Things not to do to the Capricorn man
Capricorn has worked hard to achieve his level of status and respectability, so the last thing you should do is sully his reputation.
- Don’t do the slutty, trashy bit on the town with him — he will not want to be seen with you again.
- Don’t tell embarrassing stories about him at business functions.
Avoid pushing him to be more “expressive.” Good luck!
Don’t incessantly press him to spend more time at home. Of course, he should! But work is where he feels at home, and he may stay longer at the office if he feels that his domestic life is emotionally messy.
Comment below: What have you regretted doing to a Capricorn man?
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Thanks your all right! That’s why I said I didn’t mean all CAPS are like this. Ur right may just be him! I know most guys r not like this, just some jerks. I guess I learned a big lesson.
@DivaSag
in his 40’s. naw he too old for that s***. sounds like some deeper issues.
when i was out there, i didnt play no games when it came to the booty. i felt like it was my duty, to pleeeeease the booty(lol)
i was gettin much as i could.
i read a lot of comments on this site. there’s alot of disappointed women here, saying us guys are playing games and hiding. i think these dudes just have some issues they feel that they cant talk to u about.
@scorpiogirl
youll be back, and he’ll be back in the sack doing his thing. you know it.
@scorpiogirl
it’s all good though. i cant be mad at him for doing his thing. i would too
“CAPRICORN MAN MOJO” got u hooked scorpiogirl.
@ blak goat…I agree. SMH. I heard Caps are great in the sack. But you can’t make love to a woman romance that ass and then drop them like a bad habbit…..No sir. You might get cut lol!
@ scorpgirl…be careful. Caps are charming MF’s. I never sexed one but i can just imagine. He will come back around and you let him blaze it.
Honestly, to me that was the only problem with him at the time that I wasn’t that into was the sex. He was rough & it wasn’t enjoyable. He was very romantic in things he did & then I just felt like he was f***ing me, which I didn’t like & it was the same exact thing everytime & it bored me. I will admit we did take the best showers in the world & that was very senuous and I loved that more than anything, but the sex bored me. Maybe it’s my fault I have the nice girl/bad girl image. I have the look that I can play Ms. Innocent or very naughty. And in the bedroom if I am with my boyfriend/someone I am comfortable with I definitely act naughty, but I want passion & mind blowing sex not rough crap that doesn’t feel good & the same thing every time. I definitely mentioned that at the end & I know he didn’t take too kindly to that.
They are charming DivaSag, but your better off having sex with a Scorpio guy!
better be careful DivaSag, capricorn mojo runs deep.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V25iA2XPzuA
i had to get that in.
@scorpiogirl
i guess its a matter of preference. im a capricorn and i like “hot” women.
according to zodiac i supposed to like cool natured women (piscese and cancer). thats no fun to me.
i used to hear all these things about how sexual and promiscous scorpio women where, but ive been learning that scorpio women tend to be dreamy, romantic, passionate, very possesive and very faithful.
other capricorn guys that i know are like me , serious and hardworking. we work hard and we like to play hard. this is why when i was younger i was attracted to older women, they got straight to the point, no games.
code 10: hit and run was my MO. i was cold as ice.
but one day a flirty Sag woman came along and thawed me out. it really threw me off because the last thing i was looking for was love. it really changed me. i fought it like hell for a long time because i wasnt used to that.
but i couldnt stay away from her.
My point is you havent even stratched the surface.
you got a passionate vibe about u, so im going to give you some genuine capricorn wisdom and that is: “No real man wants a woman he can walk all over”
u can start there, whether your with a cap dude or a scorpio.
WOW! First: @ scorp girl…Im sexn a scorpio dude now and he is not rocking my world to much. He is okay but i like rough passion not just you making love to me and im not in love. Unfortunately, i think people put to much emphasis on scorp men and sex but my experiences was a D- with them.
