What to wear for a Virgo man
January 9, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Did Virgo create the uniform fetish?
Do you find it odd that, during Halloween, “sexy” costumes include Naughty Nurse and French Maid? Virgo rules these and other service professions, like flight attendant and repair-person.
And those women (and men) who exclaim, “I love a man in uniform”? Well, military personnel are also ruled by Virgo.
Many of us eroticize being “serviced,” so you can’t go wrong by donning one of these costumes in Virgo’s private quarters. Just make sure you’ve ironed out all the creases first!
And if you’re going on a date? If you’ve got a pet, buy a sticky-roller and remove all dander and fluff. It’s probably safe to button-up your blouse, at least to create the first impression that you’re prim and proper. (Virgo’s other side, as mentioned above, will come out behind closed doors.) If you’re a man (or boi) dating a Virgo, tuck in your shirt and don’t wear droopy socks.
Comment below: How do you dress for a Virgo?
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It’s a good idea to go easy on the makeup and perfume, keeping it light and clean, and they seem to prefer white lingerie (indicating purity perhaps?)
That’s a coincidence, last Halloween I went out with a Virgo and he specifically requested the French Maid costume, with crisp cotton white lacy undies to match! He also loves the scent of Chantilly, a very delicate light fragrance.
(I feel sexier in black silk and Opium, so we didn’t last long, besides he was too picky about his food)
I bet black silk and Opium would appeal more to a Scorpio.
My Virgo and I have text sex for hours…he is just getting to know me and I him (iam a leo) He wants to be kinky and voyeuristic in his texts he is wild but in person he is soooo shy!!! I felt like I was the one making all the moves when we finalloy met! I dont get him! He is too emotionally detached for me but yet his mind holds me in place. My ego says I should walk away while I still have some sanitly left! he is INDECISIVE about everything and aloof about his future and ME! I dont have the patience for his waiting game and the indecision aspect of it drives me insane! But still I think somewhere deep inside he DOES love and I him. And I know if we can work on our different personalities we will be happy together. He is sincere and a no nonsense guy, I like that about him and we are intelectual equals but the emotional part of the relatinship is strange!!! The SEX is GRRRREAT!!! Never had it better!!! A little puritan but we are working on that. lolss another reason why Iam sticking around!
If you want to blow your Virgo man’s mind, show up at his door naked. When you get to the door, ditch the clothes however you can, and knock. Make sure he’s home gals. After he lets you in, give him oral pleasure, clean him up – that part is very important. Take a warm cloth and clean him up. Then simply leave. Don’t talk – leave! Don’t call him either, like your lookin’ for a pat on the back, like “job well done.” Take your ego home with you and shove it in the closet for the night. The man won’t even be able to sleep. Of course, you can’t have preceded this whole thing by acting like a hoe, cause he’ll just think he was b_own by a hoe and never call. He’ll call his boys though! And tell them about the hoe he met. If you’ve been a lady up to this point, trust me, he WILL call you! Trust me! Oh, and when he calls, don’t be all gaagaa, just chill. Act like it never happened. When he makes reference to it, be cool, like, “oh, you liked it huh?” Then change the subject like it was nothin. But be careful, if you’ve displayed hoe signs prior to this whole thing, it will not work. PERIOD!
My Virgo uncle; he teaches me pimp game, he once told me about a gal named Cookie. He lives up north, my uncle, and I live down south. So one summer I went for a visit and my uncle picked me up from the Airport. We were on the highway after leaving the Airport and he was telling me about this chick named Cookie he met the other night. He says to me, “put it like this, if Cookie called me right now, I’d pull over, drop you and your luggage right here on the side of this highway and go straight to her.”
It seems, my uncle was with his boys’ at the club, and they were sittin’ at the bar. Well, Cookie, who he had never met up to this point, walks over, and nudges her way between my uncle’s bar stool and his boy’s bar stool. My uncle turns to her so that she is essentially between his legs. He didn’t mean to do that, but that’s how much room he had, and she was trying hard to get to him. Anyway, at some point Cookie is between his legs while he’s sitting at the bar, with his boys’ on either side of him who are also sittin’ at this bar. Well, Cookie unbuttons and unzips his pants and proceeds to give him “handy pleasure” right there at the bar. He does his thing in her hand, she grabs a napkin off the bar, wipes her hand, drops her number, she must have had it prewritten out because she didn’t write then, but she drops her number in front of him at the bar, and leaves. He said he couldn’t find her in the club all night after that. That’s strong. Just for the record, my uncle wouldn’t lie to me! I’m the only one he tells all this to because he is married and has been for years. He may tell his boys, but he don’t tell them everything I know.
