What makes an Aries woman nervous around a man?
If an Aries woman senses that a man will get in the way of her independence, or try to stifle her will in any way, she will feel like a caged animal. When you box in a mammal whose nature it is to thrust ahead, you elicit anger. When she realizes that she has no power to transcend this imposed limit, she feels anxious. Keep her locked in long enough, and she gets depressed.
This is no way to treat an Aries, man! If an Aries woman gets antsy around you, it’s a sign that you need to back off, give her some space. You cannot control the burst of new life that is Spring, so what makes you think you can control an Aries woman? It’s like trying to prevent a bud from blooming. The force of nature cannot be contained.
Comment below: Are you an Aries woman? What makes you nervous?
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Failure. This applies to all areas of my life.
Anonymous,
I am not sure what you mean. Would you care to clarify?
As an Aries Sun and Mercury…it does make me nervous if someone is machismo or tries to push me around. Sure, I have a lot of Pisces and some Sag, which makes me more flexible, but that Aries can really rear its head if pushed. No one messes with HULK HANNAH! I don’t like to be dominated (except occasionally in appropriate circumstances). I was telling someone just recently that I could NEVER ever marry another Aries because it would just be too much of a power struggle. OYE….
Omg. yes. I am all about that antsy-ness I wasnt even sure where it was coming from until now. I’m aries sun, mars and venus. mercury and rising pisces.. taurus moon.
A guy that cannot handle me ohhh actually the worst is when reality does not hold to your expectations–that’s the worst!
This is only true if you are already in an established relationship with an aries. I am an aries woman and what makes me act wierd or nervous around others exspecially men; are those few and far between people that intemidate me. This is not something that usually happens to me as an aries, but it totally trows me off and i act like a completely different person. If you find this is the case with the aries you know… ( you’ll notice that they are different around you then others..ie.. seem more relaxed and talkative ) then I suggest that you try making them feel more comfortable by giving up personal infomation on yourself.. like funny stories or embarissing moments,, this always breaks the ice and making an aries laugh is a sure bet!
In relationships especially, men I perceive to be spineless and lacking in emotional strength seem to make me angry, whereas men who are possessive and bossy are the ones who make me truly nervous.
I was just reading what Anonymous wrote. I’m a female Aries, I can totally relate! I’m courageous in most things and with most people, but I tend to worry a lot when it comes to personal failures…I’m studying at the moment, and my career will involve a lot of practical skill. I often worry that I won’t be able to achieve all that I need to. In the end, everything’s fine and my friends say I worry too much.
And something else. I wonder if other Aries feel this way – I often assume, perhaps naively that other people will treat me with the same integrity that I treat them with.
And there is nothing more I like than shaking someone’s hand when I first meet them – I reckon it’s a good way to suss a person out. Maybe that’s just something they told us at high school – to always give a firm handshake.
I’m an aries woman and what makes me nervous around a man is when they are too mysterious, when they can see through every front of mine, have unbearible control over my emotions. And the fact that they could possibly destruct my independence…
best stay away from the Scorpios then
Question for Anon. #1,
Do those include the failings of your partner?
Question for Hannah,
If you are accustomed to pushing, and under most circumstances, you push, then why can’t you handle push back?
Question for Anon. #3?
Why have expectations?
“I do my thing and you do yours. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, and you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, then it is beautiful. If not, it can’t be helped.”, Gestalt prayer – Fritz Perls
Question for fireball,
Are you intimidated by figures of authority, or are you ill equipped to compete (intellectually, socially, etc.) with such men?
Question for cait,
What do you define as “lacking emotional strength?”
Conventional perception would indicate that an Arien seeks a man who is stoic, or impassive, and does not indulge in public displays.
Emotional strength to others may mean uninhibited reaction, or allowing the self to be naked to the world (no matter the cost)
Question for Ant,
Where is it prescribed that we must achieve all that we need?
“By seeing the seed of failure in every success, we remain humble. By seeing the seed of success in every failure we remain hopeful.” -
Author Unknown
A few questions for bree,
Hmmm… Doesn’t an enigmatic man fuel the Ramette’s curiosity?
Aries projects a facade?
Isn’t the man who wins an Arien’s heart intuitive to her deep-seated wants while not being invasive?
Emotions by definition cannot be controlled, maybe supressed… are you referring to manipulation?
How can another person destroy your independence?… you can chose to relinquish it… there’s a difference
I would argue Aries becomes nervous when you angle them to be introspective… the sheen on their golden fleece doesn’t glow as bright…
Lacking in emotional stregnth, for me, is a man who needs constant babying (reassurance) from me that he’s attractive, good, successful, etc. If he can’t handle my success and/or is threatened by me in any other way, that would count too. You might be surprised how few men have evolved to a place where they can truly love a strong woman!
