Comments on: Things not to do to the Capricorn man

By: blakgoat

blakgoat — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 04:08:30 +0000

@scorpiogirl
i think he's still feelin u. usually for a capricorn man we dont look back on relationships. once we let it go, that its. so if he's still contacting u then……
it was more than just love and sex.
it was love, sex and "magic"(capricorn man mojo). seemed like you'll had a spiritual connection as well.

By: blakgoat

blakgoat — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:04:02 +0000

@scorpiogirl
im pretty sure there is more to this story than what u wrote, but it sounds like something scared him from u. that's odd to me because i usually feel comfortable around scorpio women. people are usually intimidated by my demeanor. but scorpio women accept me for who i am. very understanding, very loving and sexual the same time.
may i ask what the fight was about?

By: ScorpioGirl

ScorpioGirl — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 20:09:31 +0000

cont. to S Dot: My bday is in 2 days & he of course told me like 2 month & 1/2 ago he wants to take me out on it etc. I haven't heard from him in weeks & I'm not calling him & if he calls me on my bday not answering. I'm just to the point after all his hurtful crap after it was over that I just don't have any feeling left about it. I hope your relationship is the one for you & goes better. But just remember to always do your own thing & focus on yourself too, don't make him or anyone your whole life because if it doesn't work out it is a lot harder to get over.

By: ScorpioGirl

ScorpioGirl — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 20:09:08 +0000

cont. to S dot: Well basically, we got in one emotional fight & we never fought before. It wasn't that big of a deal at all & then that what is it. He was gone. For a month after the fight, he would call/not call/say I want to see you/then flake until one day he never called again. He would never talk to me about the relationship, avoid it any cost. I have had no closure. He use to communicate well w/ me when we were together, now won't at all. A year & 1/2 later, we may correspond every couple months in which he always asks me to dinner & then flakes. I finally a couple of weeks ago woke up & don't care anymore about the situation or him and now I don't even want to see him or need to or going to pick up my phone or answers his texts ever again.

By: ScorpioGirl

ScorpioGirl — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 20:08:04 +0000

S dot just be careful, because my ex Cap & I also decided after 3 months that we were soulmates & wanted to get married in a couple years. We had our kids names picked out. Usually, I don't believe a guy if he starts telling me he loves me so soon but I thought well we are in our 30's now & we must just know and we get along better than anyone I ever knew or any relationship I ever had. So I thought this was it, this was the guy I was waiting for. It was all him who came to this conclusion about us first and then I reciprocated. We had the best relationship never fought, always laughed everyday and always had fun. We were together everyday and neither of us could stand to be with someone everyday usually that we dated. It was like a dream. He would tell me everyday I thank God for sending you to me, etc., etc.

By: blakgoat

blakgoat — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 02:26:24 +0000

you could teach him a lot as an aquarin. thats what attracted me to my Sag wife . she showed new things, how to have fun, “loosen up”
people would say you’ll are so different. we’ve had our ups and downs , but in a weird crazy way we grew even after breaks up, arguments, infidelity.
life is crazy like that sometimes, you never know.
only thing i can is its about time. capricorns get better with time.

By: AquarianNeedsHelpInLove

AquarianNeedsHelpInLove — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 08:07:54 +0000

Thank you Blakgoat for your advice! It’s really appreciated! I’m glad to hear that ambitious women appeal, because I’d read in other places that they generally preffered more traditional types of relationships. His seriousness is nice, but I really hope he’s as weird and awesome as he sounds too. I would hope he would be the type to join me in my crazy ideas and fun adventures, not dismiss them as being like too frivolous or whatever. xD I got the impression from reading about Capricorn that they are real practical people.

lol yeah, it’s real clear that he’s all about work right now. Trying to become a better writer! I like to cheer him on. I think he sort of appreciates it, as I can tell he isn’t used to recieving praise much.

I wonder how long it will take before we actually become friends. I notice it’s a tough shell to crack, with these Capriocorns. Especially over the internet, too. lol! I haven’t been too forward- haven’t gone to lengths such as email, or forcing contact. I suppose I hope he’ll make the decision to begin a friendship. Right now I am just demonstrating that I am dependable, friendly and interested in his work.

