My Pisces man left me. Will he come back?
January 19, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Mercury goes retrograde in Pisces the day before Valentine’s. When Mercury apparently moves backwards in the sky, unfinished business comes back for resolution. We “re”-turn to old matters. Since it’s happening in Pisces*, your ex may come back … at the very least to rehash the reasons why he left you.
Mercury retrograde has a bad rap for communications gone awry. However, it’s good for revisiting the past. If your Pisces man returns to talk, clear up any confusion, shatter any delusions. His ruling planet, Neptune, is being challenged right now by Saturn, god of hard, cold reality. Illusions are being shattered until summer, and you have the opportunity to distinguish fantasy from fact.
*Mercury moves back into Aquarius on Feb. 26, and returns into Pisces on March 18.
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Well, the time of our “break”, “time apart”…whatever has ended. Of course, I texted him a few days after. nothing too heavy. He responded just like clockwork… like no time has passed. I even texted him tonight “Too soon to start hitting you up for song requests? lol” (I use to ask him for song requests when I was out listening to my friend play – old classic rock). He texted back a song and said “goodnight.”. I know I should just be happy with him responding both days, right. I mean, I know he can NOT respond… he’s proven that by not doing so for the time allotted. But, now what? Are we really just moving forward like nothing happened?? We haven’t talked yet. But, I’ve initiated both texts and he really is just giving me the minimum…. but why even bother. I know I shouldn’t analyze… just accept. But, I don’t know what he is wanting. Should I really just back off and let him come to me now? I clearly still have feeling for him even though I say “I just miss my friend”. But, I do.
Well Suzanna, it sounds like you are getting caught up in Pisces mystic spell. I would say you need to totally back off nad give him a chance to put some real effort in besides texting one word responses.
Pisces Queen:
It’s been awhile since I’ve last written on here. Just an update. Our break period is over. We started talking again, but of course, I pissed him on by bringing up a sensitive subject on the first phone call we had in 2 months. Do I want to push him away?lol But, during that phone call he said 2 months was easy for him “a drop in the bucket”. Really. How was it that I missed him everyday and he just kept going. How was it so easy for him? he said, you just have to keep going. Keep living. What if a plane crashed that had everyone you loved on it… you keep going. I understand that I needed to relax (still do) but he wasn’t on a plane crash… he was 20 minutes away. A phone call away.
well, we talked again after that (week later) and he said I was strategic and the past months were peaceful for him and in one phone call I manage to stir everything up (when I brought up his living situation). The thing is he lives with his family and he blatantly lied to me about. It doesn’t matter that he does, but all throughout our relationship it would bother me that I never went over to his house or he wouldn’t stay over (his daughter clearly wasn’t alone). I get that it’s a self preservation thing… image. I get that Pisces and well, me are into keeping up a certain image. But, at a certain point… Well, after that phone call…we went a week with him ignoring me again and we talked yesterday and it was actually lighthearted and fun. I was laughing again. It was great.
I guess now I’m asking… it’s like we have to learn each other all over again. I know he’s guarded and I know not expect him to start telling me his deepest secrets but do I just let him text me now? I sent a happy halloween text (hope I’m not smothering). he said I was stuck with him and that he was in my life as long as I wanted. But, that was 3 months ago. Would it be he changed his feelings? is that possible. I’m learning to take it one day at a time. I get butterflies on the few times when he has called. Like the old days. I don’t think he has that feeling.lol When we talked yesterday, it was just about nothing. Just fun talking about random subjects. I miss not talking to him already.
I am a Cancer female (38) and just met a Pisces male (25). Everything was cool in the beginning we talked via text a lot and hung out a couple of times. We both established that we were not looking for a relationship just some companionship with each other. He used to text me Goodnight like everynight. Then last week we had sex..it was good. We both enjoyed ourselves. Now I have hardly heard from him..well, I haven’t. I texted him 3 days later just saying Hi and he called me cutie and Babe..which he had never done before but now I get no Goodnights..or anything?!? I don’t know what to think. I don’t want to put any pressure on him but still wonder why he backed off. I am trying not to over analyze..but hey I am a girl and I just wanna know if he hit it and split it or what?!?
Help me out Pisces males!!