Regarding emotional strength:
Strength can be a clever facade for frailty. A tin armour to cover the soft flesh underneath. Appearances are deceiving.
The strongest women are often the most vulnerable, and the ones who appear vulnerable are the strongest. Vulnerability can be a clever facade for strength.
Marilyn Monroe emitted an aura of innocent vulnerability. Yet in her natal chart, Mars conjunct Uranus in the 8th betrays a potently aggressive/independent sexuality, in a Grand Trine with her North Node and Saturn planet of discipline and restraint in Scorpio.
She knew exactly what she was doing in terms of using that certain sex appeal to get what she wanted. She was a very strong woman, and smart (Sun conjunct Mercury).
Her excellent acting skills in portraying the stereotypical dumb blonde fooled America into thinking she was that way in real life. That’s how good of an actress she was. Neptune in Leo in the 1st house, all the way.
Norma Jeane Mortenson was a rather plain brunette, nondescript girl in her youth, but she did what it took to gain the $$$ and fame she worked so hard for.
“Her sex appeal, talent and untimely death combined to make her an enduring star and one of Hollywood’s most recognizable icons. Her va-va-voom beauty made her an international celebrity, and she won acclaim as a talented actress in the films Bus Stop (1956) and Some Like It Hot (1959, with Jack Lemmon). Her personal life was famously untidy; her husbands included baseball star Joe DiMaggio (1954) and playwright Arthur Miller (1956-61). Her last film was Miller’s drama The Misfits (1961, co-starring Clark Gable). She was found dead in 1962 of an overdose of sleeping pills, an apparent suicide.”
Notice the above citation uses the word “apparent.”
It is now believed that Marilyn knew too much concerning the Kennedy administration and related taboo connections. She had to be deleted.
I did her chart myself, in case anyone thinks I borrowed the material. The quote is from
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/natal-charts/marilyn-monroe.php
The rest pops out of her chart when I glance at it, because I have always been curious at the stigma attached to that name, Marilyn Monroe, the ethereal Gemini. Curiosity breeds interest, interest breeds passion, passion breeds obsession. I have an obsessive mind. It needs constant material to keep it stimulated. An idle mind is the devil’s playground, my father always says.
“What makes an Aries woman nervous around a man?”
My sister is a 1976 Aries Fire Dragon. A burst of energy and light, a perky crocus popping out of the winter ground the moment the spring snow melts. She gets nervous when she has to do anything according to plan which isn’t spontaneous. Daytimers and appointment books aren’t in her vocabulary. When she wants something, it’s now or never, hop-to-it or Hopalong Cassidy!
She is a very pretty girl so she’s had a succession of boyfriends due to impatience and lack of foresight. What makes her nervous? Having to promise a man something. Promises are uttered in a moment of passion and made to be broken!
She’s now in her 30’s and still unmarried, and likes it that way. A few of these boyfriends have been naive enough to try getting a ring on her finger. That, makes her very nervous indeed.
what makes me nervous?? oh wow hmmm, giving up the control I have to someone whos not in control of themselves. That scares me to no end..
