My Pisces man left me. Will he come back?
Mercury goes retrograde in Pisces the day before Valentine’s. When Mercury apparently moves backwards in the sky, unfinished business comes back for resolution. We “re”-turn to old matters. Since it’s happening in Pisces*, your ex may come back … at the very least to rehash the reasons why he left you.
Mercury retrograde has a bad rap for communications gone awry. However, it’s good for revisiting the past. If your Pisces man returns to talk, clear up any confusion, shatter any delusions. His ruling planet, Neptune, is being challenged right now by Saturn, god of hard, cold reality. Illusions are being shattered until summer, and you have the opportunity to distinguish fantasy from fact.
*Mercury moves back into Aquarius on Feb. 26, and returns into Pisces on March 18.
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Well, the time of our “break”, “time apart”…whatever has ended. Of course, I texted him a few days after. nothing too heavy. He responded just like clockwork… like no time has passed. I even texted him tonight “Too soon to start hitting you up for song requests? lol” (I use to ask him for song requests when I was out listening to my friend play – old classic rock). He texted back a song and said “goodnight.”. I know I should just be happy with him responding both days, right. I mean, I know he can NOT respond… he’s proven that by not doing so for the time allotted. But, now what? Are we really just moving forward like nothing happened?? We haven’t talked yet. But, I’ve initiated both texts and he really is just giving me the minimum…. but why even bother. I know I shouldn’t analyze… just accept. But, I don’t know what he is wanting. Should I really just back off and let him come to me now? I clearly still have feeling for him even though I say “I just miss my friend”. But, I do.
Well Suzanna, it sounds like you are getting caught up in Pisces mystic spell. I would say you need to totally back off nad give him a chance to put some real effort in besides texting one word responses.
Pisces Queen:
It’s been awhile since I’ve last written on here. Just an update. Our break period is over. We started talking again, but of course, I pissed him on by bringing up a sensitive subject on the first phone call we had in 2 months. Do I want to push him away?lol But, during that phone call he said 2 months was easy for him “a drop in the bucket”. Really. How was it that I missed him everyday and he just kept going. How was it so easy for him? he said, you just have to keep going. Keep living. What if a plane crashed that had everyone you loved on it… you keep going. I understand that I needed to relax (still do) but he wasn’t on a plane crash… he was 20 minutes away. A phone call away.
well, we talked again after that (week later) and he said I was strategic and the past months were peaceful for him and in one phone call I manage to stir everything up (when I brought up his living situation). The thing is he lives with his family and he blatantly lied to me about. It doesn’t matter that he does, but all throughout our relationship it would bother me that I never went over to his house or he wouldn’t stay over (his daughter clearly wasn’t alone). I get that it’s a self preservation thing… image. I get that Pisces and well, me are into keeping up a certain image. But, at a certain point… Well, after that phone call…we went a week with him ignoring me again and we talked yesterday and it was actually lighthearted and fun. I was laughing again. It was great.
I guess now I’m asking… it’s like we have to learn each other all over again. I know he’s guarded and I know not expect him to start telling me his deepest secrets but do I just let him text me now? I sent a happy halloween text (hope I’m not smothering). he said I was stuck with him and that he was in my life as long as I wanted. But, that was 3 months ago. Would it be he changed his feelings? is that possible. I’m learning to take it one day at a time. I get butterflies on the few times when he has called. Like the old days. I don’t think he has that feeling.lol When we talked yesterday, it was just about nothing. Just fun talking about random subjects. I miss not talking to him already.
I am a Cancer female (38) and just met a Pisces male (25). Everything was cool in the beginning we talked via text a lot and hung out a couple of times. We both established that we were not looking for a relationship just some companionship with each other. He used to text me Goodnight like everynight. Then last week we had sex..it was good. We both enjoyed ourselves. Now I have hardly heard from him..well, I haven’t. I texted him 3 days later just saying Hi and he called me cutie and Babe..which he had never done before but now I get no Goodnights..or anything?!? I don’t know what to think. I don’t want to put any pressure on him but still wonder why he backed off. I am trying not to over analyze..but hey I am a girl and I just wanna know if he hit it and split it or what?!?
Help me out Pisces males!!
Jules, just ignore him move on with your own life hobbies interests keep busy.