@ blakgoat…Im trying to let dude know that he is missing out on Sag love…smh. I wish he could just read what you said. Then maybe he knows that i might catch his heart. lol! But it is what it is…..I have this other Cap dude im flirting with, but its not as heart felt as the other Cap i love and cant be with.
blakgoat your right no man does like a woman he can walk all over & vice/versa! Believe me if the idiot I was dating didn’t pretend to be in love w/ me & keep lying & lying and acted like he was interested I would of been gone a long time ago. I never chased after him in the first place after it was over. He contacts me every couple months & plays games. Yes, deep down inside I wanted to see him but I never really let him know that. Yes, he may of just felt it from me but I never ever calling him begging him to see me. It may sound like I did, because I am obviously telling you that I was hurt, etc. But believe me, I wasn’t that obvious. My 2 exes after him called me every day begging for me back for months & were emotional messes. I did not do that with him, maybe for 2 seconds after it was over he knew I was upset but at that time I was even trying to break it off first cause I didn’t trust him anymore. I’m over it now anyway and done for good. I really have had enough for a lifetime.
blakgoat your right no man does like a woman he can walk all over & vice/versa! Believe me if the idiot I was dating didn’t pretend to be in love w/ me & keep lying & lying and acted like he was interested I would of been gone a long time ago. I never chased after him in the first place after it was over. He contacts me every couple months & plays games. Yes, deep down inside I wanted to see him but I never really let him know that. Yes, he may of just felt it from me but I never ever calling him begging him to see me. It may sound like I did, because I am obviously telling you that I was hurt, etc. But believe me, I wasn’t that obvious. My 2 exes after him called me every day begging for me back for months & were emotional messes. I did not do that with him, maybe for 2 seconds after it was over he knew I was upset but at that time I was even trying to break it off first cause I didn’t trust him anymore. I’m over it now anyway and done for good. I really have had enough for a lifetime.
@DivaSAG: I do think it depends on the person individually, because everyone meshes sexually w/ a person differently & everyone prefers different things. I kinda was joking about better off w/ Scorpio guy.
@blakgoat: your right most scorpio women are dreamy, romantic & passionate.
I’m done w/ my CAP, but I think it’s fun to blog, never really did it before.
@ Scorp girl….I do agree with it depends on the individual chemistry etc. Some caps are just doggish. For instance the cap crush pretty much invited his self for dinner and then stood me up. Okay he was real aggressive like im coming to eat etc…The day comes and 6pm roll around and i havent heard from dude(cap). So i text him hey you coming? He text back “I got caught up” Please forgive me…Now his ass knew he was not coming earlier even the day b4. Now Yesterday, i speak to him and he like rush me off the phone. Plain in black and white he got women and he is not interested. Yet, he surfaces when he feels like it. Straight bull ish. So i can imagine how your feelings are exspecially since you two were intimate. Hurtful and played i felt and he is just a strong crush……Oh and FYI im not effn with this cap anymore. Even if he surfaces.
Now im flirting with a New Cap Guy and he a dogg too i can tell but the difference is he gives me convo and he is pretty much up front with he just want sex….now the twist is i can tell he is controlling and stuff. He wants to know what i was doing earlier in the day etc. So my antennas are up because you can’t just want some sex and try to be controlling at the same time. That doesn’t mix. Smdh!
@DivaSag: don’t give in to CAP 1, sounds very familiar almost exactly. What a jerk, don’t ever respond back to him. I’m taking my own advice too! At least w/ CAP 2 u know what ur getting, probably your experience w/ CAP 1 helped. My ex was never controlling, I always did what I want but we were together all the time. I dated 2 CAPs briefly and called it off cause they were overly controlling. I hate people telling me what to do especially guys. It got scary controlling, one flipped on me cause I told him I was going to my friends bday at a club. He flipped cause I didn’t bring him and he wanted to hang w/ me and I should of blew off my friend and go out w/ him. I can’t believe he said that to me and called me a bitch and worse. I was like look I do what I want when I want. I broke up w/ him that minute and he begged me back and I said no way. Be careful if he’s too controlling.
@ Scorp girl….I agree. Cap 1 is about playing with emotions. Cap 2 is about getting in where he fit in….could be a red flag. Smh. Yet he was honest about what it is but i will look out to for the controlling part. Thanks….
i never could understand that. if i felt like i had to worry or stress out when girlfriend stepped out w/o me then i knew i didnt need her ass. i would never act the fool make my own self look stupid……..she step out, i would step out too, but when i go out, im not just going out to chill.
