How a Sagittarius woman can seduce her Scorpio man
February 2, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Sag and Scorpio sit right next to each other in the zodiac, and astrological neighbors don’t have much in common. Sex may be sport to Sag, but for Scorpio it is serious business. Sex is the pathway to intimacy for Scorpio. It has emotional meaning, and is not, as for Sag, just another adventure.
“That which happens behind closed doors” is Scorpio’s realm. The dirty secrets, the stains, all the stuff we don’t want our neighbors to know about. How can the Sagittarius woman possibly understand, when she is out in the world, drawing inspiration from travels or lofty tomes? She doesn’t spend time in the dark.
Sag’s planetary ruler Jupiter (Zeus) is god of the sky, living on Mount Olympus. Scorpio’s ruler Pluto (Hades) is lord of the underworld. You can’t get much further apart that that! However, these two planets do have one thing in common: wealth.
What riches can be mined in the sexual encounter? If Scorpio can be seduced by bounty, then Sag may be in luck. The Sagittarius woman can see the opportunities in the sexual encounter, and offers such a large number of options that surely, for the Scorpio man, something’s there for the pickin’.
Comment below: Sag women, share your experience with Scorpio men!
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Nice scorpio confession . : )
“My” Scorpio is grey lizard too. I know about the 3 types of scorpios since some time and first I thought he is trying to be eagle cause he likes to help people but now I think he likes looking for people who are weak and who need help so that he to manipulate them later and/or to play with them. I am not sure if I am right though. Maybe I seem mean or something but I remember how good he was with me when we were just friends and how rude and cruel he became when we began to be closer. I don’t even bother to dig in that anymore. I am happy I am out and I still wonder why I stayed around for so long and why I cried so much about him…
The photographer who I met 1 month ago is Scorpio and he is different. But the hypnotic staring stays. I guess it applies to all Scorpios. Men tell me I look at them hypnotically too, maybe it’s cause of my Scorpio Rising.
Tallulah, you have water inside you with your Cancer moon, you seem close to me. I have Pisces moon, hehe.
hey Tallulah baby, everyone!
soooo. i have a HUGE confession. i completely and totally backslid with my scorpio. ugh. LOL. still, all is not lost, i learned some new things about myself in the process and am now getting back to doing the things that make me happy. glad to see you’re doing well, love.
@ scorpio male–what you’ve said makes a lot of sense. i’ve come to find those statements to be true in dealing with a scorpio. growth and self-improvement is so very important.
I’m a Sag woman and was dating a Scorpio man for over a year, until he dumped me. It was hard for me to get over the break up with him as i have learned that if a Scorpio bites “it stings”. I chased behind him for several months even though he was very adamant that the relationship was over, however, i was able to get him almost out of my system (for approx 2 months) but have now slid back into a sexual relationship with him for the past month and a half. I don’t know what is keeping me there because we have nothing in common as he stifles my happiness with his gloominess. He hates for me to be the center of attention when we are at gatherings together. When don’t have to much conversation with each other because we don’t see eye to eye. The only thing we enjoy is lovemaking…How do I end this cycle? I think a part of me loves him or the sexual encounters to much to let go right now. HELPPPP!!! lol
I met this Scorpio a month ago, he’s in the long distance relationship with a 5 months girlfriend. I keep saying I don’t want him to be a cheater but we had sex.. twice! LOL! he kept saying he couldn’t resist me, he’d like to ‘eat’ me.. And he couldn’t continue the relationship as he can’t have a long distance one. We’re in a holiday break right now and look forward to seeing him after New Year.
Oh, one thing, why Scorp never write? do they seduce by text/phone? I’m wondering is he really into me, or just a lust? Thanks a bunch!
