He cheated– my sweet, innocent, “fallen angel” as he likes me to refer. Why? Now what? Does that mean he is over me? As he put it “she literally broke into his house in the middle of the night, and she is an ex ex ex girlfriend, the type he wishes he had spent more time with.” Isn’t that just about every ex for a Pisces? He did tell me that he loves me, before this obviously, and he said it often. This seems out of nowhere. I haven’t cried yet, and I told him I didn’t want to speak with him anymore. Now, I want to speak with him and find out the golden question: why?Is there hope? I still love him too much.
Sad Sag,
It sounds like your Pisces is embodying the very worst qualities of his sign: passivity and martyrdom. Pisces is the archetype of the crucified Jesus — no wonder he likes you to refer to him as your “fallen angel.”
Your Pisces’ ex may very well have broken into his house, and I’m sure he wishes he had spent more time with her, but he’s with you now. He could have said, “No, I have a girlfriend.” Pisces can act as if they are helpless victims, but there are Pisces who have grown up. “Help, I’m a fallen angel, and I can’t get up” is no excuse, especially since he can get it up with someone else.
I’m not sure trying to get a reasonable explanation out of him is worth your time. He went with the flow of the moment, as Pisces are prone to do. If you’re a guy, and an ex you’re still hot for breaks into your house and seduces you, it does take some backbone to save your bone for your girlfriend. I’d actually be more worried about this ex who broke into his house — is she stable?
There may be hope for the relationship if your Pisces can take responsibility for his part, as well as make a commitment to grow up. That’s not something you can measure, but you’re a Sag … either you have faith, or you don’t.
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I am a taurus women who has been married for 4 months to a pisces male. We dated for 2 years, and had a son before we married.
Since we have dated I found out that he has cheated since we have been together with more than 3 women. The first time I caught him was before we got married. He said that he was ending their relationships and he only did it for the money. So we went ahead and got married. Then shortly after we got married I found a picture naked picuture of a pisces women on this phone. (This is one of the same women that he had been cheating with before, but said that she was not for him and she had to many problems) I again confronted him and he asked me what I wanted to do, and proceed to turn it around on me. Like if I did the things I was suppose to do he wouldn’t cheat basically. I told him if he wanted this family then he needed to stop. Since then I have contiuned to catch him. I have spoke to this girl that he lied to and told that we were separated. She told me that he said I was just crazy and lazy. That we were not meant to be and that he was only with me for my son. I was so hurt by these things. We got in a fight also, and I told his parents and siblings everything. He got so mad! But I just wanted him to see how he was hurting me and to get opinions from other people that were his love ones, but it back fired on me and I was the trader…
Since then our marriage has been different. I told him about me speaking to the girl and he didn’t say sorry or anything, just got mad and said that I messed up his money and that was all she was good for (hint she is a sagtturis(sp)). I gave him one for time. He then said to complain and told me that I was to much in his business and that I needed to stop looking at this phone. Also, I needed to get rid of my Myspace and Facebook account because I was posting our business on there(which I wasn’t I just had our wedding pictures and said I was married). So day I posted something about me husband on my page and he found out from what he said was a guy friend (which I know is a lie) and go so mad, told me that that marriage was bascially done, because I choose myspace over him and our marriage. I can understand but your business on websites but if you married and Im your wife what does it matter. I believe that some girl saw it and got upset.
After this we haven’t talked in over a week. I tried to talk to him about the kids, and what to tell them. And he just said I take care of it and that its. I just want to know what is he think. Is he cheating because he doesn’t love me, or it it money, or just him being a pisces.
Right now I am really done, unless a mircle happens and he get hit with reality. Someone out there help me…
Taurus Girl,
I would love to know the other placements in his chart, particularly his rising, moon and venus signs. This Pisces sounds as thought his other planets are overriding his sun as I know several Pisces, male and female, who do not carry-on relationships in that manner. Taurus and Pisces are usually a very good match, and, by the way, Pisces and Pisces are not a good match as well as Pisces andSag so I dnt think those relationships that he was having meant anything…HOWEVER HE WAS WRONG FOR EVEN PURSUING THEM EVEN BEFORE YOU TWO WERE MARRIED AND HAS A LO OF NERVE BLAMING IT ON MONEY…IM SURE HE WOULDNT BE TRYIN TO HEAR YOU IF YOU DID THE SAME THING AND GAVE SUCH A LAME EXCUSE. My dad is a Pisces and he is nothing like that at all….though I am not saying he is a saint. It is also odd that he walked out of the relationship so easily…that makes me wonder if he really loved you in the first place because most Pisces put up with a lot before czlling it quits and usually never like to call it quits first…the one thing that is familiar is him blaming everything on you…that is a trait of the worst Pisceans…cheating and blaming the other person’s faults as the cause. What are the other placements in his chart?
