Capricorn has worked hard to achieve his level of status and respectability, so the last thing you should do is sully his reputation.
- Don’t do the slutty, trashy bit on the town with him — he will not want to be seen with you again.
- Don’t tell embarrassing stories about him at business functions.
Avoid pushing him to be more “expressive.” Good luck!
Don’t incessantly press him to spend more time at home. Of course, he should! But work is where he feels at home, and he may stay longer at the office if he feels that his domestic life is emotionally messy.
Comment below: What have you regretted doing to a Capricorn man?
About Jeffrey Kishner
I’ve recently started seeing a Capricorn guy studying at a uni half an hour away from my own.
We had one date and I spent the night in his uni room afterwards and I have to say, it was a really sweet night. We got coffee in the day, walked around the town, had lunch, cooked dinner for us both but deliberatley did it vegetarian just for me and we snuggled and watched a film.
He told me that he liked me and he’s asking when we can meet up again.
He was SO emotionally expressive, he cuddled and kissed and hugged all night long and all day with lots of hand-holding, I was beyond impressed!
No guy has ever cuddled me as much as I’d like to be but he certainly did!
So I don’t need to force him to be emotionally expressive, BUT …. what can I do to make him want me even more?
Like I’m not gonna change myself in any way, but should I play a little hard to get and not respond to his texts of meeting up again readily and say I’m not sure when I’m next free?
Ideas how to get him infatuated with me?
thanks alot!
I’m a Cancer by the way.
girll i hope u have fun with hime
cuz ive dated a capricorn nd he made me loved him
he was my 1st love then he treated me like crap after
then he constantly textes me saying he misses me nd he made a mistake
and he wants me back
but when i go see him he treats me cold i dnt understand them me being a cancer i get pretty emotional
like when i go home id cry and stuff its a roller coaster ride he put me through but ive decided no MORE
i noe they say u’ll always b inlove with ur 1st love as that maybe true but im not gunna let him run over me
so all am gunna say is hunny be urself capricorns and cancers are usually naturally attracted to each other like magnetics….capricorns are the “father of the zodic” and cancers are “the mothers of the zodic” opposites attract so just be u and dnt give him none too quick lol he’ll love u even more for that capricorns like a classy woman and be open with hime nd joke around so he’ll lighten up …..
I have been with a cap man for three years now… I am a virgo woman and I have to say the thing i regret most is still being in love with my ex for the majority of our relationship. My ex was a taurus and I was in love for a long time with him. Im sure my cap knew I was still in love and stayed with me and never said anything about it. I wish he expresses his feeling more often but now I know it’s just who he is…. it has made me love him even more, realizing that he stuck with me while I was still indecisive.
Im a libra and my cap babe when i was 4 months pregnant he was in super love with me at work. I didnt give him any type of play 9 months later we started talking and im falling in love with him he cuddles me the sex is amazing he loves my daughter and i am really happy to have found him. you never want o do to much in public wit ur cap they are really laid back and a simple hand hold is enough. they are very commited lovers cuz he does anything sexually to get me hot!!!!
my boyfriend’s a cap… hes so sweet whenever were together.. hes the most loving person i ever had… we sometimes argue bcoz of our differences but having him is very wonderful. as time passes by my love for him gets stronger . i remember before, when i cheated him , he was so mad at me… but still he accepted me and now we are so happily inlove together
btw im pisces
Shaquan,I’m glad my Cap isn’t like that one.I’ve been knowing mine for about a year and have been dating him almost 6 months.It was kinda rocky at first,but he’s my Soulmate.He spoils me and my son roughten.He bought me a Range Rover a couple of weeks ago.That’s My Boo!!!! I’m A Cap Too.The best thing to do with any man is to be friends first.Always demand your respect.Don’t Settle for less.Its best to be with a person that’s on your level.We’ve been going to church a lot.Its helping tremendously.God must be involved if you want positive results.We both were very critical and stubborn.We’ve acknowledged a lot of our shortcomings,and have decided to change our negatives into positives.Prayer and Faith can change anything with effort from both individuals.Good Luck,I like this blog site.Its Cool!!!!.
