An earth sign, Virgo needs a predictable routine to feel comfortable. He’s not one to flit around from woman to woman (you know who you are, Gemini!). Virgo prides himself on being reliable, and will feel regret if he lets you down.
If your Virgo man is sitting on the fence, he is carefully deliberating whether this is the relationship for him. He needs to think things over carefully, and will likely over-analyze the workings of this partnership. He will find fault with you, for sure … but if he feels he can help you improve, your shortcomings are not a dealbreaker.
Only after careful scrutiny will he come to a decision. And if he wants in, he’s in all the way.
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Ok, I too dated a virgo man and in the beginning he was caring, loving and attentive but when we got used to each other his real side came out. A lot of the problems between us was his nitpicking, blame me for his own attitude, always right never wrong with a superior attitude, talks non stop but does not remember half he says, denies saying anything hurtful to the point where i felt i needed to carry a tape recorder to replay for him the things he says. The world revolves around him.
I am convinced he suffered with some bi polar issues as it is just not normal behaviour.
@nikki
WOW….I can 100% relate! My Virgo was EXACTLY the same way. At first he seemed very caring and gentle, then I moved in and his true colors showed. He became harsh and critical, was always right and I was always wrong. His superiority complex was disgusting. He also would shut down emotionally any time an issue arose between us….COLD AS ICE. If I had know his cruel ways from the beginning I never would have gotten involved.
Hi again everyone. Well, I just thought I would drop by and give an update on my new interactions with a virgo man…I’m a woman libra. Well, fortunately, lol, there is no resulting mud-slinging, self-pity, and victimization here. Usually, the result can be all of those things in the aftermath of libra woman/virgo man relationship. Or, so I’ve read online. Neither of us pushed things beyond breaking point and we are still very good friends. As for relationship, I convinced myself that virgo man was most suitable for me when it came to practicalities…good work ethic, devoted family man, caring, calm, etc., maybe, but somehow that just isn’t the way life goes. In life, you get what you need, not just what you want. I ended up getting back together with my ex-boyfriend, the aquarius! Things are moving in the direction of marriage now and I’m relieved. I’m not going to pretend everything is all perfect and we get along better than pigs in slop, because that’s never the case. I cant say that it had everything to do with compatibility either. Even though he’s an aquarius, we are not very compatible in the way of our signs. He is also a monkey and I’m a snake, we’re both the first siblings in our families, and he has brothers while I have all sisters. Yet, once we manage our inner control freaks, we are great…we feel responsible for each other and we depend on each other. The best advice I can give here is waste time on someone who can offer you more good than bad and who compliments you both mentally AND emotionally, as well as physically. You will know, when the most difficult situation arises and you don’t have to swim an ocean to find him or her (mentally, emotionally, and physically). When you are both living right in the same world and dont mind doing so.:)
I’m married to a Virgo man whom I’ve known for about 14 years. I first met him when he was 16 years old (I’m 2 yrs older) and he was shy and didn’t tell me he was interested. I was later told by mutual friends. I didn’t even know he noticed me, although I did see him, he wasn’t my type at the time (I loved thugs). He was cute though. Anyway we talked on and off for about a year, but nothing came out of it….fast forward 10 yrs, we start back dating, get hot and heavy fast…I got pregant within 3 months of us being together and we were engaged within 9 months and married a year and 2 months after getting back together. He made me fall for him hard, and yes he changed….we both did…I don’t know if it was the marriage and kids or what…but he definitely is more confident (not as possessive) and less lovey dovey, which being a Cancer we love. He is more into raising the children right and keeping the house up and things like that. Which I can’t complain…I just wish he was more into me like he was when we first got back together 4 yrs ago. I would say he’s a nagger and complainer, but loves to clean and spend time with me and the kids…he is definitely a homebody like me…so unless he is at work 99% of the time we are all together..one big happy family. Our 3 yr wedding anniversary is coming up…guess I’ll have to drop some hints that I’m looking for some romance……..
What I’ve learned over the past six months (and I’ve learned quite some bit), is that if the Virgo is a commitment phobe, the most important thing is to be the friend to your guy he’d feel comfortable with. I had to battle my jealousy whenever he met up with another girl he was friends with and finally realize that all this bitterness was not going to help me get closer with my Virgo, but vice versa. As for the tests… I really don’t know much about those, perhaps it’s not really something that would make a difference in our relationship and frankly I don’t think it matters in the end in general. You really need to act as a friend and not freak out over small things, give him some space, because I can quarantee you, a little longing goes a long way. I’m closer with my guy now more than ever. It’s wonderful.