Thanks for your response Pisces Queen,
I don’t know his chart. His birthday is 3/14/80 if that helps. (mine is 5/13/84). He is still in around. He comes home everyday, but we just don’t talk. I mean its sweird I don’t know what he’s waiting on. Hes said he is going to get his own place soon and will still help me pay my bills, because I don’t trust him and he doesn’t want to live like this anymore. Which pisses me off because I have forgave he several times. I told him I was wrong for looking in his phone,but he gave me a reason not to believe what he was saying because he was acting sneaky. He hasn’t said anything about divorce papers, so I think he’s waiting on me, but Im just worried if its the right thing to do. When we are together and things are perfect we are great. We had a relationship when we first met. I just want to get back to that. But I can’t contiune in a marriage that the other person doesn’t work. His family seems to think that he really loves me, but at this point I really don’t think he ever did. We have just been through so much (its been 2 1/2 years of back and fourth, but moment of good periods). The week before last he was fine, but then just got so mad that I put something about him on my myspace. Its like the small things that make him madder than the big things that he has done. I feel like he looking for a way out of the marriage, but he waitin on me to give it to him. I just can’t deal with the back and fourth… I just know what will happen. Im not sure if I should serve him with divorce papers or wait to see if he’s going to snap out of this dream world he’s in and realize he has lost this perfect taurus.
Taurus Girl,
Sorry to hear about your troubles. Pieces men are very strong. To me they’re more magnetic than other water signs. The men are deeply passionate and very protective of their women (sisters, mom’s etc) and very affectionate. I dig how you could feel head over heels.
Pieces men are SEXY, outspoken, sure of themselves and have this sense of duty that I love.
One thing that troubles me is when you said “He said that he was ending their relationships and he only did it for the money.” Old boy is a Gigalo (sp). He uses women. He’s a weak man. Maybe he needs to mature, but his motives and actions are super shady. I would leave him alone. I have a 9 year old and am a single mom, so I wouldn’t tell anyone to take on that hardship under ordinary circumstances, but you deserve peace and joy in your life and your kids really deserve it. They’re the ones to be considered. Let him go do his thing and focus on your kids. I would make plans to leave him when I mustered up the strength. Good luck.
Taurus Girl, your husband has his sun in Pisces, but Leo is his rising sign which explains some of his manipulative ways in how he finds reason in his cheating and manipulates you into believin you caused it….also his moon is in aquarius and his venus is in Taurus….they may be hard for him to deal with because Aquas like to be free people but yet Tauruses like stability and routine…I think he is fighting with this inside of him…His Leo rising is the flirt who adores the attention of other women but his Taurus venus wants the relationship…this must make him a difficult person to understand and probably makes it hard for him to understand himself….I think you should separate from him for a while or seek marriage counseling
Taurus Girl,
Also, you are a Taurus with a Gemini rising and your moon in Scorpio and your venus in Taurus….you and your husbands arguemnts are probably very bad when you guys do have them….Your Gemini rising and your Taurus stubborness can probably mean that you can be very controlling at times which a Pisces detests especially one with an Aquarius moon who seek freedom and with a Leo rising who are the ones who like to be in control…I think the best way to show him how wrong he is is to sa nothing at all and act like you are moving on….he is playing on the fact that he knows yo care and doesnt think you will leave…give him a taste of what life would be like if you werent around.
Thanks so much for all the advice Pisces Queen:
Your so right about him. (even through I messed up typing his birthday which is actually 3/17/84, must have been typing to fast). Even with the mess up of the birthday I think you were right no the money.
I didn’t say anything yesterday, and had a little bit of an attitude. Then he writes me this morning and tells me that since I was on my little period last night or something he will be moving out next week. I said nothing back in return. And I plan on going out this evening. I love him a lot and my marriage is important, but I can’t live or be married to a person that can’t respected me or theirselves.
Thanks again, I follow up with you and let you know what happens.
Taurus Girl….
