When he says he’s going to stop drinking tomorrow, or that he’ll look through the classifieds in the morning, he does mean it. It’s just that he’s lying to himself. You see, Pisces is the sign of delusion. And since this sign is ruled by Neptune — god of dissolution and disappearing acts — don’t expect the cash you lend him to stay in his pocket for more than a few hours. He’ll tell you he can make it last, but before you know it, he’s at Paddy O’Reilly’s Pub or the Guitar Center, spending your hard-earned money on “drinks for the house,” or this “really cool distortion pedal for my axe.”
Pray to St. Jude, Patron Saint of Hopeless Cases, for there is nothing within your power to save the Pisces troublemaker.
Comment below: Have you gotten involved with a hopeless Pisces?
About Jeffrey Kishner
my pisces, when i met him, had a bad drug habbit and was always broke. god help me i fell for him so fast and he soon quit his habit. 3 months ago he picked it right back up. we lived together so we shared money and expenses and he brought all kinds of debt to us. spending nearly 100 a day on his habit..more often than not, they all have some type of trouble to them whether it be drugs, infidelity, laziness or daydreaming too much. theyre very sensitive and often do not understand they are a bit of a burden.
pisces are ok til they got scorpio *hit goin on cause they started it bossin them fixed scorps around then theyre worse trouble cause theyre mutables not fixed and they cant handle it what theyre forgettin is that them scorps know whats up and dont forget it too soon like never so dont screw over no scorp or u got urself in some mighty hot water we dont like it NO not one bit like u think were just gonna forgit about it HA no way it aint over til the fat lady sings
I am a pisces woman. I have ALWAYS supported myself. Even as a young teenager I have always found employment and a way to take care of myself. My parents didn’t have to by me school clothes after I turned 14. I have been in the Army for 10 yrs now and I pass and meet the standards that so many US citizens would think are impossible. Long story short, I am independent, not a druggie or alcoholic. So as you can see there is hope for the Pisces.
P.S. I have never cheated on anyone I have been in a long term relationship with. Yeah, I thought about it but never did it.
sounds like you may have some strong Capricorn or Saturn in your chart
piseas girl hello i guess you could call me an ex- pisceas trouble maker . I did the whole drug thing . i am clean and am gainfully employed , I also have a second sorce of income , I am a small bussiness owner. yes I realize the potential for being a musician or artist( I am active in both ) without an income that is why i work. Even when I am working i worry thaT I may be seen in a negative light. for instance. I am bisexual female and singel. I am attarctive . I am not a whore. I can honestly say that the only person I cheated on was one who had cheated on me we were young and it was juvinile. I never cheated on anyone besides that. I learned my lesson not to do that from malice . I just break up now. here are my issues as an ex trouble make. it seems to be a misconception that Bi’s are whores . Or wish washy. I fall in love with the character, not whats in the pants( i usually do that farther in the relationship). I can and haVE And am able to be monogomous. I have another issue. I am in love with my friend an Aries. The only trouble I caused may have been inadvertant. I am very much in love with her an d have been secretly for 5 years. we have made out. she denies being gay but atres into my eyes and does things like pulls my hair licks my neck. Makes me rub her back and acts really seductive while she does this . she even gave us a day of the week in which we hang out. all of my friends said that sounded gay and I agreed . i thought wow I really need to keep her at bay as a friend ebcause that is all she says she wants . so I have been through several relationships and proudly enough out of 7 in the past five years have abstained from sex except for twice. usually I end it or can’t bring myself to do it becAUSE it feels like and I know it in my soul that I am with the wrong people . she has been a great friend through all of this and I have watched her goe through a couple relationships and a failed marraige. i feel like I have this intuition . I feel like she loves me but is so deeply in the closet. for the last two weeks she will ring my phone once and then hang up this make s me really yearn for to be near to her because I can tottally feel she misses me. i ran into her while I was out and about and put her on the spot . she turned red when I asked her why she was doing this . she said every time she called she had a second thought. I feel like this is my true love and she has watched me go from rock bottom to tottaly making somthing of myself, also when I gained weight from when I got off the cocaine she never made fun of my weight! It has been a slow process loosing the weight but she was ever supportive. i am so very scared that when i sleep with her. i feel it will happen soon. I feel it coming on. That she will freak out later ourt of fear of being gay or what not. she has made several advances towards me but I am so scared to lose her because I love her too much. then last week I did the weirdest thing . i had a piceas delusional fit of fantasia? I ordered a ring her size .I also ordered he a pair of leweled earings. I dodn’t know what I plan on doing . I had a little somthing I wanted to tell her but i am worrie dthat this will push her away i am so scared to lose her but I want her to have somthing as a sign of my love for her . I know that the ring will probebly sit on a knook in my house out of fear of losss or rejection. I don’t know . I don’t feel like a leap should be a gamble . I think I should wait until she makes the next big move on me. I’ve watched her suffer and I can honestly assess the situation and I know that shes attracted to me and shes my best friend and I can’t stand to see her in another fucked up relationship,
so my sun is in pisceas my moon is in leo will thatmake for compatibility with any aries? should I like another one in the future?