Hey Everyone,
This information is great!!! I am sort-of seeing, or maybe not seeing a Virgo guy!! I met him and slept with him the first night…not my normal way that’s for sure, but that’s what happened! After that night, he has come over to my house twice and spent the night! But he will often no reply to texts or he’ll ask me if I want to hang out that night, but not call or reply! I know I have to be patient, but it’s so confusing to me!!! Then I went out dancing with my girlfriends this weekend (it was his Birthday), and I ended up seeing him at the club we were at! I bought him a birthday beer, and we danced to a couple songs together…he’s so sexy and such a good dancer.., which we Pisces girls love!!! I did notice him hanging out with a girl there, but since we haven’t put a label on what we are….we’ve just been hanging out here and there, I didn’t get upset! At the end of the night I went to say goodbye to him because he was leaving for work the next day (going away for 3 weeks), and I didn’t think I’d get to see him again! When I walked up to chat with him and say bye, he said “you’re never going to talk to me again are you?”…I was so confused and couldn’t figure out why he would say that…obviously it was because he was there with another girl?? Then, when I told him that he was being silly and of course I’d talk to him again, he made me promise!! I didn’t actually say the word “promise” until he said “You didn’t even promise”, so I said “I promise I’ll talk to you again, don’t worry” So as soon as I walked out of the club, I sent him a text message telling him that of course I’d talk to him again, I liked him! The next day, he drove by when I was out walking with my girlfriend and he said he was leaving in a few hours, but he thought we could get together before he left, so of course I said yes…he makes me so happy! So he said he’d text me in a bit and then we’d hang out! So, he was leaving at 5:30, and I sent him a text at 5:10 wondering if he was going to have time to come by and see me…..5 minutes later he was there, but he had to leave right away, which I figured (I didn’t think he was going to come at all)…but I was so super happy about it either way!! I gave him a huge hug and told him to have a safe drive overnight! Now, all that being said, I don’t know where I stand with him or if he even likes me! I almost feel like he’s just trying to be polite! Also, I feel like I have to do a little pushing…like if he says lets hang out tonight…he won’t call me…I’ll have to call him or message him, and push for him to hang out!!! So frustrating he is, but so wonderful too. Anyone here have any insight!! Virgo guys…is there some underlaying meaning behind his ways..help me, please! I don’t want to be here for nothing!
Also, I was going to ask him about why he made me promise to talk to him, should I! I also want to tell him that as long as we are whatever we are/aren’t that I will only be with him!! Should I!
Thanks to whomever helps me, I really appreciate it!
Virgo Guys – yeah – they are totally honest and play no games – so I would trust him – and persue him if you want him… but you have to be SUPER patient, which I am not but I want him so I am going to practice patience for him because I feel that he is soooo worth it. Not a big romantic – and was super duper the first 3 weeks and now that’s OVER – but if I can “get” him I will have him and that’s what I want – a loyal dear wonderful partner for the rest of my life and I am willing to forsake romance for that real loyalty and deep friendship-love that I can have with Virgo boy…
Piscesgirl: “I was so confused and couldn’t figure out why he would say that…obviously it was because he was there with another girl?? Then, when I told him that he was being silly and of course I’d talk to him again, he made me promise!!”
He was guilty cuz you caught him with another girl AFTER you slept with him and after he didn’t reply when he should have to your calls/texts. Don’t be so nonchalant about these things or he will never respect you.
And ALL men play games especially with girls who are willing to lose.
I agree with Candice, that all men will play games given the chance. The Virgo I’m with has an Ascendant/Rising sign in Aquarius, and he has this thing for “fishing” for girls on social networking sites (Facebook and MySpace, not dating sites), finding chicks who’ll let him flirt with them and even ask them to “come over, since my girlfriend lives in ____” (Virgo and I live apart). When confronted, he melts down, tells me “nothing has happened” between him and any other girl, begs me not to leave, apologizes profusely…it’s pretty confusing.