Pisces Queen,
Wow, you are very skilled at this. I wonder if you could provide any insight on me and my Pisces. his DOB is 03/05/1983 mine is 08/26/1979 (hitting the big 3-0 soon!)
i have a problem with a pisces too… i know you are probably thinking..uhh pisces and pisces relationship? haha but my pisces has been awesome!! i mean no signs of cheating or any interest in anybody else..head over heels in love with me ..until now. We have only been together for a year but i have some suspicions and just my intuition..which so far has ALWAYS been right.My pisces has a friend (a girl) which is totally cool with me i mean i have guy friends. And we have a very honest relationship. We always tell each other what we feel and everything. Well this friend of my pisces is a virgo..and as he told me she went to his house the other day so he could help her with some kind of homework.. and well he said he kissedher on the cheek…i mean i could be paranoid but then again i think im on to something. Since that day the ‘kiss ont he cheek’ happened. The friend has been staying on msn way longer than she use to(i have her as a friend on msn so i know) like she use to sign of at 8 or 9 and now she would stay there until 2 or 3 around the time my bf signs off! and my bf has been neglecting me a little more lately.. and mostly when he’s on msn..as he says he’s always downloading or doing something?? i mean its just so many thigs at the same time :S my pisces was born on 03/12/89 and i was born on 02/24/91..plz help!!!!! im going crazy! dont know what to do about the situation!
Pisces men are wimps and weak-willed. My Pisces ex cheated on me after one year of marriage because he said he was seduced and he couldn’t help it. Flaky and unprincipled is how I describe them! I’m now married to a Scorpio. We disagree now and then but I know for a fact he would never do anything to hurt me or my kids.
Oh man, reading through these comments, the opinions on the Pisces male just gets worse and worse! This gets me worried, as I’m a Leo girl who is friends with a Pisces man, and he’s lately been secretly flirting with me (you guessed it–online!). I’m wondering if I should stop now and save myself the hurt. I have his chart details and he doesn’t appear to be the cheating type–although he has told me some little lies–but I am worried I might be setting myself up for heartache!
JL:
It seems like Leo’s have a particularly hard time with the FIsh. I would proceed with caution.
Jenny-
Take our word for it..you should tread with caution. Although the attraction beween leos and pisces can be magnetic and sexy it is usually the leo who gets burned. Their water puts out our fire. Unless he has some fire somewhere in his chart, maybe moon or venus/mars, it’s difficult for the connection to work. Check out all of the posts under “my male pisces left me; will he come back?” on this website.
Good luck if you decide to go fishing!
@ dominored
You say that Pisces men are:
‘SEXY, outspoken, sure of themselves and have this sense of duty that I love’
Sexy, -YES
Mysterious- YES
Secretive- YES
Sure of themselves- NOT!
…absolutely NOT, they float thru life accepting what life throws at them
Sense of duty- What??!
…To what? They seem to slink away from responsibility in every sense of the word…
Sorry to burst your bubble, darlin…
Assertive Aries,
You are too funny…..Aries will never understand that Pisces men are sure of themselves. Its just that the people that we are with never fully know whether we are sure or not. Pisces people are always thinking in our head and analyzing people and things way before they or others even know it. Aries people usually jump the gun and think later. Pisces people are the opposite. We think and think but when we make the move, we make it and mean it. No regrets. My father is a Pisces and he exudes responsibility which is why he worked and went to college when I was born so that I wouldnt have to pay any college tuition and bought me a car outright, no loan, so that I wouldnt have to pay a note during grad school. He takes care of all the bills for my mom and is always the one every one of his family members run to in crisis to deal with the situation. So, just like I am sure that you believe that not all Aries act before they think, then please keep in mind that not all Pisces men lack a sense of responsibility and that you may just be unlucky in those you have come across and made the mistake of then making a generalization.