Spot on: My ex husband musician super romantic seducer…never got his S*&%$t together over 10 years. Finally started to take my ultimatum threats seriously and instead of resolving our issues escaped to an insistent, domineering ex girlfriend, with a sob story. Pisces all the way!
P.S. I am Pisces, with moon, mars, and venus in Taurus.
WELL , even though taurus and fishys are supposed to be some what compatible , i’ve always found taurus to be very condesending and judgmental, never admitting thier own faults. I’ve tried three taurus now and they all have this same trait. Theres a lot of good things about then , but I cannot deal with that trait
I’m a Capricorn guy, and my sis is a Leo. We had a nieghbor that was a Pisces, and she was both slutty (had sex in a park outhouse), moody (would flip out over the smallest things) and bitchy.
She lied alot and was kinda a two faced type. She and my sis were friends, but started fighting after they had an argument over preppies. She kept emailing BS like “I hope your whole family dies” and “Im going to kill you all”
Then she’d say “Don’t email me back”
When we didn’t reply, she’d comeback and say “Why aren’t you replying!”
Anyways, Pisces are moody stupid bitches. And way overdramatic.
She even made a fake account claiming to be her “Friend” but you could tell it was her, cause she always capitalized friend.
Another time in Gym, this Pisces girl was arguing with another girl over a pencil. Then she said “I’m tired of putting up with your ****” which makes no sense considering they only knew each other for a day. (Another shot to there overdramaticness)
Pisces are fun and easy to pick on, cuz half the time YOU don’t even know your doing it.
WHILE PICSES ARE overdramatic somtimes promiscuous and are prone to emotional bouts, The girl you speak of sounds over the TOP!!! I am picses with leo in my moon and I know 4 other picses 3 that are fine but one that acts the exact sAME way you described. She is a bitch. She cussed me out for no reason . i told her to stick it and slammed the door in her face and then she had the nerve to e-mail me if i wanted a kitty/. I am not speaking to her till she takes her Meds!!! Is your Neighbor Manic depressive because thats what this girl is. Im over Bi – Polars!!!! I behave and act nothing like my Pisces friends .Im actually the decisive assertive one. I do however dabble in Art and Painting as well as theatre. My friend who is a Leo now we have more in Common than me and the other friends. Well since you have an opinion based on a picses you know dear Cappie let me tell you about three Capricorns I know. One is a compulsive Liar diagnosed with Phsychosis , this is suprising because the way she treats people i would have guessed it was Sociopathic tendancies! Oh and she’s dying of Hep B and she wont put down the Bottle or the Pipe! the theres this other Cappie who i Male Benjamin. He tried to bed me but I had spotted him in the gay club one weekend prior and I knew he went home with a BF Richard. When I told him this he freaked out and went homophobe on richard breaking out the rear windshield of his car( accusing him of outing him) Last is Denise, she is fun to play with because she thinks she is manipulating the situation, She lies and lies and lies( havn’t known a Cap who didn’t ), only she forgets her stories . She fails to realize that her firends compare notes. I actually liked her. If she just would have channeled that into writting or selling used cars she might be useful. She won’t get off her ass to anything but stir the Pot. Well Mr Cappie, I guess that goes to prove you Cannot make a sweeping generaliation based on one persons moon. Oh and I would say the girl in which you referenced earlier was probebly a virgo moon. Never did care for them too much!
By the way please forgive the TYPOSSSSSSS!!!!! am working a twelve hour shift and Im just not a clerical type…. no Pun intended.
I like working, my moon is in Virgo my Sun in Pisces. I just have difficulty finding jobs. In fact when I find a job a like, I don’t even need direction, I just do the job without being prompted.
Sooo True! im a pisces and i constantly refer to myself as an addict without the chemicals. ;] we’re so much more interesting when we misbehav.
“When he says he’s going to stop drinking tomorrow, or that he’ll look through the classifieds in the morning, he does mean it. It’s just that he’s lying to himself.”