It seems like Virgos have this fantasy of themselves that they like to live out, a fantasy that’s almost directly opposite of how they feel they are. My Virgo is a homebody, caring and responsible, but he seems to like to play the ‘rolling stone’, the Don Juan, telling chick#whatever that what he has with me is some joke, he’ll let me go at anytime, but begging and crying like a little boy when his bs is out in the open, or he even gets a hint that I’ll take off. My best friend, who is a Virgo, is pretty meek and cautious, suffers from low self-esteem and an eating disorder, but she likes to act really tough around other people.
Virgos also tend to get complacent in love. As a Libra, I thought he was unhappy when my Virgo stopped being as “romantic” as he had been when we were beginning to be interested in each other…but really, he’s just stopped courting me and is very content with what we share now. If you’re unhappy with your Virgo partner, let them know and if anything their extreme perfectionism will encourage them to put more energy into your relationship to make it ‘the best’.
It sounds like I give this guy a lot of sh&t, but there are few people I respect and trust as much as him. And that’s all I got to say about that.
@TK
ummmm,,,,WOWWWW!! u realllly hit the nail on the head. those damn virgos are the ultimate perfectionist. My V tries to be perfect in everything, but is far from it. when i put him in his place he hates it….he is meek w/ a BIG ego. however, after thinking about my citicism and the truth, he tries to be a better man. he is actuially quite insecure and needs me to be strong always.
it is not my nature to be SO strong. I like a man to carry me sometimes when i feel too weak from this cruel world. But he only responds (in positive) when I am the one carrying the weight of his world on my shoulders… sigh
“Ok, I too dated a virgo man and in the beginning he was caring, loving and attentive but when we got used to each other his real side came out. A lot of the problems between us was his nitpicking, blame me for his own attitude, always right never wrong with a superior attitude, talks non stop but does not remember half he says, denies saying anything hurtful to the point where i felt i needed to carry a tape recorder to replay for him the things he says. The world revolves around him.
I am convinced he suffered with some bi polar issues as it is just not normal behaviour.”
“The Virgo I’m with has an Ascendant/Rising sign in Aquarius, and he has this thing for “fishing” for girls on social networking sites (Facebook and MySpace, not dating sites), finding chicks who’ll let him flirt with them and even ask them to “come over, since my girlfriend lives in ____” (Virgo and I live apart). When confronted, he melts down, tells me “nothing has happened” between him and any other girl, begs me not to leave, apologizes profusely…it’s pretty confusing.”
Holy sh*t. You hit it right on the nail, ladies.
OMG!!! such an eye opener. I have been going through this for almost 5 years. I know what I need to do.
Thanks ALL.
OMG, just had my heart broken by Virgo man…… again. Went out with this guy from school, I was 16 and he was 18, he joined the army and I moved to australia, we lost touch until Facebook last year. We dated for 2 months, tho he was on the break up of a marriage. He texted me on Christmas eve last yr to say he would be in touch cos he was spending christmas with his sons and then disappeared off the planet. I was devastated and cos i never knew what happened, i was forever wondering about him. Well in July last year he gets in contact again saying he had made the mother of all mistakes and could he see me. So the next day we met up, he said he had now broken off with his wife, had been on tour of afghan for 4 months and that he was so so sorry for what he did to me. We dated for 5 months up until 21st december this year, i was so worried as he was going home to see his boys again at christmas, after everything that had happened the year before. He swore blind it was all over. I was assured all was ok. Then on 27th Dec, we have a little row by text, then he disappears again for two days, calls me by New years to say that he would ring the next day but then didnt. He deleted me off FB, so i rang him in tears, leaving a message. he finally rang back to say it was over, he didnt love me anymore but liked me a lot, he would love to see me but it was my insecurities that he couldnt stand and how he couldnt live with them anymore. I am gutted, things were going so well, we would stay up til 6am chatting, he took me to a few official army functions as his girlfriend, we laughed so much and right up until our mini row, that lasted all of ten text messages, he wore undying love for me and that we would be moving in together very soon. Totally devastated.
yep and he is definitely true virgo, spotlessly clean, and you can imagine being in the army makes it ten times worse for OCD. he would compliment me on absolutely everything from looks, personality, sense of humour, in fact he would always say … there is nothing i can find fault with with you.lol.
Sounds familiar…great for a while, and then the reason he’s leaving you is because of *your* insecurities. Just walk away. I know that’s easier said than done, but you need to show him that he can’t just play with you like that. Make him work for your attention and affection. Give him a dose of his own medicine. If he thinks you’re at his beck and call, he will milk it for all he can and screw with you remorselessly.