Ms. Virgo,
Sorry I just saw your post…havent been on this site in a little while. March 5 is in the second decan of the Pisces Zodiac sign…which means he is probably not as wild as the first decan of Pisces can be. My dad and male cousin are also members of that decan as well as I. Pisces men can be the most frustrating because, relationship-wise, they can come off as very confusing. This is because we are very fearful, both the men and women, of being taken for granted. This fear of being used leads us to overanalyze everything and everyone but not actually removing those people from our lives until we have come to a final conclusion about them. The bad part is that some Pisces men, usually in the other decans, do not have great tact in how they do this and end up loking like players. But, honestly, Pisces men could never be players even if they tried. There is always some woman out of that group who they really want to be with but are either scared that the woman does not feel the same or scared that they will get hurt. It is not that hard to find out how a Pisces man feels about you, you just have to understand their thought-process. They are very moody and are not good at being around others while in their moods. If he really cares about you, he will try to hint to you when he needs space, usually not because of another woman, but because he is depressed, broke, or some form of unhappy. Do not freak out like many Virgo women do…lol…but let him know in a non-confrontational way, to let you know when he doesnt want to be bothered for whatever the reason. That is just an example. Pisces men also need lots of space, but this is only when they are not totally in love or committed to you as yet. It is a lot easier when you are living with them. Pisces, on whole, DO NOT LIKE DRAMA OR DRAMA-DRAINING PEOPLE. Therefore, keep arguments to a minimal. We would always rather talk a situation out or debate then argue and if the environment with you is full of too much arguing we will disappear or start seeing someone else or envisioning being with someone else. Also, and my mom told me this, once you hurt a Pisces man, its a wrap and only a miracle would make them come back to you and even if they do, it will most likely never be the same, so please, whatever you do, be completely honest with him at all times. We respect honesty more than anything because it means that we can trust you and therefore not worry about being hurt by you.
Hope this bit of advice helps…lol
I’m an Aries woman who had a 5 year on-again/off-again relationship with a Pisces male that I recently ended for GOOD by playing ‘Casper’ and disappearing completely..
I was faithful and ADORED him, but my intuition combined with his lack of effort was a deal-breaker…
That’s not the best way to handle things, but he was selfish. When I would try to talk to him about how I felt about how the relationship was making me unhappy and about his lack of action or initiative toward making the relationship work, he would get defensive and it was always someone ELSE’s fault!..(ex-girlfriend, childhood, etc…)
He drove me completely crazy with his MOODS, always saying ‘I’m Sorry!’ but never making any real changes, constantly being broke (but ALWAYS had money for cigarettes, weed and liquor), weakness, martyrdom, and playing victim, I had had ENOUGH…I was becoming miserable…
A Pisces man can seem romantic, but u MUST make him show you through ACTIONS and DEEDS, NOT words that they actually love AND respect you!!…
They’ll tell you whatever they think you wanna hear…But getting those lovely words of being ‘hoplessly in love’ into action is the REAL challenge..
Aries women, BEWARE! **
Leo women, BEWARE! **
Sagittarius women, BEWARE! **
** We need strong men not financially and emotionally unstable ones
Assertive Aries,
Pisces men are strong, but you, my friend Assertive Aries, clearly met a weak and immature one which every sign of the Zodiac sign has. Dont judge al Pisces men by this because your situation doesnt speak for all and in my experience, which I will say doesnt speak for all Aries, Aries, the women in particularm always seem to like to date people that are not on their level financially. They like to be the partner with the upper financial hand or emotional control. Pisces people HATE control freaks with a passion and when we realize thet is what you are, we will purposely do the exact opposite of what you want because, despite what people believe, we aleady seen it coming. You probably picked up this Piscean in the same way that you met him: on a lesser financial level than you. All the Arians I have known,both men and women, have dated mates that were in lower financial statuses than they were and I have read this in several Zodiac resources. I have one Arien friend who was dating this guy she knew was broke…started paying all his bills very soon after they started dating and then thought she could become a control freak because she was paying his bills. Between that and the ridiculous jealousy, that alone will drive a Pisces man to leave you. The funny thing is that Pisces men do not leave the relationshi when they are no longer interested. They just force the partner to leave by doing the opposite of what they want because they dont want to hurt their feelings by telling them “its over.”
@ Pisces Queen…
Thank you, that explanation helps…
It’s too late for my Pisces man though, I cut off all contact completely and will not answer his calls or texts (hopefully he gets the hint I’m done with him soon, as he hasn’t as of yet and it’s been a couple months)…
It started to drain me when he ALWAYS wanted to talk to me about his problems, his depression and himself..I don’t think he completely healed from past bad relationships, so he was always bitterly reminiscing about those past breakups and how the women wronged him..
Secretly I think some men LIKE women who treat them bad and don’t quite know how to handle women are sincerely loving and supportive…I don’t get it, but I also have moved on and don’t have time to play therapist to anyone who isn’t completely invested…
Lesson Learned
PQ:
Thanks. I would be very interested to know more about these decans that you speak of-LOL. Your advice is spot on, though he usually doesn’t pull the ‘space’ thing with me. We’ve been together long enough that I can pretty much read his moods but when we are not working, we’re usually together. I was just wondering if his DOB makes him different in any way than typical Pisces.