Jules-
If you are still around…..i’m sure you’eve read all of the posts above, take the advice cause it’s all true. pisce men are the most confusing of the bunch. sounds like yours is being a typical man, and then a typical pisces. backing off may or may not help as a lot of ladies suggest. but it’s way easier said than done. women want answers, not to be used, and they only way to get them is to stay around long enough….play a little game like he is, if you can manage it.
i jst gotta say that it is real crazy to see otha women goin thru this thing with a pises man!! we hv been together 2 1/2 yrs, and it is jst now gettin crazy. i am a cancer female and we r very capable of putting up wit alot….we go the distance in relationships many times to our own dismay! My picses masn is goin thru his mytr stage heavy and it is directed at our relationship. He is dwn on his luck,no job wants to get his own apartment and other things. So he feels stuck!! He has made it worse by escaping on dating websites to fufill his worthless feelin. which has put a damper on our relationship cause of things i caught him say on these pages. Yes he lies….lil ones but he does! I am jst so confused because i knw all these things about the male picses,yet i let my emotions rule me. I must say that i am getting better at given him a taste of his own medicine and he isn’t liken it that much, but its makin him talk more where as he wouldn’t before…i am not sure wat the future will hold but i am goin to take advice from this page and see where we end up!!
oh yea….our other issue is i am 10yrs older than him(im 40 and he’s 32). He has no kids and he wants at least one. i hv suggested on many occasions me getting a revesal of my tubial ligation to no avail! he always avoids the question to a certain point. He aleays brings up that i knw this when we got together but i tell him he new my situation also!!! I dnt understand wat his problem is except that he has an issue wit my age r his lil fantasy of how he would hv a kid doesn’t include me although we’ve been together this long(2 plus yrs). Somebody tell me wat i should think r do!!! Should i jst let him go and see wat it is out there, cause i dnt really think he understands wat can come of an unplanned pregnancy jst to say u hv a kid!!!
Dutchess, LEAVE HIM. But I’m sure you won’t. Jade dump him also. Girls get a backbone and some dignity.
HI PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE. THIS BOARD IS WONDERFUL AND WISE AND I’M HOPING TO ADD TO MY UNDERSTANDING OF PISCES. I’M SORRY FOR THE ALL CAPS BUT I AM TRYING TO GET ATTENTION AND HOPEFULLY THIS WILL HELP!!
I’VE BEEN WITH MY PISCES FOR 3 YEARS. IT HASN’T ALWAYS BEEN SMOOTH SAILING, BUT WHENEVER THINGS GET REALLY BAD, I REALIZE HOW MUCH HE MEANS TO ME AND I TRY TO MAKE IT WORK. I’M A STRONG GIRL WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH AND DESPITE MY FLAWS I THINK MY PISCES TRULY APPRECIATES ME.
HE STARTED SMOKING TONS OF MARIJUANA A FEW MONTHS AGO AND HE HASN’T STOPPED, EVEN THOUGH WHEN HE STARTED UP I TRIED TO WARN HIM ABOUT HIS ADDICTIONS. HE DIDN’T LISTEN. INSTEAD, HE JUST SHUT ME OUT AND BROKE UP WITH ME OVER AND OVER AGAIN. I KEEP GOING BACK TO HIM BECAUSE I CAN’T STAY AWAY. WE’VE HAD THIS PATTERN REALLY BADLY IN THE PAST FEW MONTHS. I EVEN MOVED ON AND DATED SOMEBODY ELSE BUT FOUND MYSELF BACK WITH PISCES.
I’M A LIBRA WITH A MOON IN CANCER AND A VENUS IN SCORPIO. I’M VERY POSSESSIVE, UNDERSTANDING, CARING, GENERALLY A MAGIC MYSTERY WOMAN. BUT THE PROBLEM IS, I TRY TO COMMUNICATE WITH PISCES TOO MUCH AND HE JUST SWIMS AWAY. TODAY I GOT FED UP AND YELLED AT HIM ON THE PHONE! HE AVOIDED MY CALLS AND HAS NOT CALLED ME BACK TODAY.
