to R. is that Cancers are extremely devoted to their inner circle of loved ones, to a point that they will sometimes make you feel a little smothered (I'm an Aries woman myself and have had to "train" my husband to leave me more breathing space, sometimes!). But I think that their sense of duty towards family - that is, a wife and children - not to mention the institution of marriage and family itself, will sometimes push them to maintain an outward appearance of loyalty to their spouse and their marriage vows, whilst actually "falling" into an extra-marital affair because they no longer feel true emotional attachment to that milieu. However, I really believe this will only happen if the Cancer man in question is simply no longer in love with his wife, whereas, say a man belonging to an Air or Fire sign may take a lover even if they do still love their spouse. So PurpleChild89, I think that quite simply, your Cancer lover is devoted to his role as husband and father, but not to his wife anymore, whom he no longer loves at all. He probably doesn't have the strength to break it off, though, as I think that Cancers hate to do anything blatantly anti-institutions. To be honest, knowing what Cancer men are like through my husband, it sounds to me like this guy DOES care about you. I don't believe for a second that a Cancerian is even capable of having sex with someone "just for kicks". As I said, a Cancer man may therefore have an extremely difficult time breaking off a marriage that has turned stale or mediocre precisely because they're so devoted to the very idea of marriage and family, but falling into an affair to spice their lives up a little may not be beneath them at all. I do think that the vocation to be a devoted partner will soon emerge also in the way that a Cancer man will treat his mistress, provided it won't threaten the marriage he is still struggling to keep intact at least in outward appearances. On the other hand when a Cancer truly loves his wife, I think it would probably be near impossible to get him to become unfaithful. You'd have to come close to embodying his physical ideal and ravishing him! Hence, PurpleChild89, I'm almost certain your married lover has long stopped feeling in love with his wife. Precisely because my father (not a Cancer!) was so often unfaithful to my mother, for myself I have sought a husband who was very unlikely to do the same things to me. Out of all the previous relationships I've had, I only ever trusted R. enough to agree to marrying and having children (R. and I have two tiny tots: a 2-year-old boy and a 4-month-old girl). Another thing about Cancer men who become fathers: they seem to be made for the role. Parenting comes so naturally to them, they end up being their children's father AND mother. As an Aries woman I sometimes feel as if my husband is more of a traditional mother figure to our kids than I am! Jeffrey, loved the characterisation of Saturn: it’ll take a while to wipe the smile off my face after reading that!

Now, regarding seducing married Cancer men; indeed, what’s the deal, here? What are you gals thinking? That’s just a big no-no! Especially since I’m a Cancer man’s wife. Not to mention the daughter of a man who was constantly unfaithful to my mother, which does not make me exactly moralistic about marital infidelity, as overwhelmed with feelings I have yet to elaborate (above and beyond anything else, the extreme insecurity that this can create in a child and growing young person is immense).

But let’s get back to the subject du jour. PurpleChild89, I’m not overly surprised about your cheating Cancer man story, to be honest. My husband and I have often discussed such matters, among many others, and I do believe that there are precise and specific circumstances in which a Cancer man will cheat, as family orientated and devoted as they may be. Though I’m certain that R (my husband) would never cheat on me, I try not to take his fidelity for granted. Now, what I’ve come to see from being married to R. is that Cancers are extremely devoted to their inner circle of loved ones, to a point that they will sometimes make you feel a little smothered (I’m an Aries woman myself and have had to “train” my husband to leave me more breathing space, sometimes!). But I think that their sense of duty towards family – that is, a wife and children – not to mention the institution of marriage and family itself, will sometimes push them to maintain an outward appearance of loyalty to their spouse and their marriage vows, whilst actually “falling” into an extra-marital affair because they no longer feel true emotional attachment to that milieu. However, I really believe this will only happen if the Cancer man in question is simply no longer in love with his wife, whereas, say a man belonging to an Air or Fire sign may take a lover even if they do still love their spouse. So PurpleChild89, I think that quite simply, your Cancer lover is devoted to his role as husband and father, but not to his wife anymore, whom he no longer loves at all. He probably doesn’t have the strength to break it off, though, as I think that Cancers hate to do anything blatantly anti-institutions. To be honest, knowing what Cancer men are like through my husband, it sounds to me like this guy DOES care about you. I don’t believe for a second that a Cancerian is even capable of having sex with someone “just for kicks”.