Break this down, J: “if you’ve displayed hoe signs prior to this whole thing.” Testify.
It goes back to the old saying “be a freak in the bed and a lady in the streets.” I ain’t saying you can’t sleep with a man the first night you meet him, but you darn well better know how to balance that ever so sensitive scale between being conservative and and sexually sensual at the same time so that he is begging for more. In other words, leave him slightly hanging on that night so that he’ll call YOU the next day, and not necessarily for sex either. You have to make him want to know MORE about ALL of you. I have failed at this and I have succeeded at this. Ultimately though, it all goes back to what I said earlier about knowing yourself and your sexual prowesness because then you can go at it confidently and men – regardless of their sign – love a confident woman. Don’t confuse that with independence, or anything else for that matter. Strictly Confidence. When you’re confident, even your mistakes seem well planned. It’s like when you’re dancing, and you fall; only the good ones can play that off like they meant to “drop that booty”. Haaayyyyy! I hope that makes some sense. It does to me. I don’t believe I’ve ever shared this with anyone else, other than my uncle, of course. Unc!!!
You got a way with words, girl. Many thanks!
VIRGO MEN ARE EMOTIONALLY DETACHED BUT THEY WILL TRY.. I SAID TRY TO PLEASE YOU SEXUALLY , I AM SAGITTARIUS FOR SOME REASON I BEEN RUNNING INTO VIRGO MEN THIS MONTH CANT FIGURE IT OUT. I BEEN TALKING TO OVER 5 OR MORE VIRGO MEN.. AND DATED TWO.. BUT ONE OF MY FRIENDS HIS HOUSE IS EMACULATE. HES CLEAN THATS A PLUS..
THEY ARE KINKY IN THEIR LITTLE WAY. MORE CONSERVATIVE . YOU ASK ME.
For daytime my Virgo loves the whole Audrey Hepburn look…ballet flats, cigarette pants, neat dresses…clean, flawless and effortlessly sophisticated. At night he actually really likes downright naughty clothing…but he does not like black! I have a blue latex dress!
My Virgo and I have sex for hours. Sometimes we begin kissing and then two and a half hours later, it seems like it’s only been five. Then we want to go back to it. Luckily, we both know techniques to sort of pause so that we can keep him going.
Most times, I wear boy shorts, those are his absolute favorite. He loves a fit rear and bouncy well you get the idea. So a matching set of any pretty or sexy color, he likes bras and boy shorts that way he can see the tummy and the shorts seem as if they are supposed to cover yet do not so by accident he sees. Thats what I think. Many times he likes me to wear his clothes. He also likes when I wear athletic shorts (short and snug), with a tank top around the house. One thing I really appreciate is that he doesnt like when I’m all dolled up. For example, he prefers no make up! Even when I am pale! He likes my hair any way, its usually product free, but very long clean and smells good. On the topic of appearance, its important to maintain good hygeine as well. I never knew but I dont have feminen scent, which is a good thing to lack with a Virgo as he has commented on this before saying he likes that I dont have it. I have the priveledge of being a young housewife, which helps because with my schedule I tend to primp before he gets home to make sure he sees his wifey and cant control himself! <3 Gotta love that sexy Virgo meow.
omg Jerri! My husband also said he wants a lady on the street and freak in the bed. He is a Virgo, how interesting.
I strongly agree w/ PINKPANTHER and have been having basically the same relationship w/ a virgo man(Im a straight w. female by the way). It IS so
strange that virgo men are basically all the same, w/ same behaviors’n mentallities…wierd!! Be careful PINKPATHER (and others) because virgo man
gets highly upset if rushed to be in love/married. I found this out the hard way. I didn’t rush, as far as I thot, my virgo man. We had been together for over a yr. I knew d– well that he loved me…but he would never say it to me. It was really starting to piss me off bec. I was saying it to him/getting nothing back except that he would miss me(like if we didnt see eachother for a day or whatever). He has had flair ups at me and Ive
had my flair ups at him. Ive just learned to be PATIENT. Not just because I must but because that is what HE told me. When virgo man says to be patient…its like u have no choice…or u can leave him. I am like PINKPANTHER too. U just feel like u are stuck, living in LIMBO waiting for virgo to feel like he’s ready. Its heart-wrenching bec. u love him sooo much. Would love to hear from PINKPANTHER and correspond/compare/chit-chat……C.
