Pisces man being possessive
January 22, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Like Aries taking things slow, “Pisces man being possessive” is oxymoronic. Pisces, the last sign of the zodiac, is a “let it be” sign, more polyamorous than possessive. He wants to love the world; there are no boundaries, no limitations, in love. Yes, his feelings are easily hurt, and he may feel abandoned or play the martyr if you flirt with other men. But possessive … no.
Venus, the planet of love, travels no further than two signs from one’s Sun sign. A possessive Pisces could have Venus in Taurus, the sign that wants to own it’s lover. Taurus is fixed earth, stubbornly holding on to anything it acquires. Taurus is also related to issues of self-worth — if you’re talking to some other guy, your Pisces man may be wondering what that guy’s got that he doesn’t! He’s scared of change, and doesn’t want to let you go.
The upside of this combination is that your Pisces man is both romantic and dreamy (Pisces) as well as sensual and lusty (Taurus). Sounds like a good lover to me, so if he occasionally gets insecure when you talk to that guy at the bar, just provide him some extra reassurance, and I’m sure after he sulks he’ll prove to you why he’s a keeper.
Comment below: Is your Pisces possessive?
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Possessive? Not my Pisces man with Venus in Aquarius, trine Uranus in the 8th, who says, “It’s okay if you wear that sexy lingerie (that he bought me) for another man sometime. I want you to enjoy it.” True story, which is why this comment is anonymous.
That’s quite a bit of sexual freedom. I hope you enjoy it
Funny…..I’m Pisces Sun with Venus in Aquarius and I can get very possesive if I don’t checked myself although being cold and detached come easily to me.
Pisces with Venus in Aquarius:
He isn’t possessive but very intent on keeping the relationship intact.
He feels jealous towards other men in my life, however would never interrupt my interaction with them.
Cool, detached, yet strangely emotional — stows it all away.
I love my pisces.
Oh, Jeffrey! My first real love was Pisces with Venus and Mars in Taurus, moon in Sag.
This guy was the most possessive man I have EVER met in my ENTIRE life. He was sooo super sweet, always had this “do whatever you want” thing going on, but as soon as I even SPOKE with another guy, and I do mean this guy could’ve been a foot shorter than me and drooling green slime, thie Pisces Sun/Taurus Venus would practically lose it. It was sooo weird at first. He would walk over and be very sublte, but those eyes and his body language basically spelled “you just signed a deathwish woman!” and yes, the term was “woman!” with the exclamation point.
I was doing kinda rebellious hoof in the dirt “I am an individual, and I can do whatever I want” little song and dance, and this man looked me dead in the eyes, pointed directlty at my heart, and said with a growl, “I own this individual.”
That’s when I finally stopped laughing.
He had beautiful eyes. NEVER EVER EVER allowed “woman on top.” He required complete control and domination of his female.
He was very respectful….believe it or not….and could actually compromise quite well if it was done in a fair, sweet, and communicative manner.
Wow fallen-astro-angel. Your pisces sounds just like mine! we’ve been going out for a little over a year now and hes so possesive. sounds almost identical to your ex pisces. My is one of thee most possesive pisces i have ever been with before. He has alot of fire in his chart, his rising is aries and moon in leo which also makws him quite agressive. And ima scropio.. im supposed to be more of the posseive one apprantly, but its completly opposite.
My Pisces man is very possessive too. I’m his Scorpio female ,and we’ve known/been with each other since I was 12! He’s never changed. Not one bit. If a guy OBVIOUSLY tries to flirt with me, he’ll quietly stand by, smirk even, and after the guy turns say, “nope, you’re mind. not a chance.”
However, my Pisces man gets very mad at me sometimes for “flirting too much”. I have a Gemini rising and he says I do it without noticing. The minute he sees me acting too “fast”, or “flirty” he calms up and frowns his lips to me. He won’t say a word, but I can feel his thoughts on my skin.
It’s so true about ignoring.. or even escaping into thoughts. I used to walk around asking, “what’s wrong?” all day. That was his way of coping with everything. I outwardly react through words..he does through retreating in his mind.
I constantly worry whether he’s happy, healthy, sane, and satisfied with us. He says he is, but his eyes are always wondering into the air (but never another woman.)