I’ve been in love with a Cap man for nearly four years now and agree with what has been written. My Cap loves to cuddle, when he’s not too tired from overwork and is soft as jello on the inside but hurt, disappoint or let him down and he becomes steely as old wire, fair enough, he had a lot of hurt. We have had a very rocky ride as we both had major trust issues coming into this relationship and I have some difficult behaviors I had to address, due to a lot of needs not getting met as I grew up and placing a lot of demands on him. I admire him, respect him and feel very grateful to know him. We are very different but it is a lovely love that is growing. The only complaint…. he does overwork and is addicted to surfing but that later thing is good for his soul and his Pisces Moon, so I try to learn to love it!
Hey everyone,
I am falling for a cap guy very quickly. He has told me that I am perfect for him. He writes sweet txts to me every morning. He has also said I have his heart but I want to tell him how I feel but I dont want to scare him.
Any advice????
Pisces gurl you wont scare him.. The only thing that you dont want to do to a cap is… Be a Flirt… Lie to him… or chat on him…. Make sure that you are always on time… Give him affection and cook for him… caps like watching movies… going on picnics… cuddling… Kissing… soft music with out words like classical… they love naturally beautiful women with nice teeth… They run from slutty women… with colorful hair and make up. be modest and be your self… To a cap communication is EVERYTHING…
oops meant to put if you cheat on him
not saying dont wear make up, but dont over do it…
I just met a Cap man that is 12 years older than me. Hes 44 and Im 32. We both just recently came out of a long marriage. He 17 years and I 10 years. Im a scorpio woman so, naturally Im going to be skeptical of his intentions. Hes came on strong since the first night I met him and ever since. He acts as if hes falling for me. I really like him. He seems to be everything Im looking for in a man and everything a man should be but, how do I know hes not just trying to feel young again and he wants more than just to get in bed with me. What I know about Cap men is that they are as serious as Scorpios(me). And they wouldnt just be fooling around if they didnt think there was a future. But, how do I know for sure?
I am a cancer woman and I have always been attracted to cap man and they to me. They are very loving but they dont show it in the traditional way. YOu have to let them be the men they are and you be you. They are classy, gentle warm and very manly. You have to be patient and get to know them. They show their love in small gestures. They are hard workers feel comfortable at work but their hearts are with their family and loved ones.. how they can make home a good place to be. Very traditional and hold tight to their traditions.
I just fell head-over-heels with this Cap guy. He’s seriously the most perfect guy for me… everything I want in a guy. He’s good-looking, smart, dedicated, extremely independent, sexy, cautious, sweet, funny… the list goes onnnnn! I met him through a lame Scorpio guy I was previously dating (who is actually one of his best friends HA.) & after I realized that he’s the guy I should be spending my time with, I ditched Scorp & started blending my friendship with Cap into a potential relationship. Ever since the first day I met him, there was an IMMEDIATE connection. However, it wasn’t until later on until I started paying attention to it! When we’re together, we flirt carelessly, make each other laugh hysterically, listen to the same music, act silly, and just literally let ourselves go. But most importantly, we can actually put all of that aside and be serious, & talk about life. That’s what amazing about a Capricorn guy, they’re extremely well-rounded. So up until a few days ago, I had no idea that he felt anything for me because we were only friends. Can you believe that? I gave up free no-strings-attached hook ups with Scorp, just to take a shot at whatever i could get out of this Cap guy… riskkkky. So a few nights ago we were hanging out and ended up spending the night together at my lakehouse cuddling alll night. Cuddling, yes. (Can’t remember the last time I spent the night with a guy and we didn’t do anything.. maybe the 6th grade at church camp? LOL. typical of a Cap guy… verrrry slow to get things rolling.) So basically even though I’m extremely scared of what is going to happen here in the next few weeks i definitely can’t deny how smitten I am!! i think what gets me most about him is that some of the things we do together should make us feel maybe awkward or out of place because we aren’t together or anything but somehow we are on this crazy intuitive level to where we just understand each other & nothing is weird & nothing is rushed or haulted. Basically perfection at its best. He makes me feel so special i really can’t help but adore him. He’s an artist, too, & he has all these really badass paintings and sketches that he’s created. He’s also into random sports, and he has an adorable style & he’s always wearing the nicest clothes. It’s sad that I can just go on and on about him… 2 days ago he left for Mexico for the Holidays & He’ll be gone for TEN days. So what am I supposed to do until then?! Uuuuugh. Anyway, for any girls out there that need something REAL in their lives & are willing to be a little patient in the beginning, go find yourself a Capricorn guy like right now
<3
HELP! I’ve met a Capricorn on an internet dating site and find myself thinking more and more about him! I’m not sure how to proceed. I’ve invited him over, cooked for him and we cuddle and watch movies together… I’ve stopped checking my mail on line and really not interested in meeting other men at this point, but I’m not sure he feels the same way. The other night I asked him to come over, cooked for him and made him dessert. We snuggled on the couch and when I tried to go further, he tells me to stop and that he’s not ready to ‘go there’ yet and that the frolic we had the other night [we didn't go all the way, but it was a nice makeout session which excited him] was too much too soon. He told me not to take it personally, and then we laid there and he caressed me for a bit and said goodnight with a couple of nice kisses.