DESPITE THE STUFF THAT HAPPENED BETWEEN US THINGS WERE REALLY GOOD RECENTLY UP UNTIL I STARTED ACTING TOO NEEDY AND CALLING HIM TOO MUCH ON HIS TELEPHONE. I WANTED SOME REASSURANCE ABOUT HIS FEELINGS FOR ME, TO GET TO THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER, BUT HE EVADED ME, AND GOT ANNOYED, AND BROKE IT OFF WITH ME YET AGAIN.
I NEED SOME ADVICE ABOUT WHAT TO DO NOW. I WANT HIM BACK, FEELING FOR ME THE WAY HE DID WHEN THINGS WERE GOOD, BUT AT THE SAME TIME I DON’T WANT TO LOSE MY POWER OR CONTROL AGAIN AND GET TOO NEEDY AND INSECURE. I WANT TO FEEL IN CONTROL SO IT DOESN’T HAPPEN AND I CAN GIVE HIM HIS SPACE!
PLEASE GIVE ME FEEDBACK. THANK YOU AND MUCH PEACE.
Okay ladies…i see it now.
i think it’s a matter of lack of interest, and no, if he has lost it, he is not going to come back to you. simple as that.
i know people are different. but when we’re talking about serious issues such as divorce, recreational drug abuse, theft, material issues so on and so forth, i think it get a wee complicated. after all, this is a relationship/astrology forum and not a family law advice firm. i get a little confused, to be honest. no disrespect towards the girls with problems like the ones i just mentioned but come on…leave drugs and stuff like that out of the conversation, what does that have to do with the zodiac sign??
getting back to our business, it’s silly to see how so many women consume themselves over mixed messages, midnight sms texts or cryptic phonecalls. girls…if he is not interested, you’ll notice. i dated a pisces man who would be all over me though working a lot, and i would always turn him down and he’d always call back. we dated for a while, stopped seeing each other and then reunited for some seksi time
sex was great, and still is. we like each other and everything, but it will never get serious. i can see it from his behavior.
if a man is interested he will call you. simple. if you haven’t had past problems or a longer relationship with all its debris, i don’t see why all this mass confusion- one girl said she’s confused because he didn’t call her anymore after sex. i can’t talk for him and say he is no longer interested because i don’t know if this is the case. i know it is tough to wait but try taking your mind off these issues. think simple- if he wants you, he will call. if you want him, you should call. by displaying too much cautiousness you suddenly appear as demanding special treatment just because you slept with him, and that’s not good. just keep your calm and act normally as you did before.
again, all the problems mentioned here are not pisces problems, are relationship issues. get yourselves a lawyer/councilor/ restriction order/new phone number and please spare some of the details here. no offense, but come on, let’s keep it light.
I will try to help answer your questions because I have had exactly the same issues with my Pisces man as a couple of you women have and dramamama i understand what you are saying as well. However, seeing as this is also a zodiac sight and relationship sight, I think it is important to see how ones sign can influence ones relationship behavior. My man exhibited all the same signs and I noticed a slight change in his attitude mid way through the relationship. Im a Capricorn and very cautious so I tend to overanalyze and criticize everything (can’t help it it’s in my nature). I started to react by messaging him more seeing him more and trying to force it. I however do not see eye to eye with him on some matters and can’t understand his logic and lack of ambition to succeed. Needless to say we broke it off but still talked to one another occasionally and he told me he still liked me. Me and him have this type of connection thats indescribable, we are driven towards each other. My answer to you ladies would be to leave the situation because pisces men are very complex and “feminine” in terms of sensitivity. I hurt him so he takes it to extremes and overreacts. The point is whether or not you can’t get over him and sometimes you never do, you need to focus on what makes you happy. Im posting this for you women to realize that going under these types of pages on how to get him back and what he wants and why he’s doing is already going too far. A relationship is about understanding and if you cannot understand that person that you have to look further then what they are displaying, then perhaps that person isn’t giving enough. The moral of this post is to say that maybe you shouldn’t focus on what you did wrong and what you should do in recourse, but maybe he should think about the way he acts because obviously he isn’t looking up your Zodiac to understand you and your own emotions better.
