It’s been awhile since I’ve last written on here. Just an update. Our break period is over. We started talking again, but of course, I pissed him on by bringing up a sensitive subject on the first phone call we had in 2 months. Do I want to push him away?lol But, during that phone call he said 2 months was easy for him “a drop in the bucket”. Really. How was it that I missed him everyday and he just kept going. How was it so easy for him? he said, you just have to keep going. Keep living. What if a plane crashed that had everyone you loved on it… you keep going. I understand that I needed to relax (still do) but he wasn’t on a plane crash… he was 20 minutes away. A phone call away.

well, we talked again after that (week later) and he said I was strategic and the past months were peaceful for him and in one phone call I manage to stir everything up (when I brought up his living situation). The thing is he lives with his family and he blatantly lied to me about. It doesn’t matter that he does, but all throughout our relationship it would bother me that I never went over to his house or he wouldn’t stay over (his daughter clearly wasn’t alone). I get that it’s a self preservation thing… image. I get that Pisces and well, me are into keeping up a certain image. But, at a certain point… Well, after that phone call…we went a week with him ignoring me again and we talked yesterday and it was actually lighthearted and fun. I was laughing again. It was great.

I guess now I’m asking… it’s like we have to learn each other all over again. I know he’s guarded and I know not expect him to start telling me his deepest secrets but do I just let him text me now? I sent a happy halloween text (hope I’m not smothering). he said I was stuck with him and that he was in my life as long as I wanted. But, that was 3 months ago. Would it be he changed his feelings? is that possible. I’m learning to take it one day at a time. I get butterflies on the few times when he has called. Like the old days. I don’t think he has that feeling.lol When we talked yesterday, it was just about nothing. Just fun talking about random subjects. I miss not talking to him already.

Leave the fish alone with his thoughts for a while. Pisces tend to do what is comfortable, and since you have been coming to him, he will let you. When he realizes that you are backing off it will force him to either swim away or take some action and pursue you!

I don’t think that’s it since no one at work knows about us. But I appreciate the advice, anyway!

I stayed away from the off hours place last week cause it’s too painful. the whole things is weird but I am so sick of this silect nonsense. Fine…work is work(if that’s his problem) but still can’t take that much time to drop a hello!!

Hi, I know your pain….. It sounds like he got a blast from management and is trying to keep “work” work…. If you see him off hours then you could flirt a little and then treat him a bit cool,