As I said, a Cancer man may therefore have an extremely difficult time breaking off a marriage that has turned stale or mediocre precisely because they’re so devoted to the very idea of marriage and family, but falling into an affair to spice their lives up a little may not be beneath them at all. I do think that the vocation to be a devoted partner will soon emerge also in the way that a Cancer man will treat his mistress, provided it won’t threaten the marriage he is still struggling to keep intact at least in outward appearances. On the other hand when a Cancer truly loves his wife, I think it would probably be near impossible to get him to become unfaithful. You’d have to come close to embodying his physical ideal and ravishing him! Hence, PurpleChild89, I’m almost certain your married lover has long stopped feeling in love with his wife.

Precisely because my father (not a Cancer!) was so often unfaithful to my mother, for myself I have sought a husband who was very unlikely to do the same things to me. Out of all the previous relationships I’ve had, I only ever trusted R. enough to agree to marrying and having children (R. and I have two tiny tots: a 2-year-old boy and a 4-month-old girl). Another thing about Cancer men who become fathers: they seem to be made for the role. Parenting comes so naturally to them, they end up being their children’s father AND mother. As an Aries woman I sometimes feel as if my husband is more of a traditional mother figure to our kids than I am!

]]> By: PurpleChild89 http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-56241 PurpleChild89 Thu, 03 Dec 2009 00:15:06 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-56241 I'm currently with a Married Cancer man, I never planned on being with a married man in all my life. He pursued me til I gave in. At first we were good friends and I thought he was just a cool single guy with a son. Then our friendship became sexual and still I thought he was just a cool guy with a son and a baby mama somewhere. He would always show up on time, was very attentive and so sweet. He loved to cuddle and talk for hrs, then one day a good friend of mine told me she met his wife. I was shocked, I mean I wasn't in love with him or even in strong like but I still cared about him and hated that he didn't just tell me. So then I was in denile, saying "well until he tells me I'm not sure it's true". I went so far as to ask him if he'd get me pregnant and he said that he wanted to but that he couldn't. I became suspicious and when I kept on about it he kept telling me that he couldn't be there for the kid if he did and so he wasn't going to get me pregnant. Recently he went on a 6 week job course, now before that our text and phone conversations weren't that special. He would sometimes have me talk to his son and I even got to meet him twice but other then that nothing unique. Then the last weekend he was home he blew me off with out telling me why. I freaked out on him and he apologized saying that he was spending time with his son and his sons mom, not his wife but his sons mom! I knew it then that he was indeed married. So I said ok have a safe trip and didn't expect to hear from him again. Well everyday since he left he called or texted me, I never again spontaniously called or texted and still don't. I knew it was wrong to talk to him but I grew to love him and he told me one night that he wanted to love me but that he was married. I was depressed and wanted to end the thing. But he wouldn't let me and even called me his "girlfriend" and "mistress". He still gets jealous when I hang with other guys and wants to know if I tell people that we're together. I'm confused and hurt but I do love him and even though I'm pretty confident he won't leave his wife I can't leave him. I need him to walk away, I'm not strong enough. The man was gonna come see me thanksgiving night but I told him not to because he needed to be with his family. He even justified him and his wife getting a hotel room for the night to me, his kid had to get surgery. I'm like dude your married! Do what you want with your family! He is making it hard to hate him and leave him, he invited me on a two week cross country trip with him and I agreed, then he wanted to know if I'd go again and I said "lets see how the first trip goes". Also once his wifes cousins saw me sitting in his car in the passenger seat and got upset by it and he still took risks to be with me, He asked me if I think he just has sex with me for kicks and I said yes. He said no he liked me more, I don't know why? I'm nothing special and by this I'm even worse. Is this normal for a Cancer to cheat? and then to top it off he talks like we're going to know each other in the future. Do most Cancer men cheat? And btw he has a Taurus rising what ever that means, and I'm a Libra. I just wish he'd leave one of us, perferably me since he'd legally tied to her and has a son. I’m currently with a Married Cancer man, I never planned on being with a married man in all my life. He pursued me til I gave in. At first we were good friends and I thought he was just a cool single guy with a son. Then our friendship became sexual and still I thought he was just a cool guy with a son and a baby mama somewhere. He would always show up on time, was very attentive and so sweet. He loved to cuddle and talk for hrs, then one day a good friend of mine told me she met his wife. I was shocked, I mean I wasn’t in love with him or even in strong like but I still cared about him and hated that he didn’t just tell me. So then I was in denile, saying “well until he tells me I’m not sure it’s true”. I went so far as to ask him if he’d get me pregnant and he said that he wanted to but that he couldn’t. I became suspicious and when I kept on about it he kept telling me that he couldn’t be there for the kid if he did and so he wasn’t going to get me pregnant. Recently he went on a 6 week job course, now before that our text and phone conversations weren’t that special. He would sometimes have me talk to his son and I even got to meet him twice but other then that nothing unique. Then the last weekend he was home he blew me off with out telling me why. I freaked out on him and he apologized saying that he was spending time with his son and his sons mom, not his wife but his sons mom! I knew it then that he was indeed married. So I said ok have a safe trip and didn’t expect to hear from him again. Well everyday since he left he called or texted me, I never again spontaniously called or texted and still don’t. I knew it was wrong to talk to him but I grew to love him and he told me one night that he wanted to love me but that he was married. I was depressed and wanted to end the thing. But he wouldn’t let me and even called me his “girlfriend” and “mistress”. He still gets jealous when I hang with other guys and wants to know if I tell people that we’re together. I’m confused and hurt but I do love him and even though I’m pretty confident he won’t leave his wife I can’t leave him. I need him to walk away, I’m not strong enough. The man was gonna come see me thanksgiving night but I told him not to because he needed to be with his family. He even justified him and his wife getting a hotel room for the night to me, his kid had to get surgery. I’m like dude your married! Do what you want with your family! He is making it hard to hate him and leave him, he invited me on a two week cross country trip with him and I agreed, then he wanted to know if I’d go again and I said “lets see how the first trip goes”. Also once his wifes cousins saw me sitting in his car in the passenger seat and got upset by it and he still took risks to be with me, He asked me if I think he just has sex with me for kicks and I said yes. He said no he liked me more, I don’t know why? I’m nothing special and by this I’m even worse. Is this normal for a Cancer to cheat? and then to top it off he talks like we’re going to know each other in the future. Do most Cancer men cheat? And btw he has a Taurus rising what ever that means, and I’m a Libra. I just wish he’d leave one of us, perferably me since he’d legally tied to her and has a son.

