Comments on: My Pisces man left me. Will he come back?

By: shana.j

shana.j — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 20:30:07 +0000

Hey Libra in Love,

Sorry to hear about your trouble,i have been having trouble with my own ‘fishy friend’ too.
All i can say is when a Pisces guy tells ‘you they don’t want to talk’ or ‘they want to be alone’ TAKE THEIR WORD FOR IT.
He probably needs to clear his head,and figure out what he wants,Pisces is very fickle-i know its hard (i had to post about my fishy friend on ‘how to know when a pisces doesn’t like you)but please try and put him to the back of your mind and put him on ‘hold’.
He will come back when he’s ready-whether you want to welcome him back is another matter

By: libra in love

libra in love — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 17:09:21 +0000

I need some advice about some practical things to do now. We had a conversation yesterday where he said he didn’t want to talk to me for 36 hours, then he got angry when we talked and sent me 45 messages saying how he felt, that he could never marry me, and he had stopped caring for me a long time ago, etc. That he needed to be true. This is the same man that was so in love with me just a few days ago! Then when I talked to him again he said I need some advice about some practical things to do now. We had a conversation yesterday where he said he didn’t want to talk to me for 36 hours, then he got angry when we talked and sent me 45 messages saying how he felt, that he could never marry me, and he had stopped caring for me a long time ago, etc. That he needed to be true. This is the same man that was so in love with me just a few days ago! Then when I talked to him again he said he just needed me to not get angry. In other words he went all over the place, and said he didn’t know, etc.
I called him last night but his phone was off. I tried again this morning for a wake up call but he eventually turned his phone off. Clearly he does not want to talk to me right now. He said he was tired of the “depressed dominatrix” thing and just lots of other mean things that kept me up at night.
ANY ADVICE??

By: Ms. Virgo

Ms. Virgo — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 15:44:04 +0000

Fish have trouble making up their minds and can be super annoying when they get in to this mode. I think that whenever he’s done with his mood swing he just does what is convenient for him which is to run back to you, his safe place. I would really leave him alone for a while and let him get himself together, or not get himself together. Either way he has to do it alone, you can’t ‘rescue’ him from himself.

By: libra in love

libra in love — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 06:36:56 +0000

hello,
anyone know how to deal with a pisces who constantly breaks up? he gets hurt over things like me being “mean” to him on the phone, then he says horrible things with me and says it’s over, but says a lot of confusing things like it’s better for me, and the famous “I don’t know.”
Well I don’t know what to do. If it’s really over I want it to be fully over. We’ve gone through this so many times and he’s never learned to just control himself. Are we just not meant to be? I can’t help but resent him and feel so angry that I’m always there but he just drops me like this! He can totally ignore me then come right back.

By: Taurusfml

Taurusfml — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 21:24:15 +0000

i’m baaackk!!! oh lord has this been interesting…well my pisces male and i have been together almost 2 years now. i feel like we’re back to square one…except not so dramatic. everything has been going kind of downhill in a way. at least that’s how he sees it. and well finances are crap again because..well it’s the season i guess. so his bills are getting behind again and now we’re afraid he may lose his home. which i expected and accepted. i’ve been getting really pissed off alot lately…i guess mostly about him not doing what i think he should or being the way he should be. but ya know we all need some assurance every now and then and when i feel i’m lacking it i get pissy or frustrated. so this morning i brought up something and got pissy … we argued again..we’ve only been arguing for about a month now…i know it’s because of all the financial pressure and me seeing him distant him self and see EVERYTHING so negatively. we always knew we were meant to be, madly in love, soul mates and damn it when things get rough for him it’s like he hates me to and is bitter about me and everything else. so he tells me he he’s not happy with me anymore and doesnt think he will be happy with anyone. WOW! that was a bullet to my soul! all of a sudden he says “i don’t believe in marriage and its all a load of BS, nothing is forever, buying into that is naive..” …he says “you need to start being honest with yourself, you’re not meant to be with me and you know it..its very noble of you that you wanna have the idealistic aproach of sticking through the hards times but you and i both know it’s only gonna last for so long” …i’m like wow! this guy must be smoking crack bc im totally in love with him and yeh he drives me nuts and i drive him nuts but i know he’s in love with me too…just the other day he says “you it for me, your my soul mate” blah blah blah…why does he do this???? so i said tough, i’m not letting you break my heart again and break yourself and doubt yourself bc you are in a rut. i told him i wont let him do this to me again and i’ll be there to help him when he breaks and i will love him when he doesn’t feel like loving but i won’t let him leave me again bc i love him and i know he know he loves me…i was at work so i had to text him…after that text he never responded…it’s been hours now. i’m getting use to this bullsh*t mood swing he gets in but it’s also getting too old and draining me. why can’t he just learn to deal with the bad and look forward to the good? i’m going out tonight, because i just can’t see him right now. i’m so hurt again. i don’t know if should tell him i won’t be home to later or just not call or say anything since he hasn’t resonded…what should i do with this all???

