Mercury goes retrograde in Pisces the day before Valentine’s. When Mercury apparently moves backwards in the sky, unfinished business comes back for resolution. We “re”-turn to old matters. Since it’s happening in Pisces*, your ex may come back … at the very least to rehash the reasons why he left you.
Mercury retrograde has a bad rap for communications gone awry. However, it’s good for revisiting the past. If your Pisces man returns to talk, clear up any confusion, shatter any delusions. His ruling planet, Neptune, is being challenged right now by Saturn, god of hard, cold reality. Illusions are being shattered until summer, and you have the opportunity to distinguish fantasy from fact.
*Mercury moves back into Aquarius on Feb. 26, and returns into Pisces on March 18.
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@NovemberLady
curious what’s his other aspects (venus, moon). my pisces bf too was too difficult to chase at first. i have to really resort to ways he will notice me and make him think that he did the initiating.
i openly flirted with him when i find the right opportunity. like before he was asking on his facebook page where he can find a girl who hates herself enough to make out with him. while other friends gave him funny and sarcastic suggestions, i asked him if the girl really has to hate herself. i sent him a private message after he replied on his wall XD. i told him i wanted to volunteer but i don’t hate myself lol.
he likes witty and smart girls so i had to embody that for him to be interested in me. you have to embody his dream girl or at least make him think you are his dream girl lol. once that is implanted on his mind, you will grow on him.
but honestly they are really bad at initiating. i dunno what i did to him but he communicates constantly with me ;P but i threw the expectations out of the window cuz i have experienced the martian rubberband a lot on other signs (such as taurus). my principle is, if a guy does not exert any effort to know me well, then he’s out of my list. it was a good thing that i wasn’t really so fixated on making him my guy that time and it worked out well to my advantage…cuz it made it seem like i wasn’t so desperate even though i was very open about my feelings for him.
@anotherariesgirl
Fascinating that you are an aries and have found a pisces to pursue you. That rocks.
His moon is in Leo. Venus in Pisces. Mars in Gemini.
I think I am of a similar vein. He has been aware that I’ve become open to him, but needed more time. I’ve been warm and affectionate in person. And, I try to understand the whole martian rubberband thing, too. I guess time will tell.
Sometimes I think the key is no expectations, like you said. Which I had in the beginning. But, when he asked me to give him a chance and to prove himself, I expected him to try and prove himself. Go figure. Lol
@NovemberLady
so he is very pisces when it comes to love huh? but moon in leo might need more ego-stroking. my guy is leo rising…he actually loves my compliments but his pisces nature deflects them.
btw, this is sort of off topic (in astrological sense) but it will help if you read more on venus and mars on a date. they have a forum too and it helps a lot in understanding a guy’s behavior. i read on it when i dated a gemini guy lol. he did that “blow torching” (in your case when you became intimate and he’s pushing you to be your gf) to me too and what you did with this pisces guy was actually the right thing to do. however he’s undergoing a possible “caving” or “rubberband.” happens a lot to guys when you shared something intimate or had a great time together. i always anticipate this and it does happen a lot.
will it hurt if you ask him directly whatever happened to his deal that he will prove himself to you? i guess you can tell him in a non-confrontational way, i mean try not to make it look like you’re rushing him into something.
WE SHOULD get a bunch of pro’s and con’s here
@anotherariesgirl
My temper got the best of me.
I sent him 3 texts saying I sensed things have changed though I don’t know why. That I was hurt because he asked me to give him a chance. That I will always remember how he made my birthday special.
He called me 3 times the next day and left a message for me to call him and that we can arrange for me to get my earrings. The following day I called (to end it) saying not to worry about the earrings, I just want to move on. He said not to be like that but was also groggy from sleep. He said he would call me later which I didn’t want because he has been inconsistent with his communication. I called him back and told him to let me leave him a voicemail- which said that I wasn’t trying to be mean, but seeing him would upset me and that I don’t want him to call. Want to let the earrings go like lettting him go and to please allow me to move on.
I didn’t want to risk yet another occurrence (meeting up with him to just hand over my earrings) and be vulnerable again. My intention to call was to end it not ‘hope for more’ (though my heart wanted). He only pursued in calling me several times when I let him go. That felt hurtful.
Venus/Mar dating books…by John Gray? The relationship psychologist? Read them! Perhaps, this was a rubberbanding. I might have been hasty but i was upset that he didnt’ ‘wake up’ when I returned his calls and put me off with a ‘possible’ phone call later. If he cared, he would seek to understand why I am upset versus doing nothing.
@anotherariesgirl
How do you allow for the rubberbanding being an Aries?!!
Never impatient??? Lol.
@death
Pros and cons for? Pisces men?