hi, i am an aries woman. People tell em that i am very hard to read, and that i am love sick. i guess what makes me nervous around a man is the sencse of dishonesty. i live in a city where there are 17 men to 4 women. all the people here are here for work and to make money and party..i have met many men in my life(which has barly started yet) and the thing that makes me nervous around a man is tryign to figure him out . i met this one guy that i couldnt figure out no matter how much a i talked to him or hung around him. he alwaya had something about him that was very mysterious. its hard for you to trust peopel in this city..and im sure pretty much everywhere else but i guess it depends where you have grown up and where u have been and experienced. all i want is to find my soulmate and i have been searching since boys had cooties.:) i went out with a sag, and it was susposed ot be my perfect match and we got along very well at the beginning . but near the end of it i had lost 15 pounds very rapidly and i about 5′1 so you could really see it on me , and i had stressed my self out to the point that i didnt even no who i was anymore. i had lost all sight of what i valued and wanted out of life because i had put my all and more into this relationship that seemed to be fading away. but by the end of it we were far beyong calling eachother names and getting into heated argument. we were totally fed up that the way he looked at me had changed in EVERY way . he looked at me with disgust and treated me bad, i am sure i added fuel to the fire but after a trip out of town with him i knew it was over. there was nothign there but resentment. i had spent 2 and a half years with him and it felt like i couldnt just let him go.BUT, then i met the most amazing man of my life..which he is gemini and we went out with friends and i hadent called him back because i had never really thought about it i was still thinking about the sagg, still wondering if there was a way i could make it work . but then he called me and we decided to go out with friends again and we hit off right away..haha i think my pickup line was how could someone so hot as yourself be single.(which was prob because he had just moved here ) and after that it waas like i was a little girl again..he always winked at me and gace me that big gemini grin and that intence stare of his . well we were dating for about a month or so and he had to move back home manitoba and had asked me to go with him . i was kinda weary about going because i hadent known him for very long ..after about 2 weeks of askign practically everyone i knew for advice about leaving with him i had come to the conclusion that i should stay here and see how things go ..well i thought it was over i thought i would never see him again he left and i was distraught for a couple days at work i was sad and couldnt stop thinking about him the radio seemed to play sad songs ALL the time which didnt help at ALL !!lol but we started talkign over the phone and he asked me if i was still comming down!? i was extacic!!!! i was so excited i took full oppurtunity this is my second chance and im gonna take it and make the BEST out of it .me being an aries i didnt even have to think about this one . so i am leaving on the 7th of june on bus and it will take me a day to get there ..i cannot wait to see him i still talk to him everyday and i love him so much and he says he loves me so we will see how things go ..he told me he could see him spending the rest of his life with me and it makes me so happy ..i have a month left not even till i leave and go see my baby, so wish me luck !!!!!!!! one day i promise you we will get married and have a bunch of little gorgeous babies. o and by the way the cutestest part of us is that i am almost 5′1 and he is 6′2!!! i love having to stand on my tippie toes to kiss him . but yeah wish me luck i cant wait to go !!!!!!!!
E,
I totally agree. Aries sun and virgo asc. In a lot of respects my ascendent calms me down and makes me choose a more mental route. But anytime I’m nervous around someone its usually because of the vibe I recieve from them. Especially if I dont know how to approach them. Other than that I’m never nervous. Most of the time I can read u and who u are before u say a word to me. The only exceptions are Aquarius’ I cant pin them down mentally for anything. They make me nervous for that reason only. Can anyone relate?
im as aries as it gets. What makes me nervous? a confident successful good looking man. im used to having the power. so when a man impresses me with having the whole package it makes me feel like i should be more accomplished because there is nothing a man can do that an aries woman cant. Its my competitive nature. Men are usually impressed with my intellect, wit, and dynamic personality. I always feel superior. so when a man is accomplished and has everything i look for i lose that power. and aries biggest fear is losing their power and control! other than men though, what makes me nervous is my life/ finances not progressing. so basically the same thing- not being as accomplished as others. constantly trying and not getting anywhere really gets me depressed. fire signs are about power- the need for respect and recognition. you gotta earn it and if u cant ur no longer fire. ur a candle wick burning out. funny thing is we keep trying unlike a scorpio who just slits their wrists lol
also when i meet a guy for the first time and hes fallin for me quick of course cuz of my aries charm, and hes taking my phone to see who im texting…. or looking at my myspace(.com/jess0411) inbox, or asking why im talking to another guy……… HUGE TURN OFF! IT CREEPS ME OUT> im like, dude i just effin met u! and even if u were my man i’d still do whatever the eff i want! To me trust is important. if people cant sense that im genuine and trustable then i cant deal with them. u gotta let me be and trust cuz controlling me and snooping will make me very spiteful. and as the tattoo on my arm says, “hell hath no fury like a CLEVER woman scorned” lol. Aries are intelligent AND creative….we stratagize. dont mess with that!
I’m not sure this is true. I’m an aries and a very strong man turns me on! I like men who don’t let me run over them…
The one thing that makes me nervous is a man I can’t figure out. Like I have a serious crush on another aries and he has my tongue hanging out! I don’t know which way this man is going to go! He really has me on my toes. His mysterious-ness makes me feel self concious kind of…I don’t know its crazy.
Commitment makes me terrible nervous…….
Nervous? Hmmm or do you mean irritated? If you do, well then what irritates me as an Aries woman is someone who tries to control me and tell me what to do. Also, I also absolutely hate when male or female call me honey, sweety, or babe. Also, if someone can’t keep up with my energy, I hate it when they try to make me feel bad for it- just staunches my fire. This is usually the case with water signs.
I AM AN ARIES WOMAN AND I WILL TELL YOU WHAT MAKES ME NERVOUS AROUND A MAN IS IF HE IS BORING
I’m a Aries woman and what makes me nervous is a man that’s stronger than me. Because I like being in control and if I run into a man that I can’t control that makes me nervous.