I took this to mean that he is still seeing other people, and when I went back on line, he had updated his profile information… so I updated mine. I can’t help it, I send him texts, and he responds, but I feel I’m initiating it all… Do I back off and let him pursue me? Do I tell him how I feel? Do I ask him out again, or should I wait for him to ask me? Not sure what to do here, I really like him and not sure how he feels about me…
I regret being so attentive, I think it freaked him out honestly lol.
I wanted to do everything< for him and treat him like a king i thought he was. Maybe I was too in love whenhe wasnt? idk.
well he had just got out of a psycho relationship, made it clear that he didint want another one, but i was stubborn and just couldnt get away. bad timing i guess. its been a few months and i think about him constantly. i dont call, text or facebook him. i have too much pride to feel like a fool again so f*** that.
-taurus
@ Ms. Pisces
I took this to mean that he is still seeing other people, and when I went back on line, he had updated his profile information… so I updated mine. I can’t help it, I send him texts, and he responds, but I feel I’m initiating it all… Do I back off and let him pursue me? Do I tell him how I feel? Do I ask him out again, or should I wait for him to ask me? Not sure what to do here, I really like him and not sure how he feels about me…
I hate to say this…but he is sexually involved with someone else…either that or emotionally. Cap men are horn dogs when it comes to being sexually/physically/emotionally attracted to someone. They pour their heart and misery out in sex. A cap man that is not having sex with a woman is…errr…umm…with someone else on some level. I think that whatever mistakes he made with the woman he is about to leave, he doesn’t want to make with you.
I had a boyfriend which is a Capricorn we’ve been together for a year and a half, but unfortunately we broke up. It was my fault because I cant stand his cold treatment and I became bored with our relationship, but when we had a our communication again, he told me that he was still in love with me and he told me the reason why he acts that way the whole time. I finally got the main reason why he always acted that way. Now we are together again and I just realized, what mistake I’ve done in the past and now I will never ever let go of my Capricorn man
He makes me feel safe, happy, and gives all the love and care that any girl could ever need.
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I need a help or kick in the a..s. I actually should leave him!
Here is my story:
“It starts off real good and you think that you got your husband-like material with these men….” – Joslyn said that in the past and its absolutely right – that is my story too!
I dived in without thinking.
I never believed in love from first sight, but this time I believed it, coz this is what happened this time to me (at age of 40!). He was so charm, made me laugh, treated me like a lady, bought me presents, paid for drinks, said many times how superb I was. He was fun to be with. And the way he was looking at me! amazing! He made me melted. And he was telling me how special I was and he never ever has met a woman like me and I was “the one”, so no woman on earth could bit me.
6 months after that I found proofs that he is cheating on me!!!
Back to the beginning of my story: He would make a lil hint of the future and us together in it. He would call me hundreds of a cute love names. He said that I stole his heart and that he loves me very much, so much I don’t even know how much. He whispered once or twice, but I heard it anyway, he said his home is my home and so on…
I have to admit here though – I was greedy, too greedy. I wanted more and more signs of love, commitment, integrity and that was a mistake.
I should have let the love grow in its own speed, let the trust to be built first etc.
Capricorns have to gain slowly, so they can appreciate the prize. And actually we have to challenge them in a whole life, other wise they lose interest.
He was into me and I F..ed it up by trying to surround him too quick too tight. I initiated first sex (brrrr what a mistake!) I loved him too much from day one!
I am Capricorn too.
My cap is my first cap. By knowing him and reading this forum I’m getting to know my self better now, although I’m woman, but still – we have many traits in common.
I can say now, actually the less attention I got, the more I want what I can’t have. Treat us Caps like shit and we will double the effort to gain you. Show your admiration and love = we are bored.
I am crazy about my cap, because I can’t win him. Even he is not worth it – I can say now.