What I learned from my nightmare with my Virgo ex is that they are inconsistent and inconstant – say or do something one minute, completely reverse it the next. Nothing they say can be taken at face value (no matter how much they claim to be honest and up-front). They’ll have you thinking everything is going well and then flip the script. Mutable. And frustrating.
Oh – and I’d be careful about the “ending the marriage” thing. My ex was allegedly separated and then divorced from his wife while we were – whatever we were since he kept vacillating between friends and then more. Now he’s living with his “ex-wife”…long story I’ve told elsewhere on Sasstrology. I would look into whether or not he’s really unattached before deciding whether or not you really want to involve yourself with him further.
Well, a Virgo guy approach to me in a friendly manner & said like he’s interested in me & willing to help me out. I’m a Scorpio female & I didn’t feel any feelings for him at that time. Now I’m so crazy abt him & waiting for him to come to me. He know that I’m very honest & I share everything with him. We met only once & he’s always asking me to go out with him. But i didn’t. We used to chat an hour on fb & suddenly he stopped & dissapeared. He didn’t even reply my message. Now he’s again on fb & we were chatting like before. But its really hard to understand him sometimes. I really like the way he compliment me & feel so attached. He really likes how i look. I never force him for anything. I know that he need time to think. I just wanna know if he’s interested in me or not. I don’t understand why they dissapear even they r in luv. I’m willing to know him deeply & i studied a lot abt Virgos sign. & other thing is i’m never interested in younger guys but this guy is 7yrs younger than me. Now i’m in strange dilema. Can anyone plz help me. I need to know ur opinions. Thanks.
As I am hopefully a ‘good and wholesome’ Virgo, I’d like to offer some advice.
“We met only once & he’s always asking me to go out with him. But i didn’t”
Ema… I think this is where you made your mistake. Everyone is different because of their rising signs and so on, but generally speaking Virgo’s hate to be rejected. Him asking you out was probably a way of trying to get closer to you and you denying to do so would have hurt him. Virgo’s need a lot of trust and secuirty, and perhaps being ‘rejected’ made him feel insecure. To me it sounded like he cared about you quite a lot (especially due to the fact that he was complimenting you! Most Virgo’s will never learn to stop criticising… even if it is to try and improve the person.) and this is why he contacted you after a bit of a ‘break’
I hope this could’ve been of some help to you. Good luck!
i know how it feels… for me there is one that has got my heart… well he has always had it for as long as i remember… it makes it hard when they do their houdini act on you… especially when you are finally able to tell them how you feel about them after all the years and bad relationships with other people… i’ve had two long relationships with virgo men before, both of them i am still friends with to this day but i have never had feelings for them like i do with this virgo… i know my feelings for him are real, he has been in my heart since the day we first met all those years ago.
Hi Girls,
Everyone hates REJECTION but this is not the issue here. This Guy was on a FISHING
expedition and once he realised that he was not getting a quick and easy bite he decided
to pack his gear and call it Quits.!!!
When a Man is really interested there is nothing stopping him from pursuing you until he
he CONQUERS you. And as for the disapearing acts they are a sign of him loosing interest
once he has you and starts playing mind games just to get a reaction and inflate his EGO.!!!
Cheers Girls and keep Smiling. Taurus.
Currently, I am cautiously talking with an old Virgo love. We dated two years ago for about four months and I left him because he cheated and took me for granted. He did not initial admit it, however I knew through his behavior and through probing, I happen to come across a tacky ass earring that I would never see dead in. But, he did admit it recently when I asked. So, I went about my way, moved out the state to continue my studies and ambitions. He would casually make contact here and there. I would keep it affable. Now, he calling me and texting me about how much he loved me, how he felt I was different than every other woman he has met, and that I was the only woman that he felt was his equal. He remembers a lot of what we did in detail and reminds me, that he is the one who messed up and that he wants to give it a go. I must say, the sex with him was volcanic and amazing. It takes a special man to measure up to me sexually, pretty much anything. I think he is attracted to my ambitiousness and passion. However, He has lost his appeal and If I wanted to I could turn into the Scorpio bitch make him pay for his flight to come and see me, and never show. I think I am going to make it easy and just not text or call him. But here is a heads up for anyone who is interested in a Virgo male from a Scorpio woman’s perspective.