By: capgirl

capgirl — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 01:15:03 +0000

I will try to help answer your questions because I have had exactly the same issues with my Pisces man as a couple of you women have and dramamama i understand what you are saying as well. However, seeing as this is also a zodiac sight and relationship sight, I think it is important to see how ones sign can influence ones relationship behavior. My man exhibited all the same signs and I noticed a slight change in his attitude mid way through the relationship. Im a Capricorn and very cautious so I tend to overanalyze and criticize everything (can’t help it it’s in my nature). I started to react by messaging him more seeing him more and trying to force it. I however do not see eye to eye with him on some matters and can’t understand his logic and lack of ambition to succeed. Needless to say we broke it off but still talked to one another occasionally and he told me he still liked me. Me and him have this type of connection thats indescribable, we are driven towards each other. My answer to you ladies would be to leave the situation because pisces men are very complex and “feminine” in terms of sensitivity. I hurt him so he takes it to extremes and overreacts. The point is whether or not you can’t get over him and sometimes you never do, you need to focus on what makes you happy. Im posting this for you women to realize that going under these types of pages on how to get him back and what he wants and why he’s doing is already going too far. A relationship is about understanding and if you cannot understand that person that you have to look further then what they are displaying, then perhaps that person isn’t giving enough. The moral of this post is to say that maybe you shouldn’t focus on what you did wrong and what you should do in recourse, but maybe he should think about the way he acts because obviously he isn’t looking up your Zodiac to understand you and your own emotions better.

By: Dramarama

Dramarama — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 00:11:51 +0000

Okay ladies…i see it now.
i think it’s a matter of lack of interest, and no, if he has lost it, he is not going to come back to you. simple as that.
i know people are different. but when we’re talking about serious issues such as divorce, recreational drug abuse, theft, material issues so on and so forth, i think it get a wee complicated. after all, this is a relationship/astrology forum and not a family law advice firm. i get a little confused, to be honest. no disrespect towards the girls with problems like the ones i just mentioned but come on…leave drugs and stuff like that out of the conversation, what does that have to do with the zodiac sign??

getting back to our business, it’s silly to see how so many women consume themselves over mixed messages, midnight sms texts or cryptic phonecalls. girls…if he is not interested, you’ll notice. i dated a pisces man who would be all over me though working a lot, and i would always turn him down and he’d always call back. we dated for a while, stopped seeing each other and then reunited for some seksi time sex was great, and still is. we like each other and everything, but it will never get serious. i can see it from his behavior.
if a man is interested he will call you. simple. if you haven’t had past problems or a longer relationship with all its debris, i don’t see why all this mass confusion- one girl said she’s confused because he didn’t call her anymore after sex. i can’t talk for him and say he is no longer interested because i don’t know if this is the case. i know it is tough to wait but try taking your mind off these issues. think simple- if he wants you, he will call. if you want him, you should call. by displaying too much cautiousness you suddenly appear as demanding special treatment just because you slept with him, and that’s not good. just keep your calm and act normally as you did before.
again, all the problems mentioned here are not pisces problems, are relationship issues. get yourselves a lawyer/councilor/ restriction order/new phone number and please spare some of the details here. no offense, but come on, let’s keep it light.