Yes!! That’s is so true. I really do mean it when I say I’m going to do something and most of the time I get to it. It just takes me whenever to actually get to it. I get to it at MY pace rather then probably, the right pace.
Also to the part about not consciously manipulate you, that’s true. I have read that Pisces are EMOTIONAL manipulaters. At first I was hurt by that because I rarely hurt people, but then I thought about it and it does fit us. When we’re down and such, we have a way of making someone feel bad for us. Well I have seen that from my own experiences. LOL Through my Piscean eyes.
I’m a guy and I have no idea what moon,star,planet or comet I was born under, What I do know is that In chinese zodiac was born in the year of the ox/wood element I have both traits from moodiness, love of fashion, stabble, dramatic, very loving, very emotional,very sensitive, stubburn and a rage that i can’t contain( with words). I say the most hateful, underminding things that i know will hurt your feeling and the reason i do this is because I ultmately want you to feel as hurt as YOU MADE ME FEEL, as one poster implyed you really don’t know what is offensive or what may set us off. I can only say for myself that I always cater to someone feeling’s and emotions and “lend” that ear for other’s who need to vent but it seems that it is never there for me, I cope with it but sometimes I need someone to vent to, I do daydream alot about my relationship, what I could have done but more along the lines of what I WISH could and or could have happenend with a x and or current lover. My new partner is a Leo and i do adore him alot.. He’s cunning and seems to do all the right thing’s and they arent extravagent, it’s the small things’ that count. My birthday was acouple day’s ago and no body could make it except him, Now him wanting to do the big thing’s I just wanted to stay at home and watch movies and spoon(cuddle) it made my WHOLE day!!!! He tells me he loves me everyday when he calls me and when he doesn’t i get upset( again you don’t know what sets us off) the reason why is get upset is because don’t get me used to something so sweet as those words and then take them away from me, it’s just not fair( again being emotional
). What i have learned about myself and other picses is that we truely are people pleasers and we will do anything to please you if you allow us to. I am not nor have a ever really been a sexual person, Would rather cuddle then… well you know and my new guy being a leo well he likes to… you know.. i have never done it this much in my life. I have concerns and or paranoya(?) because he is such a sexual person that if i don’t keep him in a sense drained he may wander, but then when i want to… you know he really doesn’t want to( again unfair and he doesn’t see it! everything has to be on his time..) What i do love about him is that he does make me FEEL like i am his center but my insecurities are still there… I’m so tired and i don’t know if all this will even post!!!! but yes i wonder if we will last
why are scorpios so jealous and see things in black and white? yet they are described as magnetic self confident and deep but how can a person be deep if they view things in only black or white and why are they so jealous if supposed to be self confident and they also enjoy people thinking they are mysterious they love gossip to be about them they are soooooooooooo transparent
i am fishy
@ Jennifer: Even know her comment was from a while ago. I’m a scorp hanging with a male pisces. I’m hardly jealous ever, because I hardly like any guys. The only way it will look like I am jealous is when this pisces guy I’m hanging out with is checking out all the other girls in the room, because I will not put up with it. I’m very attractive and think very highly of myself and by him doing that is #1 insulting, #2 disrespectful and #3 rude. So if I were to say something, which I have, it makes me look jealous. But really I just want him to know that I will not put up with it and I can find a million guys who would love to be w/ me & not pull that shit. I have 2 best guy pisces that are friends and even when they are in love, they still can’t stop themselves from checking out girls everywhere they go. I know they don’t mean to be rude/disrespectful, but it is & no girl should put up with that crap. We also hate people gossiping about us & talking shit, which most people do because they are jealous. Also Scorpios are considered magnetic, because when we walk into a room everyone notices & stops & stares. Many astrologers have told me this about scorps and honestly it’s true. We are very intuitive just like pisces and I always know good/bad what a pisces is thinking before they even say it. My sister is pisces and I am more intuitive than her and deeper. Scorpios are very deep as they get older, because we are spiritual and very interested in things beyond this world, like our souls & where we come from. We are very interested in astrology, psychology and psychics. We are like pisces too as we are interested in the arts and living in a dream world.
Oh & by the way, because of this annoying male pisces trait of always seeing if there is something better out there I am definitely not interested anymore & moving on. I love also when he’s like your the hottest girl here, like you need to check out every single girl in the room first to know that? Like please…. Also all my male pisces guy friends are all into the sluttiest girls they can find w/ the biggest, fakest boobs just to hook-up with. They will be very picky though about ones they date seriously, those will be nice girls. They are good guys though, have a conscience, loyal, sensitive and can feel bad if your their friend. But they are cocky as hell unless you knock them down. As a girl they hook-up with they will be upfront & let the girls know they only want to bang them basically. If they want more from a girl & think they can maybe date you, they will test you & play games to see if you qualify. All the girl pisces I know are all intelligent, calm, hardworkers & nice girls. I love my male pisces friends as friends, but from knowing them I would never date them. They are good friend material, but for me not good boyfriend material.