]]> By: curious http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-55547 curious Sun, 22 Nov 2009 08:10:48 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-55547 The tarot card I was referring to is the Tower The tarot card I was referring to is the Tower

]]> By: curious http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-55546 curious Sun, 22 Nov 2009 08:09:12 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-55546 These are the aspects: Him:Leo Sun Me:Aries Sun Him: Moon/Scorpio Me:Moon/Libra Him:Mars/Cancer Me: Mars/Capricorn Him: Venus/Leo Me: Venus/Pisces He is attached...we saw each other at his opening, we did not talk but we knew of each others presence. I contacted him by email, he was very happy....he told me this. The communication has continued, he wants to do things for me and I for him, we try to keep it professional due to his circumstances but the feelings are overwhelming for him and I.....he is very Cancerian even though he is a Leo, I know because both my parents are Cancers! He is only a few years older than me....I feel his sadness, about the life he has made and how he feels committed to it even though he is unhappy, I don't want to be a home wrecker but I don't think I am, he is changing in himself, it is not just me that is making him want to change his life direction.....he is extremely caring and sensitive and I see in him the boy and the man, I care for him very much, so much so I could love him from a distance if it meant that he didn't have to go through hell to break up with his wife but I know as sure as the Tarot card in a reading, when a man decides then he has to take action, otherwise he will not grow and the poor wife will not have the opportunity to have someone who truly loves her. These are the aspects:

Him:Leo Sun Me:Aries Sun
Him: Moon/Scorpio Me:Moon/Libra
Him:Mars/Cancer Me: Mars/Capricorn
Him: Venus/Leo Me: Venus/Pisces

He is attached…we saw each other at his opening, we did not talk but we knew of each others presence. I contacted him by email, he was very happy….he told me this.

The communication has continued, he wants to do things for me and I for him, we try to keep it professional due to his circumstances but the feelings are overwhelming for him and I…..he is very Cancerian even though he is a Leo, I know because both my parents are Cancers!
He is only a few years older than me….I feel his sadness, about the life he has made and how he feels committed to it even though he is unhappy, I don’t want to be a home wrecker but I don’t think I am, he is changing in himself, it is not just me that is making him want to change his life direction…..he is extremely caring and sensitive and I see in him the boy and the man, I care for him very much, so much so I could love him from a distance if it meant that he didn’t have to go through hell to break up with his wife but I know as sure as the Tarot card in a reading, when a man decides then he has to take action, otherwise he will not grow and the poor wife will not have the opportunity to have someone who truly loves her.

]]> By: Cancer http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-50798 Cancer Wed, 30 Sep 2009 05:56:28 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-50798 Married cancer woman meets married cancer man. We both have strong partners and good relationships, but seduce each other - no problem. Cant say who started it, just snowballed. Not looking to leave our partners, but loving the Cancer/Cancer thing! Married cancer woman meets married cancer man. We both have strong partners and good relationships, but seduce each other – no problem. Cant say who started it, just snowballed. Not looking to leave our partners, but loving the Cancer/Cancer thing!