Things not to do with a Capricorn Man:
Dont ever disrespect them
Dont ever publically embarress them
Dont sleep around
Dont ever get in the way of their careeer ambitions
its crazy how all cap men are successful. i had no idea it was a capricorn trait.i own a seafood restaurant myself.
blakgoat
Good for you my brothers ex used to do that to him. She needs to see that you have your own agenda, when I love a guy, I stick around…. I like to chill with my guy, cant imagine having fun without him.
Really, I actually know a lot more male CAPs that are not successful & big procrastinators/lazy. I know like one really successful one, some that are hardworkers & medium status and actually most of them that I know are lazy & procrastinators & not successful. My ex was middle class, but I saw so much potential in him. He was very intelligent & didn’t even realize it. I definitely saw more in him, than he did himself for success. I always encouraged him that he could do whatever he wanted, before I even knew that CAPS like that & are into work/success. I guess I taught him to write down his goals & to envision them & believe that he already has achieved them (we use to do it together for us also, because at the time I thought he be in my life forever). He recently told me he still does that, which I was surprised since he treats me like such crap after the relationship was over & seems to have no appreciation/respect for me. I was just surprised to find out that CAPS are so about being successful from this site, cause I had no idea.
The cap guy I WAS interested in was a mess, lazy and a procrastinator. Which is part of why I stopped liking him other than his “cap male” craziness he was throwing my way. I love ambitious hard working men he was not, total turn off urgh and he always needed help w/ something. I also have a cap female friend that tells me all the time she is lazy/lacks ambition. I am libra and I am supposed to be lazy as hell and she is always telling me how hard working and ambitious. But then I have heard there a two types of caps, those who are harding working and those that are lazy so idk.
Yes i def depends on the cap person……Hell the non ambitious ones are just as bad as the ambitious ones. Smdh. Putting women through emotional hell. CAPS CUT THE s*** OUT AND GET WITH THE PROGRAM. IF YOU HAVE A GOOD WOMAN ON YOUR SIDE CHERISH IT…..NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT IN THIS IMPERFECT WORLD!
DivaSag: what is Smdh mean that I see everywhere? It’s probably obvious, but can’t figure it out.
Hey Scorpiogirl…..Actually, is not obvious because i had to ask someone also lol! But it means Shaking my damn head…..Shaking my head (smh). So i constantly be smdh at CAPRICORN BEHAVIOR. Lol!
OMG so funny there is a goat on set where I’m working. Like how ironic? What is this telling me? But this goat is cute, loving & wants to hang out w/ me! DivaSag: ur so right these CAPs want perfection and I
was close to it for him. I even amazed my damn self w/ him cause usually I date guys who I’m nice to them, well sometimes, but I never like them so don’t put in much effort. My ex and r so much alike, but he reminds me of when I was 22. I’d break up w/ guys for dumbest things and think there not the one. Now I regret it, cause I don’t meet as good of catches since ex .
OMG again, I just remembered I named my hamster Capricorn when I was little cause liked the name. Was it fate, lol!
Well go out with him and have fun. Take your time. Be on guard. Yet he may be cut from a diff cap cloth and be attentive sweet and not a go running around the mountain hiding under a damn rock or hidding in a barn somewhere on some hay etc. Don’t count yourself out all the time………Now the hamster lol! Does he sit in a corner most of the time and stare of observe whats going on….does he run around in a circle. Anti-social not that they talk but you know just plain serious faced looking at you. Loves to eat. If yes you picked the right name LOL! CAPRICORNS are work.
DivaSag: OMG, so funny, no a real goat (THE ANIMAL). Yes, I would say he is definitely from a different CAP Cloth, LMAO!!! The animal was on a tv show, where I was working. That’s why I think it’s so wierd & ironic! I never, ever have worked with a goat before(the animal)! I mean, who has? That’s why it is so hilarious! And yes Capricorn (the hamster) did like to eat a lot, how did u know??? And he also loved his ball, that he rolled around in (so that was like going in circles for him (the hamster). But he did throw up in it once, cause I fed him right before. I felt very bad about that! God, I would die if my siblings came across this, they would so know it’s me!