Taurus Girl I am going tHru a similar situation, but tHe only difference is tHat I am not married. My pisces was born 3/5/84. I cHeated on Him twice in tHe begginning of tHe relationsHip, He found out and cHeated on me twice witH THis girl He claims is random. He stayed wit a good friend of His, and tHe girl He cHeated on me wit was tHe Niece of His Good friend. WHen tHe girl called me, sHe said tHat He told Her tHat I was crazy, and He only wanted Her not me. WHen I confronted Him witH Her on 3 way, He yelled mad saying I am messing up His living arrangments. I dumped Him, but since I am pregnant, I took Him back. Now I found out He still talk to tHis girl, and He supposingly messed witH His ex (SHe emailed me on myspace) He said He only told me How He wants to be wit me and loves me so I wont take His daugTHer away. THat Hurt, and it feels like He dont love me but His sister says SHe knows He does, but I deserve better. Pisces bring drama wit tHem. Libras Hate Drama! I am now 39 weeks pregnant, and He wants to be togetHer as a family, wants to marry me blaH BlaH blaH! I dont trust Him! I dont know if Pisces tell tHe otHer women tHose tHings to make it more comfortable in tHere mind to cHeat. THey often try to blame otHers for tHeir own actions, but its just bulls****. Pisces are wisHY-WasHy. THey will also look tHru your tHings, and try to fisH for info, but dont like it if you do tHat to tHem!
Dear Pisces Queen,
How do you know if the pisces guy needs space or just left the relationship and didnt say so? How to differentiate?
Most men of any astrological sign pull a dissappearing act when you date them. I am a Pisces and I am dating a Virgo and he has done that at least 3 times in our relationship and we have been together a year next week. The most important thing to keep in mind is to not overreact when a man does this. Make yourself busy and keep your mind occupied on other things. As long as you don’t fly off the handle and start screaming and accusing him of doing something that he probably is not doing everything is fine. All men need a minute to pull back and assess the situation and depending on how we react to this they will come back or they might just stay away. Just stay put try not to be too available when he does decided to reappear
All pisces men boys cheat WHAT ELSE IS NEW?
Wow! These descriptions of Pisces men, although ‘horrifying’ are also very interesting, since I am a Pisces FEMALE, and a lot of these descriptions define ME, as well.
I sometimes don’t KNOW MYSELF, because my feelings are so extreme, from one side of the border to the other, especially when I’m in a relationship, and I’ve had a lot of relationships, although probably just 4 long-term or significant ones, in my lifetime.
I don’t know my whole chart, so if anyone can give me the ‘basics’ on that, I would greatly appreciate it, but PLEASE give me the definition and/or characteristics of the various ‘signs’ in my chart, as well as the ‘sign’ itself.
My birthdate is March 13, 1967, at 9:13am and I was born in Elkins, West Virginia, if that helps any.
I don’t ‘BELIEVE’ in cheating, but I have oftentimes found an ‘excuse’ to do so; I don’t ‘BELIEVE’ in divorce, but have been divorced twice now; I don’t ‘BELIEVE’ in smoking or drinking, but I do both……I’m 42 years old and have just gone through the HARDEST AND MOST DIFFICULT 2 years of my life, so I’m finding out a lot about myself, but don’t know where to go from here. Is it going to ‘ease up’ and if so, when? (I’ve seen some great signs of things ‘easing up’ for me but then something else happens to make me take 2 steps backward…) What do I need to do, according to my chart, to make my life ‘right’ and find the ‘right guy’?
I’ve never had any problems ‘finding a guy’, but finding the ‘right one’ is a different story….I seem to attract the wrong ones, even though they appear perfect in the first 1-3 years of the relationship. Is it something I do to make things turn bad? I’ve been single, by choice, for the last 8 months (the longest I’ve EVER been single in my life), and now, I’m kind of wanting someone to come into my life romantically, but the EXes are the ones coming around, and I’m not sure if that’s good or bad…..I’m so distrustful of ALL men right now, and given my bad decision-making in the past, I can see me ‘falling’ for one of my exes all over again, even though I remember the ‘bad points’, just because it’s familiar and comfortable…..I’m terrified, right now, of getting involved with someone I know nothing about and going through another bad relationship. It’s like I almost want to put myself through something bad if I KNOW it’s going to be bad, rather than chance it and try something new and different…..does this make sense? (It really sounds crazy to ME, just describing it…..!)
Any insight on this at all by any of you practicing astrologers would be greatly appreciated…..I’m interested in seeing how much of ‘me’ you describe correctly, based on my chart. Believe me, even getting a description of myself would help greatly, so I could see where my faults truly lie.