Scorpgirl, The post was supposed to be under a scorpio woman post somehow it got posted here. But i agree a man shouldn’t be looking at other women if he is with his woman. But it depends on how he looks or acts after all lot of people say hi just out of friendliness. I know scorpio women and men who are crazy jealous of little things. Like for instance a married couple him Leo her Scorpio he says suzanne pleshette is attractive and his is on the bob newhart show years ago and she has a fit. That is just crazy. Also some scorps love competing with other woman over a man they only want to show they can get him so they flirt and do the eye thing and yet if the shoes on the other foot they get possesive and jealous. This is what i’m speaking of. Not of disrepect that men do which that is understandable a woman ANY SUNSIGN would not approve of. AND YES PISCES MEN ARE MAN WHORES.
Scorpgirl, Most pisces men chase after scorpio women. they are usually obsessive over scorpio women. You are they’re weakness. Most scorpio women have Pisces men wrapped around their finger.
scorpio girl and trinity,
that is the piscean problem with scorpios, there vindictive and sneaky characteristics and their inability to trust…that is probably why he keeps looking for something he believes would be better…we do not like people to try and control us, especially in a sneaky fashion….scorpios usually they think they have pisceans wrapped around their finger until we up and leave one day out of the blue and then no one understands why….we think way before we act and we dont forget the things that have been done to us…we just dont try and hurt the other person in return, we just look elsewhere for love and eventually leave outright
wow. so true
I agree with what Pisces Queen said. We are like that with all signs. Every one thinks we are wrapped around there finger but thats not true. Once we are ready to move on we will. We will get sick & tired of people walking all over us trust me i know i do.
I’m a male Pisces looking to shack up with a Scorpio girl. I think that’s the only sign I’m yet to take a ride with. So far, all the rest are too easy to see through – some are better off left alone or to someone else while some, I’m better off without. And as wierd as it sounds, I’m a Piscean who loves control – at work, in bed and family matters. I’d like to see the challenge a Scorpio girl poses – her jealousy, vengeful streaks, seduction, wrath, and most importantly, if she can have me by the finger. Though I highly doubt it, afterall, how long can seduction last? Even magnets wear off, and talk about mutual magnetism, it’s rediculous.
I’m buying my handcuffs, lace and satin sheets and I’m gonna test the waters for any Scorpios hovering close by. Be careful, Piranhas and Sharks can bite too, and best of all, they can still escape! Can you? my dear Scorpios?
Be seeing you soon… very soon!
LOL…Pisces Queen. SOOOOOOO true! People see that reaction as us being frail and afraid to stand against the test of time, but honestly who wants to take a “perpetual test – especially the same one over and over again” in personal relationships when you’re constantly tested in life. Hell if I had to take a different multiple choice quiz everytime I tried to walk into my home…I’d probably pack my ish and move! lol ha ha ha
As Pisces our love lives are like our homes and we like them comfortable. Meaning the relatioship has to fit our personality. We will work with people and even act like we are fitting the mold of what they want until we finally see that there is absolutely nothing or very little about them that fits us. That’s why people are bewildered when we are “into them” one minute and gone the next. Men have ALWAYS taken me for granted. I can’t name a single one that didn’t in one way or another. The difference is that depending on how much I liked them they either got to do it once or multiple times before I literally bailed out of the relationship like it was a prison break. lol
Sex and casual non-intimate dating relationships are a different thing altogether. As long as they remain good/healthy within those boundaries, I can stay with it until the person demands that the relationship rules change. In all relationships, when a demand to change the rules of the relationship guidelines are pressed on me, I simply lose interest. There’s no other way for me to put it.