Just remembered Capricorn (hamster) use to escape all the time from his cage and I would put food in every room of my house to catch him & after a couple days/week that’s how I found him cause he’d come out to eat the food. He is a true Capricorn, disappearing all the time & coming back! It’s hysterical & true, yet so wierd at the same time! Yes, I have a lot of random stories like this.
Lmbo! I thought it was a human lol lol lol! But goats(the animal) are so adorable to me. They stay to their self and stare…..go figure haaa haaa! I went to a farm one day and this goat was off to the side and then all of a sudden he followed me around trying to dig in my hand held purse. I couldnt understand it but then the farmer said do you have goodies in your purse. Oh yes! The goat was trying to take my candy bar. Lmbo! Greedy! Its a shame we talking about Goats the animal….LOL! Capricorns you are all animals LOL!
LOL! The Hamster such a Capricorn.
@ black goat & the other Aquarius on here. I base my observations on life experiences & not on Charts…so here is what I observed about Caps & Aquarius characteristics & traits.. Caps & Aquas are a lot of like in terms of emotions & trust…I can really be into & falling 4 someone ( Which takes a lot for me to do) but if I don’t trust or if I get scared I will fall back completely & be very non-chalant & spacey because being inlove in a scary thing…it’s the heart of who we are..when our heart is gone it’s a dangerous thing…I hate being ignored with a passion though, although I will do the same…but the difference is you will know why I’m ignoring you…I fell inlove once, I never told him that I loved him but he had me, I knew he did, but he liked to play games so I would enjoy our time together when we where together outside that…that was on & off for 6 years…I was younger & immature…I still to a certain degree have that insecurity..the one I’ll give my heart to will break it & not love me back, I need to have control over them..I hate to be the 1st one to give in.. Caps are the same..they want that trust someone they know want break there hearts…someome that will grow with them..love them when they make there mistakes….Sexually take them to the next level each time & they like to take charge in life…They actually have a lot to offer but they are because of their paranoya & cautious behavoir the wrong people to fall for if you are not the one & become untrustworthy…they will resent you because they have so many feelings for you they can be in a relationship with you but still…..they want to be with you but they feel they can’t handle it because they feel to much… they will keep you at arms lengths until they feel they can put a handle on their emotions because they like to keep those intact…..If they can really, I mean really trust you or learn to they have some of the biggest hearts alive… So does Aquariuses…at heart with the right one, I can be submissive…with the right one..I’ll still require a certain amount of freedom but you know…Crazy, wild, very experimental in the bedroom & love role playing, whips & chains, lingerie..strip pole…the whole 10…Don’t do public displays of affection..but in private…with that right chemistry…very affectionate. Caps “control”…Aquarius “control of the freedom” chemistry between 210% the battle will between is the stubborness we both have..but they build 2gether well.. also aquariuses are very predictable at being unpredictable!
AquariusGem
Some Aquarius guys do act like Capricorns. Before I knew my BF’s sign I thought he was a Cap.
I’ve noticed that majorly Libra Lady!
Yes…..aquas men are emotionally detached. I had a long relationship with one and i was about to cut him yet he still a bit obsessed with me. Maybe its best Caps stay away from me. LOL!