He is very very confident outside. But one day he said: “My heart is very soft, but lives in a hard shell, which protects the heart”. I tried harder and harder to get into his heart by opening my self, showing that I am into it for long haul and I love him and he is the one I want to be with and I am faithful. The more I was opened, the more he was getting turned off.
I can sense, he might have a bad memories caused by woman or maybe even in more than one relationship. He thinks women are unfaithful. Not all of them, but lots of them!
I can never get answers for my questions, but when he wants to know things, he is well straight forward with questions and an answer must be given.
He always kept his phone close, always said that I must stay away, not allowed even touch it.
As a time was going on, he was giving me less and less of attention and affection. Sex became crap – one sided.
Beginning of February he stopped txting me and if I txt him, he doesn’t even txt back. If I txt a romantic txt and ask him later: “did you read my txt?”, he will only say something snippy like: “yes, I did” or “behave”
Kat once said she could sense other woman around his aura.
I sensed exactly the same and very strong. I told him “You are cheating on me”,
He denied powerfully, he hold me nicely, like he used to do prior. I was all his again in that second. I wanted to believe him.
We’ve had a few arguments about his cheating since. He is always so very strong convincing. He always has answers for every accusation. His voice, his body language, his faces… when he talks to me I just can not believe he could lie!!! So I believe him against my sixth sense.
But after I accused him for cheating and lieing he keeps his phone even closer than before
2 weeks ago I saw something, that in my eyes was a proof of cheating (It wasn’t his mobile).
I tried to finish with him at that same moment I saw what I saw. I spoke to him and left his house and him in believes that its over. A few hours later he txt me: I don’t understand why you want to destroy everything…
Next morning he sent me txt – explanation of what happened. Against common sense I accepted the ridiculous explanation.
The trouble is, we are strongly involved in a non love based relationship. Neither him or me are willing to resign from each other’s company on that other field. We need to see each other. He needs me and I need him.
When I’m almost at the end of that road to nowhere and trying to step back, he suddenly would be nice again and it feels like he understood and cares now. Despite all my friends’ advice, I always get soft for him again. I can’t stop loving him!
I dont know what to do
I cried awfully lots, so the answer is obvious. Bin him.
Oh Lord give me strength
Just keep giving him the cold shoulder. Never take him back fully and see what happens. I feel for ya.
capcap:
God gives us strength.
You are not alone in your experience. I have been there too. I cried lots. My heart broke to pieces.
You will be ok. Not all capricorn men are good. There is good and bad in all of us. God gives us peace and happiness. I am associated closely with a capricorn man right now. Been for nearly a year. I have learned more about him. My family and I are helping him right now and encouraging him to change his ways so he can be a successful Dad, so he can begin a new life. He is naturally a good person I feel. There is a very big problem that he is facing in his life at this point in his life. We have become very good friends. Friends only, as it is the only thing I can give, given his situation. He has begged me to stay so I stand as his friend. We are friends easily as I am a taurus and we understand each other so well. God bless you, capcap. God be with us all.
Ara
capcap,
you need to leave him be. Any man that lies to you about cheating is not a man, at all. Distance yourselves and do not go back. Seriously. The longer you stay, the longer you’re going to hurt. I had a pos ex pisces bf that ran around on me a lot and denied it. Did the same thing with his phone. I thought for a long time that I was going nuts, but I wasn’t. I was a victim in a mindgame. I wish I didn’t have a lot of my posts deleted from this site. He is a no good waste of space. Just a no good human being. You have to leave that relationship so you can start to heal. Cheating and lying isn’t love sweetie.
A man that lies and cheats is no good. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Run fast and far and never look back to that kind of man.
Ara
capcap:
I went through the same thing with an aries man. Run really fast and far. Do not look back. We are better off alone than be with a man who has no respect for himself and others.
Hello everyone! Im a cancer, and Ive met a gorgeous capricorn! ive dated every sign but never a cappy..lol
Their seriousness and reserve attitude used to scare me off. But once u crack that door open and see the real them. They are sweet amazing ppl.
My cap says taht the reason he left his other women. Is bcuz theyALL acted like sluts behind his back. He will never be with a woman that the town know about. He dont want to date a flirtatious women either.
he say he likes to spoil his woman with gifts but If a woman acts like a goldigger & likes to party. He will get turned off quick.