I find that it isn’t hard to dull my sensetivities when I’m near the end of a relationship with someone who doesn’t fully appreciate me. Are any other Pisces like that? I’m on the Aqua cusp, but astrologically am a triple Pisces. I like to think of my Pisces mind as the optimist while the Aqua traits keep me grounded. People often times tell me that I’m one of the most well balanced and grounded people they know. When faced with challenges, all of my associates, family, and friends refer to me as the “strong” one. Funny, because Pisces are generally thought of as weak. Hate the game and not the player. ha ha ha ha
Manipulative…yes, to a “T”. However, I DON’T manipulate people for the purpose of gain or to hurt them. Never that! I just say, email, text things to people and in my mind I’m already anticipating their response. I usually say off the cuff things HOPING that people will respond in a way that is unusual, but there are rare cases that are able. The ONLY person who has responded in a way contrary to what I thought they would (me interpreting his moves as “game like”) is a Scorp male. We WERE so enthralled with one another until recently and finally (after tiring of the games) my jets are cooled. I can see in his eyes that he’s still interested (they do this interesting lil dance) but until I can discover what he really wants and until he’s ready to be open and honest with me…I’m remaining calm with my Cap interest since he’s completely text book readable. lol
this post was dead on…..sooooooooooooo true
.. i am a hopeless pisces… virgo ascendant… how’s that for a contradiction lol.
Please tell me??I seam to fit most pisces traits.But I am loyal to my wife and freinds.I have an outragous temper that has led to a lot of fist fights that I allways win by the way.Why do we get portraid as meek and mild dont undestand that.Please tell me why I am so agresive it seams to be a chain I cant break.I do not drink or do drugs I try to live a normal life but get crossed so easily dont know what to do.
yes, i was involved with a hopeless fish and he just wont stop lying to himself….my goodness how much can one person lie to themselves…..his friends even called a life intervention on him and he finally got a job, and i hope he keeps it!
@ another fish man….i would look at your whole natal chart…this blog shows the extreme hopeless fish man
Hi JEFF,
Nice to see such a open self honest post. Dunno how i missed it.
Pisces is an extremely underrated sign just as the humility it symbolises. Since it rules the sea and spirits the pisces self does not have a definite psyche or form that offers stability. This is in contrast to capricorn and saturn with a solid sense of self and direction. This is the true cause of aimless drifting and goallessness.
PISCES IS THE MOST POWERFUL SIGN NOT SCORPIO OR LIBRA. IT RULES INFINITTUDE OF GOD!!!
Not all water signs or feminine, astrological wheel does not follow alternates of predictable masculine feminine, it may be ok for calculations, but the unverse does not operate in a humanly predictable way, but in a bizzare one. It is the bizzareness of the universe that is the foundation of orderliness. Spiritually evolved pisces symbolises the absolute order and discipline and an extremely martial approach.
Pisces is a masculine sign. Ultrasensitive yes but that does not make one feminine. Pisces women are not the ultrafeminine ones waiting for a scorp male to fertilise her eggs with his lava like seed. When i turn on my sensors to the grades of femininity in sun signs pisces women are masculine.
NEPTUNE IS A MASCULINE GOD WITH BEARD AND THE BROTHER OF PLUTO. THE SEA IS MASCULINE, THE SEABED WHICH COMES UNDER LIBRA IS FEMININE, BEDS AND BEDROOMS COME UNDER LIBRA., THE ESSENCE OF MOTHER EARTH. TAURUS AINT, I CAN PROVE THAT POINT BUT DONT WISH TO DIGRESS.
PISCES RULES THE ULTIMATE CATACLYSMS AND DEATH IN HORRIFYING CIRCUMSTANCES.
1. SINKING OF THE TITANIC under the pisces moon
2. Tsunamis are piscean propelled by the scorpionic nuclear force.
3. Colnel PAUL TIBBETS who dropped the bomb on HIROSHIMA was a piscean
4. MY father, mother, brother all coinicidentally died under the pisces moon.
Many more examples to follow.
oops i almost forgot,
Heydrich Reinhardtt the SS man who lead the Wanasee conference and the master mind behind the ultimate solution to the Jewish menace was a piscean, he died beforfe he could implement the same, but hitler and himmler did so after him.
great post / insight, rgopi30 !!!
~N. (pisces many times over)
I am married to a sun Pisces with moon, ascendent, and venus all in Taurus. While he is an unemployed freelance writer and musician (and daydreamer) he is also very practical, duty-bound, protective, hard working, and organized. Also, he is slightly posessive about me and very demanding at times. It seems that the Pisces part of him is what he shows the world (because he thinks the tortured starving artist persona is cool and rebellious) but what I see at home is the typical meat and potatoes guy. Very strict with kids, structured, likes to have a schedule, and while he has sexual fantasies and is very sweet and kissy, in bed he’s very vanilla and straight forward. I’m a sun Cancer and moon Aries venus Leo and frankly he bores me. But when I tell him I’m bored sexually he gets very hurt and withdrawn. Then he can’t perform at all! Help……………….
thats him being manipulative with holding out on sex and feeling woe is me…..
why are so many pisces men…unemployed???