i’m baaackk!!! oh lord has this been interesting…well my pisces male and i have been together almost 2 years now. i feel like we’re back to square one…except not so dramatic. everything has been going kind of downhill in a way. at least that’s how he sees it. and well finances are crap again because..well it’s the season i guess. so his bills are getting behind again and now we’re afraid he may lose his home. which i expected and accepted. i’ve been getting really pissed off alot lately…i guess mostly about him not doing what i think he should or being the way he should be. but ya know we all need some assurance every now and then and when i feel i’m lacking it i get pissy or frustrated. so this morning i brought up something and got pissy … we argued again..we’ve only been arguing for about a month now…i know it’s because of all the financial pressure and me seeing him distant him self and see EVERYTHING so negatively. we always knew we were meant to be, madly in love, soul mates and damn it when things get rough for him it’s like he hates me to and is bitter about me and everything else. so he tells me he he’s not happy with me anymore and doesnt think he will be happy with anyone. WOW! that was a bullet to my soul! all of a sudden he says “i don’t believe in marriage and its all a load of BS, nothing is forever, buying into that is naive..” …he says “you need to start being honest with yourself, you’re not meant to be with me and you know it..its very noble of you that you wanna have the idealistic aproach of sticking through the hards times but you and i both know it’s only gonna last for so long” …i’m like wow! this guy must be smoking crack bc im totally in love with him and yeh he drives me nuts and i drive him nuts but i know he’s in love with me too…just the other day he says “you it for me, your my soul mate” blah blah blah…why does he do this???? so i said tough, i’m not letting you break my heart again and break yourself and doubt yourself bc you are in a rut. i told him i wont let him do this to me again and i’ll be there to help him when he breaks and i will love him when he doesn’t feel like loving but i won’t let him leave me again bc i love him and i know he know he loves me…i was at work so i had to text him…after that text he never responded…it’s been hours now. i’m getting use to this bullsh*t mood swing he gets in but it’s also getting too old and draining me. why can’t he just learn to deal with the bad and look forward to the good? i’m going out tonight, because i just can’t see him right now. i’m so hurt again. i don’t know if should tell him i won’t be home to later or just not call or say anything since he hasn’t resonded…what should i do with this all???
hello,
anyone know how to deal with a pisces who constantly breaks up? he gets hurt over things like me being “mean” to him on the phone, then he says horrible things with me and says it’s over, but says a lot of confusing things like it’s better for me, and the famous “I don’t know.”
Well I don’t know what to do. If it’s really over I want it to be fully over. We’ve gone through this so many times and he’s never learned to just control himself. Are we just not meant to be? I can’t help but resent him and feel so angry that I’m always there but he just drops me like this! He can totally ignore me then come right back.
Fish have trouble making up their minds and can be super annoying when they get in to this mode. I think that whenever he’s done with his mood swing he just does what is convenient for him which is to run back to you, his safe place. I would really leave him alone for a while and let him get himself together, or not get himself together. Either way he has to do it alone, you can’t ‘rescue’ him from himself.
I need some advice about some practical things to do now. We had a conversation yesterday where he said he didn’t want to talk to me for 36 hours, then he got angry when we talked and sent me 45 messages saying how he felt, that he could never marry me, and he had stopped caring for me a long time ago, etc. That he needed to be true. This is the same man that was so in love with me just a few days ago! Then when I talked to him again he said I need some advice about some practical things to do now. We had a conversation yesterday where he said he didn’t want to talk to me for 36 hours, then he got angry when we talked and sent me 45 messages saying how he felt, that he could never marry me, and he had stopped caring for me a long time ago, etc. That he needed to be true. This is the same man that was so in love with me just a few days ago! Then when I talked to him again he said he just needed me to not get angry. In other words he went all over the place, and said he didn’t know, etc.
I called him last night but his phone was off. I tried again this morning for a wake up call but he eventually turned his phone off. Clearly he does not want to talk to me right now. He said he was tired of the “depressed dominatrix” thing and just lots of other mean things that kept me up at night.
ANY ADVICE??
Hey Libra in Love,
Sorry to hear about your trouble,i have been having trouble with my own ‘fishy friend’ too.
All i can say is when a Pisces guy tells ‘you they don’t want to talk’ or ‘they want to be alone’ TAKE THEIR WORD FOR IT.
He probably needs to clear his head,and figure out what he wants,Pisces is very fickle-i know its hard (i had to post about my fishy friend on ‘how to know when a pisces doesn’t like you)but please try and put him to the back of your mind and put him on ‘hold’.
He will come back when he’s ready-whether you want to welcome him back is another matter