]]> By: aymee721 http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-49173 aymee721 Sat, 19 Sep 2009 03:14:52 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-49173 WOW! is all i can say.....I know how u all feel....I had a relationship with a cancer guy....he is 51, I am 37....he was married....I had NEVER had a relationship like that in my life....and did not plan on it....he just constantly pursued until I gave in....I will say I dont regret the passion, communication, caring, protectivness, etc....He made me feel really loved when he wanted it all....but about a yr and a half ago he decided he wanted to try to make his marriage work due to his first grandbaby being born.....I am still to get over all the games, lies, SILENCE, betrayal..and do u know, he NEVER told me it was over never to this day...he still calls from time to time, to tell me he still loves me and to THINK about us......(GO FIGURE) I get sooo excited when I hear from him and all the feelings come rushing back..and then bam, I dont hear from him until another wk or so.....I would NEVER date him again if I could go back....IT has been the most hurtful/wonderful relationship. I still do not know him..... Trying to move on, Aymee~ WOW! is all i can say…..I know how u all feel….I had a relationship with a cancer guy….he is 51, I am 37….he was married….I had NEVER had a relationship like that in my life….and did not plan on it….he just constantly pursued until I gave in….I will say I dont regret the passion, communication, caring, protectivness, etc….He made me feel really loved when he wanted it all….but about a yr and a half ago he decided he wanted to try to make his marriage work due to his first grandbaby being born…..I am still to get over all the games, lies, SILENCE, betrayal..and do u know, he NEVER told me it was over never to this day…he still calls from time to time, to tell me he still loves me and to THINK about us……(GO FIGURE) I get sooo excited when I hear from him and all the feelings come rushing back..and then bam, I dont hear from him until another wk or so…..I would NEVER date him again if I could go back….IT has been the most hurtful/wonderful relationship. I still do not know him…..

Trying to move on,

Aymee~

]]> By: airesgirl http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-47109 airesgirl Mon, 31 Aug 2009 15:26:36 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-47109 Ah, I've never cheated on anyone, but my last Fall Hard Love was a Cancer who was "truely in love" with me. His words. We got along like butter and I was soooo happy. Then I found out he was a cheat. I broke it off, lost a lot of weight from shock and grief and became a hermit. He immmediately went on a zilion dates from the internet. Mind you , he still emailed and called and sometimes we even saw each other- but so sex. Then he jumped into co-habitation with a Pisces. He didnt tell but he did send me notes telling me his exact moves and addresses minus the news about the new girlfriend. Of course I found out. Then when move in time came , he wrote a series of desparate notes telling me how his soul was so connected to me. I know - cause I remember past lives, but that doesn't mean I'm going to play his game so I told him off in blazing Aires fashion that he made his bed -- now go lie in it. During the past two years of his cohabitation and he's still working on the divorce from the ex wife -- then he sends me note saying he's not sure she's the one and signs "love" Yet- the next thing I know he's sending me another note that he is moving on the 1st of Nov. and here's his address. The address is one block from my office. No mention of a girlfriend at all. Several notes and he's hurt his knee. I'm a healer type and said it would be interesting to see the xrays- just to test to see where he was coming from .. he said sure- he'd show me the xrays. Then I bait him about meeting him somewhere really public in the neighborhood and he admit he's living with a woman. The same Pisces. The divorce from the ex is still dragging on ( 4 years) and he co-bought this house with the new girlfriend and he's still trying to go after me. I know the honeymoon with the live in woman is long over and I'm tempted to seduce him. But I know what I really need is a new love interest who is true blue. I know that Mr Cancer is going to flip out once the official wife gets the divorce and the girfriend with whom he bought the house is expecting Marriage. He's barely tolerating his choice as it stands now. Working late, etc. I have a strong feeling that if he somehow got free from both ex and live -in girlfriend and we started being together, he woud soon start to be critical of me. As the unattainable woman, I have his heart and imagination. I think I'll leave it that way. Ah, I’ve never cheated on anyone, but my last Fall Hard Love was a Cancer who was “truely in love” with me. His words. We got along like butter and I was soooo happy. Then I found out he was a cheat. I broke it off, lost a lot of weight from shock and grief and became a hermit.
He immmediately went on a zilion dates from the internet. Mind you , he still emailed and called and sometimes we even saw each other- but so sex. Then he jumped into co-habitation with a Pisces. He didnt tell but he did send me notes telling me his exact moves and addresses minus the news about the new girlfriend. Of course I found out. Then when move in time came , he wrote a series of desparate notes telling me how his soul was so connected to me. I know – cause I remember past lives, but that doesn’t mean I’m going to play his game so I told him off in blazing Aires fashion that he made his bed — now go lie in it.