Tiffany…I though it was just me….I totally agree with you I HATE to b called Sweety and honey Ughhh! I just find it so condescending and i let everyone i meet kno this is me and I can not be controlled!
I’m an Aries sun and moon and, along with the other women on this thread who have commented, strong men make me nervous. What I think it really boils down to is anyone who might think they’re better than me makes me nervous. Strong men probably make me nervous because I’m scared they think they can do better. Also, people who see my flaws and hold them against me make me nervous.
I’m in love with this Aries girl. I’m a Scorpio Guy. I like this Aries girl she looks like a very kid to me. Innocence is something that I love most. And every time, we argue and get separated, she impresses me back with her innocence, and I really can’t leave this sweet little doll. She got married to a guy recently(a Libran), but seems to have a very little heart for him. We both spend most of the time at work together, and her big problem is that she flirts very badly. Recently she started flirting and more even, intimating with an Aquarius. I got high, and caged her as you said. But she does all the little sign language with him, which I notice, but cant speak about them to her. Not sure what to do now, Can somebody help me?
For Tempo.I am an aries woman and one thing that I know you can do to get her is ignore her. It sounds crazy but don’t pay any attention to what she is doing. Us aries tend to be very flirtatious. You could also flirt with another worker because aries are very jealous, and I know for a fact this would make her angry. She will come back to flirting with you, but when she does ignore her entices. By ignoring her you will make her want you even more because most aries women find it challenging that a man would not be interested in them. Aries women love a challenge. Also wear something red it screams look at me, and will have her eyes stuck on you. Let me know how it goes.
@Ram… it works.. But still need to see, how long it stays…, thanks for the suggestion
me <- aries sun, virgo moon, pisces venus, gemini mars.
what makes me nervous in life? plans and deadlines, because i will inevitably deviate from them. sometimes out of forgetfulness, inability to budget time/money, or just plain stuborness.
what makes me nervous about a mate? quick emotional attachment. we aries love passionately and deeply. and although i am quick to rush into something physical or lightly flirtatious, the emotional side takes longer to develop. for this reason, scorpios scare me.
as for the comments from other aries disliking strong mates, its not the same for me. ego and bravado are very appealing to me. but like hannah, i hate to be told what to do everywhere except for one place.
I am an Aries female, and rarely do I ever get nervous around anybody, specially any men. There has been a few very specific times that I have been nervous around a man. Twice to be truthful and I felt that both these men would’take’ something form me. They were both equally nice and friendly, attractive and were both casually chasing me.. Nothing ever became of either relationship, but I could hardly talk around them, which was strange for me, and I was very attractive to them both, I just had a feeling deep in the pit of me, that they would take something form me and was very vulnrable to them.. strange.. for an aries girl..
I like a man whos in control.. that is sexy to me. But I’d want such a man to control ME!
*** would not
- I typed to fast.. see?!
i am an aries women in a relationship with an aries man,i never thought the relationship will work and i thought we will end up fighting and beating each other up, but honestly, this is the most beautiful relationship i have ever had, he is so understanding and almost an angel in the way the treats me,talks, everything..i think aries man and aries women have a way together and all that power struggle thing is not true..we understood each other so well and fight the longer 5 minutes and make love all day long..
wow, aries woman, aries woman. what can i say. im always impressed w/ aries woman……… from a far.
Quite men, men that are too nice that it makes you sick. Give me a man not “girly-man”. Men that lack respect make me nervous and mad, so if you come at us with some come on that is not respectful we will tell you where to shove it. Also men that say one thing then a week later change their mind, makes me ansty and i want to run far far away, but we cant if we really care(it sux, aries are born romantics). We are always hopeful. Don’t step into the flames if you are afraid of the fire!
when people try to control me, it doesn’t make me nervous it just really pisses me off. I do, however, feel rather anxious when i’m not in control of something at least 80%
I am a aries, with a libra moon, pisces venus and capricorn mars….I have had bad experiences with a Virgo, Pisces I love them and well I’ve never really had a relationship with a Scorpio, but I have met two people in my life – one a Scorpio and one with a Scorpio moon, I fall in love & they do to but there are always physical situations beyond our control that makes it easy to begin…early this year I went somewhere & the person who is a Leo/Scorpio moon moved around me in the room, we didn’t look at each other but we knew each other was there.