i gotta say you hit the nail on the head pinkpanther! my virgo love is crazy about me, and i him, he always tells me he loves me and misses me. he is over all sweet… most of the time. on occasion he will have these “mood swings” for absolutely no reason, which i have to admit being a water sign, i do to sometimes. but its stressful when he get in these moods, he gets emotionally careless, sometimes even telling me to give him space when we arent really with eachother, he gets snappy and irritated. hes sensitive and also indecisice at times, but its definetly worth it the other 90% of the time. he is always doing sweet favors for me to show me he cares. virgos are also natural born worriers. we live far away from eachother and mostly have a long distance relationship, but he is always checking the news and weather online where i live to make sure i have my umbrella if its going to rain. he knows i am forgetful and he always has my back! its the sweet little things that keeps our relationship working. considering im a pisces, i adore the romance, and how eficient he is about displaying his feelings. there is never a dull moment with my virgo!
I am a VIRGO WOMAN and i am so crazy about this VIRGO MAN but he doesnt seem interested. I already slept with him which was prolly my 1st mistake. But we have had sex 2 times. He didnt cum the 2nd time after about an hour of doing it. He doesnt like me to call him everyday and keeps himself distant. I dont know but i really like him. Im trying to be patient with him but its so hard. He just is irristable to me. Virgo ppl are VERY critical and picky!! I know b/c i am one
WOW! K, the first 3 lines you said were EXACTLY what happened to me! I thought that maybe I had written that…
But, no, because my Virgo does contact me, and we are talking..
I have never dated a Virgo before. He does seem a little detached emotionally, but I am liking him-a lot, but I am wondering if he will want something serious with me even though we went to home base all in the first night..
Which never happens to me. I always take everything VERY slowly..
I am confused as to where this is heading.
im a leo girl.he is a Virgo man.im so confused wit him.he is so emotional .im always thinking its me making him so emotional.this is driving me nuts!!!he is a freak in tha bedroom but watch out if u make a certain face he might just stop and say why u looking like that.we get a long well.and he says he wants to be with me but tells me to be patient.and one time i jus got mad me being a leo and jus said forget this whole thing .and he like remember i told u to be patient.i told him u didnt tell me how long i need to be patient.but i cant get enough of him..he is so sweet and shyvery different
bare wit him gurl. you kno the way, follow the yeller briq road to piece and hermione.
My Virgo wants me to look like a lady. no revealing clothes…see thru and tight appearal are a “no-no”! so what can I wear that turns him on in a sexy, classy way?
When me&my virgo MAN met online, it was also just as errotic & personal as ever, we wrote/spoke off the wall too, a little crazy.
I truly believed that this man adored me. Very Soon after we met, like a month, we married. And again everything was even better than a storybook love affair!
But then (soon) I accidentally found out that he was having affairs.
Welp, that really clambed me up! Sure, I didn’t want to let him go, but I was more hurt than any other pain I ever experienced in life!
Its been 7 years.
Well, hes admitted to cheating, and says that this will AlWays happen. But he wants to be with me. (???????????????)
Is it because I have this fetish that everything has to be clean and finished and completed properly and I’m always walking behind him to pick-up every crumb and shut off every light, and…
But he wants to ALWAYS cheat on me??????????????????????????
I’m a Capricorn. My heart was chopped the first moment I learned of this “habit”. I’m still here because of finances; and yeah, its that “dream” thing that I have always wanted. But the love&truth is wearing THIN!
Does anyone have comments??????????????
Jerri
you,re a real perv.
Capri,
I can’t believe you married him after a month. How can you know enough about anyone in such a short span of time? I don’t mean to be rude but it just kills me when ladies are duped by their emotions and fling head first into something based on a straight feeling.
Ditch the dude, its not worth your time. When the habit is smoking, couples have broken up. How can you expect to stay together when he’s cheating on you. At one point you’ll resent him so much… it just seems like a disaster. Sorry, it’s just what I see.
This has nothing to do with star signs. That’s just f**ked up!
Capri
Only death seperated them.
I agree with Jason Chewbacca about the cheating, however, I can see how fast people can marry, my parents married after a month and they were together 40 years
Yo!