Love and Peace to all,
Gina
Gina, You probably have been cheated on by a Pisces man too. A lot of pisces women have been dumped by pisces men.
Trinity,
I am the one who always seems to ‘dump’ them…..usually because of them drinking too much, getting overly possessive and jealous, etc. I did live with a guy who had the same birthday as me (March 13), but was one year younger. I lived with him for 7 years and I know I loved him or I wouldn’t have stayed that long. He was EXTREMELY abusive when he was drinking, which got more and more frequent the last couple years of the relationship. Finally, I had to leave or I know I’d end up dead. When he wasn’t drinking he was a good person, but the drinking took hold of him and I’m so very grateful that I left, even though, at the time, it was the hardest thing to do.
I never knew for sure that he ever cheated on me, but yes, some signs were there, and I always thought it was his ‘guilty conscience’ which would make him come home and start being physically abusive to me, even though I was already asleep most of the time when he came home.
Anyway, I’d still like someone to ‘do’ my chart for me, if possible, and let me know my various ‘signs’ in my chart and what they mean. Real curious as to what makes ME act the way I do, sometimes.
Thanks,
Gina
Hey there…
i know everyone is probably really over this topic but i have an earnest request for opinions and knowledge on this subject. I started dating a pisces male last January…everything was going quite amazingly, the only mishaps were when he would fall back into a non-chalant attitude about life and decisions, opinions etc. In September i found out he cheated on me twice with one girl way back in May. He was absolutely devastated by the break up and we stayed good friends…he’s tried so hard to earn back a second chance since we split and I really want to give him a second chance. He never had any serious relationships before i came along so i’m just really wondering if he didn’t realize the weight of what he had done etc? He’s owned up to his mistake and tells me there isn’t a legitimate reason for why he did what he did…not that he can think of anyways, just that he messed up. He has told me that he was obliterated drunk both times and I know that he and the girl had a fling way before he and i dated. I would like to know anyone’s thoughts on whether it might be safe to go another round with him? Or if he’s incapable of straightening out… His birthday is feb 24th 1989 and mine is Dec 28 1989.
Thank you so much,
Cautious Cap
Cautious Cap-
You are both very young but that is no excuse. I was never faithful with a guy at that age. Too young to be tied down.
That being said…only you can decide to gove anyone a second chance. His behavior sounds pretty typical of Pisces. Not sure he will straighten out…he realizes what he did and if you take him back he’ll do it again.
Just my humble opinion of course but after getting to know a Pisces over the last two years(a 45 yr old one) I have learned the hard way that they think they do no wrong and as far as I can see once a cheater always a cheater….and tha’s not just Pisces….
Ms. Virgo, although I am several months late in responding to you, I hope that you are still reading this post…lol. Every zodiac sign has three decans. The Pisces has three, the first being Pisces-Pisces, the second being Pisces-Cancer and the last being Pisces-Scorpio. The first decan is mostly made up of the last two weeks of February. The second decan, mine…lol, is made up of the first two weeks of March and the third decan is pretty much the last week and a half of March right before Aries starts. I have found that the First Decan pisces men, especially those that are young in age, have more tendency to be flaky and cheaters than those of that decan who are older. Same for the women of that decan, they seem to be more wild, take more risks and way more outgoing than the other decan Pisces. Your mate is in the second decan. I believe those in the second decan are the quietest Pisces, unless they have serious air or fire in their charts. They usually are the most committed to their relationships which is what probably makes it easier for you to read his moods, which he has alot of because of him being in the second decan, and that is also why you two are together even when you are not at work. Jus be careul not to kill him with any nitpicking…Pisces of that decan are extremely sensitive and easily hurt. I am sure he has faults with you but he probably would never voice them to you because he wouldnt want to hurt you so have the same respect for him. Also, learn to trust him, Pisces people, as long as we arent around people who are bad influences, are very very committed. Just dont take him for granted and make sure that he never goes unemployed…lol… Pisces men, when in a rut, can be depressed and lazy for unbearable amounts of time…I have seen many good relationships with Pisces men with my friends end when they lose their jobs and fail to find work…their depression, moodiness, and laziness drives their mates either away or to someone else.