Wow, I’m a scorp man dating a sag woman of about 15 months now and I do want to start out by saying I am all the emotional good things about a scorpio, but not some of the things I’ve read on some posts. I don’t want or like to play games, I love deeply and am very open with my sag woman and I give her freedom. I am researching our compatibility because we seem to go from good times to time (i feel) are distant. But knowing what I read about sag women – yall can spend time out of the nest and do it for days, but still be deeply in love. Yeah, I need to hear it every single day and be shown as often as possible. Well, I’m trying to heal myself of that because I really love my sag woman – shes 33 and I’m 39. We met thru a common interest in sports. We both run, bike ride and like to travel. I am so into her and deeply committed. I am sure she knows it very much. I think this is where a full year of this and some of my scorpio insecurities are hurting us now.
I need your advice. The past few months it seems our love has dwindled from an intense – she wants to see me 4-5 nights a week to only about 1. And that 1 night is like – you’r welcome to come over if you want to. I’d love to hear her say – I want to see you, do you want to come over. So again, I am trying to be stronger to not need this constant reassurance. But I am what I am and she is what she is.. So I’ve read how these 2 signs can be good together, they must understand their differences and have the same goals… We talk every few weeks about us – usually because I bring to her attention that I want to know where we are…. She puts effort into reading relationship books and we do some of the activities… but it just seems that what was burning hot a few months ago is getting to be like a 5 year marriage – secure, but maybe not satisfying…
So lately I’ve been trying to give her space and I really hate playing games, but I’ve toned done my communications with her. I don’t call as much, I don’t text as much and I don’t get so into her. This is a tough lesson to teach myself and I sometimes wonder if we are just NOT made for each other. But I love her so much. She said she loves me and we both said that we want to be a solid happy couple and not start over again. We both have 1 child from a former relationship and our kids get along fine. We want a family together and she can talk about it and it sounds so wonderful, then she can act so distant and that drives me crazy. I should understand that she does love me, but I want to see it – you know DEEPER like a scorpio needs.
Advice please: she says she loves me, I trust her, I don’t fool around or play games. She has been acting more distant, so then I try to as well. Then I start to do things with my guy friends and then she seems to reel me back into her wants and needs. So how do I (not play games) but find ways to get the reassurance I need. How can I understand her, have her give me a bit more of what I need… OK, maybe I need to play a little game, what can I do to get he to come back to me, to keep me in the daily light of her world and what can I do to keep her for a long time???
Abe
Hi Abe
Lol I have a thing for a Scorpio guy who is at this moment in time a total player when it comes to women. However, when we have been together I can feel there is a unbelievable connection and energy between us which I think he is scared of, but which I embrace. I have a Cancer moon so I am quite intense in my emotions and find it impossible to keep a lid on them, especially if in love. He is aware of this and likes me a lot because of this as I have opened up to him and he knows how I feel. He can be cruel in testing my emotions. He did this to me the other day and it was like a knife in my heart. My intelligence however, has not abandoned me completely and I get the feeling he is far more insecure than he makes out and his need to sleep with lots of women apart from pure lust, is him trying to prove something, whatever that something is, to himself. If the Scorpio guy I like, liked me as much as you love your lady, god, I would be so happy.
So to your problem. I suggest you find out what her moon is as this may be helpful to you. I am a Sag woman and have many of the traits, however in my emotions I am so like a Cancer it is unbelievable. If you can find out her moon, this may give you some guidance on how she feels.
We Sag women, do love our space that is for sure. I am happy to be doing something on my own or with friends while being deeply in love. In fact a lot of the time, my mind will wonder to the person I am into without anyone knowing, whilst at the theatre or clubbing etc. I do believe that if you see people say just on the weekend for example you have missed them and therefore will appreciate their company more. However if other things are stressful in another area of my life it can have an effect on my personal life only to the extent that I am not feeling too fantastic about my situation, not necessarily about the person I love. Could she have other stuff going on that could be stressing or worrying her?
Do you know of something she likes to do which will instantly make her smile or cheer her up? For me simple things are the best. I love Orange Sorbet Ice-cream. If my previous boyfriend ever bothered to get me some without asking me before hand that small thing would cheer me up. Do you do stuff like that? My ex constantly needed reassurance (A Leo) and I felt that I could never give him enough of it. I sometimes felt that he was so focused on his emotional need that he would forget to actively show his love towards me. He talked a lot about it, but in actions he didn’t always do things or not regularly enough for my liking.