OK, what to wear? Wear layers that fit your body well. You have to understand that Virgo’s have two sides… we are very proper and classy on the outside but inside we get wild.
This is part of the psychology behind the tasteful clothes that fit your body well. We want you to cover yourself up (like a lady… no excessive cleavage.. or skirts too short) but we want to know that underneath it is something we’d like to uncover.
I believe most all men won’t be completely opposed to short skirts and low cut shirts (we have a penis, it’s in our nature… get mad at God.. not us) but in our potential partner, we abhor such tastelessness. If you can’t stand being a total “prude” Wear a shirt that covers the cleavage but does show that you have a nice upper body. With skirts.. wear them so that they fall right around the knees (give or take a couple inches).
Also, though this isn’t clothing… wear a nice smile.. a very genuine and subtle demeanor and you’ll surely catch the interest of a virgo. I HATE girls who are overly flamboyant… though a part of me thinks… she’s kinda hot and I might like to sleep with her, I would never in any shape or form consider her as more than just that.
Don’t overdo it on the make-up… lots of eyeliner looks hot but a Virgo wants a lady that looks just as beautiful in the morning as they are the night before. At least to me, excessive make-up, push-up bras, fake tanner… all that stuff is just a misrepresentation of what a girl really is. We want to love you in your most natural state.
Keep the kinky dress and all that to the bedroom. We want to know that you CAN be sexy like that.. in private.. only for us.
Oh right… we aren’t opposed to any girl who has a little more chub… but NEVER wear clothes that are too tight for your figure. I’ve seen even thinner girls do this and it makes them look so awful. I actually don’t think this is a Virgo thing but something that looks gross to everyone.
pinkpanther and Christal Bailey OMG! It sounds like we are all dating the exact same guy lol! My virgo boyfriend is the exact same way! Just be patient is his favorite saying with every situation. It is so obvious he loves me and he even brought it up first asking me if I loved him and when I said yes he never told back and I nagged him about it and he said I never gave him a reason not to love me and I am so great so why wouldnt he love me but he just couldnt say the words and once again he said “be patient”. He is very neat and wants everything super clean. as far as dressing for him, I have to be very conservative. NO CLEAVAGE ever lol! one time we went out to eat and my shirt had a small slit in it and he demanded that I changed! He definately wants a freak in bed but never say or do anything unlady-like in public..including cursing. as far him being emotionally detached and not expressing his love, I just dont take it personally and assume that it is a virgo thing because I have never had a man that treats me the way he does. I am very lucky to have him
Oh yea and no tight clothes or whore like clothes
Virgo men..I think loves beautiful ladies with brain.
Yes, they loves naturally lady. I guess they loves mysterious woman. hahaha. i don’t know but this is how my virgo men attracted to me while I was sitting in the couch at the emabassy and he was a translator. He gave his number thru his friend to deliver it to me. They love sex and likes clean, flawless ladies.
tease him that you don’t wear any… he loves it. hahaha
hi all im new to this. but i would like to comment. i just met a virgo man im a scorpio. we seem to have chemistry. but he only call me when he wants to have sex no mayb he will say something like goodnight or good mrn have a good day. other thab that we dont talk. i want to bail out b/c i dnt understand him sometimes he act like he like me then nothing. w dnt go out he only comes to my hiuse once a week. please help me should i leave this alone we’ve being having sex for a month.
Hyshawn.
I guess it’s up to you how you let him into you. If it is all about sex then that’s it! No commitment. However, if you want him to commit then you’d better find a solution what to do. It’s plain and simple. Men loves sex but not committed. it is our loss if we want them to commit when they’re not.If you are just playing games then you have to deal with him in your own game!If you are serious then you have a wrong track to make a man commit to you. Respect comes first within..not from others. I hope it helps. it’s just sound brutal but honestly speaking we aren’t just innocent.
to hyshawn…not saying he isnt into u but a man will do whatever he can get away with! So u have to set standards. let him know how u feel and lay the rules out! if he disappears then that means he think u were worth the work and u are better off without him! If he cares about u or want to keep u in his life he will try to do better! Looking for any amount of change even if it is something small because u cant expect a complete change and romeo to pop out! Good luck!
hyshawn
typing 2 fast and noticed i typed wrong! meant to say if he disappears then that means he didnt think u were worth the work and u are better off without him