-Don’t let your guard down so easily. Go into it without expectations, no matter what the guy says. Let him prove himself through his actions.
My experience with my Virgo man is he is a thirty something bitter insecure man. He had a lot of dreams, he never accomplished. He has been pushing carts for seven years. Here comes this twenty something woman who is passionate, intelligent and ambitious, working this man into a sweat because he knows she going places. Virgo men are attracted to success and successful people, most because they are industrious themselves. Their passion in sex is never present upon the surface, it is latent. They are overly materialistic to conceal their insecurities and lack of emotional depth. In truth, they are boring ego maniacs, who secretly envy people more successful than them.
True, there is no problem when it comes to commitment. It is their innate nature to be committal and loyal at the same time, unless paired with a different sign, then there would be a problem.
Hello there,
I need advice on a Virgo matter. I’m a 26 year-old Cancer girl and he’s just turned 28.
Surprisingly, we met on a dating website. Things I’d always said I would never do. But I liked his profile and the couple messages he sent me so I suggested a meeting only after a couple exchanges.
So we went out for a drink and had a lovely time together. We shared a lot of personal things, talked about our lives, our history, etc. He was openly talking about emotional things, surprising for a Virgo. Things went so great that only a couple days later, we went to a movie together. He made sure to arrive 10 minutes early to buy me my ticket ? Afterwards we went for another drink and stayed talking late. The next day we went to a concert together.
I could feel he was interested. He kept on complimenting me, was always very attentive, he always insisted on paying for my drinks, held the door, texted me, called me, etc. We share a lot of things in comment, talk about serious issues but also know how to let go and have fun.
Last week, we went out on Thursday and Friday to a music festival. He introduced me to his friends. We had a really nice time together and developed a great “complicity”. Saturday he invited me over to meet his flat mate. We had dinner with them. Things were great. Then he showed me the house and we ended up on the roof star gazing. There, he kissed me. Very nice, soft and romantic. Just like in movies. We then went to a party together and he was so respectful and attentive to me. Then I spent the night at his place but we didn’t do anything. Just slept in each other’s arms. He didn’t try anything out of place. He was very cuddly.
The next morning he didn’t want me to leave so we spend the entire morning in bed, listening to music and hugging each other. He wanted to see me on Monday but I wasn’t available but he called me late at night to wish me a good night. And yesterday, Tuesday, he texted me he had a surprise for me. So he came to my place to give me a bag full of organic vegetables cuz I had told him my fridge was empty and I didn’t have time to go grocery shopping. How cute!
Then he took me out for a drink and that’s when it all went totally weird. He told me he really liked me but was in a moment in his life when he wanted to concentrate on his “spiritual” life. He also told me he had met a girl at the same time he’d met me. He also has a crush on her although she lives in another country and they’ve seen each other twice. He doesn’t want to hurt any of us so he wants to take “distance” from both of us.
He then went on rambling about how fantastic and exceptional I am. He doesn’t want to stop seeing me. He wants to “forget” what happened on Saturday and take things where we had left them: be friends (and be careful about feelings that might show up) and take our time to get to know each other. See what time brings us. He told me that now I’m in his life and doesn’t want me to get out of it nor does he want to lose me.
So my questions are: do you think he is honest? Do you think I should do as he wishes – going back to being friends (but being a Cancer I won’t help but hope he’ll fall for me again)? Or should I just forget him? Is there any chance he will want me back? What are my chances? Why such a sudden change of attitude? What should I do? Is he afraid to commit?
Please help me. I’m a little lost now. If you need more details, let me know (altough this comment is already long haha)
Thank you.