His reputation is HIGHLY IMPORTANT! Gee wiz..Lol
He say I will never know ggod sex, until I meet a capricorn!! Lol
this man is different from the scorpios Ive dated. He makes love to my mind 1st!! It drives me crazy! Lol
Its like caps study the art of sex. SEX IS INCREDIBLE!! SO SENSUAL! We are so opposite but he cracks me up he is sooo hilarious. He say he is reserved but I bring the fire out of him. Capricorns are truly special. Well, The evolved Capricorns are! Bcuz he say when he was younger he was cruel to women. Due to his ex Virgo hurting him. He say the virgo was a nasty slut. So he retraliated against all women.
Im just glad i got the best of him now.
@ cancermoonmaiden
Have you found that your Cap plays games or doesn’t have a back bone?
I am talking to a Cap that I dated this time last year and broke up with because of outside circumstances that had nothing to do with him. He plays the whole control game of not replying to texts for several days, if at all. But if I don’t reply to him, he freaks out, panics that he is losing me and I will get 3-4 texts in a row. And then once I reply and he is sure I am still there, he goes MIA again. It is frustrating. lol
Should of read this sooner lol Especially the Avoid pushing him to be more “expressive.” part, great post! =)
I’m a December 28th Capricorn man and nothing could be further from true.
A Capricorn man (hell, any man) who is controlling and possessive has issues that stretch beyond being an earth sign.
As a capricorn man I value my private time (not being cold, but who wants to smother someone with their presence?)
Don’t believe what you hear on blogs and astrology sites, our sense of humor is our strongest weapon (gets me out of all kinds of tight spots).
Seriousness is lame (there’s a time to be serious and a time for play) true capricorns know the difference between the two.
Music plays a pivotal roll in our lives (it moves us).
When we love, we love hard so it goes without saying if you betray our trust the ship sinks faster than the titanic.
We’re cautious by nature (not cold and calculating) <— I don't think I've calculated anything in my life ( I hate math) <—told you we were funny (dry humor).
We don't like boring as much as the next guy so our laid back appearance is a smoke screen, we like adventure too, we just need the right woman to bring it out in us.
With that being said we are very picky (you have to be a lady in the street, but a freak in the bed) <–sex is incredibly important. It's one of the reasons why cap men loose interest (if we can't get it how we want it we'll move on).
Loyalty and your word are all that means anything to us. Don't talk about it, be about it.
Family is priority number one and success above all else is what keeps us moving.
Money and social status mean nothing without people you truly love to share it with (at least that's my thinking)
If you cheat on a Capricorn man he will never trust you again. He will become jealous and question everything you do, so it's best to call it quits.
Capricorns can be assholes (we're stubborn and always want our way, but we'll respect you if you stand your ground and don't give in) <— never show emotional weakness in front of a cap (we'll run right over you).
Contrary to popular belief we hate to argue, which is why a cap man has a short fuse (we don't know how to handle certain emotions and naturally react by getting angry and blowing up).
A cap man who is truly in love will give his woman everything she wants and needs.
Oh and if you don't get us it's okay (our mothers do) we just want you to love us back. The good (faithful to a fault), the bad (emotionless exterior), and the ugly (our slow moving nature) just keeps us in a comfort zone, gives us the ability to anticipate disappointment, and keeps us from making a fool of ourselves.
To the outside world we may seem like the masters of the universe, but when it comes down to it, are just trying to figure it all out like the rest of the zodiac.
By the way, I've dated Gemini (too unstable and unsure of themselves for my taste), Virgo (awesome love), Cancer (the one who got away), Scorpio (amazing in every way), Aquarius (love that just went south too early) and I have to say compatibility lies with the person. It doesn't matter what their sign (except for Gemini; a terrible mix for Caps) if the persons great and you're vibbing, just make it work.
No relationship will be roses, but if two people truly love each other, they'll learn to love past each others faults.
How do I get my Cap back? He cheated, snooped and found out, he left me to be with her after he said we would work it out he stopped coming home. 2 years gone! He says he still loves me but he needs a break and is now in a relationship with this younger (14 years younger) Libra. These signs are a ticking time bomb. He asked me to stay home and help with the business and work with this chick and I refused and begged him to come home. He says my snooping caused him to leave but the week prior to his cheating he was crying professing his love for me. As soon as he slept with her, we were over. He feels like he has a future with this girl but I know that he is excited about this beautiful young woman is interested in him. I am far from ugly, as a matter of fact, I am more attractive, just older. He slipped up and said today that we still have a future but can’t be together right now and I need to stay in our house and be patient, seriously. He wants me to stay because I am the ever reliable Virgo willing to do whatever it takes to make him happy. The efficient businesswoman, homemaker and fiance and she is the social butterfly that dresses slutty and wears heavy makeup. Regardless to all of this, I want him back, He is a good man that was easily seduced and cannot see the difference between lust and love. I am moving 1800 miles away and I fear I will lose him forever. Please help!