During the past two years of his cohabitation and he’s still working on the divorce from the ex wife — then he sends me note saying he’s not sure she’s the one and signs “love”
Yet- the next thing I know he’s sending me another note that he is moving on the 1st of Nov. and here’s his address. The address is one block from my office. No mention of a girlfriend at all. Several notes and he’s hurt his knee. I’m a healer type and said it would be interesting to see the xrays- just to test to see where he was coming from .. he said sure- he’d show me the xrays. Then I bait him about meeting him somewhere really public in the neighborhood and he admit he’s living with a woman. The same Pisces.

The divorce from the ex is still dragging on ( 4 years) and he co-bought this house with the new girlfriend and he’s still trying to go after me. I know the honeymoon with the live in woman is long over and I’m tempted to seduce him.

But I know what I really need is a new love interest who is true blue.

I know that Mr Cancer is going to flip out once the official wife gets the divorce and the girfriend with whom he bought the house is expecting Marriage. He’s barely tolerating his choice as it stands now. Working late, etc.

I have a strong feeling that if he somehow got free from both ex and live -in girlfriend and we started being together, he woud soon start to be critical of me. As the unattainable woman, I have his heart and imagination. I think I’ll leave it that way.

]]> By: Scorp with Cancer soulmate http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-40476 Scorp with Cancer soulmate Wed, 08 Jul 2009 05:09:50 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-40476 No matter how strong your connection with a married Cancer is, he won't leave - especially if there are children involved. He may love you with all of his heart and want to be with you, but he knows his responsibilities. If you believe in your love then you have to walk away, and if you're prepared to wait, then do it. If he's in a rocky relationship, then he needs time to sort it out. If he comes to you when all is said and done, then lucky you. I guess the question is - how long are you prepared to wait? No matter how strong your connection with a married Cancer is, he won’t leave – especially if there are children involved. He may love you with all of his heart and want to be with you, but he knows his responsibilities.

If you believe in your love then you have to walk away, and if you’re prepared to wait, then do it. If he’s in a rocky relationship, then he needs time to sort it out. If he comes to you when all is said and done, then lucky you. I guess the question is – how long are you prepared to wait?

]]> By: BeautifulThings http://sasstrology.com/2007/02/how-to-seduce-married-cancer-man.html/comment-page-1#comment-32178 BeautifulThings Wed, 27 May 2009 18:37:38 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/02/07/how-to-seduce-a-married-cancer-man/#comment-32178 Wow Valkyri, That's big stuff you're talking there. He was in a long term relationship with kids and liked you better so he "left"? What happened to the kids? And if the Family unit is failing, it's alright that he'll choose "himself" over the hell he's in? What about the poor innocent kids that have no choice? They stay in the hell? What about the fact that most of the time, he is the direct cause of the hell? The Cancer man is NO prize. He has some of the best PR in the zodiac but the fact is that these men feed on attention. Every married Cancer man I know is hypercritical of his wife, restless at home and always convinced there is another woman out there who will love him more and understand him more and take better care of him than his mother, err, his wife does. They compete with their own children for attention even. And I guarantee you that just as his relationship with his wife was "open", his relationship with you is as well, lol. He's always going to be looking for a woman to shore up his fragile ego and to tell him how desirable and manly he is and to be willing to be with him even though he's married because he's just THAT special. And if you try and stop him, your home will suddenly become a hell he'll have to free himself from. I don't mean to be such an old school fuddy duddy scold but dang that post grated my last nerve. Wow Valkyri, That’s big stuff you’re talking there. He was in a long term relationship with kids and liked you better so he “left”? What happened to the kids?

And if the Family unit is failing, it’s alright that he’ll choose “himself” over the hell he’s in? What about the poor innocent kids that have no choice? They stay in the hell? What about the fact that most of the time, he is the direct cause of the hell?

The Cancer man is NO prize. He has some of the best PR in the zodiac but the fact is that these men feed on attention. Every married Cancer man I know is hypercritical of his wife, restless at home and always convinced there is another woman out there who will love him more and understand him more and take better care of him than his mother, err, his wife does. They compete with their own children for attention even. And I guarantee you that just as his relationship with his wife was “open”, his relationship with you is as well, lol. He’s always going to be looking for a woman to shore up his fragile ego and to tell him how desirable and manly he is and to be willing to be with him even though he’s married because he’s just THAT special. And if you try and stop him, your home will suddenly become a hell he’ll have to free himself from.

I don’t mean to be such an old school fuddy duddy scold but dang that post grated my last nerve.

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