Months later we came into contact again for some work….it was there birthday to, I took the opportunity to find out that this person’s pluto trined my mars and my Jupiter trined this person’s Venus…it is dangerous the positions we are both in…so we don’t take it far and we just carry on with our working relationship…but it is becoming difficult the more we talk the harder the temptation to control..
This person shows a depth of emotion and understanding that is hard for me to ignore..it wouldn’t matter if I failed at anything, this person seems to be there when things haven’t gone well, and doesn’t leave, they are encouraging in their words,they don’t give up, I am like this to…I feel nervous around this man…..
I don’t want anything bad to happen to him, I don’t want him to struggle through a situation that could occur if we decided to start a relationship…so I don’t move beyond what we have, this is probably the venus in pisces in me & because I love this person.
I was married for 15 years to a Scorpio man who tried to control me.. I emotionally shut down and rebelled every chance I got, I also became very depressed and tried to kill myself. It’s been 10 years now and I love doing whatever the hell I want and while I have dated I haven’t let anyone in. I recently met a man (a scorpio.. I know!) and I instantly had very intense feelings for him. I want him so bad I can think of nothing else.. it’s freaking me out!
A man we think might be deceitful. We have no time or patience for half-truths; lies. Ect. A jealous, extremely possessive guy will get on our nerves too. We’re not unfaithful,sir. Please calm the h*ll down. A man with no backbone is the absolute worst. We don’t want to be tougher then our mates. XD
A married cancer man! I just can’t believe it! I’m in my mid 30’s, and I’ve always said that I would never flirt, date or so much look at a married man, it’s always been a turn-off anyway and I believe in KARMA. And then…. he was introduced to me a few months ago…I was not attracted to him because I knew he was married. But… he always goes out of his ways to make sure everything suits my needs and that I’m content. While all the guys are flirting with me, he’s always in the shadows. Now he wants us to be business partners, he’s charming, caring, generous, has a great sense of humor, not shy at all for a cancer! He does not get intimidated by me which I love…he’s very confident, communication just flows…Jesus! I think he’s an Aries in a Cancer body. We also treat each other with respect, he’s just perfect! . And then boom!FEELINGSSS! they just sneaked up on us. We haven’t slept together…but we both are very well aware … He makes me nervous because I feel like I’m losing control which I hate and I’m falling for him which I don’t want to. It is an internal fight. He calls me every morning to say good morning and every night to say goodnight, he texts me every time we’re not around each each other. If he does not hear from me for a period of time he texts “i miss you, call me”. I actually feel like I have a boyfriend, LOL, he makes me happy. He said he wished that he has met me sooner. We don’t want to mess up our business relationship, but we also know that if we end up sleeping together it’s not going to be a one time thing, not with the way we feel for each other. We’re falling fast. And as an Aries woman, the warrior sign, I love the challenge. I’m still fighting with myself, but also nervous, because this is one fight that I know for sure that I’m going to lose and enjoy the hell out of it!
I hate feeling controlled, it doesn’t make me “nervous”, it just pisses me off and makes me rebellious. Whatever a controlling man wants me to do…I’m doing the opposite.
When a man makes me feel “nervous” I think of it as being an indication that I really like him and I just don’t quite know how to handle it. I have a guy in my life now who makes me nervous, like a school girl. I jump sometimes when he touches me, he makes me blush. It’s bizarre because I haven’t felt like this in a LONG time. It is a nice feeling.
FAILURE- yes, v cnt stand dat.
over expectations, responsibilities(unless if v like, v can undertake dem)……dark phases of life and gloomy moments.
v cnt resist people insisting, scared of getting betrayed, cheating, hypocratic partner is our biggest turn off
well aries girl can b anyones dream…my man says dat im innocent but i argue a lot. he likes 2 mke me shut by smooching n lifting my mini up. i really hate it, dat makes me feel as a poor little doll for him. i feel so low when he becomes sexually agressive and start treating me like a baby. he uses all those words to turn me on..like “my busty needs a chocolate nw, wanna eat banana, horny wants a creamy melon massage” kinda stuff. dis makes me lost!!!!
and when he ties me up….oh God…i just feel like damshell in distress
I hate being controlled by anyone (female/male). I have had similar experience as AlwaysAries but I was married to a Taurus. He always put the blame back on me, try to manipulate me and tell me how I was feeling. This too depressed me to the point I wanted to harm myself. I am getting out now and feel so much better, but have a fear of finding someone else who wants to control me. I think men are afraid of me because I am very outgoing and energenic. I want it all and if I cant I go nuts.
what makes me nervous, is lack of confidence! some one who constantly thanks you, for the littest things, and if i feel like i truely do like the person right off the bat, i most definetly get nervous.