He’s not nearly as ambitious as I’d like him to be, but he’s my friend and my life partner. He supports me and my career ambition, and thats why I love him. It gives me more time to focus on me (the less I focus on what he’s not doing). The smartest thing I can suggest is KEEP CHECKING ACCOUNTS SEPERATE. My Pisces and I have yet to combine checking and never will. His lack of ambition is HIS choice and I respect that.. he knows to meet me halfway (with the bills and in our family responsabilities) so I respect his independent route of way of life.
I’m a Pisces & female. For me I am MAXIMUM like 3% possessive.
I only get that much, when I’m having one of my insecure moments. But’s it isn’t like I’m pulling my mans arm and saying “this is mine” or getting overly pissed off because he’s talking to many females.
Like was mentioned above, I just feel down most of the time.
Pisces only needs lots of reassurance. But do not however give him false reassurance, always be honest for his sake and yours. So if you’re talking to other men (which you should try to do less anyway when with your pisces) let him know after how much you love him and how much you enjoy being with him and only him. If it helps, tell him he’s the best guy you’ve ever met, held hands with, kissed and that he’s better than any of the other guys you talk to or know or just about any other guy in this world (as long as your sincere). An additional tip would be to be subtle about it, pisces will read your mind and your motives before you make them. He’ll know you’re trying to reassure him before you do it and if he believes your motives are not sincere or honest, the reassurance will not work. An example would be to keep a balance in whats being said to him, do not come directly to him after speaking to a couple of other guys and tell him how horrible they are and how wonderful he is to either extremes. Body language and location are very useful when transmiting information to a pisces. When speaking with the other guys, do not get too close to them and make sure to keep glancing back at your pisces to let him know that he still has your full attention. When you’re done, go back to your pisces, don’t strangle him with a dozen kisses and a huge bear hug and say a thousand times how much you love him (unless you do this regulalry) right then and there. If you’re going to do this, do it somewehre else but sit next to him first and be as normal as possible. After a while tell him you want to leave this place and be alone with him. When you’re alone, reassure him and hold him and tell him how much you love him. A practice of this might help any possessive traits or inecurities the pisces may have.
I am a Scorpio and my boyfriend is a Pisces. We recently got back together and he is very .. very sensitive.. and likes to always know how I am feeling. He is a very deep person, and yes he is very girly… he asks me ” when we are going to get married” . I love him for that.. but he is also jealous.. yikes I cant have guy friends he gets so angry… he even asked me to get a tattoo with his name on it.. ” his name property” on it.. there you go! Pisces men want to have you as a property. I reassured him that I dont need that on me, that I love him .. He also likes .. even though he says it frustes him that I become withdrawn at times. He is always dreamy about romance.. and how our marriage will be. I am the opposite I have a hard time to express my feelings. It takes him to make me open up to him. He is also very tough, he does boxing. He does not take sh.t from anyone that tries to take advantage of us. He is my perfect mate…there are downfalls but i COULD handle it.. remember I am a Scorpio : )
“…if you’re talking to some other guy, your Pisces man may be wondering what that guy’s got that he doesn’t! He’s scared of change, and doesn’t want to let you go.” – damn, that’s so friggin true! I have always felt that.
I’m pisces with my venus in Aries. A woman should be worried about possessing ME!
Noooooo my Pisces is VERY possessive and to be honest it annoys me a whole lot.
We were at a bar yesterday in fact and I’d been sitting on his lap and kissing him for ages so when I went off to get a drink and I started talking INNOCENTLY to the barman, he was straight over and had his hands on my bum and kissing me all over, trying to claim a stake in his territory. Like the barman asked what I wanted to drink I wasn’t flirting!
God i dunno if i can take much more of this, he’s always all over me if a guy looks me at for 1 second, sweet at first….VERY tiresome at the end!
I kind of wish my Pisces was possessive. He’s more like “you’re not going out wearing that, are you? Guys are gonna think you’re single!” and if I’m with him, he wants me to dress up all sexy sometimes so that his guys friends will idol him. He’s REALLY REALLY good looking, charming, charismatic, funny, just awesome! But, it sucks because he’s shallow, dresses to please the opposite sex, and loves to flirt! Drives me up the freakin’ wall!