Nassau Lady,
A Pisces man would usually never leave a relationship without informing his mate first. More than likely, if your Pisces has disappeared, he just needs space and will return. People usually mistakenly percieve Pisces man’s aloofness, moodiness, and disappearing acts on something to do with the relationship but usually it has to do with something else which we cannot help but have affect our moods and so we leave to get space to think and cheer up and then return when we have reached some sort of conclusion about our feelings. And if you arent sure, you can always ask your Piscean. He will tell you. We are probably the most communicating sign of the zodiac and will discuss feelings as much as our partners want to. Our ultimate goals in our relationships is to please our partners, sometimes to our own detriment, so feel free to straight up ask him yourself. What many people dont get is that a Pisces man will really try to make the relationship work before he leaves, that is if he really loves you. It is hard for us to let go and so we will try to give you hints at what in the relationship is making us unhappy. However, if you dont catch those hints, the relationship could end unexpectedly but even so, he would just tell you.
PQ:
Yes I’m still reading! I never knew about the decan thing but I guess it makes sense. I know he’s sensitive but the funny thing is that sometimes it seems like he WANTS me to get ‘rude’ with him the way he taunts me like it’s fun for him or something. I mean he does it for silly things, not serious discussions or anything. Also he is very hardworking but I DEFINITEKY see the lazines kick in at times. Like if they cut hours at work, he overly enjoys it IMO. But when it’s time to get his a$$ back in gear, he usually does it without a problem. Of course I do stay on top of things for him, so that helps.
Ms. Virgo,
I must admit, both us Pisces women and men are really good with sarcasm which is probably what you mean when you say “it seems like he wants me to get rude with him.” We just cannot help ourselves sometimes…lol…but we never mean to hurt our partner’s feelings…its just a habit…he must have some form of earth sign in him if he is such a hardworker which is a good thing. My dad gets lazy at times and complains when he has the smallest chore to do…lol…but my mom just ignores him or I tell her to…because I know how we are…when we get lazy we just want to be left alone to be lazy but the Pisces men are definitely worse with the laziness especially when the reason for it is some sort of depression…
Oh and Ms. Virgo,
In case you are interested, you have three decans too. You may want to find out which one you are in. The three decans for Virgo I think are Virgo-Virgo, Virgo-Capricorn and Virgo-Taurus. Finding out your own decan may help also.
here here pisces queen
Im a fish and heartily agree with this.yup some fish can be wuss bags and will not be honest usually out of some misplaced fear of hurting the other person when it comes to relationships we will swim away completley if we get tied down we hate control you just cant define pisces they are not to be defined let them dream by themselves.(Remember pisces is not a superfical sign they may seem wishy washy they are not, corner a fish and you have a fighter of the best kind basically when a fish get likes this they have been usually been deeply hurt( granted some fish will get like this just to prove a point ) but can become blood thirsty in their vengance , think of a shark as soon as they smell blood they will not stop untill they get it right ? a scorpion can only sting you if you let it get at you)
If they need space let them have it THEY WILL COME BACK. dont take it personally if this is the case they are not doing it to hurt you they are doing it to collect their thoughts.
One of the worst things anybody can do to a pisces is to read them or figure them out they will feel pinned down and run( this can be annoying to a more honest and straight forward mate like an earth sign who are generally as they are)
One piece of advice there tell them it hurts you , but do it gently. Pisces does not do details but if its a big thing they will listen to you, but that said and done give pisces their space youll never own us were to damn slippery
but we’ll always be there.
My bday is Aug 26…so not sure what deacon that would be
Ms. Virgo, you are in the first decan, Virgo-Virgo. You should read up on them. If you google Virgo decans, something should come up. I would copy and paste it but I have seen other blogers get in trouble for doing that on this site but it is sometimes good to read about yourself in addition to your partner. Sometimes, we dont even recognize our own tendencies that can affect the relationships that we have with other people.
Oh and Ms. Virgo, abc123 stated some good points to take heed to. I have seen that most Pisces men will adjust their actions if you tell them that it hurts your feelings. Now, I know that Virgos are not the most emotional of signs and would rather fuss about something than admit that they are hurt but your Pisces will listen and the next time he disappears, if he does at all, he will let you know where he is at at all times. If Pisces loves you, we always want to make our mates feel comfortable and be able to trust us even if it interferes with our freedom. A lot of people misunderstand Pisces but we are indeed the most loving sign of the zodiac to a fault. While I know that other signs love deeply, Pisces love without the drama, at least the ones who are not influenced by any outside factors or surroundings. We dont criticize loved ones, we dont start fights unless you have really pushed us for a long time and we never say anything to hurt our partner’s feelings even if they are screaming in our face, we may yell back but no hurtful words will ever come out unless we feel that the relationship is already over and we no longer love you.