I met this cap @work and he had me kinda feeling sorry for him pretending he didnt have much and that he was into me I knew something was wrong because the previous cap I dated was very secretive and full of game I gave this one too much credit not only did he ask me to go out with him but the next month he’d asked someone else out as well I didnt know until december after talking to another co-worker about him and it came out they had no idea he’d asked me outand we’d been seeing one another so I catch this game well he’d ask me to make purchases for him and he’d reimburse me the first time he gave me a hard time about getting the money back the second time he wouldnt acknowledge the money owed that really did it for me so when he wanted to take me out his treat I declined seeing how he wanted to spend his money as long as he was beniftting
he pretended to be fine with it so when I asked him to go to the dealership with me for a car repair he said he would then told me he was busy watching a football game then two days later i baked him a cake as I’d done in the past and he told his housemate it was for him I took the entire cake home then the next day he returned the cake pans from his home I never became upset just took them and never said a word since then he’s been coming around sitting in my presence expecting me to address him I refuse to I found out from the same coworker that he’s loaded and asked her one day as I entered and we began talking why was she talking to me? she didnt know then him and I were seeing each other I took it as he must have been wanting to see her as well or why else would he have a problem with her talking to me. he conviently let the brush off he gave me last past xmas and thought I would reconcile for his birthday 12/30 didn.t happen and yesterday he came to the break room and sat 2 chairs from me with only him and I for the entire break He saw that I was there alone I still never said a word its a done deal for me but just like the last cap he continues to want to hold on why wont they let go
I STRONGLY AGREE WITH YOU LADYLEO… I MET DIS CAP. THRU MY FRIEND AND ITS WUZ GREAT 4 DA FIRST COUPLE MNTHS. BUT 1 DAY HE KAME AROUND I GUESS NOT EXPECTIN 2WO C ME AND HE HAD MARKS ON HIS NECK I KNO I SHUD HAVE ENDED IT THERE BUT I DIDNT I DECIDED 2WO WAIT N GET REVENGE WHICH WUZ A FOOLISH IDEA B KUZ 2 WRONGS DNT MKE A RIGHT.. SO WEN HE SEEN DAT I HAD MARKS ON MY NECK WE WERE ON DA WAY 2WO HIS HOUSE AND OF COURSE HE WUSNT GOING 2 TELL ME ANY THING ABOUT IT B KUZ I THOUGHT HE JUSS DIDNT KARE BUT AFTERALL DAT HAPPEN IT JUSS WUSNT DA SAME I MEAN B 4 DAT IT HAD ALREADY STARTED 2 CHANGE SLOWLY BUT DIS WUZ A DRAMATIC CHANGE I JUSS DNT UNDERSTAND ITS BEEN 2WO YEARS AND 4 SUM REASON I FEEL DIFF. BOUT HIM I NEVER FELT DIS WAY 4 A GUY USUALLY IM DA 1 2 GET EASILY BORED OR DIGUSTED BY A GUY BUT 4 SUM REASON I JUSS KANT GET OVER HIM AND LIKE I SAID ITS BEEN 2 YEARS N EVERY COUPLE MNTS HE WILL KALL ME OR SUM HOW WE END SEEING EACHOTHER AND HE WILL WANA TAKE ME 2 HIS HOUSE AND ME LIKE A DUMMY GO RIGHT ALONG WIT IT BUT I ALWAYS THOUGHT WHUTEVER HE GIVES ME IM GUNNA TAKE BUT I JUSS KANT N E MORE KUZ @ DA END I FEEL WORSE DEN WEN I WUSNT WIT HIM.. ITS JUS NOT WHUT I WANT N E MORE BUT I STILL WANT HIM>> I DUNNO WHUT 2 DO KUZ HE SENDZ ME MIXED FEELINGS LIKE HE TRYZ 2 STAY AWAY BUT WEN WE C EACHOTHER HE KANT HELP BUT TALK 2 ME OR BE BY ME I TRY 2 AVOID HIM KUZ I KNO NO GUD WILL COME OUT OF IT BUT I JUSS KANT.. 4 EXAMPLE 1 DAY WE WERE IN A LIMO 4 MY FRIENDZ B DAY N HE WUZ JUSS FLIRTIN WIT DA GURLZ I MEAN FLIRTIN BUT HE JUSS KEPT LOOKIN AT ME AND LOOKN AT I JUSS DNT UNDERSTAND HIM EITHER TAKE IT ALL OR LEAVE IT ALL I JUSS WANT HIM 2 EITHER WANT ME OR NOT ITS AS SIMPLE AS DAT BUT 4 SUM REASON HE DISSAPEARS N COMES BAK Y WNT HE JUSS LET GO?? AND ITS SO HARD 4 ME EVERY TIME HE KUMZ BAK KUZ I FEEL LIKE IAM JUSS ABOUT OVER HIM BUT WEN I C HIM AL MY FEELINGZ KUM BAK..BUT DIS LAST TIME JUSS MADE ME FEEL LIKE SHYT N I KNO HELL B BAK BUT I JUS WONT PLAY WIT MY EMOTIONS N E MORE I JUST KANT I JUSS WANA KNO Y HE IS DA WAY HE IS??