By: msqueen

msqueen — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 09:41:57 +0000

HI PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE. THIS BOARD IS WONDERFUL AND WISE AND I’M HOPING TO ADD TO MY UNDERSTANDING OF PISCES. I’M SORRY FOR THE ALL CAPS BUT I AM TRYING TO GET ATTENTION AND HOPEFULLY THIS WILL HELP!!

I’VE BEEN WITH MY PISCES FOR 3 YEARS. IT HASN’T ALWAYS BEEN SMOOTH SAILING, BUT WHENEVER THINGS GET REALLY BAD, I REALIZE HOW MUCH HE MEANS TO ME AND I TRY TO MAKE IT WORK. I’M A STRONG GIRL WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH AND DESPITE MY FLAWS I THINK MY PISCES TRULY APPRECIATES ME.

HE STARTED SMOKING TONS OF MARIJUANA A FEW MONTHS AGO AND HE HASN’T STOPPED, EVEN THOUGH WHEN HE STARTED UP I TRIED TO WARN HIM ABOUT HIS ADDICTIONS. HE DIDN’T LISTEN. INSTEAD, HE JUST SHUT ME OUT AND BROKE UP WITH ME OVER AND OVER AGAIN. I KEEP GOING BACK TO HIM BECAUSE I CAN’T STAY AWAY. WE’VE HAD THIS PATTERN REALLY BADLY IN THE PAST FEW MONTHS. I EVEN MOVED ON AND DATED SOMEBODY ELSE BUT FOUND MYSELF BACK WITH PISCES.

I’M A LIBRA WITH A MOON IN CANCER AND A VENUS IN SCORPIO. I’M VERY POSSESSIVE, UNDERSTANDING, CARING, GENERALLY A MAGIC MYSTERY WOMAN. BUT THE PROBLEM IS, I TRY TO COMMUNICATE WITH PISCES TOO MUCH AND HE JUST SWIMS AWAY. TODAY I GOT FED UP AND YELLED AT HIM ON THE PHONE! HE AVOIDED MY CALLS AND HAS NOT CALLED ME BACK TODAY.

DESPITE THE STUFF THAT HAPPENED BETWEEN US THINGS WERE REALLY GOOD RECENTLY UP UNTIL I STARTED ACTING TOO NEEDY AND CALLING HIM TOO MUCH ON HIS TELEPHONE. I WANTED SOME REASSURANCE ABOUT HIS FEELINGS FOR ME, TO GET TO THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER, BUT HE EVADED ME, AND GOT ANNOYED, AND BROKE IT OFF WITH ME YET AGAIN.

I NEED SOME ADVICE ABOUT WHAT TO DO NOW. I WANT HIM BACK, FEELING FOR ME THE WAY HE DID WHEN THINGS WERE GOOD, BUT AT THE SAME TIME I DON’T WANT TO LOSE MY POWER OR CONTROL AGAIN AND GET TOO NEEDY AND INSECURE. I WANT TO FEEL IN CONTROL SO IT DOESN’T HAPPEN AND I CAN GIVE HIM HIS SPACE!

PLEASE GIVE ME FEEDBACK. THANK YOU AND MUCH PEACE.

By: trininty

trininty — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 06:47:42 +0000

Dutchess, LEAVE HIM. But I’m sure you won’t. Jade dump him also. Girls get a backbone and some dignity.

By: dutchess

dutchess — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 20:10:23 +0000

oh yea….our other issue is i am 10yrs older than him(im 40 and he’s 32). He has no kids and he wants at least one. i hv suggested on many occasions me getting a revesal of my tubial ligation to no avail! he always avoids the question to a certain point. He aleays brings up that i knw this when we got together but i tell him he new my situation also!!! I dnt understand wat his problem is except that he has an issue wit my age r his lil fantasy of how he would hv a kid doesn’t include me although we’ve been together this long(2 plus yrs). Somebody tell me wat i should think r do!!! Should i jst let him go and see wat it is out there, cause i dnt really think he understands wat can come of an unplanned pregnancy jst to say u hv a kid!!!