Also forgot to mention when hubby gets angry his nostrils literally flare. Just like a bull. That’s how I know he doesn’t like what I’m saying. He’s also been known to break things in anger (never endangering me but just to blow off steam).
The only Pisces in his chart is sun and mars. Everything else is earth. The Pisces mars probably explains his lack of passion in the bedroom. My mars is in Cancer so there is no way in Hell I am going to take the lead with our sex life.
This doesn’t apply to all Pisces men. The former CEO of Walt Disney world is a Pisces. Shaquille O’Neal is a hard worker too. Their jobs require someone that’s not lazy or on drugs.
What a bullshit statement!!
I must be some kind of golden whale then among those who also did not shit up their back!
in fact you got the musician right!
19 years old was me at the guitar center spending my last money on a bass guitar,
now im sponsored,i make albums and tour!
although it does not pay the bill or put food on the table.
i got a normal job for that
i did drugs,until they quit working on me or being fun!
ive always paid everything ive ever owed!
yes i had a girlfriend that i owed 5000 british pounds and paid in full as promised
im lazy when i can allow myself to be.
ive never cheated on girlfriends either.
loved them all very much!
that statement describes a typical looser who is terrified with his/her own shadow
never had good sense of self esteem to begin with,then society failed them and in the end they start filling they void with whatever rubbish necessary to them,world is swarming with those people infact!
also my trouble making characteristics are way more interesting than that
on a very conscious mental level. so full of joy and excitement.
like a brand new chess game
I’m a Sag. female with Venus in Scorpio and need some guidance. Conceived under a Pisces moon w/ Pisces Dad and Scorpio Mom. I’m true fire, but mired in Scorpio intensity and Pisces emotion, and yeah, I have a little of that Scopio stinger.
Am married to a Scorpio male, but had a Pisces lover (divorced, early 50′s) for over a year. We are magnetic together. In some ways its like he is my twin soul (he is “with” me constantly….almost like I “feel” him where ever I am…. but we have not been able to keep it together and well I’m still married, but finally dealing with it.
Have tried it with the lover 3 times. It was a powerful beginning, but I was not honest about where I stood with the marriage…..I’d only just begun actually thinking of divorce and was completely taken off guard. The first time he stopped it two months in because he did not think we “wanted the same thing” and didn’t want an affair. Breakup took over a week. Then we got back together and it was heaven for about 3 months until he thought I went on a trip with someone else. When I got back he said “he met’ someone and proceeded to see her for the next 3 months. I wrote and told him I wanted him back. We were back together a month or so later. He assumed I was going through with the divorce and we were good the first 5 months of the year, but just doing the friends with benefits thing…or so I thought. I just wanted to give it time and see where we were and he never brought it up until the last time we were together. He asked “how’s the divorce going….going to be up soon as he counted his fingers”. He had spent the rest of the evening talking about every other girl he’d known and I was a little pissed off…gave him a snappy answer that maybe I’d just stay married as I needed the medical benefits. He got very angry, said that “when it was over it’s over you just do it”. We made up (sort of), made out and it was great….went to another level. A few days later we emailed and he tried to make me jealous again and made me feel like he didnt care about me. I told him I needed a break and he didn’t respond. I went on POF to make him jealous cause I knew he was there…let him know I was there….he seemed ok with it. But 6 weeks later he wrote “how’s the fishing?” I told him I was just talking to guys, not meeting any, he barely responded, then stopped all together. The silent treatment drove me crazy so I started bugging him with sexy emails and it worked…..we talked and had phone sex. Then he yelled at me and told me everything bad I’d done. That he couldn’t love me cause I was too serious and didn’t laugh at his joke and that it was just sex that I just came and went.
I sent him a book on kindness to which he sent me a nasty email saying that he was always kind and compassionate except when he had to be a hard ass cause someone couldn’t take no for an answer. Then it was back to the silent treatment. A few weeks later I called him to say I was coming over. He wasn’t home, but he got really pissed off that I would do that. We talked, we emailed and hissed and spit and threats etc. He said he was seeing someone and so did I (not true for me). I sent him a box of cookies and a note a few weeks later saying sorry about all that and hoped we could be friends to which he sent me a nasty email back. Totally irrational. That was so hurtful I lost my cool and sent him a bunch of magazine subscriptions and left the country for a month. He kept emailing me to stop sending them the whole time. Yes, I know we act like teenagers….he just brings it out of me…there is so much emotion between us. He says there is too much heat between us. It is doubtful we can be just friends because of that.