[PS: I'm also posting this on another post related to Virgo]
I’m currently together with a Virgo guy. We’ve been great friends since we were like, 10 (we are both 23 now) but only recently got together
We were so happy together. All our friends were so envious of how happy we are together and stuff. 3 weeks into our relationship, I went on an 18 day holiday with my friends from varsity. While away, on the 2nd day of my trip, I didn’t reply his text for 12 hours. I got intoxicated (he knew) and the first thing I woke up in the morning (nothing happened, my friends and I got back to our hotel safe and sound) and immediately messaged him. I saw his messages – full of paranoia, worry etc saying that he didn’t know how the parties are like in Europe, he doesn’t know whether any guy would try to be funny with me etc. I tried my best to reassure him. It seemed to pass ’cause through the rest of my trip, we were texting as how we used to text – lovey dovey stuff. He even reminded me day by day how much he missed me etc. When I came back home, it just seemed different – he was distant, physically and emotionally. I confronted him about this. He said he couldn’t get over the immense worry and paranoia from that night that I didn’t reply his text. He said that he doesn’t want to feel this anymore and that he doesn’t know whether he is up to this (a few talks with him and his close friends later, I found out that “this” refers to “commitment”, I think?). He said he doesn’t want to be unfair to me because things are now different. We are currently on a time out ’cause he said he needs space and time to clear his shite. He doesn’t know why he cannot forget and forgive me. I disappointed him and lost the trust he had for me. We still do text each other but not as often and he’s not as affectionate (duh). I don’t want to lose him. What should I do? I know I’ve to give him space. I do. But is there anything I can do help him find his way out his mental maze? And to make matters worse, his ex girlfriend recently contacted him again and they’ve been hanging out. He is honest with me and he tells me that the both of them have met for dinner etc. The thing is, his ex broke his heart and she’s really not a good person … according to everyone.
What should I do?
I really cannot lose him.
‘his ex girlfriend recently contacted him again and they’ve been hanging out. ‘
And that is the real reason he became distant. Doesn’t matter that she isnt a good person. he let her back in and left you hanging.
Move on with your life. Don’t let him make it seem like its something you did with his ‘on the fence’ behavior, his own insecurities, and making time for another woman with whom it didnt work with the first time.
I went through this crap with a Taurus and with Virgo i am with now. Taurus is history. Virgo..we have a lot to get through and he knows to be with me is to be with me and nothing less. I wont put up with any more crap or he can hit the door!
Stephanie,
I would like to think I know Virgos fairly well – I’ve experienced many differently placed aspects in that sign, and in my Virgo moon, so – here’s what I’m thinking. Take it or leave it:
So, for starters – I’m only going to say your past history of friendship is just a familiarity thing, nothing more. Secondly, 3 weeks into the relationship and he’s blasting your phone wondering where you are —- insecurity and slight control. Thirdly – THAT insecurity right there had a bit to do with his demeanor when you got back (I know you said the texts went back to normal, but Virgos overthink and hold onto shit) and the other half is because of his ex. Now, his friends saying he’s not the committed type might mean that he freaks himself out or he has issues, not you. The ex and him hanging out – even if it ended badly, Virgos need, like NEED, closure in every sense of the word. If they are not ready for closure, they will be optimistic and idealistic (and ignorant cuz of their own insecurities) and try and keep a bond going that needs to be released. I’d like to know how previous this ex was. That’s going to say something.
Virgos do like it if you go out of your way to show concern, if you ask for advice, etc. They need reassurance big time. So, that’s what I can tell you. Now, a lot of people can be cool with their exes, and some can’t. You just have to decipher how you feel about this and present your case.
Either we’re all dating the same man or all virgos really ARE alike lol! I’ve been in this on and off “thing” with a Virgo for like two years now, and here’s a simple breakdown of how it goes.
1. We have an amazing time together for about two weeks, three max.
2. About week three, and sometimes even the day after we’re intimate, he begins telling me he wants to date other people and I’m just a platonic relationship.
3. I take it, then I get angry…..thus I react.
4. We have a huge fight, and its always my fault.
This man is seriously confusing. We rekindled a few weeks ago and have been talking about what happens when we fight. He told me “we aren’t dating this time.” The funny thing is, i told him, that we haven’t officially dated since we met- which was two years ago. In his head I guess we were. He told me he would never marry me cuz of our fights and how he insists we don’t ever get along. I told him we need to start focusing on how much of a wonderful, beautiful time we do have together and communicate better to prevent the fights. He told me I have to let him date other women and not get so mad. I told him i didn’t really like it but I have no business being mad because I have also dated other men. Any suggestions for what in the crap this man’s deal is?
@Jackie….cut him loose. He straight up told you in his own words yet you continue to go back as an option just to ‘rinse and repeat’ the scenerio. Virgo’s seemingly like drama. Freedom. Unless or until they are ready for a more serious committment and even then..
I asked mine if he knew what it is to be truly happy and drama free. He said he did but I wonder because there is always something. He is committed to me and has talked marriage. I know going forward though that I have to be a strong person and fully committed in my own heart to him to make it work because its a roller coaster ride with him.