Here’s hoping he’ll open up! Eventually!

By: blakgoat

blakgoat — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 18:16:47 +0000

hey aquarian, im a capricorn man. it sounds like everything you wrote to me is pretty much on point. dont buy into that hype we dont like independent women. we like ambitious women who we can build with. dont be afraid of the “bizarre” those are just our deep hidden passions.
if he’s 23 most likely he’s all about his work until he can get to some point later in life when he can relax and let go. But all this hard work makes us horny so dont be suprised if he wants to freak u ’til the morning light with no strings attached.

dont smother him , its a turn off for us.

By: AquarianNeedsHelpInLove

AquarianNeedsHelpInLove — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 14:15:30 +0000

Hey, uh… if anybody has any advice here, it would be of great help. I seem to have fallen for a Capricorn guy… over the internet. Which makes it especially hard to try and well “seduce”… sort of.

He’s a typical Capricorn, who wants to be a writer. I love all his stories- that’s how I learned about him, like five or six years ago, and I am genuinely a HUGE fan of his work. He’s got a great sense of humor (HILARIOUS I laugh so hard I cry), the only thing is that he’s pretty hard on himself. Critical, that is. Recently, prior to developing this crush, I decided to let him know that I was a big fan (yes, all those years later) and really pulled for him to someday get things published. Surprisingly, he responded, and added me as a watch (this is on DA). When I post new things, sometimes he’ll write a comment. One time we got into a debate. I know he is keeping an eye on me, as I am on him.

Anyhow, I ask if my approach is a good one for dealing with a Capricorn. My plan is to carry on with my life and fulfill my goals (which also happens to be getting my works published) then propose to do a joint project in a few years time. Then, I would assume we’d gradually get to know each other and eventually meet if it was to discuss business.

Is this something that generally appeals to Capricorn? Would sending a random email being honest about these RANDOM, UNHEARD OF feelings just scare him away? (er, especially being that he doesn’t know me too well… xD)

Another thing: I am worried that, having read about Capricorn guys, they generally don’t fair too well with Aquarius given the serious practical nature. This guy SEEMS to like the bizarre, but is that just a facade? He can be awfully serious sounding too. Also, I’ve read they don’t like independent women much. And I am highly independent. He probably suspects that.

I need to know what the signs are that Capricorns are interested. I feel like I am feeling my way around this situation with intuition- which is all nice, but I hope it isn’t a dellusion. xD

It would be helpful to hear from a Capricorn, what they would think of this. If any have warnings about what else not to do, I’d like to hear. Or if there are ideas that would appeal, I would also like to know. I’m an aquarian, and it’s true, I’m pretty cool and detached about love- and I only pursue a relationship if I see it as an ideal. I’m really picky, especially since I like having my own space, and someone who would be about sharing ideas with and working towards a goal. I like the ambition of Capricorn. I can relate, because my projects come before love too. I wonder if there is something else in the Capricorn mindset I need to be aware of, though.

The other thing is that I am completely unconventional… xD Is it THAT big of a turnoff to the Capricorn male? lol, just wondering.

That said, any help or advice would be wonderful. I know it’s a weird situation, being that it’s like a stranger over the internet, but I can’t really control how or why I fell for him. xD It just happened. My chances are slim, but I’m going to go for it- Does anyone out there have any advice to offer? Any insight?

Oh yes, if it helps, I think he’s 23 or so, and I am 20.

By: Libra30

Libra30 — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 03:05:44 +0000

Cappie came back sweet as pie (called), then the next day he actually saw me on my way home. Wierd for some reason he passed me by on his motercycle, I think he freak out, he thinks I didn’t see him but I did, I called him once I reached home, he was SO sweet he tells me he is in the area… cappies can be so wierd, now he disappeared once again, maybe he’ll call tomorrow…who knows LOL strangest guy ever…but I am still VERY intrigued…