I tried to apologize once in November, he was still angry and asked why he should believe me. Ok, yeah, it has gotten bad, I know that I’m the reason this didn’t get off the ground and it has been frustrating. He never asked me to get a divorce, just quietly expected I guess. I just was not able to made a move….break the husbands heart and did not want to leave because of someone else. It’s been a horrible situation for me. No, not expecting sympathy. The Pisces guy is the love of my life, I know that, but we have lost trust…..though I know if we were together in the same room again it would all be there….even ramped up to the next level.
So I need some guidance here. I’d like to find a way to make it work, but don’t know how anymore. I am a very attractive, educated, professional woman, not an out of control wacko, nor am I desperate for a man….. I’m not looking for sympathy…I put myself in this situation. I was not looking for someone else, and never cheated on the husband before. It seemed out of my control. It’s been 8 months since we’ve seen each other. For the past two months there has been no contact…other than a few traded hang-up phone calls. He is always on my mind..and I wish he weren’t . I’d like some Pisces input here about what really happened from his perspective…I’m just too close to see the forest for the trees…….
I think the problem with Pisces and money…is it is not predominant in our thoughts meaning it’s probably not our main goal. We see it’s use but arn’t obsessed or overly concerned with obtaining it….meaning it will be rare to find a materialistic pisces.
I have to say up till now (and I’m 36, single mum) i havn’t really thought about financial security, ive done what i have to do but my goals have always been about personal growth or relationships, helping others or creative things that bring fullfillment to my life…and of course raising my daughter.
Ive always been independant and never sponged off other people, or loan money .but i do find that the people in my life tend to give to me via monitary things. Where as my giving has always been time and emotional support.
Ive had the conversation with people close to me and all they say is they want to help they want to give to me…it has made me think I coming across helpless or do they place more value on money and don’t like seeing me do without sometimes. idk but if i ever win lotto alot of people are gonna be sitting pretty lol
Ugghhh. My ex, the ultimate screw-up, is not a Pisces – but has Neptune on his Sag sun by mere minutes. The perpetual musician without income has been an alcoholic for so long his pancreas is eating itself and the pot he won’t stop smoking just makes it worse. He cheated on me multiple times with anything that batted eyes with him and turned his anger on me for catching him every time. Nothing that falls out of his mouth can be trusted – he even lies about looking for work! The epitome of helpless, he has never so much as cooked a meal or washed his own laundry in all of his 35 years.
Watch those Neptune folks, because with hard aspects they’re no different than those bottom-feeding Fishes!
man, I have been reading up on Pisces.. mainly Female Pisces or just Pisces in general. I really hope the cheating and straying away or evening lying is just minimal.
I am really liking this March 17th Pisces… and you guys are scaring me!
I am a pisces woman, and I must admit that I have some of the flaws stated here, but I have NEVER been addicted to any kind of drugs, and I don’t drink anything alcoholic, I am not saying I never tried drinking, it was never my thing, I find it more productive to use my artistic side, and I know that I am always the one that people who have problems come to, to have me try to help them out, I don’t know what my sun sign or moon sign are, I have no idea, I have worked since I was 14 yrs. old, my first job being as a cook, and I love to cook, I must admit that I hate to clean, but I do it anyway, I usually just turn up the music to get me motivated to do it, unless I have someone over to talk with then the time flys as I am doing my chores so to speak, I am always responsiable and I care deeply how others precive me, I can be an emotional mess at time, but I rarely if ever have an outburts, and I seem to hold a lot of my emotions in.. if things said hurt me, I do close off.. IDK if I am a classic Pisces, but I know for sure I do have some of the traits stated, but THANK GOD that I don’t have the addiction issues, and I hope I never do. Just wanted to say that you can’t coin all pisces people the same, I have always felt that how you are raised has a lot to do with whom you are more than your birth sign.