@ virgolostcap…I read an interesting article a while back about a woman who’s husband was going through similar motions. Pretty much just gave up on the relationship after being married forever. She decided to remove her emotions from her responses, thus behaving in very practical ways, without killing her love for him on the inside. When he was baffled by all of this, she would lovingly say to him, “You’ll figure it out…I have confidence that you will.” He never was able to physically leave, because she made it difficult for him to do so, but again without any emotional tirades, just based on logical things like, “I can’t stop you from moving out, but you will continue to pay the mortgage.” The one thing she made very clear to him without displaying emotions is that she was NOT giving him a divorce. She made it clear to him that if he wanted a divorce HE would have to divorce her and she wasn’t going to make it easy for him to do so by being ugly and behaving badly towards him and that she wasn’t going to deny him access to their shared home, etc. She reported that all of this was VERY difficult, as you can only imagine, but that she understood that he was in a temporary state of mindframe. She banked or counted on the many years they shared as a couple as proof that what he was going through was some type of personal crisis that affected their marriage for the time being. She said that slowly, after about 6 months of this none sense, he started to come around. When he fully recovered about 6 months later, so this was a year or so that she was going through this in all, he thanked her for never giving up on him or the marriage. He explained to her that on the inside he’d hit rockbottom in a way that he couldn’t understand OR express, that he didn’t recognize himself, his thoughts, his behaviors, and that he was indeed frightened that he wasn’t going to be able to survive this personal crisis, which is why he tried so hard to push her away. She didn’t say whether or not he slept around or stayed out all night, but I’m thinking that a man who has hit rock bottom and trying to anger his wife so that she divorces him probably did indulge in some infidelities or at least was missing from home late at night enough times to where she may have wondered about it.
Anywho…I’m just telling you this, because I hate to see married couples split…in my opinion that’s alot different than boyfriend/girlfriend rships or dating, etc. A breakdown in a marriage is some serious serious stuff and I don’t necessarily think that infidelities or not, a marriage should end. Depends on the entire situation, but…IDK…that’s just my input. Sorry that this isn’t based on any type of astrological knowledge and I hope it all works out either way.
HELP!!
i’m a leo….I know this great cap guy…looks hot in person (not pictures)…tall, broad shoulders, decent built and everything…our conversations are brilliant! he’s born rich and like I read about caps generally, is very career oriented…so he’s made himself a decent nest of riches besides his inheritance…goes without saying he’s classy…and that’s all he can appreciate…nothing less…not down to earth at all…he seems to be quite traditional too…which is really nice cos our family backgrounds are very similar…or maybe its cos he’s just older than i…
anyway…he’s been wooing me incessantly, in every which way, for almost a year now…the flowers, the phone calls, the messaging and even a fancy date once…but i have never given in! have never led him on either! I had been very clear with him even before he could tell me he has a thing for me…not to bother cos i had boyfriend…a tauran…who i connected with in a completely different way…that tauran knows me for who i really am…he knows me better than i know myself…and there is a long list of shortcomings to ever be in a relation with the cap…besides my boyfriend (now ex)…we live on different continents…even if we get around that…there is something that will never change- long before i met this cap…or even knew of his existence…i knew his brother…and there was a brief period where we tried dating…but it just ended up being 3 kisses…and i almost hated him after that…the cap knows that his brother and i have had a history…but for some reason…NONE of this seems to deter him! instead he says he’s sure we’ll end up marrying each other! he gives two hoots about my boyfriend…we have never spoken about the brother thing…maybe he’s just dismissed the idea…i don’t know! i can’t be kissing a brother! it’s beyond me!
so the problem is…i have never been with a cap…i don’t think i even have cap friends…so i don’t know any…and i haven’t read about any cap-leo couples on this site! any word on what are they like? cos if some day i am able to get past the whole brother thing…and start something up…i don’t want it to be disappointing…it may be for life…i cannot get out, once i’m in…i know that for sure…
Are caps loyal? or is he going to get bored after he gets me? how are they in the bedroom?? i read they take it really slow…now don’t judge me for this…but i love a heated bedroom…nothing wild and obnoxious…just lots of passion…no boundaries…only surprises… and i’m comfortable with PDA…are they??