Can you just exercise your Scorpio magnetism and power and grab her firmly in your arms and when she tries to struggle and get out of your grasp hold her firm and take no for an answer (we Sag’s love strong men, we secretly want one to take a hold of us sometimes and be in charge) and look into her eyes with those amazing pair you have and just say “Woman, I love you, tell me how I can make you happy and I will do it, but Im not letting you go until you tell me your hearts desire” and literally hold onto her until she tells you LOL That would so work on me BUT you must mean it. You must want to hear what she has to say and REALLY listen! Do it when she is relaxed and you are on your own with her and the atmosphere is calm. OR while holding onto her, look into her eyes, tell her one of the reasons you fell in love with hold her gaze warmly and then walk away. OR Call her when she isnt busy and say the same, tell her why you think she is so gorgeous as a person, say goodnight and put the phone down. All those would work on me LOL maybe they might on your lady.
I hope you sort things out. Heartache is never a nice feeling.
Tallulah
Thanks Tallulah. funny enough, I met a mutual friend’s wife who is a saggi and she is married to a scorpio who was born on my same birthday. she studies signs too so we instantly talked a lot about my ordeal.. she was my coach and helped me through a tuff week. distance was needed and freedom to roam was the answer. not that my gf went bar hopping, but for 3 nights she did things with her friends. I didn’t inquire about any of it, when she said she was thinking about going (as if to run it by me), I said to her “you should go, have fun and i’ll see you later”…. by the second night she was texting me saying that she missed me. Kind of what you described above when you can be out with others, but thinking of your man…. since I wrote my message things have balanced out a bit. I did learn that I need to keep my emotions in a bowl, not a huge hidden bowl, but not a small bowl in plain sight. I have the reassurance and I need to learn to go with it. I’ve been told that I have a lot of advanced features that most men don’t have – I am willing to learn, willing to make adjustments and willing to talk whenever… my saggi appreciates my efforts to work on myself and on US. I will try those things you said. I think the key is powerful encounters but in brief moments. As a scorpio I could talk for 3 hours about how much I love my GF to her face… but that is overkill. So now I just wait until the moment is right. I don’t text her 2 times a day, I don’t wait for her to call, I picked up a few new friends and hobbies and am doing things outside of US. this is all healthy for us I think. Saggi women like to be entertained, they like to go out, be scene and have fun. I can do that when I’m not worrying about our relationship so now that we seem to have ironed out that bit, I’m looking forward to a few more days and then weeks and months of happy days. I’m sure I’ll have my dips and emotions will flair up.. That’s probably where I need the most help. I need to know that even when she is distant, when she doesn’t call or text in 2 days that she still loves me deeply…
hello ABE,
you indeed sound like a mature and en-lighted scorpio.
I am a sag female, with a scorp, I am 36 and he is 29, (a bit like you), he sure is amazing and initially he got so much into calling me and being with me, that it almost annoyed me.
then one day he said to me >>> you are not as deeply in love as I am (almost what you said). This HURT me too much. When I am annoyed or hurt, I get distant.. we almost broke up, but he came back. (thank gaud). From there, he has cut down a lot on calls and showering his time on me,, and guess what, NOW I am feeling sorry and miss his intensity.
Sags are fun loving creatures, but we are honest, I never said *Love* as a joke, NEVER. He now has started to trust me, and every now-n-then he says, he knows how much I love him,
.. which I do.
Give space to your girl and try to have fun, if she said She Loves you, she means it.
scorpio intensity is Fine and Magnetic, but you do not tie a wild horse with chains, let the horse run around and like pure-breed stallions, you can be sure that here is an animal which can die with the rider.
we are Very LOYAL, slowly you will appreciate what it means to have a sag girl who wont ever leave you in thick and thin.
do tell how you are doing?
sexy-sag