I’m scared of that list! Lol
yeah it would be too hefty
My pisces bf of 7 months was Great at the begining of our relation,then last march he said that he wanted to end it without any reason but the only reason was i was soo inlove with him and he doesnt want me to fall for him that much !! we back off and then we got back but not like i knew him before,he was someone else! although i was good girl never cheated never lied never nothing! then after we got back i saw him like 3 times when ever he was drunk he is soo sweeet and lovley person who showed me alll the love he has for me,but th very next day he changes and turns to monster,anyways i stayed with him for 2 more months and nothing changed i thought he might feeel me and change and be better than before! but he didnt unless if he was drunk!! so i was tired and 2days ago he said that he loves me and all but he doesnt want our relation to grow and he doesnt want me to fall or love him too much! cuz one day he might leave or god knows!! so i was so hurt i love him to death i think about him he was the only guy i ever see and i never cheated AND he knows that! the last thing was a nasty fight and him being very HARSH of the way he was talking to me! and i talked back too and thats it and i really felt bad although i didnt want to but he pushed my buttons!! and he ended the relation !! so i decided to leave him for goood ! because he was TOTALLY A MONSTER of the way he was talking to me! i was shocked to be honest! never seen him that way before!!!! WOULD HE EVER try coming back? if i ignored him? cuz i already trying to ignore thinking of him am just tired! the guy havent contacted me yet!do u think that anyone can have another chance with a pisces ex?
Hey Cat,
My advice, if you want him back I would text him something very SHORT and sweet…like “I’m sorry about the fight the other day, it shouldn’t have turned it that. Just want you to know I’m here for you together or not and I still love you!” He’s probably in his fantasy world right now. Respect it. That’s how pisces are. Letting him know you’re still there and love him in the real world may help him guide himself back to solid ground….But remember it won’t last for long because he’s a pisces. It is up to you to kind of lead him where you want him. Meaning just love him and listen to him and let him be when he needs to be.
Pisces in general are far from easy to be with. UNLIKE ANY OTHER SIGN!!! Patience is ver important!
He may respond he may not. But eventually, if he really does care for you and love you he will! Never be too pushy or clingy. If he feels for any reason he’s being restricted he will flee back in to fantasy world! Pisces can’t handle being smothered or too much pressure at once. If he does respond, you want to be sure to give him the impression that you actually do care about him but you want him to be happy with or without you.
Let me know what happens!!!
@Taurus01
Thanks for the advice but several times before i was always the one who says sorry and that i didn’t mean to bluh bluh etc! but i am fed of being the one sorry every time nasty things happenes between me n him,and i cant now cuz the way he spoken to me was very very very harsh and mean!! so that’s why i decided to leave or disappear for a while till he wakes up
hows that? btw have u ever dated a pisces guy?
Yeah still with him…. it hasn’t been easy and he use to DRIVE ME CRAZY!!! But I figured him out and now I know how he operates and how to handle him. You don’t have to apologize then…. but let me tell you something, Pisces don’t chase ANYONE!!! They aren’t chasers no matter how much they know they should. If you leave him in his fantasy world he is more than likely not coming back. He will get lost in his own world. If you are ok with that , then good you deserve to be happy and if he can’t oh well. If you aren’t ok with that you will have to attempt to say something first…thn if and when he comes back you and him can talk about how you both should compromise especially when you’re in a fight.
I knowwwww pisces men are so difficult to deal with them! But wouldn’t he apologize if u guys got into a fight or something? How long have u been with him? And have u guys ever ended the relation before?
ok my last update with my man is that i decided to talk to him to end the relation but he said that he loves me and etc, so i changed my mind and he said he wanted to see me the day after and he dumped me aas if he didnt say anything and i was really mad and i txted him ending the relation and i was really HARSH in my words i also told him that i will consider him dead because am sick and tired of him the next day i txted him telling him that i really wanted to see him to talk and try fix things and he ignored again i was upset and throwed my arrows on him in a really harsh way because i was really upset and sad OFCOURSE he ignored me again!
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my question is that if i left him for good will he ever come back? am really sad i love him but he is driving me crazy!!
I need some advice please!!!!
Me and my ex pisces were together for 3 years. We broke up in January because he said I was to mean and realistic for him. But 3 weeks later he came back begging for me to take him back. I told him that we should work on our problems first before we get back into a relationship again. But he was so impatient from January to the begging of April he was always with me. Telling me he loves me and cant his life without me.
March 31 he went to a family party and he met this girl, that he never told me about by april 16 I told him that I think we should try again with our relationship. He told me no he can’t because he is already falling for somebody else.
I asked him is it possible because we been together everyday. He told me that he met the girl 16 days ago and they have a lot of things in common. The funny thing is he never bother to tell the girl that he was trying to work things out withe.
He waited until I fell back in love with Jim to tell me. He didn’t have the ball to tell me face to face. Always avoiding me, it been more than 2 month and I haven’t heard from him.
My heart is broken because gave him all I had.
His new girl is Aries