And is he going to perceive me as trashy if i’m ever seen mingling with men?? i feel he’s gonna give me up if he ever sees that…and i think that’s something that will be too difficult to change…if not impossible…i’m not saying i want to make out with other guys and be with him…i love being in a committed relationship…i love the security in it…and i love to show off that i’m in a committed relationship….where i’m in a crowd of men swooning and wanting me….but just cannot have me…i love throwing that in their face (pls believe me i’m a nice, decent person…i’m just exaggerating here)…
so help me pls?? i know i’ll live a comfortable life where i can i have a nice family and keep my work…i love my work…
are caps and leo a good, long lasting match???? (cap-male; leo-female)
Are caps loyal? That’s a loaded question. Loyalty has very little to do with anyone’s sun sign. That’s just a personal thing if he cheats. Good and bad in every sign. How are they in the bedroom? Well, some would say freaks and other’s would say impotent. It depends, again, on the person. They take things slow, emotionally…. but maybe not physically. Depends on the person! PDA is a loaded one, too. Cancers and Caps generally aren’t fans of PDA, but in all my cases with those two signs – we did tons of PDA. I, myself, unlike typical Aquarius fashion – LOVE pda.
Oh, and I know Leos like to be the center of attention… if you for one minute think the Capricorn will be your little love slave in the public light and will be competing for you? Think again. He’ll just walk away because you’re there with him, not there to flirt with other men. If you do, you will receive a text that he left you and gave the bartender some money so you can call a cab. Capricorns HATE cockiness, something the Leo sign possesses, so no ego games… from both sides, actually.
Check out zodiac-traits.com. They have a, what I feel, better than average compatibility readings on all the signs.
I totally agree with NP on the Cap / Leo thing about being the center of attention. Cap men can be extremely possessive when it comes to which woman is supposed to be with “them” for whatever occassion. If you go to a party with a Cap guy…you’re his for the duration of that party. If you guys are dating, then you’re his for the duration of that dating period..etc. The only thing about Cap men and their possessiveness is that the same possessiveness they show when dealing with a woman is not reflective of their depth of emotion. His clingyness in wanting to be WITH you and touch you doesn’t mean that he’s in love or anything like that. In fact, if you mention to a Cap man that he appears to be emotionally attached to you, he won’t like it. He feels that he needs to be in control at all times. Even on the emotional level. He decides how much he feels for you and when he feels that way. Cap men have a bad habit of “feeling” like they’re being backed into a corner emotionally when all a woman wants is the assurance that they are building something together. For a Cap man…that building process is not one that he takes lightly and he will bounce out on a woman lickety split if she is the one who suggests that’s what’s going on between them. She can ask for it, but a Cap man knowing that’s what a woman wants is a major turn off. He wants to believe that he can’t possess you. That you are a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed who belongs to no one…however, you act like you’re his when you guys are together physically. When you’re not around eachother physically, feel free to do your own thing and act like he doesn’t exist. It will actually turn him on to think that he has to put in MORE work than he already has to get you to become his.
I hope this makes sense. lol Cap guys are a PAIN!!!! But I seem to have a life pre-requisite of dating one a year. lol I run and run and run, then hide, but somehow…they always seem to find me AND win me over. IDK. My Pi sun/moon doesn’t like how cold and detached they can be, but my venus in Cap seems to have a hard time resisting them. Go figure.
I need some advice. Go figure ha!
I’m a libra female. He is a Capricorn male.
I’m 20, he is 25.
We met online, after speaking about family, work, etc for a couple weeks he invited me to his place. At the time we both lived in a college town within 5 miles of each other. I went over that evening, showed me his place, picked a movie to watch, talked for the first 20 minutes, and then he made a move. I told him I wasn’t wanting to really do anything (FIRST NIGHT?) lol. He said he wouldn’t do anything except hands. So that continued until the end of the movie and then some. He seemed as if it were no big deal, but being a libra (and country girl) I naturally felt as if I’d been used.
The evening ended, he offered to let me stay but I had to get home to my dogs. He walked me to my car, kissed me goodnight, that was that.
We casually texted eachother for a few weeks, he was extremely busy with work, doesn’t bother me, I’m always on the go. He’d say he wanted to see me, missed me, had a great time, etc. I’d say no, saying I felt like it was all about the sexual parts. He’d insist not.