@RotaryDude:
I am a Pisces (March 1st) and I come from a family full of pisces (grandmother, father, four cousins, etc.) not to mention friends…..and no I am very faithful and loyal in relationships (Capricorn Moon and Cancer Rising). I will attest that if the mate of a Pisces is not providing the Pisces with something they need…which is usually an emotional need…a Pisces may resort to emotional cheating…wherein they re-direct their needs to someone who can provide them….for the more experience and mature Pisceans, this only happens as a last resort…when they have REPEATEDLY expressed their needs to their mates and have been consistently ignored…when they feel like communicating their needs to their mate hasnt gotten them anywhere or that their mate is not easy to communicate with….we usually do not enjoy relationships because our selfless nature often leads to us getting the least out of the relationship (and of course, there are many pisces who are more selfish than selfless)…in the end it depends on your mates chart and how she was raised plus what she has experienced in life….if you could find out the year she was born…time of birth even better and where she was born, you could get a better idea of her natal chart and her personality…..ask her about her past relationships and her upbringing…most of all…to get a pisces woman to notice you and appreciate you….LISTEN TO HER…..NOTICE THINGS ABOUT HER….PAY ATTENTION TO HER WHEN SHE SPEAKS…I have yet to meet a man that truly knows me….has taken enough time to know and understand me….whereas I am usually very good at knowing and understanding my mates…
@HisGirl:
I also never had any addiction issues though I do know Pisceans who do have addiction issues, mostly the men, seem to look to other things like alcohol and drugs, even food at times to escape their reality…to get back to their dream worlds….this is why most Pisces men NEED a strong woman who can give them a kick back into reality every once in a while…yes, they will seem hurt by that kick at first, but in the end, its what they need….because they can get into depressive states that seem never-ending and can play the “woe is me” card forever if you let them….though they often say Cancers and Pisces are the best match-ups, I often find that Cancer women let Pisces men get away with too much…they need a woman who will give them a kick in the butt from time to time so they can grow…allowing them to just stay in the “woe is me” or “I do no wrong” stage will not lead to growth and, in the end, is very destructive
lol…I’ve never been financially supported or taken off with anyone’s cash. Now…I could probably buy a nice lil flat screen with the amount of money I’ve LOANED out and never seen the light of day of. Better yet, add to that the number of stuff I’ve had stolen/damaged because of untrustworthy people being in my space or having access to my space. lol SMH It’s all good.
But errrr…ummm…if anyone is willing to support a single mother with three teens so that I can take a sabbatical from all of this hard work I do…I’m game. lol Anybody? If you feel like donating to my lifestyle, please feel free to hit up my inbox since Pisces are known for living off of other people.
I must have missed my opportunity or memo or somethin. lol ha ha ha ha Oh…and I’ve never had an issue with drugs. In fact, I got high for the VERY first time in life and that was by someone shot gunning me like…this past spring. I haven’t done it since and nor do I plan to. IDK, while I now understand first hand the affects that it has on people…I have wayyyyyy too much to do in life to stay high. lol I don’t smoke cigarettes…never have. I do imbibe from time to time, but even then…when I feel like I just don’t need or want to drink…I stop.
Let me think….ok, I have an addiction to nice shoes. I usually buy 2 new pairs of shoes about once every 6-8 weeks. Does that count? oh…and dresses. Same thing. 1 or 2 new dresses every couple of months or so.
However, if I compared that with the number of times people flat out ask me for money or to donate my time (braiding hair, decorating, watching their bad ass kids, etc) through phone calls and texts. LMBO!!! No comparison. SMH That happens like every single flippin month. I’m thinking that maybe the person you’re describing above was robbed, cheated on, lied to, and betrayed which is why the poor guy doesn’t have the money for a new guitar and feels like going out to the pub to drink. lol ha ha ha ha ha
This post is VERY entertaining.
Pisces are kind, vain, easily fooled, enterprising, imaginative, and sexual. As far as the cheating goes…I agree with PQ. I have cheated, but not in a serious relationship dealio. Like, at the beginning stages of a “relationship”…whatever that was supposed to mean. Sometimes though…the problem is that I was in a “relationship” and didn’t know it, because I was never asked or consulted. You can’t blame me for that, can you?
Oh but of course you can, because Pisces gets blamed for EVERYTHING. LMBO!!!
@Lee-Anne’s comment: “I think the problem with Pisces and money…is it is not predominant in our thoughts meaning it’s probably not our main goal. We see it’s use but arn’t obsessed or overly concerned with obtaining it….meaning it will be rare to find a materialistic pisces.
I have to say up till now (and I’m 36, single mum) i havn’t really thought about financial security, ive done what i have to do but my goals have always been about personal growth or relationships, helping others or creative things that bring fullfillment to my life…and of course raising my daughter.”
This is an example of the whole chart of a Pisces person being important to really know their individual personality…I have a Moon in Capricorn and I have ALWAYS been about financial security….money has always been a main goal of mine with mini goals along with it…so while I was defining what I wanted to do I always incorporated the idea that whatever I do in life needs to make me enough money that I can sustain a family, leave some sizeable behind for my future offspring and take care of my parents when they reach that age…the whole chart is absolutely important and must be looked at to determine what type of Pisces you have…this plus their upbringing will give you a good idea of what your Pisces is or is not capable of