N ALSO DAT DAY OE DA LIMO AS HE WUZ FLIRTIN WIT DA GURLZ I WUZ SITTING BY MY FRIENDZ AND HE TOLD ME 2 SIT BY HIM IN FRONT OF ALL DA GURLZ HE WUZ FLIRTING WIT Y WUD HE DO DAT I JUSS DNT GET HIM?? HE KUD HAVE HAD 1 OF THE OTHER GURLZ BUT HE WANTED ME AFTER I WUSNT EVEN TRYN 2 TALK 2 HIM DAT DAY??
I believe this guy will continue to make chase him because you do when he’s done being with the ladies he’s chasing and they aren’t giving him what he wants and needs he figures why not walk back into your life and play until the next eye popper catches his attention then it’s off again believe it or not caps like strong minded women who can handle them they want you to do it gracefully though begging turns them on when they know their the doormat temporarily constant sucking up sends them into game playing when you stop letting him take charge on his own terms (should he be around to see)you’ll see a change show your backbone you’ll be surprised
When you say show my back bone?? What does that necessarily mean?? (Dnt let him get what he wants or??) so whut ur saying is make him feel like hes a doormat and stop tryn 2 be with him??
Show him that you are interested but with control being tooo emotional let’s them feel like they can do whatever don’t always call or accept every call since you are not in a relationship if this man wants you he will have no problems in letting you know without games or you having to second guess
You should never marry him, especialy if you’re a capricorn too
capemexman… are you still around?
There are some questions I would like to ask you.
I’ve met this caps man…and he’s really2 selfish … His ego and unstable in emotionally..makes me have to be patience with him…I’m totaly…loose my self when I know that he’s already married…he’s lying to me … But still he said he’s in the middle of divorcing process (what kind of bull s***)… He said he’s falling in love with me… But I control my feeling…very well…he asked me not leaving him… The truth is am in love with him… I can be myself when I’m with him and like wise he feels the same also…the sex is good…but..today he’s lying to me…and it’s really makes me mad…I just don’t understand..he always asking me…does my feeling for him it’s true, am I worth enough for him? I’m convincing him very hard…but now…it’s makes me think…does caps man..likes to lie…and why he always ask am I worth enough for him….should I leave him???
That’s because you are thre other women…men leaving their wives is the exception & not the rule.. It really depends on what’s really going on vs. what he is telling you… Case in point..Mt married best frien has been married for 30 yearws. yes he has cheated 15 years ago primarily because his wife wsn’t giving it up…he makes it clear that he is in love with his wife & will never leave her.. He has discussed lack of sex with his wife & SHE refuses to do anything about it….He really loves her but his wife is not fullfilling all the dutiesof the marriage..so when he cheated his cheated specifically for sex… & that would be you in a nutshell…his jumpoff.
Do yourself a favor RUN you’ve already acknowledged he is lying to you he ask these questions in order to keep stringing you along is he still in the home with his wife can he live with you through the divorce process challenge him to prove to yourself you are worth soo much more I’ve been there done that with the cap man I recently through my poor judgement involved myself with one and I really REALLY go for him but the traits reared their ugly faces hence saving me early leaving me to be able to bail out the manipulation in the 2 month span UNBELIEVABLE he told me he could be mature if I decided the relationship wasn;t for me and I did well he put the knife to my back through a friend he thought he could confide in (woman) and they told me I never repeated anything back to him because the person did’nt know we were seeing one another this is how I knew it was true telling the person lies about my job performance the person asked me why does it seem like you two were cool now he doesn’t like you soo much well long story short he was really manipulating me and once it came to my attention I walked away hurt but knew what I went through with the other cap and said time heals all wounds although I have to work with him my silence eats him alive but keeps me sane he saw the woman talking to me and she said why does it upset him when i talk to you I told her to ask him part of his manipulation he’d already told her that he was dating someone else and showed her pictures this what she told me not knowing we were seeing one another so while looking sqeaky clean in her eyes he was realyy being a cheat once I found out I said to myself whatever shes (the girlfriend)lacking in I be damned if youll use me too balance it out once people learn no one person is the total package accept and be content to work with it relationships may work better she unknowingly revealed soo much to me saving me I said allthings happen for a reason