After a week I said okay, invited him over and he spent the night. No big deal. And again, my “relationship needing” libra in me reared her ugly head and accused him of it being of sex. I realized I was in the wrong. We stopped talking for a few weeks, he was busy with work, I had a surgery and car accident, busy times.
A month later (November) I texted him, he was intoxicated but jumped at the chance to see me. He got a cab and came over, fooled around for an hour, slept until 7am, and I drove him home.
That would be the last time I’d see him, until last night (May). In january I moved back to the city an hour and a half away. While moving he’d ask multiple times to see me, but I said I was too busy. Secretly I was trying not to fall for him more. He is all around a seemingly great guy. Wonderful family, job, passionate, and sweet.
We had texted each other a few times since November, but just casual heys, I was slightly cold and short with him for the previous reasons. We planned to see each other one night after work, but he “forgot” or he says, I’m not sure I believe him still. He then texted me again (I’ve never initiated the texting aside from one night) and we set up to see each other when he was in the city for work. He comes here once a week. So yesterday we made plans, I met him at his parents (out of town) and he told me how great I looked and the “how’ve you Been’s and what’s new’s. Showed me around, picked a movie (sounding familiar? Lol) and then pulled me over to kiss me. I immediately told him we weren’t fooling around, and I would leave (somewhat jokingly). We made a deal, but then it turned into sex. Multiple times. He’s so concerned about me being “happy” during and he’s so passionate which seems odd to me. It got late and he asked if I wanted to stay, I said sure, I only live 15 minutes from their house, but seemed too far. Part of me also wanted to be next to him again, he’s a great cuddler. We got to bed, cuddled and I rubbed his back until we fell asleep while talking. He made a point asking me if I still had my dating profile, I deleted it before even going to his place, it seemed silly, but he said he still had his, but doesn’t use it.
We woke up, and it was somewhat weird (at least to me). I said bye, he headed back to his town, and i went home. He just texted me, I made it a point to myself not to text him first.
I’m constantly analyzing “relationship” situations. Contrary to being a libra I’m quite happy alone, I’m very busy.
Sorry for being long winded, but I felt the situation was necessary. So my question is, WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN? Lol nothing? He says he wants more than fooling around and a relationship, but we have never been on a “real” date, just movies etc. I’m a libra, I like to be won over and wooed. He says things to his friends like “I can analyze any girl in a bar, on my game” and things of that nature. He works in bars as a liquor rep, so that is kinda alarming to me plus he is gorgeous.
I just don’t understand how I’m so irresistible to him but things seem so off kilter. What should I do? Patience isn’t one of my strong suits, a guy stops pursuing me, I move on, not to sound cocky (far from it), but I have a lot of guys who try to “swoon” me and date me. I’m very independent however. Is he genuinely into me, or did he see me as an “easy target”? Was asking about my profile a hint of either way?
Thank you!!!
I need some advice. Go figure ha!
I’m a libra female. He is a Capricorn male.
I’m 20, he is 25.
We met online, after speaking about family, work, etc for a couple weeks he invited me to his place. At the time we both lived in a college town within 5 miles of each other. I went over that evening, showed me his place, picked a movie to watch, talked for the first 20 minutes, and then he made a move. I told him I wasn’t wanting to really do anything (FIRST NIGHT?) lol. He said he wouldn’t do anything except hands. So that continued until the end of the movie and then some. He seemed as if it were no big deal, but being a libra (and country girl) I naturally felt as if I’d been used.
The evening ended, he offered to let me stay but I had to get home to my dogs. He walked me to my car, kissed me goodnight, that was that.
We casually texted eachother for a few weeks, he was extremely busy with work, doesn’t bother me, I’m always on the go. He’d say he wanted to see me, missed me, had a great time, etc. I’d say no, saying I felt like it was all about the sexual parts. He’d insist not.
After a week I said okay, invited him over and he spent the night. No big deal. And again, my “relationship needing” libra in me reared her ugly head and accused him of it being of sex. I realized I was in the wrong. We stopped talking for a few weeks, he was busy with work, I had a surgery and car accident, busy times.
A month later (November) I texted him, he was intoxicated but jumped at the chance to see me. He got a cab and came over, fooled around for an hour, slept until 7am, and I drove him home.
That would be the last time I’d see him, until last night (May). In january I moved back to the city an hour and a half away. While moving he’d ask multiple times to see me, but I said I was too busy. Secretly I was trying not to fall for him more. He is all around a seemingly great guy. Wonderful family, job, passionate, and sweet.