Ms. Virgo,
Your mate is the third decan of Pisces, Pisces-Scorpio….cannot get much more dedicated than that…lol…although he may have a bit of a temper if pushed but I disagree because my dad is also a third decan and he has never had any temper issues. He is the GREATEST DAD EVER!!!! He has also been married to my mom for over 35 years and he still wakes up with her in the morning, eventhough he is retired, to make her coffee and put out her lunch for work. He still walks to meet her when she is finished at the hair salon and heats up dinner before she gets in from work to name a few things…so, you may have a keeper…lol
August 26 is in the first decan of Virgo
OK it’s decan not deacon. Got it. Thanks for all the feedback! I agree that fish might not SAY anything hurtful, but if they feel wronged by you they will rack their brains on how to DO something to get you back. I remember once my fish was ‘mad’ at me and I didn’t feed into it, so he came and took the light bulbs out of the room I was reading in. Stupid, right???
Pisces Queen,
I took your advise and separated from my husband. After three long months and after court he came back to our home asking to start our marriage over again. Well everything start out good, until I found out well he was gone he slept with the sag (DOB 12/3)girl he with me on earlier in our relationship, and now she is preganant! So I feel like I gave it a try with a pisces and maybe they are just not for me… My birthday is 5/13 and his is 3/17…. Please give me any idea of why Taurus and Pisces don’t mix, and why it says that sag’s and pisces don’t match, yet he keeps going back..
Thanks, Signed a confused Taurus…
Pisces Queen, you can t tell other people´s risings without their birth time.
And decans are 10 days first decan (more or less days 20-30 of the month), 10 days second decan (1-10 of the month) and 10 days the third decan (10-20 of the month).
Hi I read all your comments girls of the zodiac. There is one common denominator with this pisces lovers that we dont found in our dads of grandfathers. Pisces men lie and when someone lie nothing good can come out of it. Cheating, deception, negligence, instability, roller coaster relationships, unfinished bussiness. They are the greater evasive and pretender of the zodiac. If you are looking for a real grown, mature man who is going to love you the only way love should be shown, you are wasting, time, money and energy with this type of fish-men. Wish I seriously dont respect. Cause one thing I dont lie and therefore I dont like to be lie. Yes they are wishy washy when it comes to love relationship I think they only care about themselve. If they show you they are good youll see it wont last for more than a month. Im noone here to say but just look the way AQUA lady is all going crazy by this $$%&&#” an aquarius are well known by being the smartest in the zodiac. So, just dont fall for his crap, a pisces man is all about fake.
AND dont get me wrong I adore one pisces man my grandfather who was my mentor, my father my spiritual guide, my everything GREAT MAN. But I have only known one pisces man for almost 3 years now AND I agree completely with all that is being said here, even those who try to justify his behavior are right. But honestly anyone who loves, respect and have brains would know fall for such a creature!.
this world is full of pretenders and selfish people. dont just blame pisces man.
and i have to say something to ” virgo queen” . look girl if u dont like pisces man thats ur own choice. u r telling pisces man r pretenders. who doesnt pretend. this world is full of pretender. and liars. every living creature of this world care about themselves. the way u r talking u r ONE BIG SELFISH WOMAN URSELF. every sign has its good side and dark side. pisces man dont need girl like u. not every AQUA girl is good. so dont write fuck things. u r the amateur person over here.
Pisces men are vengfull.He thinks you have done somthing or he wouldent have cheated.Youre veiws of the psces may be wrong I am allways strait forward and get into a lot of fist fights with men who are not.I hate lies and will hurt anyone who lies to me.
WOWWW you CAN’T justify cheating! If you’re happy end the relationship instead of being immature and petty.
Yes, people are selfish but there’s something called compromise. You compromise and figure out what’s best for BOTH people in the relationship not only yourself.
Unhappy*
I agree with Pisces Man, Virgo Queens sounds very silly saying “All” pisces men are fake blah blah, then contradicts when she says her Grandfather was her mentor and blah blah.. i guess he was also pretending with you too Virgo Queen cause according to you the Pisces Man is fake. i guess he got you too. You cant blame 1 person for everyone else’s issues… that girl got cheated on for who know’s what reason.. she didnt mention anything else about there relationship, i beleive when someone cheats its becuase there is something “missing” in the current relationship, and then the “bad” choice is made- to cheat.. Dont worry Virgo Queen is just being over critical as her sign calls for.. LOL
dont take this personal …….